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Christianity EtcRe: Former Nation Of Islam Follower Turns To Christ by MyJoe: 2:07pm On Feb 12, 2010
muhsin:
Qur'an clearly mentions that we are all created the same (am sorry, can't recall the verse verbatim now). And hatred of the Jews arises in response to their pathological animus of Muslims irrespective of your race. That is so apparent that I didn't even imagine one like you to bring that as an example. Cheers
This is nonsense.

To be sure, I consider many actions of the Israeli government to be repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience. But[b] how can the actions of a government justify hatred for an entire race?[/b] The argument often used in support of this is that the Israeli people support their government. The vacuity of this argument is clear even before you start to analyse it. The ruling party in Israel was not necessarily elected by the majority. There are peace activists in Israel who campaign daily against Israel's settlement activities and other atrocities in Gaza and the West Bank as well as their land grab in East Jerusalem. There are political parties in Israel whose policies favour Palestinian demands. And "Jew" does not equal "Israeli".

Besides, I think speaking of Jews' animus against Muslims either shows poor comprehension of the Middle East or is a deliberate act of mendacity. I am not aware that Jews hate Moslems in Nigeria. There are issues of land in the Middle East, not necessarily religion. Israel's actions have affected Palestinian Christians and non-believers as much as Moslems. This last festivity season the Iranian FA emailed out New Year wishes to all its counterparts worldwide and someone "mistakenly" included the Israeli FA! The Israelis responded calmly, wishing the Iranians the same. But hell broke loose in the Iranian FA and people were fired. Whose is pathologically hating? What has football got to do with it? What we have is Moslem hatred for Jews not Jewish "pathological animus of Muslims irrespective of your race".

If there is an Iranian chatting on Nairaland and an Israeli logs on, I am sure the Iranian would log out immediately. There can be no justification for this sort of hatred of an entire race. Is it okay for me to hate Sudanese Arab Muslims because of the atrocities of the Sudanese government against my fellow blacks first in Southern Sudan and then in Darfur? When Muslims use "oppression" as justification for terrorism, they forget that black people have been the most put upon in recent history. Does that make it alright for us to hate whites and Arabs or seek to plant bombs in shopping malls?
Christianity EtcRe: Is This How We Plan To Root Out Religious Fundamentalism? Which Is Worse? by MyJoe: 1:19pm On Feb 12, 2010
First off, I am cautious about pictures of this nature because it is not all of them that are genuine. I realised that after I saw pictures I did not need expert knowledge to know were orchestrated. They were quite good and even my friend who worked for an undercover security agency did not think they were doctored, but when I pointed out three things to him in them, he concurred immediately.

However, these things do happen frequently in Nigeria and I have a personal experience of it. I still dream of Shola sometimes since that night in January 4 2002.

ogajim:
What else can one expect from an untrained, uncultured barbaric force? In real societies, this will spark an investigation and these criminals in uniform will be brought to book but Nigeria, come on now!
This is the problem we have. There will be no investigation of this and soon everyone will forget it. But let me add that "uncultured barbarism" is not the exclusive property of our security agencies. Barbarism in our police force can only be a reflection, perhaps, a multiplication or amplification, of that in the general societies. Some of those decrying these pictures here may have participated in or watched with smiles on their faces as mobs set alight some hapless soul suspected of stealing used shoes in Yaba or Ketu. When Yusuf, the Boko Haram leader, was extrajudicially killed some people cheered on this forum. It appears that we, the Nigerian society, are losing our sense of humanity. Once we allow the police to get away with killing suspected robbers, no matter how notorious the individual, that institutionalises a system that elevates jungle justice to state machinery. And there is no knowing that it can't get round to us.

So I can reword the poem of Pastor Martin Niemöller, the anti-Nazi activist, thus:
First they killed Boko Haram leaders, Davidylan cheered.
Then they killed suspected rioters in Maiduguri, Davidylan cheered.
Then they killed Davidylan, . . .
Christianity EtcRe: What Do Jehovah's Witnesses Have Against Catholics by MyJoe: 12:43pm On Feb 12, 2010
stillgrds:
Dear All,
We all, as individuals have a responsibility to read the bible and find what the bible really teaches. The bible clearly states in 2 Timothy 3:16 and 17 -

16  All Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness, 17  that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for every good work.

The above tells us that there is nothing that cannot be set straight with the bible and that the bible contains all that will help us do the good works that God wants us to do. Anything not justified by the bible is wrong.
Do you really think the Bible contains EVERYTHING? Anyway, is preaching from house to house justified by the Bible?

stillgrds:
The reasoning of Pastors, Fathers, Popes etc that contradicts bible teachings are wrong too.
Can you cite examples, please?

stillgrds: Stick to the bible. Thats what the apostles did in the issue of circumcision back then in Jerusalem.
What surprises me mostly is that many self acclaimed Christians cannot defend their beliefs from the bible.
What beliefs, for example?

stillgrds: Worse are those who believe that the bible is open to just any interpretation.
If it is not, whose interpretation do we trust and how do we know this?

stillgrds: They do not care if one belief of their contradict another belief of theirs. By implication, they make it seem that the bible is a cause for confusion in itself. Look for the harmony in the bible from Genesis to Revelation and you can fits beliefs together - right to right and wrong to wrong.

Also, have you ever read Romans  10: 2 and 3

2  For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God; but not according to accurate knowledge; 3  for, because of not knowing the righteousness of God but seeking to establish their own, they did not subject themselves to the righteousness of God.


There are certainly those who want to serve God and are doing so now. But the way and manner they are serving God is not acceptable by God because it does not conform with the righteousness of God as set out in the bible. It certainly will not lead to their salvation.

Reading through this topic, I see that some persons have said things that are not true of JWs. There is no harm if you accept them in sometimes and ask them "What do JWs Belief about so and so?" Get their beliefs from them and not from non-JWs.

Salvation is individual and so I encourage all to Read Gods Word the Bible Daily. You are likely to see things that will prompt you to ask questions and refine what bible truth really is. God will not desire every sort of persons to come to an accurate knowledge of Him and be saved and then author a bible that cannot be understood by the common man. Every one can read the bible if they really want to seek and know what the bible really teaches.

If you care? click on the link
http://www.watchtower.org/e/bh/article_00.htm 
http://www.watchtower.org/e/jt/article_01.htm
I think you are going to be saddled with the task of convincing folks of (1) the absolute trueness of the Bible (2) The interpretation given it by the website you provided. These are the basics.
Christianity EtcRe: 70 Virgins In Paradise by MyJoe: 6:55pm On Feb 10, 2010
Haksalam:
Please take note that Islam is against any form of suicide act. It clearly states it that if you kill a man unjustly, it is as if you have killed the whole mankind and if you save a soul, it is as if you have saved the whole of mankind, so saying Muslim Terrorists is an oxymoron. it is true that 70 virgins await a muslim in heaven. By the way, what is wrong with having 70 virgins in heavens, afterall, heaven is for enjoyment.
grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: How Long Will Jonathan Act? by MyJoe: 6:37pm On Feb 10, 2010
^^^ Yes, but power blocs happen to place a premium on it and the agreements said to have been reached in 1999 on it. We just have to get used to that fact which makes it qualify for analysis.
PoliticsRe: How Long Will Jonathan Act? by MyJoe: 6:27pm On Feb 10, 2010
I really like the brilliant analysis about Bukola and the game plan - had not thought of all that yet.

If Yar Adua dies it is possible that they hide the body as part of the game, but that is quite unlikely because (1) they are Moslems (2) it would extremely difficult - you just don't succeed with that sort of thing, even in Nigeria!

