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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:06am On Aug 13, 2016
nefertitiram:


ETC for babies or for all Nigerians?

For Babies. Sorry for the late response. Been so busy.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 3:45am On Aug 11, 2016
I just got an information that the ETC has been cancelled.
Reason: it has been abused by Nigerians hence, the Cancellation.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 11:09pm On Jul 08, 2016
Onlineise:
@All,

Wifey delivered safely and speedily to a BBG and I am 40,000ft above sea level right now to go see them.

Much love people..s/o to Mo, Lady G, Nef and all dt helped us get here.

Vitória é certa!

A big congratulations to you and Wifey. God bless your LO. Amen

grin grin grin grin

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:28pm On Jul 06, 2016
mismarshal:
My baby boy arrived on the 17th of June at 34 weeks. He waited till we 'crossed over' before making his early appearance as I got into the US 8 days earlier.

Had my baby in Oakbend with Dr Dama Ziwortin.... Had to have a C-section as my baby was in a transverse position. It was the best experience of my life as I felt no pains at all during delivery... Before (even though I was in active labour and contracting), during (thanks to the epidural... I guess) and after the surgery (definitely God's grace). I was placed on pain medication afterwards but I didn't need them as I was in no pain whatsoever. This is God's grace and mercy solely because at many points I almost lost this baby but God's mercies kept him.

After experiencing a miscarriage last year for no understandable reason I felt empty and prayed earnestly for God's help and he came through mightily for me. I am so humbled by the whole process of having a baby. I has taught me to trust God more especially as an independent and supposedly strong woman. It is truly not by power nor by might.

I was discharged after two days but my baby was taken to NICU.... Where they kept him for 12 days. I practically had to beg them to discharge my son as they said he had to gain some weight before they let him go. So they were only feeding and changing his diapers.... I could have done that from home. They slammed me with a bill of $7,900 afterwards which was later discounted to $5095 if we paid fully within a week.

My advise is alway be prepared for unseen situations. I planned to spend $6900 for a normal delivery but I ended up spending $13,500.

Baby is healthy, Mummy is health that's the testimony of supernatural childbirth for me! As a FTM I'm blessed to have experienced this.

Thanks to all the peeps that keep this thread alive. I learnt so much by just reading. God bless you loads.

Congratulations dear. God bless you and your LO.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:06pm On Jul 01, 2016
LadyGuinivere:

University of Nigeria Teaching hospital Enugu/san bernadino

Honestly you'll pass for a clown.!!! Laughed do hard my tummy started aching. I feel unnecessarily awkward when I see a question from him/her.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 3:18am On Jun 21, 2016
greatie:


My dear, he said that he really doesnt like taking his patients to oakbend cos they've not upgraded their services yet they increased the price. He prefer Methodist and St Luke.

Mamas who are already using oakbend please help clarify this cos i got my quote in December.

Ps: havent gone to the these hospitals to make enquiries though.

You're very correct. He also said they have more experienced nurses @ methodist. But note that if you must use methodist, it is compulsory you pay $1500 for epidural before you'll be registered. Your money will be refunded if you don't use it.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 12:23pm On Jun 11, 2016
Read my post. I'm currently in the U.S. My Visa will expire in July and I came In just last week through 'almighty Houston'. As long as your visa is still valid, you'll be stamped in for 6months. It u're not comfortable, u can go for renewal. All d best


estasplash:
Hello house! First timer here. Pls I have a visa that expires on the 11th of september and I intend traveling on the 1st of September cos my due date is in November. I want to know if I have to apply for a visa renewal before I travel (that is before the expiration date of the visa) or I should apply for renewal  when I get to the US ( that is after the expiration of the visa)‎. Will I be allowed into the states with my almost expired visa wen my due date is in November? I need answers plsssssss

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 11:52am On Jun 06, 2016
So here's my transcript (I hope it doesn't wipe off again)
Left naija on Thursday, flew Emirates airline with a toddler. Traveling with a toddler is no joke! Almost lost my voice from shouting. I immediately asked for an extra seat immediately we boarded which I got. Can't imagine putting him on my lap throughout with my long belle.

