₦airaland Forum

Women are always the ones that are sterile in this part of the world until proven innocent. Which can take many many years to happen. May God help us

Charmingrascal:
Some of y'all that are claiming 'hardcore' 'hard guy' 'red pillers' on Nairaland are actually simps in real life.

E fit be say na one small girl dey control this one now

U no know say everybody na hulk for nairaland

Kriss216:
It's a win win for the guys.


Na person daughter dem dey share like Tom Tom like this

U dis guy

orgylover:
bitch open a thread for rhat. This is not what this thread is about

U mean ur useless God forsaken mum is a bitch? U bastard with no known father. U hide ur miserable worthless self behind the keyboards and yarn thrash. God forsaken son of a baboon

The percentage of women that hear this is more. Quit whining.

Lightorder:
Anyone who refers to women as harlots without concrete proof whenever they succeed is A GENERATIONAL IDIOT! This is now rampant in Lagos. Calling women ashawo at any slight misunderstanding. All your own will become ashawo so you will know how it feels. I am just angry

Correct! Their ignorance is incomprehensible

pocohantas:
Beautiful. That is why I love girls. Even if they are doing olosho in town, they don’t mind milking all the men in Lagos/Abj and sending it home. Once a girl starts dating a working man, let alone working, you will start seeing little changes in her family house. Even if na curtain, she go buy.

But you see Tallesty’s gender. That is how they’ll be posting “Mama’s prayer keeps me going”. “Doing this for mama”.



Make mama looseguard drop 2k for parlour, them go move am.

If they even do yahoo and hit big, their family house would become below them. They will stay in a hotel for months.

I can’t imagine life without a daughter. Chukwu okike ekwela ihe ojo!!!!!

Geez, i babe missed you. Welcome back. Your post is both hilarious and authentic.

onthehill:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CX-v_TGr3un/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

How is that green rice mouth watering? Dont go and buy better ducros or tiger curry and tidy better fried rice. Hulk rice

MNDY:
But you know your gender loves wahala very much on their own. You are supposed to be encouraging your gender to give their men PEACE OF MIND.

There are lots of things involved honestly. She could be stressed or going thru one issue or the other.
I cant believe a lady will leave the parents house just to be a burden to her man. Alot must have transpired and op doesnt want to let us know. Im not saying we are.always innocent. Thats just my submission

Leave her na! Shuo. Since she doesnt meet the criteria and she has not been honest. What are we going to tell you now?

vickydevoka:
Exactly. I'm scared of wahala, dats y I come back late at night, yet she always waiting for me.

Coming back late at night doesnt solve the problem. Work on your issues, talk about it. If possible involve reasonable people to mediate. What if she also comes back at night? You wll accuse her of cheating but here you are. What makes you think that she doesn't want to also go out and let the steam off and come back at night? You guys need to sit down and have a long talk and i believe it will end well.

If you dont give her wahala, how does give you wahala?

Kobojunkie:
What is with the meaningless ramblings for Pete's sake. Commonsense is we do not want poverty but here you think it nonsensical to make decisions to avoid lpoverty....which way Nigeria abeg!

You are giving it to them hot hot. Weldone! We are the most religious, yet the most wicked, heartless and dubious people.

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

After all, he sees some qualities he loves in the girl. So why is she now not allowed to make a choice. Abeg leave this people here. Im just catching cruise with the topics and comments here

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

Nothing wey u wan tell me, dey don scatter your heart before

SensualMan:
I hope u already have grown up children b4 this ur 2021 marriage, if not u just wasted ur precious years. However, I commend u for sticking with one woman for 17 years. I'm in my 13th year now and it's been awesome!

So if they couldnt conceive on time, he should go about fighting himself and the wife beocs of it? Are you God? Some people have it easy while others go thru hell to have just one. Life is not competition of who gives birth to kids quickly or not. Atimes, luck and chance come to play. If you had it easy, that doesnt mean its your making. Go and arrest him if he doesnt have grown up kids by now

Iyaebe:
See the type of man I'm talking about, can't all men be like this? If he was a redpiller he wouldn't have gone this far in life,women are behind the success of all men,no man has ever succeeded without a woman solidly behind him.To those men who still have their brains functioning well,please shun redpill if you want to be successful or embrace redpill and become miserable and wretched for the rest of your life,the choice is solely yours.Before anyone reply nonsense, please mention one local government chairman or councillor that's a redpiller.Women are spiritual and highly favoured by God, if your woman is truly happy with you then be rest assured that you'll break limits provided you work hard.Make your woman unhappy and watch your life experience one misery or another, this is a bitter truth.

