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It depends on the parents.
Some parents - there is no right way of telling them, they resent you for it.
Next they go out of their way to show you that your kids are no better.

Strangling a child is not a small thing.
Having children in the diaspora is not a joke.
Add discrimination and you will realise there is no room for small mistakes.
So many of our kids have been taken away.
Also parents don’t teach their children not to talk in school. Fact is that children are encouraged to share abuse at school. Especially African kids are asked questions and cross examined to speak about abuse.

Poor children.
They are the victims here of greedy school owners and parents who just want to show off with their kids.

CharisEleos:
He's doing well but still can't maintain eye contact.

Maybe you should take him to a school where they care for children with special needs. There they are taught very great interaction skills and eye contact.
I Watched a documentary of a white boy who told the interviewer that he was taught the eye contact thing in school and hes doing great.

The challange is that the special needs school don't follow the normal school syllabus in Germany.
The only school that is specially for only autistic children is over an hour away and there have been some bad reports about the school.
If not for the covid lockdown I would have started him on another therapy
They have such for older kids to teach them such things like eye contact.

The school specially for autistic children is over an hour away and even they don't follow the normal school syllabus.
Germany is lagging behind with autism.

The other challange is that although they have some similarities all autistic children are different.
My son was one year in a special needs, I had to remove him because academically it was a desaster. They taught them 2 alphabets and 2 numbers the whole year and at home he was reading and doing plus and minus.
It was so frustrating. He loved the school and the programs buti just couldn't leave him there.

For the first time I talk to my 9 year old son about his autism.
He didn't know the word but he knew all along that he was different.
A look at his struggle to find a place and his heart melting advice to people at the end.
Please support him by leaving words of encouragement in the comment section of the video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPj2Z4GgttQ

It's not about black or white but what's inside.
What are you bringing into the marriage... Asserts and liabilities?
Does it match with your partner?
What kind of person are you?
Can you complement one another?
A woman that is financially independent lays more emphasis on other things.
So it's all about finding the match.

First of all you are not a bad child.
You are a child that has done some bad things... That too is a part of growing up and belongs to a healthy development.
What is important is that you grow out of these things and also that you realise they are wrong.
Getting a woman pregnant is not bad but stay away from married women. It spells big trouble.
Your parents have done some pretty bad things too! You don't under any circumstances call a child a failure. They should alway help you to stand up and grow.
Telling you to contribute in the house work is not necessarily wrong. Since you habe nothing doing but it should not be done to humiliate or frustrate you. Also restricting your movement at 28 is wierd.
Parents want their children to grow up but don't give them wings...
I would advise you to look for any job no matter what you find till you get your results and get a qualified job.
At the end of the day... It is catering for one's self that makes out a man.

Please can we share our views on this as parents.
In Austria it is national news. A 13 year old girl was raped by 4 young asylum seekers aged between 16 and mid 20s .
It turned out that the 16 year old said he was her boyfriend, she followed him to the apartment where they were given ecstasy. She was brutal raped several times and killed. The then took her corpse to a tree and leaned her on the tree where she was found.
Leonie was wearing a pullover on which was written.. Live or die.
The parents said she was a free spirit and a rebel. She came and left when she went She even spent nights out without Comming home.
What do you think?
Can the parents be blamed?
Can parents claim they can't control a child at that age?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anUpmAIUPTk

3 lies Mr Lai Mohammed told the Nation about Nnamdi Kanu


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otrg-IF21Kw

All lies and fake false propaganda


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otrg-IF21Kw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otrg-IF21Kw

It was indeed a kidnap and illegal-legal analysis.
Let us pray they have not given him any lethal poison.
The Nigerian Government should disclose how and where they they took him.

He should be examined properly by a team of independent doctors to make sure he was not injured or poisoned.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b_YgfdztqU

Nnamdi was not arrested but kidnapped.
How can he get a fair trial, when he was kidnapped.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b_YgfdztqU

I think the most important lesson from this case is that the police in Nigeria is lagging behind in technology and just wasn't able to do proper securing of the crime scene and also the crime scene had probably been tampered with aline with the fact that so many people probably gained access to the room.
Also the autopsy report filtering out is questionable.... Sounds more like examining the body externally. Nothing to indicate an autopsy was carried out.
As for the family issuing threats to the public.... As for now, they too are suspects and this might be seen as a Form of intimidation.

