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Like seriously? Come on! ......

Another suicide again! Dammmn!

Saffi:
I think before marriage one has to mentally prepare themselves for the worst scenarios possible. Not like you’re expecting them to do something bad, but just understanding that human beings are flawed, nobody will reach your expectations 100% and preparing your mind for extreme disappointment. So when the storm comes, you’re not a train wreck and you won’t allow any human being to make you mentally ill/insane.

Anyways you won’t find your answer here, clearly you guys are having communication issues as your husband is refusing to confess or be transparent. I honestly think you guys need marriage counselling as there could be underlying issues that we do not know about that’s causing issues in your marriage. Try not to get too much family involved as it will make matters worse, they can be very biased and toxic. Don’t make decisions out of anger and take good care of yourself mentally and physically. Prioritise your children and give yourself peace of mind. Understand that when someone cheats on you, most times you are not the issue. So don’t beat yourself up or blame yourself just yet. You will be fine, and I believe you will get your answers through counselling. Love yourself first before anybody.

Best I have read here.

Thoniameek:
Still looking.... You never know you might be interested in what I intend to do with the money too

If i like your business and its terms, I just might, PM lets take it up from there, thats if you are still looking.

Yay! Congratulations! Today is my boy’s birthday too.

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jinka:
I finished my NYSC in 2016 at the age of 27yrs and since then I have been teaching in a primary school here in Ilorin with a salary of 20k hoping that one day I will see a befitting job, it's over 2yrs now without a job. I can't continue with this teaching again because it has been hell right from day one and I'm not getting any younger.

Pls nairalanders your humble brother really needs solid advice on how to go about this.

How do you earn 20k and save up 250k out of it? Seems so so impossible to me, first i must commend your effort and your resilience to saving. I should be seeking people like you as friends.

To your question, find a need within the location you reside, Offer a service, or sell something. You could start up a cleaning service with far less than that, all you need to do is seek out people who need your services, that shouldnt be too difficult, given your tenacity.

Kudos to you once again for your determination. However dont rush into anything, take your time, do a business plan before you venture into anything and i’m sure you’ do fine.

Sirheny007:
The word "Actress" is now a professional euphemism for this farm tool

You just killed it.... lol, Dammn you undervalued the hard work of this farm tool by comparing it! Haba na!

In Nate Dogg’s voice “ ring or no ring a hoe gonna be a hoe”

Vomitting money, who writes all these things ehn?!

Haba!

Which one be all this kain thing again naw? .... how many fathers does the child want to have na? See as gifty sef dey disgrace herself up and down. Stop hoeing around dem no go hear.

Must confusion hold you as to who give you belle? Wey she dey ask am to put up DNA result. She no even sure again self. I just pity that child with this kain mama. I no dey understand all this kain nonsense ehn!

Carry thier matter na begin dey disturb us for here ehn, na wa o!

Raw talent..... brilliant! would be suitable at kirikiri maximum prison

Wuraola01:
Yes now

Ok, i comment my reserve.

Wuraola01:
Abi. Your head correct jhare

Of all things to eat

Of all things to eat... really?

Now i have heard and seen it all... nothing to be seen again!

IamD18:
Your mum and her dad frowned at your union, yet you stubbornly continued. Now look at yourself.

This is one of the reasons why I MUST marry a virgin. No two ways about it.

Nigerian ladies are hoes and prostitutes.

It takes the grace of God for them to retire after marriage because once a hoe will always be a

This is just fact.

Hhahahaha.... funny you.

kestolove95:
Since u love her take her like dat and stop disturbing us.

Hahahahhahah... exactly the same advice i’ll give.
Carry your baggage like that and stop bugging us.

cluewebhost:
So I now have 2 access bank accounts, just like that

I’m telling you o! Just like that 2 Access bank account, long before now i had taken out my small change from diamond after their abysmal horrible service a couple of months ago.

Access has always been my favorite bank so no shaking!

Tell us something else we dont know..... it was inevitable.

OdikwaRisky:
jingle bell rock

not really a carol but I love it

My fav too... I love it!

greenprince:
What's the assurance that new one on your mind is who will teach you contentment?

You do have a point here, but you know there’s a complexity to us humans, peoples actions and reactions sometimes can be better imagined than explained.

We all seek to be happy and find happiness and contentment in different forms and in different ways, contentment in itself is relative, however anything that brings you happiness, succor, fulfillment, relieve at a point can be regarded as contentment, until otherwise.

We are all just wired weirdly... lol

greenprince:
A good man marries a woman and dates the daughter?
Wow.... so much for good men

Well..... his relationship status or preference shouldn’t define his person.

If she says he’s good to her who are we to say otherwise?

Some valid points she raised. “Why him” “ he is a good man so why not him”.

Besides who made society the morality judge? Do whatever makes you happy.

ponehp:
For Love. its been ages i felt that.
I wish i could meet someone of my dream, completely fall in love with him and he do the same. That's all

I know that feeling, I hope your wish gets granted.

CuddleBear:
I need......

What you need?.....

Wuraola01:
Hmm.

I just want something I did to click.
The outcome will be out next yr. So, I want God to help finish work over there .

Need a best friend too.

And may your wishes be granted. I would have offered myself up for the best friend role, but the sad thing to that is we might end up rolling in the hay at some point, which will inturn ruin the friendship, except if you wouldn’t mind that

Interesting......

What a lucky carrot! Chosen amongst its peers to experience such bliss!.

Those who complain secretly wish they could feel and experience the gusto and zing that carrot enjoys.

Lucky Basstard!

Must we all wear suit? Who gave the law that men must wear only suit to their wedding or spend excessively? A man can marry in anything he feels comfortable in, and this dude here choose a pair of jean dungarees. Excellent choice my friend!

He used what he had to get what he wants, did the dungarees stop the marriage? NO! Did it stop him from taking pictures? NO! Did it stop his inlaws from giving their daughter to him in marriage? Also NO.

So what is all the fuss about? Dude enjoy your marriage and buy more pair of jeans for upcoming ceremonies. Child dedication, wedding anniversary, and what not.