Fast forward to Dubai.
Connecting flight was for an hour...we were almost the last to board. Just at the boarding gate, I was asked for my fit-to-fly which I handed out. The lady kept looking at me and called one of her bosses. That one too kept staring at the letter, then the lady asked him if I could fly at 33wks (shuooo, the devil is a liar!) me sef kuku started staring at the man with one kain eyes, he eventually said I should go.
Immediately we boarded, I asked for an extra seat, well I got 2 extra seats. I just raised the arms of the chairs and voila! A nice bed space for my son. I suffered eye redness as I couldn't sleep all through, all thanks to my son with his Indian friends playing and screaming on board. The free WiFi helped though as I was able to chat with DH throughout the journey.

Fast forward to houston POE...the queue no be here ooo. Almost felt like fainting but thank God I didn't. No pity for preggy Momma.
Me: hello
Cpb: hello (with a strong face)
CBP: why are you here
Me: to have my baby and for vacation
CBP: passports please
CBP: place your four fingers for scanning
CBP: how much cash do you have on you
Me: 7,400
CBP: what do you do
Me: i'm an interior designer
Cbp: any food stuffs
Me: yes
Cbp: okay step aside, an officer will come get you

Off to secondary inspection:
Met a lot of people there and I kept wondering when i'd be called. DH kept calling my phone, I couldn't pick as no phones were allowed.
I walked up to an officer and said 'Yes I'm here' she was like, I didn't call you. (oh! Apparently I called myself...sincerely, I thought I heard my name) as I was about to turn, she asked if I was expecting
Me: yes
CBP: when is your due date
Me: july
CBP: when did you apply for your visa
Me: July 2014
CBP: when is it gonna expire
Me: July 2016
CBP: okay, go have your seat
Just then another officer came out to ask if people were hungry...some raised their hands. I was too tho but I kept observing. He said okay, if you want food make sure you write your name on this list which was then passed round **for my mind! I said their Fada...sorry I mean their Dad..lol. Esu oni gba ibi ounje ti mumi. Devil get thee behind me! Make dem no deport pelzon ontop sey we chop
5mins later, I was called
CBP: how did you know about the hospital
Me: well, I had my first child there
CBP: really?!, do you have your receipts
Me: of course (tried reaching for them)
CBP: how much do you have on you
Me: 7,400 and my debit card
CBP: i'm aware getting PTA in Nigeria is tough
Me: oh yes! (Ehen, thank God u are aware)
CBP: where does your Hubby work
Me: told her
CBP: did you declare at the embassy initially that..
Me: *cuts in* of course, told them I'm coming to have my baby.
CBP: okay, please don't receive any medicaid and try attach your receipt with other documents when applying via drop box for update
Me: okay, will
CBP: enjoy your stay....i was stamped in for 6 months
N.B visa will expire in less than 2 months

Off to Agric: just my garlic was seized. I had all sorts..cray fish, pap, knorr chicken, garri, dried fish e.t.c.

Well, there's no big deal about Houston POE as long as you don't misrepresent. Goodluck dearies

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 4:13am On Jun 05, 2016
Hello my people, I'm here live in houston. Came in last night.
Well I had typed my long story only for the thing to just wipe off! Fingers paining me already. cry
Flew Emirates,travelled @ 33wks with a toddler, POE was houston. I'm home chilling to call Dr. Fagbohun's office on Monday to book an appointment.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 3:11pm On May 24, 2016
A big congratulations to you @ blaize777 God's name be praised.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 11:49am On May 23, 2016
Bisoye82:
Hello excuse me please. shocked shocked shocked
What kinda of colonisation is this tongue tongue tongue
All of you madams speaking Igbo,pls put subtitles ok kiss
Chai want to give me apkroko headache reading Igbo like English lipsrsealed

My dear, was gonna say the same thing. I was totally lost with all these their 'akpana Pana language they're speaking tongue , abeg speak English ooo cos no be only una sabi aproko. My antenna get correct signal, wireless toh badt grin

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 1:35pm On May 22, 2016
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Got to walgreens
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 3:54pm On May 18, 2016
luckyman23:
Please are the bureau de change at the Lagos international airport are still operating?