They are coming for you. Awon tough guys

Na who i wan ask na?

Joysticks:
No child yet.

They have two beautiful twin boys. You are not God

kokaiye:
hello dear, i heard frm our old women dt women dt cough or ve heartburns during pregnancy means deir baby is gonna ve plenty hair... Dnt knw how true is dis thou lol...

That is an old wive's tale. Its just pregnancy symptoms. You can ask your doctor which medication to take for both. Also i think depending on how old the baby is. I take gestid for my heartburn

My girl doesn't have full hair.

Rebuke:
Even in poverty?

People should better discard this ideology of having children at younger age even while living in abject poverty. Look, there's nothing beautiful about having children in poverty at a younger age.

Go and hustle first and make sure yhu can atleast give yhur children a better life before thinking of bringing them into this world ( especially in Nigeria)

Having yhur first kid at 40 while fully prepared for them financially and morally is better than having kids in yhur 20s when yhu can't even feed yhurself - all in the name of having kid at early age.

He is shallow. Thinking that birthing kids is an achievement while poor.

FriendsAndFans:
There is a beauty when you start having your kids at a younger age.

Its a privilege that some people have.

No one is forcing you. Do the ones you can becosGod sees the heart. When i dont have enough to give, if the church like, let everybody get up all at once to go give offering, i will jejely sit on my seat. No time to fake it.

Continue appreciating her, women love it. She is a great cook.

IamGreen1:
I welcome my little handsome charming prince to this beautiful world on Wednesday, hubby is a sharp shooter so don't mind us.
Full gist and bs go land soon.

God is awesome and may His holy name be praised. I celebrate with you and your household. Him be sharp shooter but your goal keeping skills are lit lol.Congratulations mama and enjoy your bundle of joy. May God bless and preserve your baby, amen


Just keep ignoring the jobless troll. One did it to me but i ignored him like covid 19. And since then, i havent heard from him.

edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

Devorse her just because you cant gift her uncle? I hope she also devorse you for such a flimsy excuse. You sure say you pay her bride price? Because if you did, devorse will not even come to your mind. The uncle will do nada cos you don't owe him shishi. Follow them with wisdom and dont feel threatened

Totilopussylick:
Welcome to no man's land

This must be somewhere in ijegun or agbaranje

I know those places to not be this waterlogged

People can kill to have this precious gifts. Chai, stone age brain. Poverty and ignorance is dealing with this animal. Mary 'slessor' will be swearing for that idiot from her grave

successhungry:
I had my first at Ayodele (Jonathan Coker road). Highly proficient Doctors, Nurses are equally proficient BUT they rarely wear gloves to take blood samples. I showed them pepper- I mean dont touch me without wearing gloves.Reception people no get sense- they act like demigods; very nasty. If you are not on hmo; please flee..too expensive It's like general hospital in terms of crowd; pregnant women fight every Saturday after antenatal classes whilst waiting to see the Doctor*lol*. They have alot of pregnant women client...asides these small small nonsense; its a very good place to do antenatal and give birth. There's a private ward as well; was 5k per night. I loved loved the privacy it gave.
General hospital ifako ijaye is good..mean staff(buy a carton of malt to appease their chi) ward aide determines if and when you'll see the Dr. Crowd is madttt.
Agege General Hospital is equally good. Less crowd.The problems here are mosquitoes and no light which is a general menace;imo- last I heard tho.

Chai, Nigeria!

Social media wahala. This will send some people into depression. Mind what you read on sm becos all that glitters is not gold. You may be happier than she is oh. For some people that are already lamenting that there is nothing in their account. Cut your coat according to your cloth.

Las las, money is good.

BABANGBALI:
dem go soon send you parking

Lol, after u

Ficient:
I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.

What if she goes with the kids and settle, while you join them later. She is lucky that she got a job and you people wont have to struggle or start from the scratch. But be rest assured that you will have to work hard for your self first to be . Its a good thing

Lightway:
You're not treating her son well

I love the way nairalanders just come up with whatever comes to their mind. You want make e pursue me go back to my papa house abi? U think its every man that does not know how to handle his home like some confused 'men' run here to complain about little things.