₦airaland Forum

Creamypie:
I go like to be his male housekeeper for a reason

Make you dey finish, unfinished work abii

By the time you will say Jack, Russia will only have Belarus as ally.

YoudeyVexme:
Someone who Just did youth service already got a high paying job in nppc, while me that have graduated Since 2010 still struggling to feed from hand to mouth, no properties no thing to call my own. Meanwhile a cousin of mine already own 2 houses this boy I used to dash him 20naira for busicuit early 2008 when I visit my aunty, now he's 22.

Once you asked them for help and they give you once, they won't want to give you again. My heart's boil so hot whenever I see them on wheels driving expensive cars, A boy who doesn't know anything about life is already married with kid on the way. It wasn't like This when I was in my 20s, back then, we had to labour hard...farming, fishing and the rest to make ends meet..

Imagine, I had to go for house hunting last week and we had to wait for the owner of the compound, he arrived a young man expecting me to greet him first. I just called the agent I wasn't interested.. somebody that can't drag age with my youngest brother.

Your level of bitterness and frustration must be studied at Harvard... A full time course load..

Good things locate you, when your heart is clean...Your mindset is focused..If not, ifeoma will run away from you..

Everybody is born a winner, If only you just believe.
For someone who left school since 2010, If you have a clean mind, you should be a comfortable millionaire by now..12years? Just 3 years remaining to make it a generation. You spent being bitter.

The people you are hating, might be the ones with keys to your success door...

Think deep man..

If na 5years old boy sabi the way, I go follow who know road.

You are doing like a woman..A man must man up..When you don't have money, you must humble yourself to make it.

kumbhuru:
Just say you wanna marry her?

Lmao...You are extra..

Unruly7:
So human can take drugs just to Bleep lol

And sweetness of fok is when you want to cum
So why take something to stay longer

Useless boy
Useless girl

These little guys have normalised use of sex drug in their 20s...damn.

By the time they get to 40, it is finished.

judetov2:
GAYbriels

Sharap...If na woman he carry, una go still slut shame the babe..

A bro cannot have fun in peace..ndi ara!

when2:
Some men are agents of trouble, they don't know what they want in life. Why go into a relationship with two women? Now see what it has resulted to.

Let us pretend most young ladies are not double dating...Eat from Peter, eat from Paul and marry David...lol

igbowoman:
Her husband should be arrested.He aided in her death.
Apparently he is still continuing his love affair with Jennifer and lied to his wife that she was a friend instead of a lover.

Okoto yarns..

JOACHINpedro:
Wow, and everyone was blaming all the male folks.
Nairaland ladies are sexists!

Na today gist...

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

See her as she doesn't exist....

Life is too short.

9japride:
It seems you have feelings for her . The earlier you understand that your work colleagues are not your friend the better for you. They can run you down at anytime just to get ahead in the company and also try avoid office politics.

100%

NaughtyBrainiac:
Hello All,

A friend studied Biochemistry in one of Nigeria's Federal Universities, she has completed NYSC but she does not have a job yet.

Her brother who currently resides in the UK wants her to enrol in a school of Nursing in Nigeria and she is not happy with what her brother wants.

I asked her if her brother's reason is because Nursing is profitable in the UK and she said YES, that's his reason. The goal is that she'd eventually relocate to the the UK.

My concerns are:

1. Why study a course like Biochemistry and go back to a school of Nursing? Aren't there better alternatives?
2. Most of the people I know that attended school of Nursing always go back to the Univeristy for BSc. Nursing.
3. School of Nursing in Nigeria will take her about 3 years and I am sure she will still need to write some exams before she will be able to work as a Registered Nurse in the UK.

Are there possibilities of moving to the UK to study that version of Nigerian School of Nursing? If yes, how expensive is it?

On the other hand, if she's able to go to the UK for her masters, masters in what course can she apply for (please bear in my that she is a Biochemistry graduate) that would give her chances of securing a good job in the UK ( At least, a kind of job that would still make her earn something close to what Nurses earn)?

Please advise. Thank you

As long as the brother will finance it, and she has bio-chem certificate already, she will do well..

Let her try and marry as well...The brother might be a destiny helper for her and the guy that will marry her.

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

It is the tear rubber wife for me..

Smh...You get mind marry a 19year old girl...Unto wetin?

Even some 20 + ladies are still confused..

Anyway, carry your cross.

Es350:
1 month income made in one day for the hawker. God is good.

Hope the guy knows the worth of the money sha before some manchis go corner am.

Lol...E dey happen..

Give an 5k, collect 100dolls

bluefilm:
Those pressures and responsibilities is what makes a man.

But we won't neglect the fact they are huge pressure on a man..

Do you even know men nowadays, don't get to marry that their teen love or first love in most cases due to the fact just few men will get to that young age established with mental and psychological balance to enter the marital union?

We all face our pressures at point in life.

bluefilm:
You can't compare that pressure to the one women face because a man can always settle down when he feels like it, but nature is the biggest problem a woman is going to face.

Nature doesn't care. It sets a woman biological clock right from ab initio.

And When it is time for a woman to become an evening newspaper, nature doesn't waste any time in doing that.

The pressure to make a living first is worst of it...Because you must succeed..It is a must.

Then you face that of settling down as a man..

Then, again you are faced with responsibility of continued provision for yourself, wife, kids, parents and extras..

May God continue to shower his grace and blessings.

Itzteewhy:
I am not in a relationship!!!





Omo you no get joy ooo

As in eeh...

The joy comes in the morning and leave in the afternoon.

DryMouth:
No love anywhere...
I jst left a 3month relationship this morning.