If Yar Adua dies, Jonathan becomes substantive President, but as long as he remains a vegetable, the "acting" situation will subsist - till 2011, which is just around the corner. I do not think Jonathan's powers will be limited by his acting capacity. Remember Ehud Olmert when he took over after Sharon became vegetative? Of course, Nigeria is different, but once some is pronounced C-in-C, you usually can't stop him. Only Ernest Shonekan in my memory managed to achieve the dubious distinction of being in office without being in power, but the reasons for that are quite obvious. Usually, there are no limited presidents, unless the occupant of the office decides to limit himself. There have been talks of "caging" going on all these weeks by the Northern power brokers to ensure that when JJ takes over he is not powerful, but I doubt that that sort of plan, if there was any, succeeds. On Jonathan's ability to take over the machineries of power, which is another way of saying the PDP power base, that is going to depend on his personal political astuteness.

As for all that rotation business, only time will tell.
EducationThe National Open University Of Nigeria ( N O U N) by MyJoe(op): 1:41pm On Feb 10, 2010
Anyone knows anything about this institution? Is their system friendly? Is the certificate considered at par with those of regular schools?
Christianity EtcRe: If One Kill Himself To Avoid Sin by MyJoe: 1:17pm On Feb 10, 2010
mukina2:
commiting suicide is already a sin, so i dont know wat sin a person wants to avoid
I saw an interview with the parents of a bipolar guy with murderous instincts who killed himself to avoid killing others. Suicide is a sin, yes, but I don't see how you can circumscribe this one as many of you religionists tend to do.
Christianity EtcRe: What Do Jehovah's Witnesses Have Against Catholics by MyJoe: 12:21pm On Feb 10, 2010
chukwudi44:
we can trace the history of the catholic church to the last living apostle.All the early christians were Roman catholics.If the catholic church was not the church left behind by the apostles,whatb happened to the church left by the apostles?
at what year did the catholic church take over?
But you cannot deny that at some point, particularly after the Church took over the Roman state and the Roman state took over the Church, egregious corruption set in. What the restorationists, from Martin Luther to Charles Taze Russel, from John Calvin to Joseph Smith, tell us is that they saw the need to restore Christianity to its original form, that is, as practised by the early disciples of Jesus of Nazareth. What say you to this?
PoliticsRe: Militants Destroy Shell Facility In Rivers by MyJoe: 10:18am On Feb 10, 2010
Jakumo:
The gathering storm of war in the Niger Delta could be defused literally with the stroke of a pen, in the form of the authorizing signatures required to FORMALLY install[b] Vice President Jonathan Goodluck[/b] as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, effective RIGHT AWAY.
It's Goodluck Jonathan.
Foreign AffairsRe: Complaint Against Federal Chancellor Merkel by MyJoe: 5:15pm On Feb 09, 2010
When I heard this on radio, I applauded Merkel's courage. There is nothing morally reprehensible in her actions. It is her duty to smoke tax evaders out of their holes wherever they may be hiding, especially in these lean times. Legally? I am not learned at German law, but if they were obtained by security agencies, that should not be stealing in most climes. Security and intelligence agencies go to great lengths to get criminals. How else do you get evidence for criminal procedure - by asking the criminals to email them to you? I think the Swiss president who is harping on this point should hide her face in shame. In Nigerian law illegally obtained evidence is admissible in criminal proceedings in the courts. As for those overzealous prosecutors, I have nothing to say.
Foreign AffairsRe: Jacob Zuma 'fathers 20th Child With Friend's Daughter' by MyJoe: 5:08pm On Feb 09, 2010
^^^ grin grin grin
LiteratureRe: Brighter Grammar by MyJoe: 4:35pm On Feb 09, 2010
dominique:
technically all three are correct depending on the context they are used.

1.St James Park
suggests that the park was named after St. James, no need for inclusion for an apostrophe

2.St James' Park
the apostrophe after the s suggest that the park belongs to St. James

3.St Jame's Park
normally this should be wrong, but assuming the park belongs to a certain St Jame. its 100% correct.
This is correct.


violent:
My question:

I found him lying on his bed.

I found him lying in his bed
dominique:
use of prepositions can be very tricky. option 2 is correct IMO.
Yeah, I found him lying on his bed would obviously be the correct one. But the other can also be correct in certain circumstances. For example, if I want to convey the impression that I am actually inside the bed (presupposes a covered bed). In bed may also be preferred if there are actions taking place therein.
LiteratureRe: Brighter Grammar by MyJoe: 3:32pm On Feb 09, 2010
Jairzinho:
Which is the right option:

1.St James Park

2.St James' Park

3.St Jame's Park
Grammatically speaking, those who say option 2 are absolutely right. But the niceties of grammar are not sacrosanct in certain circumstances, such as naming. In deed, that apostrophe is often dispensed with in naming, thus a park is more likely to be named St James Park rather than St James' Park, just like Ramat Park in Benin City.
Christianity EtcRe: Tudor Is Female ? by MyJoe: 6:07pm On Feb 08, 2010
If Tudor is female I am a Saudi Catholic single female taxi driver. wink
Christianity EtcRe: Reincarnation - Deepsight, Let's Talk Here by MyJoe: 6:01pm On Feb 08, 2010
Viaro: There are other ways that such recollections without prior cognisance are expressed. Some have remarked that it may be the manifestation of some 'familiar spirit(s)', which is not impossible. However, there's another example that fits the above description in your comments, viz: the idiot savant.
Just seen this. The term "idiot savant" is now considered derogatory. Experts now use  the term "autistic savant". Just thought I should let your readers know this.
Christianity EtcRe: Muhammad Is Mentioned By The Exact Name In The Gospel Of Barnabas by MyJoe: 5:55pm On Feb 08, 2010
Mohammed is indeed mentioned by name in the Gospel of Barnabas. Here is a portion from Chapter 97.
"Then said the priest: "How shall the Messiah be called, and what sign shall reveal his coming?" Jesus answered: "The name of the Messiah is admirable, for God himself gave him the name when he had created his soul, and placed it in a celestial splendour. God said: "Wait Muhammad; for your sake I will to create paradise, the world, and a great multitude of creatures, whereof I make you a present, insomuch that whoever shall bless you shall be blessed, and whoever shall curse you shall be accursed. When I shall send you into the world I shall send you as my Messenger of salvation, and your word shall be true, insomuch that heaven and earth shall fail, but your faith shall never fail." Muhammad is his blessed name." Then the crowd lifted up their voices, saying: "O God send us your Messenger: O Muhammad, come quickly for the salvation of the world!"

But from its garbled comprehension of Islam to its dating, the gospel of Barnabas is so laughable that if it were a play it would be classified as a farce. I have not the strength to to into it now so I will just reproduce my post from another thread:
I looked up that gospel some time in the past. It is similar to another one called The Gospel according to Islam. In the gospel of Barnabas Mohammed is mentioned by name as the admirable prophet to come after Christ with a message from God. It affirms the major Islamic ideas of Jesus as a servant of God rather than a son. There are many reasons to dismiss this gospel as a "fake" (where "fake" means a gospel that was not written at about the same time as the canonical ones, or one that was written by someone with a clear agenda.) For one thing, there is evidence suggesting that it was written after the 14th century, rather than the first century. One thing is the writing style. Another is its reference to nine heavens, with paradise as the 10th, an idea that was propounded by Dante only in the 14th century. The oldest copies of the gospel are written in Spanish and Italian, not Latin, Greek, Aramaic or Hebrew. Some moslems have latched on to this gospel to show that Jesus preached about Mohammed. Many scholars, including some Moslem ones, are of the view that the gospel should not be taken seriously.
Foreign AffairsRe: Jacob Zuma 'fathers 20th Child With Friend's Daughter' by MyJoe: 7:36pm On Feb 03, 2010
RichyBlacK:
I really don't know what to say/type.
I can't believe it! Zuma!!

oyb:
there may be something to the guys claims about showers after all  cheesy cheesy
grin grin
I shouldn't be surprised.
Christianity EtcRe: The Expressway Churches by MyJoe: 7:27pm On Feb 03, 2010
cultey:
Mr. bawo, if you share ancestry with monkey, that is your business, please, don't generalize that your view at all. We don't want your monkey blood line , thank you. Leave our 2,000 year old book for us. Yes, leave it, we like it! You, carry your monkey spirit and go. We don't want or is it by force?
grin
Christianity EtcRe: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by MyJoe: 6:18pm On Feb 03, 2010
^^^ Ok. I would take back the word, "sufferer". I didn't even note I had used it.