OssyMalik:
Are there no CCTV footage to know if some other people gained entrance to the apartment where they both lodged?

The girl should be beaten mercilessly to name her accomplices. She’s not alone in the murder


Which kind wahala be this sef?

It is not legal to torture people.

The sad truth is that he has already moved on.
You need to start a serious love affair with yourself. Love yourself more and understand how valuable and worthy of love you are.
The man that will love and appreciate you is on his way.

The man had mental issues....
His motives are not yet clear.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDR7uNYHJTQ

A church wedding is for religious purposes.
If you can't do a church wedding you can still do a blessing of the marriage.For instance if one party is a divorced catholic... You cannot exchange vows but can get a blessing.

Heartbreaking...

Don't worry... We women don't need a man to go on his knees to boost our ego.

Join a church then invite the church members

wealthtrak:
An awesome video! Thanks
for reinforcing the simple
but often ignored 'W' principles.
The 'W' principles are vital in any
situation in a world that is a
battlefield.

Last but not least, you're a very sound Lawyer.

All the best.

Thank you.
That made me feel good.
I wish you all the best too.

CookingPot:
I just gave a click
Your hair is adorable

Awww thank you ...
My hair... It took me a long time and courage to embrace my grey.

Never ignore the W's in your life!
Store them, hand in to them, record them!
They are situation savers.
- when your children habe issues at school
- when you have issues at work or in other interactions..
Without your W's you lack precision and can't hit your target.

Nairalanders be a bit more generous
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yrM-qWUGH_8

Whoever wrote this post must have no idea of the sacrifices women make in their marriage....
It's sad how men often try to downplay the role of a woman.
Yes money is important but there are so many things that can't be equated or bought with money.
Also don't forget that women have to mostly make career or work sacrifices for the wellbeing of the family.
The average man gets up, keeps a clear head and calmly prepares for work.
The woman is in stress from when she gets up to attend to the children and then rush to her work. That alone already makes a big difference... and so we can go on and on...
Many men are coping today because the woman has their back!
Men should learn to appreciate their wives and respect them.
You may think that side chicks perform more and there is a reason for that.
The person that planted and nurtures the tree will pluck the fruits carefully, knowing that the tree must bear fruits for many seasons.
The thief is even ready to cut down the tree and take all the fruits knowing that she may not have the opportunity to steal again and knowing she can steal from other trees.
If I catch a thief stealing from my tree, will I attack my tree or the thief?
However if I noticed that my tree is infested and can't yield any fruits, I will plant another tree and some might even want to cut down the old tree.
It's a law of nature.

Go back under the water and open your eyes!
Is that how to swim?
Constant opening of eyes under water is not healthy.
Please get a swimming coach for your children. They have a pool and can't swim.
Keeping afloat is not swimming.

Please keep the child.
You can do the traditional and registry quietly and later a church wedding
Not all marriages start with a big flash.
Sometimes big marriages also break up.
The most important thing it's that the man is standing to you.
Why kill your child because he has a set back.
Tribulations last but a while but joy comes at the end.

What can we do to save our child from death by drowning?
So many children are dying.... It's just too sad. A moment of being inattentive and the child is gone.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRZU5pt1NGQ

Waiting for the name to drop.

Shocking how this grandmother had the heart to sell her granddaughter to men day after day...
Heartbreaking!
Who can one trust again?
Why can man be so evil.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqOMw4KwTLc

Ireland has been on the watch list for not tackling human trafficking.
For the first time since the amendment of the law in 2013 there has been a trial
... And it happens to be 2 Nigerian women.
They forced young girls into prostitution after luring them to Ireland. After the terrible journey over Libya and Italy the women say they were used as money and sex machines.
Alicia Edosa 44
Edith Enoghaghase. 31
Ediths husband, Desmond Omonuwa Osaighbovo, 30 was acquitted of human trafficking but charged for money laundering. He was granted bail because of the children.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8j42095j9g

Should we swallow this with a pinch of salt?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZWlzhGUZhM