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PrecisionFx:
Where do u stay before hols

My yard, always stay in my yard before holidays

PrecisionFx:
Wen u are not on hols, where do u stay?

In my yard.

PrecisionFx:
Who do u only need asthma inhaler only wen on hols?

Didn't you read that I never did until when it crept up on me on a particular holiday and almost spoilt it for me ni? That was before until when I stopped picking up the inhalers and I haven't had any reason to regret no more picking up inhalers again. Touch wood.

PrecisionFx:
I do not need to know ur own concept of God because I'm already sure it can't be same with mine. I have my own I created personally from life experiences.

What makes you think I should expect you to have the same concept of God like mine hmm? Have you walked with God in my shoes ni that I'll think you have the same concept or experience of God like I have no?

PrecisionFx:
What do u mean by hols?

All work but no play, no hols, makes Jack a dull and irritable person. Everyone sometimes needs a break from the grind of life. Everyone goes on hols, on vacation to get away from the stresses of life. Everyone has a kit kat. That's what hols is or means, so please stop behaving like or pretending to be an "ajepako"

PrecisionFx:
Why is it that ur asthma happens wen ur on holidays @ home but not wen u are away?

In the past 10-15 years, I haven't had any asthma attacks when on hols, I just used to pick an inhaler prescription when going on hols, should in case like on one occasion I had a nasty shockibg experience when the frigging asthma crept up on me without me having am inhaler to give me relief and almost spoilt my hols. That is why I used visit my GP for an inhaler before going on one but in the last 7-9 years I haven't been bringing inhalers with me when going on vacation and nothing has happened.

PrecisionFx:
Meanwhile I believe in God, the only difference between u and me is that I don't believe in ur own concept of God.

It's a good start you believe in God. I am extremely please you do. I really am.

You don't know what concept of God I believe in and/or know

Dafemich:
You just made a mistake. That verse didn't say faith in the son of God, it says that faith of the son of God. They are two different things. Faith of the son of God shows us that this faith is not ours, it is of the Lord Jesus Christ. it is not what we believe that make us overcome sin, it is what the Lord Jesus Christ has done. I didn't say we don't need faith to overcome sin, I was trying to make you see this point. We overcome sin, by believing in the faith of the Lord Jesus Christ. We are to believe that since the Lord Jesus Christ resurrected from the dead as a human being, we also can overcome sin as human being. Our ability to overcome sin comes from the fact that the Lord Jesus Christ resurrected from the dead as a human being. And because He resurrected from the dead as a human being, we can live a victorious live over sin as a human being. This should be our believe. That is why Apostle Paul said, the life I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the son of God (Gal 2:20)

I am not going to fall out with you, but will just ask you that please Dafemich how does one get faith, how does one build faith, how does one increase faith, how does, how does one one keep faith, how does one not lose faith, how does one believe and begin to believe in the faith of the Lord Jesus Christ, how does one believe that the Lord Jesus Christ resurrected from the dead as a human being, how, is it by some magical abbacadabra process ni? No, each and all begins with hearing and hearing what, hearing and keeping to the word of God

Dafemich:
I didn't really get most of what you said up there, but I want you to Gal 2:20, and let see what you understand about that verse. Though we are to believe the word of God, but there is something in particular we must clinch our faith to.

I have corrected the typo error, "no" was meant to be "know"

You are proof-texting with Galantians 2:20. How do you "... I live by faith in the Son of God... " without any benefit from Romans 10:17, erhn? How did Peter defy the law of gravity and just like Jesus began walking on water, erhn? Was it not by hearing the word of the Word? Was it not standing on that command word and the Word that gave Peter faith. It was Adam and Eve losing faith in the word of God that made them slide and succumb to sin brother. There is no two ways about this. Hold on to every word of God and you'll never go wrong or amiss

Dafemich:
My answer will be, that though the Holy Spirit feel, sense, and touch like us, He doesn't have any sex like a male or female.