Being born with incomplete, surplus or malformed body parts or organs, such as fingers, is not normal and is almost certainly the result of a disorder that took place in the womb. But, of course, I would not go around shouting "disorder", "disorder", around the individual. But if I was the individual I would recognise I have a disorder and try to find a solution, if possible.

I agree that the procreation argument used by some anti-gay campaigners is a non-starter. I only cited it to show the generally recognised order of nature. I am against all stigmatisation. A lot of people have people with disorders in their families and they learn to accept such people.
LiteratureRe: Uncliched; A Short Story (please Critique)! by MyJoe: 5:46pm On Feb 03, 2010
ravenzord:
Hey, I apologize for my fellow Lit board members, we just find it easier to read than to post replies. I like your story, a lot. . . I mean, it was gon' be a pretty normal boy meets girl story till the last part where it got twisted, got me laughing out loud. There are some problems with it however, like sum grammatical errors; himself instead of herself, conspirationally instead of conspiratorially,stuff lyk that. There's a problem with your punctuation also, I dunno how 2 explain that, maybe U should try spacing the story a bit more, it would make it a better read. All in all, it's a good story ,iLike.
This is correct. If I were poster, I would pay a lot of attention to PUNCTUATION. For example,

Then he was in front of her, his elegant fingers wrapped around the glass of wine like the tendrils of ugu leaves draping over the sticks. She swallowed, hard and hoped he hadn’t heard or at least seen her exposed neck in her off shouldered dress bob up and down with the movement.

should be:

Then he was in front of her, his elegant fingers wrapped around the glass of wine like the tendrils of ugu leaves draping over the sticks. She swallowed hard and hoped he hadn’t heard or at least seen her exposed neck in her off shouldered dress bob up and down with the movement.

Note the italicisation and the removal of a comma. Personally, I would break off "at least" with a comma, but that is a matter of preference.

The use of symbolisms and figurative expressions is good in literature, but I believe something good can be too much. And I have observed this in much of modern Nigerian writing. His hair is the strands of an eaten mango, his eyes are clear like the sea, his mouth is . . . .  And the read goes, "well, what's his waist like?"

Gossipgurl:
@ravenzord- your criticism is so ridiculous, i have to cry. Where in tarnation did you learn the word 'conspirationally?'. I've heard of kinky, but you give a new definition to the word 'pathetic'. Whoever told you you have a career as a critique should be smacked. He or she lied to you. Go feed a pig or something. But criticism? Forget it.
This is very funny. I think gossip girl will make a good writer. Her use of words is creative. wink
LiteratureRe: If U Had A Chance 2 Dine Wit A World Class Author, Who Wud Dat B? by MyJoe: 5:13pm On Feb 03, 2010
The Lady of Hearts, Myne Whitman wink
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Big Words by MyJoe: 5:01pm On Feb 03, 2010
amazyn:
HMMM. Nairaland Online Nursery and Primary School of Adult Education!
Lol. Incorporate it. Funny thread.
PoliticsRe: I Q of Famous People by MyJoe(op): 3:08pm On Feb 03, 2010
kkkossy:
Is like u guys dnt knw who albert einstein is. Hw cn a 9ja mathematician hv more IQ than einstein,go check da records,
ALBERT EINSTEIN IS A bleeping GENIUS!!!
huh
I can't make sense out of this one. Whoever informed you Nigerians have low IQ?

kkkossy:
@poster, Ar u kiddin me!! Albert einstein's IQ cnt be 160,dis is blantantly false.go nd do your research well,i blive dat of bobby fischer bt nt einstein!
It is understandable for people to go on and on about Einstein. Let's bear in mind, though, that average IQ score is 100, with a standard deviation of 70-130. A score of 130 and above is considered a genius IQ and makes the individual admissible to MENSA, the high IQ society. Based on the above, the 160 returned by Einstein is a very high genius score.