Well, I cannot categorically say yes and my Oga at the top will say no. I'm sure u reside in lagos. Quickly drive down to the airport to confirm and come give us feedback.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 12:50pm On May 14, 2016
blaize777:
Hello house .thank God my princess arrived yesterday tru a C-SECTION sadly she is not too strong weight 2kg,low sugar level on &off and she is eating only tru pipe from her nostrile cos she can't suck bottle for now my breast milk is not even flowing and she has jaundice so she is in NICU.pls house abeg how much is der cost who has experienced dis b4 asper how much dey will charge at d end of the all intensive care.urgent reply pls.cos our budget was VD now it turned to CS b4 baby issue resulted to NICU and dey won't discharge baby until she is fully recovered. I thank God she is active not weak.

Congratulations dear. God Almighty will uphold you nd your LO. He that has started the good work will complete it successfully in Jesus name.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 4:59pm On May 12, 2016
TheLeakyTribe:
It is my turn to share my testimony.

My LO was born yesterday 11th May 2016. Some of you would recall how my Dollars were stolen by my help before my trip. I was well prepared to follow it up and post everywhere about it but after my first doctors appointment here, the stolen money was irrelevant to me.

The doctor did a scan and said she found spots on my LO's heart that were indicative of either a hole in the heart or downs syndrome. I began to pray and believe God even though I was very shaken by the news.

Long story short, she arrived yesterday and is completely fine. She followed me straight from the OR to the postpartum recovery room. Join me praise the Lord. I'm one happy mumma.

A big congratulations to you. God bless you and your LO

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:08pm On Apr 28, 2016
fitmaama2:


if u have a car seat/stroller from the older kids can u travel along with it when going (pregnant)? would it be weird?

Weird keh?! Who has money to waste! My sister pls take your car seat along. I have two strollers though, one that comes with the travel system and a lighter one which I bought for abt $20. Will be travelling with my car seat( will check it in @ d airport) then d stroller to push my todler around.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 10:20am On Apr 28, 2016
blue355:


@ mummybee Pls must we get car seat and stroller or just one of the two

To leave the hospital, you need just car seat alone but of course you'll need a Stroller to push baby around in case you wanna go shopping et al. Also coming back to Naija, u'll need it, you can place some of your hand luggages in it to ease movement.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:50pm On Apr 27, 2016
blaize777:

I Neva born ooo ultra sound says 2kg

@blaize777, all is well by God grace. Try take Milo if you can lay ur hands on one(with plenty milk)...you'll gain weight, so will your baby. Take lots of smoothies and sleep well. Don't panic and don't stress yourself. Suspend any form of exercise.

Then as per the car seat and stroller...gracco classic connect, travel system. It's cheaper @ Target or try walmart
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 11:44pm On Apr 23, 2016
This hibernation wey @Phema dey so ehn, e nor get part 2
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by mummybee: 5:32pm On Apr 17, 2016
blue355:
Hi everyone,
Please I heard that most People that most people that use oakbend eventually do CS instead of VD
Please how true is this?

Haba!!! Not true
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 9:08pm On Mar 17, 2016
Please stick to what madammus said. I had exactly d same experience with my baby and it was like a week to travel back to naija. I was so scared ehnnn...and you know our people, they'll be like 'upon d America wey you go born, see your pikin face'..lol well my dear don't bother yourself too much. Just continue with the Shea Butter. In my case, I mixed my Shea Butter with little funbact A, and it worked magic!!!

Apple19:


Thank you ma, i sure need this encouragement. indeed it's really funny to see your baby's once flawless skin going the other way round. Will soon return home sha, and all these will be history

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 12:54am On Mar 17, 2016
Try get Aveeno Baby(Eczema therapy moisturizing cream). When you get to Naija, try get your hands on the original local Shea Butter +mix a bit of skineal in it.

Apple19:
@merrymum, God bless you for this info. But I don't know how long it'll take for them to process it. I intend leaving on Sunday before, but baby's US PP is not even ready. Applied over 4weeks ago, (Expedited), only to receive a letter that babys name is printed, sign...blablabla, in a nut shell, we sha re-fill the form and sent it back (expedited too O), and we're still waiting. So I'll just shift my ticket and Wait for the Naija PP stuff.(Additional expenses). It is well.