We were supposed to go out yesterday, my car wasn't available due to some mechanical and maintenance issues so i took it to a repair shop. I told her to come to my house so that we can use public transport to our destination. The motherfucker opened her mouth to tell me she can't enter public transport, so she cancelled our plan. This is an idiot who dnt have/cant even afford to buy ordinary okada. Funny enough i met her in a BRT bus sef.

I jst called her this morning and informed her that I'm no longer interested in the relationship. I can't ignore this kind of redflag the idiot exhibited. She'll definitely leave me for another man if things aren't going well for me financially even if we have married.

I dnt ignore redflags during courtships

For real?

Like she can't enter public transport??

That was bad...She was there for the paparazzi.

leo047:
Still a useless brand...

Oops! That was harsh..

Acidosis:
Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

In some marital union, the wife bears the burden more than the husband.

While in some, the husband does more.

As for OP's case presented, I come to realize some men tends to be with the wrong women...From a problem mother, to a problem sisters, to problem girl friends and finally a problem wife...

Next is to sit down, think negatively and put up some thoughts as hypothesis and project on feeble minds.

It is really a blessing being in a home with functional parents, then stepping up to have a functional girl friend/boy friend and lastly a next level with a functional wife/husband....

Some people never get to experience that...

One must be mindful of what they read, listen to or watch...it will surely have a big influence in the long run.

Taking your life is not the solution...


Life teaches us differently..

May her soul rest in peace..

I don't think the guy will remain himself again with this ugly development...Karma.

bluefilm:
The pressure to get married should be considered as a Threat against Womanity

Hahahahaha

Men are equally under pressure as well...First to make a living.

Secondly, to settle down.

A friend uploaded this earlier on his status, I said if this mistakenly enter nairaland, Food don land for ultimate dragging..

And Nairaland drag lords jumped on it..smh

gevans:
So, someone can't drive Corolla with peace of mind?

At alllllllll....

I wanted to get a 2010 version for baby bro, but on a second thought and bad news about it...I jejely settled for another car.

Corolla name alone, attracts these hoodlums.

mlpnko:
I just checked my jamb result and i scored 283. Initially, my choice of course was law, but my parents insisted that l chose mass comm but my choice is law. What can l do, l need advices pls.

Go for LAW...

You will be happy you did, 10 years later..

Accomplished Akpata with a classic babe...My kind of wedding...

When VP show for your wedding, You be big name.

Notyourtype:
Hello Guys,

Is it even possible to have up to six kids without having a male child?

I have a friend, who wanted to have only 4 kids. He's now counting six and will count more because he has refused to have a male child.

When the wife gave birth to the fifth child, then my friend was very anxious to having a male child. But as soon as the news got to him that his wife gave birth to another female child, he send a message to his wife at the hospital not to come to his house with the child. He said his wife has a curse on her, that is why she refused to give birth to a male child. We had to beg him before he allowed his wife home.

The issure now is that his wife just gave birth to the sixth child again today, and another female child. He his just very confused right now.

He just told me now that people says the fault his not from her wife but rather on his side. And he want me to help him on what the problem is.

Pls nlanders, what do you think is the problem, and how can he give birth to a male child?

6girls is a blessing if he train them well...

They are his joy and happiness...

But, I won't ignore the fact he need a son to continue his name as a son of the soil.

He is at fault, he is busy shooting X-Chromosome.

Y Chromosome which bonds with the woman's X to give male child is very fragile and doesnt survive harsh environments.

He should know and understand his wife's body very well..Especially her cycle..It will help him achieve his aim.

Again, he should cut down on stress..Then visit a fertility clinic to know best practices to guarantee safe swimming of His Y Chromosome to bond and deliver his male child.

Every young man going to marry must follow these steps..

Not every one will eve luck shooting at random and having different results.

Lmao...craze people evrywhere

Izonedexter:
broke is any guy who takes this lady seriously.

Highest savage this month...

Mariangeles:
Nsogbu ha ka nku!

The kind of issues that made men of the older generation give their wives the silent treatment or reject their food, men of this generation would use that same excuse(or even lesser issue) to cheat. Ashi gba!

Not all men..

Some of us have the original Orientation of our Dad and grand fathers..

So hapucha..We may talk for taking sake...No man messing up,is happy messing up...Deep down, most want a unique home filled with Love and Understanding.

pocohantas:


Socks? Check
Graphic clothe? Check
Airpod? Check
Crypto? Check
Hair like covid? Check

E remain Lexus and oversaturated pictures. I would conclude this my investigation and order for his arrest.

You sef...smh

Just say yahoo boy.

This same reason my parlery working for a German crypto firm said they can't live peacefully without getting yahoo tag in Naija.

Funny these guys mention thousands of dollars like they pick it on the street.

Who even told you people Lexus we dey manage na Gboys ride..smh

GraciousGod190:
I am 38 years old and have never had a girlfriend, never dated before. What I do is visit brothel and back to my house, this habit have been with me since I was a young boy and sometimes I envy those people who actually talk about their ex.

You see it's not like I can't get a girl but I have one physical problem that's keeping them away from me, some only tag along because of my money. But when I stop giving them, they stop coming close.

Some cover their nose when I try gisting them, one even insulted me that I get mind o, to open my smelling mouth to gist her.

This is getting suicidal, the funny thing is I always join people to jubilate that "THOSE WHO DONT HAVE GIRLFRIEND HAS PEACE OF MIND" but deep inside me I know am a reject and I wished I had one.

As for my physical deformity have tried everything but its seems not to work. I'm feeling suicidal, loneliness every night and day.

After dressing nice wearing good perfumes, The thing is once I open my mouth and they see my teeth, it's over.. because of that I try as much to be on my own to avoid insult.

You have no problem at all...Just Inferiority complex..

Visit a good dentist, to fix your tooth problems..