[quote author=onye_ngbu link=topic=388385.msg5414421#msg5414421 date=1264838967]Is da vinci more intelligent than einstien[/quote]In terms of achievement, comparing Einstein to Leonardo is an uninformed position. Einstein was a physicist and mathematician who made ground breaking discoveries. What about Leonardo? For those who don't know him, let me quote a portion of an encyclopaedia entry on him:

"Leonardo is regarded as the consummate Renaissance man not primarily for his scientific accomplishments but because of his extraordinary range of achievements. [b]Leonardo was a painter, sculptor, engineer, architect, physicist, biologist, and philosopher—and he was outstanding in each of these fields. [/b]Science influenced all of Leonardo’s activities; he believed in observing nature and carrying out experiments. As a painter, Leonardo studied the laws of optics and the optical structure of the eye; he studied human anatomy with the thoroughness of a medical surgeon to understand how to paint the torso. Leonardo’s ability to solve physics problems in the fields of static (stationary) and dynamic (moving) mechanics fortified his civil and military engineering work.

Leonardo excelled at physics. He anticipated the principle of inertia, which would be demonstrated by Galileo nearly a century later. The inertia principle is the idea that an isolated body, not in contact with anything, will continue moving at a constant velocity forever. Understanding this concept required deep insight since it is not at all easy to imagine an abstract idea such as an “isolated body.” Leonardo knew that the speed of a falling body increases over time. He knew that perpetual motion was impossible as a source of power, and he invented a mathematical scheme for proving the law of the lever. Leonardo worked on the flow of water through pipes, designing an irrigation system and channels. He studied wave motion on water and extended this study to waves in the air and the laws of sound."


So in addition to science, Leonardo made vast achievements in painting, sculpture and architecture. He not only recorded groundbreaking achievements in many many fields, he anticipated future developments in medicine, aeronautics and engineering. He drew aircrafts, which were made only hundreds of years later. He was a universal genius!

Does IQ score determine achievements? No, of course. Because (1) No IQ test is perfect. (2) Some human beings make more effort and apply themselves better than others - Einstein may have had a better environment and applied himself far more than several other geniuses. But there may be a third reason why a lower score person can record more achievements than a high scorer:
[quote author=☻ajali☺ link=topic=388385.msg5415074#msg5415074 date=1264849251]He was definitely a genius, but this was not primarily due to his IQ, but his amazing level on
transcendental thinking.[/quote]Those who hold this view tell us that it is impossible to bring about great discoveries or inventions with the five senses we all possess. They believe that a SIXTH SENSE is required to achieve the extraordinary. How, for instance, would Michael Faraday, with his very limited education, know that there is electricity out there?

beejaei:
Whats up with my man, Obama?
All those on that list consented for their IQ to be made public or the relevant data could be assessed otherwise. Obama has not made his IQ or information that can help assess it public. Even his SAT score is not publicly known. There have been several speculations, much of it useless. But he came second in his class of elite students, that says a lot.
Christianity EtcRe: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by MyJoe: 1:22pm On Feb 03, 2010
bawomolo:
why do you see the need for homosexuality to have a cure? if homosexuals are fine with who they are, then let them be.
I think you misapprehend me. From my post above and an earlier post in this thread, I believe it is clear I do not take a pigheaded approach to this subject. Different homosexuals feel differently. If John thinks he has a problem, I would help him find it, if I can. If Okon thinks he is fine, I would accept him as he is.