@All, pls for mamas that uses Sebamed products on LO, did you get from US? If yes, pls kindly tell me the stores, so I can get for lo. They seems not to know what it is here. Or if there's any other lotion like it (Tested and Trusted) pls help. My baby is kinda breaking out, and Pediatrician said I should get Cetaphil, but not helping. Pls TIA

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 9:52pm On Mar 14, 2016
princessbee:
Please for a way forward, can anyone help with suggestions of hospitals dt give refunds so I try d approach advised by the leaky tribe.

What kind of refund? Please make things clear...Are you going for vacation or you want to go birth in the U.S? Cos all dis your write ups don dey get comma abi na k-leg sef
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 9:33pm On Mar 14, 2016
princessbee:
I deserve d scolding. Took wrong advise. D VO didn't ask for any documents. How only asked where I worked whichbi told him, he also asked my duties which I told him to a point den my little boy pulled my chain n I pauses before I continued he asked another question. Which was how may kids I had n if i was expecting. I didn't know I could show him my introduction letter cos I had all my documents with me.@ the leaky tribe I have access to about #250 k n baby ticket fare.


Trust me, u didn't take wrong advice, you just didn't read before going for your interview. 20M bank acct. Statement? Abeggy....even 100M doesn't guarantee visa approval whereas 3M is just okay for the VO as long as you're sincere and you don't intend to runaway. (looks like u're even planning to relocate). Anywayz, d gurus will put you through and please, take time to read!!! My 2cents

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Travel / Re: U.S. Non-immigrant Visas: We’re Listening by mummybee: 9:37am On Mar 11, 2016
Hello Nigeria NIV team,

I have a B1/B2 visa which I used for birthing in 2014 (the original intent). Now I want to use the visa for the same purpose.

My Question is: my visa will expire on the 30th July, my due date is in Mid July and I intend traveling to the U.S first week in June to be back in August. Can I travel with the visa? And what are my chances at the POE? Many thanks.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 12:00am On Feb 20, 2016
The correspondence from Oakbend is okay...most likely you'll be asked at the POE. 10k should see you through. Well pray there's no 'incasity' while staying with Family cos they could act funny at times especially when it comes to paying bills.(not applicable to all families).Travel with enough Naija food stuff, they tend to appreciate that a lot and don't lazy around. With that you're good to go. Talking from experience....

Veka:
hello house. this is my first time posting here i think. i want to thank everybody for their contributions on this thread. had my interview on the 9th and was offered the visa. i was very surprised because my interview was all of 3 minutes but i told them the truth. thank you all for advising on the truth policy. Now time for the rest of the hustle, i am due june and would like to go in early may. the only thing i have is correspondence with the doc at oakbend and a 10k budget that should cover my transport too.. Please how do i proceed? would the money be enough i will be staying with family in houston but i want to be ready just "incase of any incasity". please help. thank you.

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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 1:16pm On Feb 02, 2016
sege2016:
@ Firstmummy i have sent you a personal mail still waiting for your response on Oak Bend
For Oakbend medical centre, send an email to Dr. Fagbohun. Fagbohunmd@yahoo.com
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 2:27pm On Feb 01, 2016
ifunanya84:
Since your visa is expiring in July n you r travelling in May it's okay. Once your visa is still valid at the point of entry and you tell them child birth n how long you intend to stay, they won't stamp you less than 3 months.

thank you so much
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 7:42pm On Jan 31, 2016
mummybee:
Hello everyone, a quick one please....i'll be due in July and intend travelling to the U.S in May. The issue is my visa will expire in July. Should I just go for the drop box or write a letter to the embassy because my fear is I could be stamped in for 2 months to leave the U.S in July which wouldn't give me ample time to get baby's documents and all. Thanks

Has anyone been in this situation before? Please help me sister.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 12:23pm On Jan 31, 2016
Hello everyone, a quick one please....i'll be due in July and intend travelling to the U.S in May. The issue is my visa will expire in July. Should I just go for the drop box or write a letter to the embassy because my fear is I could be stamped in for 2 months to leave the U.S in July which wouldn't give me ample time to get baby's documents and all. Thanks

Has anyone been in this situation before? Please help me sister.
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 3 by mummybee: 8:51pm On Nov 28, 2015
@Firsttymum
To travel with, buy enough size 2 and 3. More of 3 though

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