Not bad an answer, but if the Holy Spirit doesn't have any sex like a male or female, why use He then, you'll be contradicting yourself if you do that, so therefore you're better off saying, not She but He is used, because of patriarchy, because of convenience and patriarchal reasons.

Dafemich:
Wow. So as a new born again Christian, I must know every words of the Bible. I know there is more.

Do new born human being babies, no know any word at all, talkless every human speaking word?, C'mon try harder than that.

Romans 10:17 is informative enough and a very useful verse. It is self explanatory too.

Dafemich:
We are saying the same thing

I know we are saying the same thing, but only asking you that, why He and not She then, hmm? The Holy Spirt, just like God, does display female attributes of human beings too, hmm, so why not, She, erhn? If a two year old asked you that question, what would be your answer to the two year old and the answer that the two year old will go away being satisfied and with understanding.

Dafemich:
The Lord Jesus Christ said he not that the Father take us away from this world, but he should keep in His own name. So we are still here in this world. As a Christian, we are live a life that after we live this world, we would make heaven. But in this world that sin is on the high every day. You can't live every minute without encountering huge temptations to sin. Every day, the devil is just bring up different types of methods to sin. But I believe there is a way. A way to overcome sin in the flesh. So I want us Christian to discuss, what is that way. What is the way that Christ lay down to overcome sin.

"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God."
- Romans 10:17

The first sin, as in, the original sin, was committed by giving prominence to someone's else word more the expressed command word of God. The way to overcome sin is by living by every word that proceeded from God's mouth

Dafemich:
As a Christian can you do what Leah shuaibu did. Let's be sincere. At the point of death, with gun pointed at her, but she still refuse to renounce Christ.


Oh Lord help me. can I really stand when my faith is tested. can I say Jesus I will follow even at the point of death. God help me.

When or if I come to that bridge, I'll know if I'll cross it

Dafemich:
yeah. He is not human, but have all the attributes of human and even more.

Why He and not She then, hmm? The Holy Spirt, just like God, does display female attributes of human beings too, hmm?

Dafemich:
Thank you my brother. He refer to the ever present, ever reliable Holy Spirit as it.

That's OK, it's nothing more than a forgivable and ignoranus oversight.

Interestingly enough and not to be fooled by the He pronoun, the Holy Spirit just like God is asexual. God is not man nor an organism that is gender specific. This is tough bullshit meat and not milk. It's not stuff for small bwoys in the spirit or the faint hearted

orisa37:
Same Holy Spirit will guide you on your second chance. Just listen to IT.

Dafemich:
Just Listen to it.......You don't know the Holy Spirit my brother. How will you refer to the Holy Spirit as a it. I recommend you read, Good morning, Holy Spirit and welcome Holy Spirit by Benny Hinn. It will help you. And the Holy Spirit is not a it, He is a he. Though he is a spirit, but he is a human being. He have all the attributes of a human being. He can feel, talk, see. He can do everything you can to and even more. The Holy Spirit is not a it, but a He

orisa37:
I said I.T. Information Technology.

CodeTemplar:
Let us make man in our own image. Gen 1.

Dafemich:
Do you ever read

"But the Helper, the Holy Spirit whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things and will bring to your remembrance all things that I have said to you."
- John 14:26

"But when He the, Spirit of truth, shall come, He will guide you into all the truth.
For He will not speak from Himself, but whatever He may hear, He will speak. And He will declare to you the things coming."
- John 16:13

I dont know why you, laudate and PrecisionFx are having this unneccesary ding-dong, especially when in each other's ways, you're both right. PrecisionFx says most people outgrow asthma, it is true. Now you laudate say, you're healed of your asthma, yet you are disputing what PrecisionFx said

