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 Family › Re: Wife Calls Police To Evict Her Nigerian Husband In London (Video) by mutter(f): 6:27am On May 21, 2021 |
It does look like the man is jobless. He was even in bed when the police came. It's not easy for women in diaspora when they work and take care of the home all alone.Some men don't have a ajob and wouldn't support the woman with the home. At least make some effort. It's so hard on the woman when she has to do everything. Unlike back home there's no help. When the man is an added burden and no help what should the woman do? You come from work, they kids may be satisfied with pizza or chips or somet9easy to prepare but you still have to cook an African meal for the man... You come home and still do the house chores and supervise the school work. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Wife Calls Police To Evict Her Nigerian Husband In London (Video) by mutter(f): 6:16am On May 21, 2021 |
ibedun:I have to back youn100% on this. So true. |
| Family › Re: No Hope Again by mutter(f): 6:11am On May 21, 2021 |
There is hope my dear. Make use of your resources. You have received good advice here. A govt job is kind of stable and also gives enough time for you to give lessons. |
| Family › Re: Family Rebels: Children Of Hate. by mutter(f): 6:29am On May 20, 2021 |
Parent shaming.... A new trend amongst youths... |
| Family › Re: Sickle Cell Child by mutter(f): 10:44am On May 17, 2021 |
Yes but I live in a country where sickle cell can be cured. |
| Family › Re: Help, My Guy Needs A Good Advice by mutter(f): 10:05pm On May 15, 2021 |
This is the story of so many marriages today... Unfortunately. The man obviously bought the new car as a bait for women outside... All he actually wants is his wife to accept his cheating. |
| Family › Re: Help!! My Sister Marriage Is About To Crash by mutter(f): 9:52pm On May 15, 2021 |
The challange with intertribal marriage is when the going gets rough. It takes strong will and 2 mature people to make it function. 2 people that are ready to stand by each other and shield each other from family conflict. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Baby Is Not Walking Yet. by mutter(f): 8:58am On May 13, 2021 |
daylay7:Exactly! So much information missing. A child may have a delay in development in walking but all other areas are fully developed... It's late and as such you should seek medical advice. Some children walk with 7 months. Most are walking by ine year. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Is It Like After Pregnancy? by mutter(f): 10:38pm On May 12, 2021 |
Kind of an empty feeling, so light and weak. Especially the first time... It's so hard to belive thats your baby. This great joy takes time to set in.... 8 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Nigerian Mothers Mess Up In Diaspora by mutter(op): 10:36pm On May 12, 2021 |
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| Family › How Nigerian Mothers Mess Up In Diaspora by mutter(op): 9:40pm On May 12, 2021 |
Honestly it's so sad how they are taking away children of Nigerian women arriving in Europe on asylum. Many of them are from Edo... No insults meant.. They don't understand the system and just loose their children out of ignorance and also lack of discipline... This life in diaspora is not easy oh! Especially without a partner... If care is not taking you will just go bunkers... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOwfQ4VKH5M 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by mutter(f): 1:16pm On May 11, 2021 |
People have different ways of mourning.. But what you needed was time to mourn your wife, not just to respect her momories but also for you. If she loves you she will help keep your wife's memory alive also and especially for the children. Please make a clean cut. I personally would be scared of a man who can get over a wife so soon. 3 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Ebonyi Lady Bathes House Girl With Hot Oil, Withdraws Her From School (photos) by mutter(f): 2:16pm On May 09, 2021 |
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| Crime › Re: Ebonyi Lady Bathes House Girl With Hot Oil, Withdraws Her From School (photos) by mutter(f): 11:13am On May 09, 2021 |
Having minors as househelps should be made illegal. It's a total abusive system. A child working with no fixed working hours and under all kinds of conditions. If men would help out the house chores can be done without the need of a house help. Maximum what you need is an adult to clean a few hours a week and get paid a decent wage. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Women Are More Of Bad Than Good - by mutter(f): 11:06am On May 09, 2021 |
Truth be told humans can be evil. The lowest of creatures that God created... Which animal kills and hurts another just out of pleasure or envy or some other crapy mood. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Pictured Backing Her Baby In India by mutter(f): 6:33am On May 09, 2021 |
etrange:You started by saying a woman is doing something the crude way and at the same time accuse her of thinking she is better? Even if she said the wrapper is better, does it mean she thinks she is better. It is a preference for a product! For you to mention back carriers is an indication that you perhaps don't really know much about these products.. Those things are on their own heavy and you can't carry young babies in it. They are actually not used on a daily basis. 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Pictured Backing Her Baby In India by mutter(f): 11:15pm On May 08, 2021 |
etrange:I am sorry the modern day carriers are not easier and certainly carrying a baby in front is not as convenient for the mother. These days women buy long pieces of cloths and they are not easier to tie. 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Ma'am Ifyalways by mutter(f): 9:05pm On May 08, 2021 |
What a relief! |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Pictured Backing Her Baby In India by mutter(f): 9:03pm On May 08, 2021 |
