₦airaland Forum

LadyD22:
My biggest fear is my husband spending more money on his side chick than me , I don't care if you want to have sex but don't bring disease , no bring belle , no go overspend , no go stay for one person hand

You are so real

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate


That's my biggest fear

So long as your tummy remains the way it is too. Thats if e small now sef

Wawelexy:
Those prison warders should be jailed...

1500 inmates for a prison that's supposed to accommodate 400, that wickedness....

How do you think the ones in your country are? Its same same here

Kriss216:
Yes, we love the corrupt girls then.

I was privileged to watch live nudes, courtesy of them. God will continue to bless them for me.

Badt guy

Kriss216:
FGGC Owerri girls wey dey show us Boobi that year for school. We dey share same fence with them. Corrupt girls.

Wow, so u went to government college. I hope i got the name correctly. She was the games prefect then. But u guys liked the corrupt girls

MufasaLion:
Men use it against women, too. It's human nature. Irrespective of the gender, one gotta wise up!

Leave them to be shouting anyhow like alariwo. Men will even rub it on their face

Akuko

InoGetJoy:
You paid 7M in which Imo state?
Why you dey lie like this?

No Mind am. Anything to trend. My hubby didnt even pay up to 500k sef. Dangote

donofdons:
Why not. Anything I watch must be practiced. I paid 7 million naira in bride price in imo state, so why won’t I practice what I saw. I will knack out my money whether they like it or not.

That is outrageous. So who no get 7 million not fit marry.abi? Maybe u went to show yourself

lorhema:
This is, I believe, the crux of the matter. The wife, having been treated as as outsider or unwanted guest, feels no need to care or look out for her in-laws.

Meanwhile, some in-laws believe that they have full rights in their brother's
home and disregard the iyawo's rights in her own home.

The situation the OP posted is created.
Dealing with it will require walking back to the beginning and righting the wrongs.

You are so right. Where i got married to, there is nothing you do that can make you to be called one of theirs. Its always the wives that are to be blamed. There are three guys that are married. When im with them, its the two wives matter that will be on the table. Meaning when im not there, its my matter. These people are so Terrible with gossip. Even their mum doent cautions her female children that are married. Dont you know that the more you talk bad about your brothers wives, they do the same in your inlaws place? Some people no just wise.
I said well, since we the wives are always the devils, i pack one side and cease any little benefit i was giving out. You can't segregate me and still want my help. Kolewerk. Hubby even warned me when i came in newly that this people are not who i should throw myself at recklessly. Its now that i realised what he meant. I can never stop him from helping them. Is it my money? I no get time

So my people, garbage in and garbage out. When you give peace, love and togetherness, there is no way it wont be reciprocated. Im the last sef so dont bring in my siblings.

ImaIma1:
Very wrong of her. A smart woman would send more to her husband's family.

Send more to her husband's family, why abeg?

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Any man who allows the woman he married to be dictating how things should be done in their home is a very big disgrace to men.

Men stop complaining about your wife's attitudes towards your family members and take charge.

Make my wife try am nah.

I dont believe a woman can just wake up one morning to be harsh on the inlaws.

Tallesty1:
Way to go.

Nah men dey allow that rubbish. I remember sitting down with my two brothers, younger one and immediate elder one that just got married. We were to discuss a family project but oga said that it's got nothing to do with him because he's a married man now and his family and the wife's family come first.

We shock.

But I and my younger one played him two aside in everything. It was like he stopped to exist.

Last last when the pepper in his wife ripped, no be person tell am to find us.

Wife's family kee? His immediate family should be the koko. Even after that, the fact that hes married doesn't stop him from been the eldest.. some men

pocohantas:
You are missing the fact that if you go to your sister’s house and she tells you she is tired to cook, you will go into the kitchen and cook for her sef.

If you go to your brother’s house and his wife tells you the same thing, you will enter night bus direct to Enugu. Once you get to Enugu, you'll call the whole umunna. They need to know the Owerri woman your brother married is starving him. Lil wonder his head is now bigger than his body.