It is true like you laudate said that, an asthma sufferer can go into remission for some years, only for the frigging asthma to unexpectedly show and show its grinning ugly face again years later. It's just like me, it's between 12-15 years ago that's the last time I've had an asthma attack, but whenever I am going on holidays, as a backup or assurance, I usually pop in to GP, ask for inhaler prescription, telling the doctor, I'll like to have one handy, should in case the mocafokker ashtma shows its ugly face. It had once played that trick on me, I went on holidays the other day and bam, out of the blue, asthma showed up and I had no inhalers to get through, somehow, I managed to scale through, but I learned a lesson that whenever going on hols to grab a working inhaler for the trip

PrecisionFx was right, when he said, most people on earth outgrow asthma and that asthma comes as a result of an autoimmune response, when and where the immune system sometimes finally accepts that the smoke, dust, paint fumes, frying/cooking oil fumes, mowing or cutting grass pollens etcetera that usually triggers the asthma shiit on, as normal substances and stops putting up defences against them by trying to react to them. The methods of defence is a build up of phlegms in the respiratory tract areas, the chest or lungs. This is a gooey substance that's a mixture of yellow, green and white sputum in your airways, and because they are blocking your airways, they are the reason you're wheezing, wheezing is the noise made, when breathed in air is forcing itself in, trying to get inhaled but the frigging phlegm/sputum has been dispatched to the chest area by the autoimmune system and blocking its easy and straightforward access in. The tightness in your chest and the feeling of as if being squeezed by a vice, is atually a build up of those frigging gooey phlegm mixture of yellow, green and white sputums in your chest area, lungs or respiratory area to be precise.

I hope you now, understand and appreciate why I was asking you that, do you know what the cause of your asthma is? To forget about allergies and all that, but do you really understand and know what's behind the asthma, what's causing those wheezing sounds, why you are having those wheezing sounds erhn?

I think asthma, is like attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or Autism, there is spectrum. Some asthma suffers are at the low end, some mid range and some at the high end of the spectrum

"ifura logun agba" loosely translated means "vigilance is the elder person's juju medicine" For example, you wouldnt find me trying to mow a lawn, if at all I do, it will be quickly done and with precautions taken. I dont linger around more than necessary in supermarket's cold/refrigeration display sections. These two, at least, in spite of my autoimmune having re-adjusted or realigning itself towards asthma about me.

DonBenny77, dont mind PrecisionFx, if he doesnt want to give credit where credit is due, that's OK and fine. If God doesn't heal shiit. Who is behind the healing then? Satan? Nature? Nothing? Nobody? At this juncture, my fervent and sincere prayer bin say, make nobody go jam agbako, where bin say, such go get sickness wey hin go need healing for, by God's grace. Amen. If 90% of humans outgrow asthma, that as for me, ol' boy, is a big deal ooo.

Now, even if you personally dont believe in God, it doesnt cancel the fact that every soul needs salvation PrecisionFx, so it's perfectly normal for DonBenny77 to believe that any particular soul isn't beyond redemption, and then pray for its salvation. The bird in a cage indoors, wouldn't believe in a garden or the trees outside the cage, wouldn't believe these things are real and out there. Most of us, are like that and so still a bird with its wasteful thinking and ignorant remarks, in its cage with a door that's not securely latched

Hungry4sex:
I hope it's not just a sign that I'm depressed, because I feel as if there is so much regrets in my life right now.

Firstly, be reassured that God is a God of many chances and not just second chance

It is well, this is just a symptom of not feeling or not sensing being fulfilled. It is could signs of not feeling or not sensing reaching one's potential. The remedy is recoup, get the word, dust it up to remove all sorts of truth decay. Become well grounded in the word, after that begin to believe in the word and Word, then after start standing on the Word's word, while keep a fixed stare gaze on the word and the Word

Hungry4sex:
I'm a Catholic and I need someone to ask about Catholic doctrines and principles. I'm ready to change I just don't know how.

Unfortunately God is not into all these denomination shenanigans. God is denomination agnostic, God is not into all those jazz, so first, be ready to change from that label limiting mind set.