etrange:Why and how is this the crude way! We always bring ourselves down. I backed my children in Germany and I can tell you the response. Some african women would asks me if I wasn't ashamed. Some German women would stop me and ask me to show them how to do it! Backing children with a cloth is very healthy for the child and the hip bones. Please we should take pride in the precious things we have. 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: Why Do Children Who Behave Wrongly Becomes The Mothers' Children That Moment? by mutter(f): 11:14am On May 08, 2021 |
It still happens... Comes mostly from men who don't believe they have a responsibility to raise their child. If you see it as your responsibility you can't make such a comment. 1 Like |
| Family › Great For Children! by mutter(op): 10:07am On May 08, 2021 |
I stumbled on this YouTube channel today and I have to share! This are short clips. Some in English also! What is so great about it! It all about acceptance! Accept people as they are, black or white, mentally or physically challanged. It's just awesome! Amust watch... It's so important we teach our kids early to accept others as they are. If we do so early there will be no bullying and more love in the world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pSMeXaHVQE |
| Family › Re: Divorcees, What's Your Experience Like? by mutter(f): 9:22pm On May 05, 2021 |
EvilNeedle:If only you knew.... I was petrified. |
| Family › Re: Divorcees, What's Your Experience Like? by mutter(f): 9:13pm On May 05, 2021 |
foreman:He knew I was a good mother and he could rely on me.... Why I said the bolded.... Because sometime with some adjustment the marriage could have been saved... But I guess the odds were against us. |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Have Love Machine/s*x Toys At Home? by mutter(f): 9:56pm On May 02, 2021 |
If both are okay with it why not. They can even incorporate it in their sex life. The truth be told most men can't keep up to a woman's demand as they get older. While women get to their peak in mid late 40s the men at that age are greeting weaker and have issues with erectile dysfunction. That's why it's vital that couples talk about it and find solutions. I made a video of this recently. Since I am in my mid fifties now... I am more aware of the reality of couples in my age. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMphSQvziLY |
| Family › Re: Divorcees, What's Your Experience Like? by mutter(f): 9:48pm On May 02, 2021 |
Interestingly enough I was having a conversation last week with my ex husband. I have been remarried cover 23 years. For the first time he was ready to talk reasonably about where it went wrong. In retrospect if we were wiser we might have kept the marriage upright because we really did love ourselves. Despite his atrocities... and they were many, I made effort to keep a good communication and I thank God for that. It must not always end in scandal and fighting. Strangely enough we remained good friends. We advise and encourage one another in difficult times. Z When a marriage has broken down irretrievably its time to part ways but one should do so in a humane way. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: Ma'am Ifyalways by mutter(f): 9:35pm On May 02, 2021 |
I keep Comming back to see if she has responded. |
| Family › Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by mutter(f): 9:33pm On May 02, 2021 |
The challange with such decisions is that ultimately the children inherit the consequences of your decision. So think about it. Depends on how much value you lay on your position in the igbo community. 4 Likes |
| Family › Autistic Boy Drowns - Mother Under Attack by mutter(op): 2:39pm On May 02, 2021 |
An 8 year old autistic boy drowned in a neighboring pool. The mother said while putting the kids into the car to take the boy to school he ran off. As soon as the death was announced people jumped on her fb page accusing her of killing the boy. They claimed the story was fishy, she didn't call the police on time, why didn't anyone search the poolher announment of the death was cold and unemotional... Police investigation is ongoing. I just pray it was an accident, they even accused her of not going to the pool when the body was discovered. Sad. Mothers of challanged and special needs children have e allot of challanges. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxvTHjVodJc |
| Politics › Re: Amputee Hawker Apologizes To Nigerians For Lying; Accuses Her Grandma For ...... by mutter(f): 2:00pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
What a shame! The government is abusing its power! That's a Civil case. If the donors want their money they should request it from her by proving that they were mislead to donate. She is challanged and she was not financially buoyant... That is the main motivation for donating. The government has no right to put her money on freeze or impose any welfare measure on her. That was not fraud! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJTSyI22bq4 |
| Family › Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by mutter(op): 7:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Many men have issues with erectile dysfunction.. What some call impotence. At age 40 it affects 40 percent of men at age 50%. Most men cant bring themselves to talk honestly about it instead the try to shift the blame on the wife and surround themselves with side chick's to camouflage their inadequacy. Women are left feeling they are undesirable and the problem comes from them. As a couple age they should develop new strategies . It does work if both are willing to communicate and work on it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMphSQvziLY 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Please Advise: Husband & Wife Make Love Almost On Daily Or Two Days Basis by mutter(f): 6:41am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You better make use of it while it still functions. So that later she can live with the memories of the good old time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMphSQvziLY |
