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Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

madam,I understand your plight and what you're going through,honestly you need to communicate this to him more deeply,and you can also assist him in the bedroom part there is no big deal,help him get his manhood to work better tradomedically or with better herbs you can dm me for that one,you and your husband will thank me later,he will over satisfy you.and the other part you both need to visit a psychotherapist or marriage counsellor to be very honest with you,may God protect and uphold your marriage

Never Give Up

Life experiences generally,it is well,there always light at the end of the tunnel

gfon:
My erections...okay am kidding.Have been through alot man,from loosing my mum wen i was 5yrs,my dad loosing his job(toughest time of our lives),eating just pawpaw for days...doing menial jobs.Ventured into gambling just to make things better,ended getting worse and a shadow of myself,lost some good money & respect(i ain't into that anymore).I see myself as gold though,cause have passed through fire.I keep wondering how people take their lives when faced with challenges,if you faced half of wat i went through,you gonna die seven times.Everyone has their baggages,but how you gonna nip your's in the bud is what matters.

well done it is well

Paternity fraud is on the rise...don't let love cloud your sense of reasoning o,do DNA,and if you know you're having low sperm count,watery sperm,oligospermia or azoospermia,there's treatment for it tradomedically treat yourself,or underlying infections or STDs affecting your sperm morphology or motility,there are STDs flushers herbs,it's curable,get yourself treated,for more enquiry,consultation,Herbs or questions on this or other health related issues dm me check my signature

Myzubby:
this Life sef
some parents does not want their children to leave the house while some are pressuring their own to leave.
Lack of parental care and guide is the begining of hooliganism, banditry , kidnapping , prostitution, bitterness and hatred in relationship, early marriage , and child molestation.
Am grateful to GOD ALMIGHTY FOR MY PARENTS.
IF YOUR PARENTS STILL SUPPORTS YOU PLEASE HONOR THEM THEY DESERVE IT

You've sadi it all

Chai this is sad.the economy has done more harm to many happy homes....no be parent be otedola still paying monthly tithe to his children and buying them cars and many other parents like that too...the fingers are not equal but as a parent you don't neglect your duty,where does he want them to get the money from,prostitution? We can do better as parent,don't born what you can't cater for,contraceptives are there for a reason

Don't take it too serious just be prayerful and reject all forms of evil or curses on your life....note always be prayerful and never loose guard,in polygamy settings this is bound to occur,just make sure you have a clear mind and protect yourself,with this all na back to sender...just handle this with maturity and let it slide...but note never loose your GUARD...it is well with your soul

There's no big deal in helping or supporting your wife in marriage even with the house chores to reduce the work load,stress or burden,marriage is for compromise and supporting each other through thick and thin...but one thing as a man never be useless husband,you must provide for your home,though there will be moment of up and down in marriage even financially,you an support your husband but it's not your duty and the husband must know that...May God uphold all the weaken homes and provide for the family

It is called bride price for a reason....it's a culture and mandatory for husband alone to pay it

If possible go and buy your building materials yourself to avoid stories that touch

They just want to extort him....december is around the corner

Chelsea all the way,blue for life,scoreline 0-4

One from uganda she's always likng my post and eulogize me at every opportunity,they're way of reasoning is quite different from our naija girls own,but there's no much difference in dressing ...I think they don't wait for man to shoot their shot ,they go for what they like

It depends but 12-15years

The pain it's not easy as you think so I totally understand their aggressiveness

What' a d.umb human being....Ronaldo and mikel obi are still smartest footballers out here

Think it's something else sha lol

They should zeal off all these death traps called buildings in Lagos

cedricksly:
guy you are poor that's why.... A sensible human would know giving Legitly deoent have to be time sensitive.... Not to even talk about the fact that most people do these things for show off....

was baffled initially seeing your comment justifying I'll gotten money but checking your signature I totally understand

Hope they are rescue alive

Adjourn adjourn till when

Such huge amount for a substandard house or death trap....Lagos is overrated Quality life dey Town too,depending on your work or nature sha

Such huge amount for a substandard house or death trap...Lagos is overrated,Quality life dey Town too

This is a good development...it's time for east turn too,let's stop this marginalization,one love keep us together

He should complete it first...

Everyone in uniform and carry gun is just doing as they like in this country....mental evaluation is necessary before recruiting these people

This is very educative

Antonio conte would surely deliver he's a good tactician....omo wa ni e je o shey

It's about to go down....May the best candidate that have good intentions of his people Win

It's about to go down...May the best candidate that have good intentions for his people Win

Hmmm this country