Also please explain what the "Hungry4sex" moniker ID is all about? Why did you choose "Hungry4sex" for a moniker ID. Sex with who is this sex hunger about?

Hungry4sex:
Thanks, but I just hope it's not the ravings of a depraved mind

Dont be too hard on yourself. I'll put it down to you just tired of marching on your own and you dont want your heart to turn into a complete or total stone. Sometimes we fail at things, but that's okay because it part of living, part of why we are here on earth, it's part of learning, part of gaining experiences, part of forming and getting character

Hungry4sex:
Can you please answer questions on morality and the nature of evil and wickedness.

It's only God that can give the best answers to such questions, so what are the questions on them about

Hungry4sex:
It is it true that angry people are sad people?

Not all angry people are sad people. That will be overgeneralising a bit, dont you think.

Hungry4sex:
I'm someone who rarely gets angry at anyone or anything, overtime this has metamorphosed into apathy to the point where I condone crimes done in my presence.

In the long run, you'll become desensitized if you're with or in the wrong crowd.

Hungry4sex:
I guess I've noticed that my friends who are always angry do not forgive ever.

The saying, show me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you who you are speedily comes to mind. Your current friends are a reflection of you. You are only as good as the company you keep. The Yoruba adage says:"ti ewe ba pẹ lara ọsẹ, o ma dọsẹ" loosely translate means "when leaves stay long enough with soap, it las las, becomes or turns into soap too" It is difficult to pick up basketball good playing skills, if you spend all your living days with a football team.

Hungry4sex:
I don't want to that way, is there anything I can do? I've never done this before so I might be incoherent at times

Dont crave for a sense of belongingness to a circle, you were never intended to belong to. What does 2 Corinthians 6:14 light have with darkness?

frank317:
My point is, we both can achieve the same state of sadness and happiness, joy and pain, wealth and poverty, health and sickness, just by our own human effort, with or without God... What exactly its this unseen God's role on our lives?

The role of God is to make it happen that by all means you exercise the right to life and so exist

frank317:
What can u achieve with him that I can't without him? Show me or otherwise he remains useless and nonexistent.

After the death of the body, your soul without God, without any affinity with God, cant achieve or have eternal life

frank317:
Nice chicks by the way... I Like their busty features, good a thing ur people are easy to convince.

If I may ask, why the fascination in their busty features, whats all the reasons for the interest in their busty features, why not any other feature than the bust, why all the reasons, do you like their busty features. Not trick questions, but just curious

Goshen360:
All these law keepers on this forum sef....una don start again. This law of a thing had been dismantled just like the subject of tithing to Christians.
OP, let me ask you this question:

Where was the 10 commandments WHEN JOSEPH FLEW FORNICATION to his master's wife? Where was THE LAW AND 10 COMMANDMENTS when Noah, Enoch walked upright before God? Where was the law and the 10 commandments before Abraham WAS DECLARED RIGHTEOUS WITHOUT THE DEEDS OF THE LAW OF MOSES.

I mean, was "thou shall not commit adultery/fornication" given then?
The better you understand that Christ IS THE END OF THE LAW....the better for you.

Well, some just like peeling the fruit of the Spirit, but never have any intention of actually eating and enjoying it

laudate:
Wow!! How interesting. I have always believed that local herbal cures exist for many ailments, unfortunately a lot of people do not know about it, and many of the older generation that do, are already taking the secrets away with them, to their villages or their graves.

I tell you ut this woman should still be alive because though I cant place her real age, but judging by her first born's age, then which was probably 7-9 years old, I would say she is now likely aged between 70-80 years old and doubt she has passed on

laudate:
How I wish you could still locate this woman and get hold of her medication. By refining and bottling it, you could become the next Anita Roddick making millions from organic healthcare/ bodycare products.