I personally do not see it as a disorder. A deviation from the norm but hey,
Let's face it, Bawo: A man who came into the world without fingers has a disorder. So is a child who is born without the external ge.ni.talia, and so is a hermaphrodite, that is, a child who is is born with both male and female ge.ni.tals. These are different types of congenital disorders. The sufferers do not deserve scorn, but understanding and acceptance. It is quite obvious that nature intended men and women to complement and procreate. A man being attracted to another man is a deviation from the norm. Science has proven that that deviation can be caused by a disorder brought on during embryogenesis. While I share the view of liberals and philanthropists on the need to accept homosexuals an am intolerant of intolerant people, I do not think they can change what are known facts.
Jokes EtcRe: Likely Scenarios By Sam Milla: by MyJoe: 5:38pm On Jan 29, 2010
grin  grin  grin

Nollywood!
Christianity EtcRe: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by MyJoe: 12:18pm On Jan 29, 2010
JeSoul:
I don't personally think there will ever be conclusive evidence that homosexuality is caused by a gene. As complex as we are as human beings, what are the chances that different genes scattered all over are responsible for the behaviors we exhibit? If they "find" the gay gene why stop there? where's the gene for alcoholism? for rapists? for drug addicts etc?  Where do our personal choices come into play? has nature already decided everything for us? and we're just living out what we've already been pre-programmed to do?

  When I started the thread I was hoping people would attack the issue from a[b] spiritual perspective[/b], as it is obvious the war in regards to the biology will never end, or at least not anytime soon.
I did not mean to convey that genes are responsible for homosexuality. I am hardly qualified to make that assertion or any similar one. The point I was making was that we do not know that genes are not responsible – there is already so much militant misunderstanding of homosexuality about. What we do know is that homosexuality is mostly not something you pick up at all-boys school or decide to go into for recreation as many believe. It appears most, if not all, homosexuals grow up to find that their sexual orientation is inverted. There are several possibilities and the gene theory is one of them, though not a particular strong one.

I personally would pay closer attention to the theory that it is a congenital disorder which may, in some, be amenable to drugs, psychotherapy or hypnotism and not be in others. People exhibit signs of homosexuality early in life. To drive home this point, I think we need to consider the case of transvestism. This problem occurs with or without of the sexual orientation. There was a popular story of the kid in, UK, I think, who had this problem – the boy thought he was a girl. (I heard this on British radio over a year ago, so I hope I recall it right.) Growing up he slipped into girls clothes, played with girls and behaved like them. Unfortunately the law in his country did not allow him to have what is called “gender reassignment surgery” until he turned 18 to CORRECT his system. So he was flown to the US where he was given female focal places and he now lives a NORMAL life. I believe it is easily deducible that hermaphroditism is a physical manifestation of a similar disorder.

The congenital nature of homosexuality is backed up by scientific studies which found that the female-type sexual behavior can form in genetic males and the male-type sexual behavior can form in genetic females as a result of hormonal misbalance during a certain stage of embryogenesis. This problem with all the scientific studies that have been conducted on this subject, though, is that they have found no single factor, such as the one above, explains all cases of homosexuality.

So a 1976 study throws more light. Can homosexuality be acquired? That has not been ruled out.

Permit me to quote Dr Antonov:

Basing on examination of homosexual men in 1976, we pointed out different origins of the active and the passive forms of the disease.

The observations of homosexual patients that we conducted during the next several years allowed us to classify homosexual people not into two, but into three groups — by the mechanism of the origin of the disease:

1) Men with the passive and women with the active form of congenital homosexuality. Such men and women felt themselves respectively girls and boys since their childhood; they preferred to play games and wear clothes typical of the opposite intimacy. Many men had congenital feminine features, while women — congenital masculine features. In sexual relationships, the men felt themselves as women, while the women — as men. A high percentage of them have some kind of hereditary anomalies and report pregnancy pathologies or premature birth.