Only 0.002% would act differently.

The world will be a better place with balance. You are so right.

Psoul:
Can you answer this?

Zuze

When the women finally gang up against him, he will know what he got himself into. Finally these women will be the ones taking care of him and the kids, just to bear MARRIED

See fight ontop flower.and tonto. The way people clap back here is like we quarel on daily basis.
Every topic you just see where two people are sending numerous messages just to sound correct.
There should be room for comedy na. Not all these clap backs

tyup:
9ja girls will surely not disappoint you

They and intelligence are two parallel lines. Intel. quotient is equal to zero or something lesser than 0

Take am easy abeg. Are u from Ethiopia?

My sec school. Ahh, those gals wicked pass devils sha. This wan is even small

Jeon:
I'm back on NL and still some guy's don't want to leave women affairs *so sad * and worst thing is that we are heading to 2022.

Aswear our matter dey give dem orgasm

Nuttella:
I heard some kind men opt for vasectomy, that is after giving him enough kids, you can't give him one kid and render him infertile, that's not fair at all.

What about the ones the women do? If this story is turned the other way round, the reactions from people here will be different

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In this part of the world, family planning is tied on the necks of we the women that some of them take its tolel on us eventually via some severel reactions. Nothing concerns the guys oh.
Na we dey go figure out the wan wey our body fit tolerate. While the men relax and fire all sorts of missile for bed. He is not ready to sacrifice, but pushing it to you as the sacrificial lamb. May God help women. We don turn experimental pigs.

YezoBlogger:

Kindly follow me for more

Na your frail ego go kill you. Who told you everyone is supposed to be self employed? That is where balance comes in. There must be the rich, poor, wealthy etc in the society. No go kee yaself

samtol4:
Ah why Covid 19 test so expensive in Nigeria? Most countries the test is free. 50k is too much for someone who is hustling to survive. It appears Covid19 is a business in Nigeria

Nigeria na country before? Even the omicron that has not yet been found in far better countries, Nigeria claimed it is here just to get the incentives. Cursed leaders

Mercychen:
My ex is a definition of a well groomed man. Yes, he's an ex now but I can't stop talking about him because he made a great impression on me and I still make boast to say it any where. He was well groomed.

From his nails, his goaty( lower beard) to his teeth, very neat. His dentition is so amazingly arranged, sparkling white and shiney. ( I got same too) not all these cave man multicolor teeth I see around these days that look like they're coming to get you. Lol.

His clothes are always crisp and clean. His apartment and sorrounding, you would think it's a five star hotel suit. No masculine smell or odour anywhere around him or his apartment. Maybe because he's not hairy.

Abeg, he's neat.

Men should take their hygiene seriously because that masculine smell/odour is a huge turn off and it's common among hairy guys. Maybe that's why I'm no longer thrilled about having a relationship any longer.

Same goes for the women too.

Dey are coming for you with full speed. Just wait small fess

philme87:
A video of a gay man crying uncontrollably while walking down the aisle to meet his husband, has gone viral after being shared online. 

The crying man was cheered on by those who turned up for the wedding, as he walked to meet his partner who stood by a corner.

After meeting his husband, he got a soothing hug from him before they went to the altar where a priest prayed for them. 

Watch the video below;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZ-wgp5-KJo

This wan go provoke Nigerians gaan!

BRATISLAVA:
Not in their world. If it doesn't fit the templates they've created online in which only men do these things, they will shout their assumptions over everything else. Half of them are in some Forest killing snakes beneath the canopy.

Their reasoning is pathetic. And there are educated people amongst them o

But women also take men abroad too na

I totally know where she is coming from. Joys of motherhood.

Kuku kee persin

See everybody formingz Jackie Chan and abstinence. Abeg if u dont have something tangle to tell op, swerve. Blaming up and down like u are a virgin. He is even responsible sef una still dey form angel Micheal. The mistake has been made and he needs solution. Op continue to fight for the welfare of that baby. And if they insist that they do not want, there are witnesses that will attest to the kid that u did your best, shikena