"Funnily enough one lady gave me a cure when I had the attack when at my uncle's place, it gave me instant relief, but being more or less a kid then, didn't tell parents until the next attack, by then lady was no longer a neighbour to my uncle"
- Re: Frank Edwards Healed Of Asthma By God 17 Years Ago by MuttleyLaff: 3:40pm On Jul 18

When I narrated the story to my parents during another asthmatic attack after being back at home, telling my parents that one woman, who was neighbour to my uncle, gave me something that instantly relieved me, they quickly set off trying to find this woman, but according to info, unfortunately, being that my uncle then was living in a rented house, apparently all the occupiers were served quit notice to leave the building and no one seems to know where this woman and her family moved out to. So out of desperation and based on my story, my mum, tried enquiring from her mum, my grandmum, about knowing of any local indigenious concoction mixture of various ingredients that makes people throw up but to no avail

laudate:
I remember when I was younger and had asthma, my grandmother used to make a concoction with neem leaves, lemon grass and a few other things. It gave me some relief by reducing the wheezing for a period of time, but didn't get rid of the asthma totally though.

What! How do you mean exactly that it did give you some relief please?

What that lady had in that small brown bottle of guinness, gave me instant and complete relief, not some relief by reducing the wheezing for a period of time. It was total relief, it felt like I never had the asthma before taking the stuff in the small brown bottle of guinness. I dont know what sort of asthma attack you had, but mine were badass ones, it incapacitated me, it prevented me from breathing, prevented me from breathing easily. I'll have to put my hands on my waist, put pressure on the waist, hold it down there, whilst trying to get air in and then out. It is wheezing throughtout out the day, but at night time, as in time to sleep, it when the wahala is maxed up, because you can't lie down flat anywhere to sleep. It just wont happen, you cant, you just have to sight up, be at right angle or stand up, in order to be able to breathe and catch some sleep. Asthma attack na bastard. SMH, the ting before I conquered and triumphed over it, showed me pepper, erhn? Mumsie wouldnt let me play football with my peers, if she catches me kicking ball with my mates, she'll shout, you dis boy don start, erh, sotay nau, let night come, you wont be able to sleep, afira, c'mon get inside my friend

Do you know what the cause of your asthma is? Forget about allergies and all that, but do you really understand and know what's behind the asthma, what's causing those wheezing sounds, why you are having those wheezing sounds erhn? I am asking all these straighftorward and specific questions, because I know the answers from my experiences. Inhalers, or other western medicine like alupent, they back in the days use to offer, only gives you short relief just like that your grandmum's neem leaves, lemon grass and a few other things conconction did, but with this woman's small brown bottle of guinness, it gave me relief that was instant and total

I remember passingly telling my GP, that do you know, a long time ago someone gave me something that gave me instant relief. He just dismissed it, literally with a wave of the hand. I was going on holidays, and from experience, then I have had occasions of having asthma attack without having inhalers to get me pass it, so on that period that I was about going on holidays, I was determined not to go on it without having inhalers on standby should in case I do have an attack of asthma. That's why I visited the surgeries and after getting my inhaler prescription, as a fyi, told the doctor about my experience.

I am not sure if neem leaves and lemon grass were in that small brown guinness bottle, but I surely did notice wood barks inside it plus other things, it also had a taste of gin or spirit and the content were highly concentratedly fermented. When I took a spoonful of it, it made me double up, sent my body literally into a wild spasm, it made me have convulsions up to the point of having the urge to want to vomit. It was after vomitting that I had instant and total relief. I felt like a new and different person to before taking the thing. It's a surreal experience I never had a second chance to have again.

If it would help, all I know, is that the woman's husband is originally from Kwara State, so I am guessing she is too and she had tribal marks. My uncle, then was living at Palmgrove, Lagos.

