₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
If na true true say e happen, she be mumu abeg!
If you see truth, dey talk am!

Kobo is something else...Simple truth, buth she enjoys doing merry go round..

In this situation, though is not common to know some ladies go extra get what they need just to impress strangers on SM.

Ya wuru na onwuru, her people will say the guy don use her cash out.. Nwoke atawa ahuhu ihe o na amahu...

Things like this are reasons why I don't blame well to do guys running away from commitments..Na issues like this the scare them...

Marrying a devourer as a partner is first step to poverty, calamity and catastrophe.

Passionate888:
Those girls no be people girlfriend's?

Which gf?

Ashawo dey do boy friend?? Smh

victooman:
buying masters is not a self development in Nigeria as it stands now, l will rather pay get a new tech skills or go into phone accessories ,pilling up certificate that pay just 5 percent of it holders in most cases is not self improvement to me, it is gambling.

you are difficult..

Your babe dey try.

Now I understand.

Who said you can't acquire a skill and still have your masters to sharpen yourself for any opportunity? Smh.

Malori:
Imagine Wike as the president of Nigeria? I don't need to say anything further

Na cultists things...


He go deh slap ministers join..lmao

rickleye:
You get what you pay for I suppose. Anyone with stories in any high-end hotels ?

Stories dey...just wait for it..

Some don't feel like sharing.

Twoclans:
Ameeeeeeennnnnnn

Abi ooo

Kriss216:
You for don become billionaire in dollars

As in eeh..

lordlugards:
you wey over sense wan kill, you carry person pikin keep for house, dey knack her ontop empty stomach without her people concepts.

Now that her sense don finally come back, you come dey ask us foolish questions as if you been dey do normal thing b/4.

Ogbeni focus on your future first, b/4 you start looking for woman.
When you make money, na them go dey rush u.

Kriss216:
You don summarize the whole scenario for am

Na Nsugbe coconut I break for am...I wish them the pay for advice here.

Twoclans:
LOL

Bia Munzy who gave you that impressio at bold Dont be a learner.Some women's( sexual peak is even at that 60.My elderly friend who will be 55 next week was telling me today about how she has strong urges this d

She is 55, 5 more seasons before she hang boot na

All those lube sex na for ndi mummy na daddy..

Women kwa sexual peak 60?? You don come again.. It is a rare case..for an over active lady..

Peak is usually late 30s to mid 40s..

Na men dey fire from all angle even above 60, that's if he didn't do viagra and co in his 20s and 30s when he should av pounded with natural strength..

Anyways, chukwu mere m ka my wife na pia oku at 60 o..

victooman:
Please help advice me,

We both finished our NYSC service last year, luckily enough we started a POS business and as God will have it, we are both doing well, we both make a minimum of 5k at least on daily basis.

The main problem is that of recent she is talking about applying for her masters degree, l told her what is the essence of going for masters degree when the degree we obtain has not been any useful to us, why not expand this particular business, be financially stable before you start talking about masters, beside we need to build our self financially well if we have to settle down.

She told me that is her long time ambition and she is not expecting any money from me, she left my house this morning with anger.

Please Nairalanders, did l do anything wrong? What is the best way to handle this issue?

That money you are saving to use and marry her, use am go purchase Your Masters form and proceed immediately..

While doing your business.

You are about to be outsmarted...

i don break the Nsugbe coconut for you.

Self development is the biggest investment..It will pay you and make you rich either now or later.

Kriss216:
You're not her father or husband...allow her do whatever she wants. Learn to channel this energy to better your life and that of your family!


I know you're surprised how a girl you've been struggling with all of a sudden has money and resources to further her studies...well, she's a Nigerian girl, they always got plan B.

Their husband or boyfriend are not always in their plan B.

Some has plans C,D,E,F...

Instead of him to focus on his financial status and expanding his networks, he is spending time on a lady with PlanZ..

Anyways, she will go for her masters, meet established guy that came to further studies for the bragging rights, appear homely and decent, he will marry her, and OP will wail and create threads to seek advise wey him they overlook now..

Na here we go read the aftermath..

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

Your story long...

But to be honest, you don't have a wife...You have a sex buddy whom you are co-parenting with..

God forbid my woman take such risk without my consent, not even using the proceeds to assist family, but buying a mere gadget that will be phased out in months time.