EmperorHarry:
Lol I'm aware of these verses perhaps it can also be understood as the "Poor (in brain cells) ". Aha, Jesus had warned us about this over 2000 years ago

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The Pastor's and the sheeple's, their false knowledge is more dangerous than their ignorance
- Poor indeed (in the brain cells)

EmperorHarry:
And Jesus said to John after he had shewn all these things,
Remember,the stupid shall always be among you Revelations 23:1

Very funny
Deuteronomy 15:11, Matthew 26:11, Mark 14:7 and John 12:8

PrecisionFx:
Did the asthma come back again?

MuttleyLaff:
You want to see me when I was little, wake up in the middle of the night screaming my head off for my parents, and having to end up sitting up right for rest of night, if not, I wouldn't be able to breath and sleep.

Plagued me into my early twenties and thirties before I finally conquered it and the wheezing crab. Never had when at boarding house but always when I go home for hols.

Funnily enough one lady gave me a cure when I had the attack when at my uncle's place, it gave me instant relief, but being more or less a kid then, didn't tell parents until the next attack, by then lady was no longer a neighbour to my uncle.

Its been a very long time ago, I've an asthma attack, but yeah, I do have all sorts of other immune system anomalies, I am dealing with. So yeah maybe, that other immune system that has to deal with asthma has been accepted

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Are you having a laugh or you just dont properly read through ni? The narrated incident happened when I was I think 10 or 11 years old, I was in primary school year 5 or 6. Remember I mentioned boarding house and home for hols, that means secondary school years. Joint the dots to know if the asthma came back again

PrecisionFx:
Okay, that's how it is.

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That's what "Okay, that's how it is" erhn?

The neighbour woman from Kwara State extinction and having tribal marks, heard I couldnt sleep, so came to my aunt, who was petrified thinking I was going to die, as she has never seen anything like that happening to anyone like that in her entire life and being that even my uncle wasnt at home, as he was away for the weekend or something like that.

Anyway this Kwara woman, as I said, came to my aunt, with a small brown bottle of guinness. I couldnt tell the exact content of this bottle, but know it had tree or plant barks in it, with maybe a tinge of alcohol or gin and it was concentratedly fermented with what else I dont know. Well, she told my aunt that in the morning, very early, my aunt should give me a spoonful of what's in the guinness bottle, but that before then, to make sure there is a potty kept next close by me when given the bottle's concoction. Morning came, aunty dutifully gave me a spoonful of the dang thing, chai, it tasted unpleasant, vile and horrible. It was highly concentrated, it fill me with revulsion and sent my entire being into a vicious, wild convulsion. My body literally shook, then all of a sudden, I had this strong feeling and sense of wanting to vomit. I quickly made gestures to pass me the frigging potty, and when given, I retched into it. My body was arching and doubling up with spasms, as I took bouts of retching up these mixture of nasty looking goblets of green yellow and white sputum from my lungs and/or respiratory tract. The potty was full up and the aftermath was instant relief. I had no more wheezing sounds, no more struggling to breathe in air, no more unable to easily breathe, no more clasping on my waist just in order to get some gulp of air in, no more inconvenience, no more misery. Aah, it was instant relief and it seemed like I never just a few seconds ago was highly asthmatic or just 2 minutes ago was suffering from asthma.

Inhalers are no match to this woman's authentic indigenous or traditional African medicine

PrecisionFx:
Its nice that u are being cautious.


But the truth is that ur immune system have finally accepted that smoke n dust n paint are normal substances n thus stopped over reacting to them.

You want to see me when I was little, wake up in the middle of the night screaming my head off for my parents, and having to end up sitting up right for rest of night, if not, I wouldn't be able to breath and sleep.

Plagued me into my early twenties and thirties before I finally conquered it and the wheezing crap. Never had when at boarding house but always when I go home for hols.

Funnily enough one lady gave me a cure when I had the attack when at my uncle's place, it gave me instant relief, but being more or less a kid then, didn't tell parents until the next attack, by then lady was no longer a neighbour to my uncle.