I have not dated such a dumbo...The last time I did, My grace and guiding angel Pursue her commot from my side

Your mom is struggling to fix you in school and foundation for a better tomorrow, but na outdated iPhone7 be her issues..

Intelligent and smart woman anytime, any day..

Make una dey look well well before una choose this forever abeg.

Meanwhile, if your woman begin to get active with those Facebook women stuff made up of divorces/ single and bitter/feminists/ashawo/confused sisters in daddy GO, just forget it...You have lost her..They will brain wash her with a different orientation.

Yours and some other cases I witnessed are living proof.

My ex used to be Active there..Sometimes she applies things she learnt There on me, when she realised man is focused and a hard nut to crack, she waka.

SKhanmi:
Arrived ilorin at 10pm, called bike to take me to the nearest lodge since I was new to the city, Arrived & walked inside, No receptionist, no gateman, nobody on site, music was playing, gate was wide opened. Got tired of waiting and went outside, met two guys I passed earlier chilling by the roadside, Asked them for the nearest available guest house. They said it was far but they had a room available in their house which was actually opposite the lodge. Paid and went upstairs only for it to dawn on me that it's all this short time arrangement stuffs. Bed was big, room was neat but I still later found 3 condoms including one stuck inside a hole in the bathroom wall. The guy was even asking me codedly if I wanted anything else. Was too tired to decode then. I sha slept with one eye open. Woke up early only to find out it was one of those old extra large pre-colonial houses, mostly empty & semi abandoned, nobody in sight again? but the gate was locked. Most of the rooms I peeked into were empty. Shuu! This place was convoluted & dark, I can't go wandering all over na, Later found the key where they hanged it, opened the gate & japa! Definitely sure those guys were either squatters/gatemen, whether they planned it with the lodge guys is what I don't know.

Ilorin sef, my last stay there, The reservation is nothing to write home about..

They have slim fit beautifully created ladies..

younglleo:
60s kwa?
a woman in her 60s? u must be exaggerating

Na stories to gather likes...

60year old woman don hang boot..

Cerebellum:
This was during corper shan! days, I was stranded, served in the east..I had to stay somewhere till the next day so I cud start where I was posted...

Lodged into this hotel, or motel...had this funny name
The receptionist was a complete dweeb.
Aswear, dem just finish Bleep for the room, I saw kiss condom wrap! The lady even squirt

I slept on a weird long chair.

Ewwwww

Poor management.

nony43:
One time i lodged in a hotel in Owerri around 9pm as i was leaving that night to hang out with my guys the receptionist asked if i will need an extra pillow I said yes she said sir hold on, she opened her phone gallery and told me to choose amongst the girls. I was like i no need this kind pillow I no budget for am. I told my guy he was like a city that has four tertiary institutions what do you expect? Girls de hustle but na only few hotels go ask you for such.

You onye mgbuh..She say extra pillow you no code..

Owerri alone, has Imsu, alvan, futo and poly nekede...Women plenty sha..

But, a focused man must abstain and remain focus..Get a gf or infact a wife..Temptation plenty sha..

nony43:
So years ago, when i was in school, i visited my ex in her city for the first time she was a student too. Before i travel to see her, I asked her if there is any hotel were we can lodge. I need a hotel far from where you live, she said yes that good hotels are far from the school.

Na so i land for her area that Friday night around 10pm we went straight to one of the hotels their rooms were booked in fact all the big hotels were fully booked na so we settled for 2500 fan or 3k Ac kind of hotel just for that night, we settled with the one with Jesus breeze cos a customer was complaining of their AC.

Brethren, that night after every, we were gisting, around pass 12am na so rat begin scratch my toes, I say wetin be this just immediately my ex stood up and screamed her toes. Na so i on light see as three big rats run enter wardrobe disappear.

Around pass 1am we heard a heavy banging on our door it continued my ex carry duvet run enter bathroom, I went to the door, held the handle and was shaking the door like i want to open it. Whilst at it I shouted "who goes" wida you na" no be me de there oo. Na so the noise stop we didn't close our eyes all through the night cos we didn't know what next to expect.

Lmao....What a story..

Some hotels suppose collect demotion to charlet..

One ugly scene, I had a getaway with my then gf, na so one lady lodging adjacent to my room begin knock on the door, And then man pikin just finish work..Na so I dial reception to check the disturbance and it was mistake she did knocking on the door..I find it embarrassing..Plus the trauma it puts my baby in...

Some hotels lack standard operation in the hospitality business..

But wait o, where una dey see all this charlets abii hotel wey rat they share with una..

So as the night is tensed, you no come touch your babe abii ex? abii you skip gist..Where una popori una self..

money121:
Car owners, what’s your next move?

For me i will pick Race ooo

Damn! This is scary...

I will kill it sha, start my car and go about my businesses.

The thread is smelling love love

Radionigeria:
Righteousness2 will be like: chinedum by mercy chinwo

superCleanworks:
some are from Sahara desert kingdom.
dey will dry your bank account like brand new towel.

Serial48:
Aww thanks

Welcome.

The secret to a healthy ŕelationship/marriage is openness it strengthens the trust.

Mariangeles:
OK! OK!

They fall under the first category:
• A new Razor blade (I have this feeling of being cut by it, so I try as much as possible to avoid it. )
• Heights
•Injections (I can swallow any amount of pills, as long as I get to avoid injections)
• Cockroaches (especially flying ones )

K'anyi hapu ya nga.

Lol...ugbu a ka i biara nu..

Sharp blades eeh


Ooh!! Even heights? I thought I was the only one with height issues...

The last I had injections was 2012..I can't can.

I know you hate cockroach

Kriss216:
My only annoyance is your beloved girlfriend telling another guy he's so sweet and still got the nerves to tell you to forgive and forget.


Let's say you SIMPly forgive her, how are you going to forget the marathon sex she had with that guy? Do you know at a point during the sex, the gbola slipped, it was your beloved girlfriend that helped put back the gbola?


I'm not surprised your beloved girlfriend is our community project, I'm only surprised you trusted a Nigerian girl to the extent of calling her your girlfriend.

Lol...it is the helping him put back the gbola for me..

Worst thing that can happen to any guy..Keeping ashawo as babe..problem.

Kriss216:
Doesn't matter. There are worse things you do.

I swear

galaxy2020:
This is disgusting.....

As in eeh...seriously disgusting..

Mariangeles:
I si m kwushi?

OK. First of all, "Fear" is subjective.

Secondly, "fear" can be classified in 3 categories:

- The avoidable.

- The unpredictable/unexpected.

- The inevitable.

The first category are common "fears" that can be avoided, and so should not count.

The second category, it is up to you how you react when you're faced with the situation.
Fear kills.
Also, don't build fears with your mind unnecessarily.
The worst fears are the ones you build with your mind.

The third category, once you've come to terms and made peace with it, you've conquered it.

Don't you agree?

Educating...Mana gwam eziokwu, o ga enwe ri la otu ihe iji atu ujo...

O wu ochichara

Serial48:
True sir, we met at Moshood Abiola poly, same department, we cohabited for four years in school, its why i mentioned plenty of sex.. then after school, the bond kind of tightened because we job hunted together and got employed in lagos the same month different organizations. Then we put money together, got an apartment in lagos and he’s been promoted several times and he puts me in the know about his finance’s. I believe its the right time according to his finances and what we’ve been through together. And Ofcourse, he knows what my bank statement is and i think together we can pull it of in a simple way. Its been a long way from home sir.

We both deserve it
Me and Steve

Na your soul mate you have o...I like the openness you both share..

Carry go jareee..

Serial48:
So after 6years of illegal cohabitation and plenty of sex, Babe took me out last night and asked me to marry him. Guys i was too into the moment that i forgot to take pictures.

Lol at least you are open and straight to the matter

Anyways, he loves what he is enjoying, and decided to carry it wholesale..

Congrats.

Mariangeles:
Risky how?

I honestly cannot think of something I have a strong fear of.

Kwushi biko, you are sounding mystic or say Alien.

So if you hear gun sound in your area, you will comfortably step out?

Me I have phobia for heights..I can't live in a house above 1 deck..

Left for me, I will build a comfortable and spacious bungalow, Except my wife wants otherwise.

So I used to feel every human has one or two phobias..You seem to have shattered that hypothesis for now..

Kriss216:
Na simp e be...the guy wan fall astray