Its been a very long time ago, I've an asthma attack, but yeah, I do have all sorts of other immune system anomalies, I am dealing with. So yeah maybe, that other immune system that has to deal with asthma has been accepted

PrecisionFx:
Outgrow generally, no need to avoid what trigger it

Asthma is not am illness, it's just a problem with immumo response.

I outgrew mine, but still avoid staying too long in the supermarket chill sections, mowing the lawns, exposure to dust etcetera

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkWNS2kedu8

thesicilian:
Most people outgrow Asthma after childhood

and/or if you avoid all what triggers it

KorrectGospelTV:
MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK

By: Dr. D.K. Olukoya

Many years ago, I used to interpret the saying Marriage is not for small boys to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.

I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?

Beaming, she retorted; My son, The Expectations you bring into marriage will either Spell its Doom or Success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable.

So, I married without High Expectations from my husband but simply to make him Happy always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my husband and boil hot water for him to bath. I iron his clothes he would take to work, kiss him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in return? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.

YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG !!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your husband or wife always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn't rattle.

She continued, my son, *Never Carry "How Rich or Poor your Family is" into Marriage.* After all, you knew very well the status of your family and decided to marry that man or woman.

Love only Compels/Leads would-be couples into Marriage but it Doesn't Sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.

Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business partner, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. *So Minimise your Expectations in Marriage.

To cut the long story short, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a couple should resist at all cost in marriage:

1) Never say you have made your wife or husband somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.*

2) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial,* *economic,*
*physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the couple's life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.*

3) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in giving you a child, have every reason to live a happy marital life.*

4) Sex is a major morale booster after a hard day's stressful life. Try to be sexual beings and not "Angels" in that marriage.*

5) Resort to God often and less to men to solve your marital disputes.*

6) Let the women " Make up" their characters much more than they make up their body.

Indeed, marriage is not for small boys because small boys struggle to forgive, demand everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.

Make every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us !!!


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Pastor Oyakhilome will tell you it was hard work. Pastor Benny Hinn learned the hard way, it is. Pastor Joshua Iginla another one, bit the marriage dust. Pastor Chris Okotie bit the marriage dust twice. Bishop David Benenoch, after 20 years of wedlock announced to his congregation about filing to divorce his wife, but later had a change of mind. Pastor Goodness Enemchukwu of Jesus World Church in Lagos filed for divorce from his wife of 26 years

Indeed, marriage is not for small boys because small boys struggle. Never send a small bwoy, to do a man's work, its true marriage is hard work, with a lot of getting to know, involved in it, that goes deeper and beyond just sheer sexual intimacy.

alBHAGDADI:
Pls, quote me if you know the name of that group of horrible women who won't accept this message but find it annoying.

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solite3:
you obviously saying you are not under God's law.
I didn't even mention the law of moses.
So you can bear false witness.
You can even commit adultery, serve other gods and make graven images and bow down to them. Right?

Although I m not sure I called you a satanist but you showing the sign of one by opposing the truth.
The same way paul was accused by ignorant people like you of promoting sin.

Romans 3:8
And not rather, (as we be slanderously reported, and as some affirm that we say,) Let us do evil, that good may come? whose damnation is just.

I am sure you havent solite3. You might have called others satanist but you certainly havent anywhere or at anytime called, yet, OkCornel a satanist

alBHAGDADI:
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@bold Okcornel, everyone is beginning to see who you truly are.

alBHAGDADI, and this his Patrick Viera creepy smile meme is getting overused and also now looks getting stale

OLAADEGBU:
I can't stand wolves in sheep's skin, especially when they are unrepentant predators. They are the ones giving Christians a bad name.

Hmm, have you incontrovertible evidence that he is a predator and/or that he is unrepentant?. Has his wife, on the record, stood by or against him on what I see to be allegations, erhn? I thought he sees your GO as his spiritual father, hmm. Softly, softly, ooo. Price to pay for shaking the table, erhn.

^^^^
Very good. Awesome post OP.