2) Men with the passive and women with the active form of acquired homosexuality. These patients do not have congenital homosexual mentality and perverted feminine or masculine features. Their attraction to the same intimacy forms on the basis of conditioned reflex during the stage of adolescent intersexuality.

3) Men with the active and women with the passive form of acquired homosexuality. Such men look masculine and possess male-type sexuality. Correspondingly, the women possess feminine features and female type of sexual behavior. Their pathological attraction to the opposite intimacy forms also on the basis of conditioned reflex, usually at the juvenile age. Later on their homosexual attraction either a) transforms into regular but then reverts to homosexual as a result of mental traumas caused by heterosexual contacts or impossibility of heterosexual contacts due to various reasons, or b) moves on to their adult life either totally displacing the regular-type sexual attraction or coexisting with it. A significant fraction of patients of this group report hereditary abnormalities, various serious somatic diseases in their childhood as well as pregnancy pathologies and premature birth. Such anamnesis indicates an influence of some injuring factor, which could impair the brain structures that regulate the congenital component of one’s sexual orientation.

It follows from the above stated data that homosexuality represents a disease of polymorphic origin, which accounts for the difficulties that exist in its treatment. This is why there can be no universal method applicable to all those who want to be cured of homosexuality; the specific treatment has to be chosen depending on the etiologic group that the patient belongs to. Apart from psychotherapeutic measures various medications can also be used.
Spiritual perspectives on homosexuality? I do have some materials on that, but they are not 100% Christian-oriented. But I think homosexuality is a psychosomatic issue and not a spiritual one.

Yes, it can be that a person is born gay.
RomanceRe: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by MyJoe: 6:54pm On Jan 27, 2010
spikedcylinder:
My point exactly.
If he's decent and comfortable, girls won't even give him the time to stalk? Who you be?
'Threatening notes, suave moves, I'd die if I'm not with you'. . . . . .for where?!?!?! Naija guys don waka! cheesy
Everyone making this point is unmindful of the fact this fellow might have a mental problem, which, according to the director of Yaba Psychiatric Hospital, is rising at alarming proportions in Nigeria. sad This last December I saw a lady close to me stalked. We tricked the guy into coming around and when confronted (with unfriendly stares only) he begged for forgiveness. After that day he then started to calling SEVERAL TIMES A DAY . . . to do what? To apologise to her and explain that he was not a bad person! It took a few more clever moves to wean him of the little addiction.

By the way, I am making on observation on that particular fact, not asserting that OP is true or not.
RomanceRe: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by MyJoe: 6:44pm On Jan 27, 2010
bawomolo:
i doubt u would find it so funny if the story was true. stalking isn't funny.
Milla's scenario certainly is funny. Had me laughing, too!
Foreign AffairsRe: Why Is The Us Military Occupying Four Airports In Haiti? by MyJoe: 5:57pm On Jan 27, 2010
Never knew the FA section was this . . . er . . . interesting. Got to come here more often!
Christianity EtcRe: The Haiti Earthquake: An Intimate Account Of Providence In The Midst Of Chaos by MyJoe: 5:40pm On Jan 27, 2010
cheesy
JeSoul:
Anyways, Myjoe, I will always make exceptions for you  kiss thank you for your input.   Which is why I stated over and over this topic is not for non-christians as they will NOT understand what I mean. Christians will get this story without my having to explain what I meant.
Ok. I understand.

JeSoul:
I do not owe any explanation nor seek to indulge any bored atheists who cannot follow simple instructions to move on from christian topics.
LOL

JeSoul:
Myjoe my dude! it wasn't even so much trying to exclude non-christians, I was trying to prevent replies like the first couple ones. I value your (and other cool headed non christians in here) input on any topic. Belligerent atheist fanatics are the ones I do not wish to entertain.
I just got a foot taller!
PoliticsRe: I Q of Famous People by MyJoe(op): 3:35pm On Jan 27, 2010
VALIDATOR:
@poster,
Michael Faraday seems to be missing on your list.
Yes, but poster does not have a list. There is a link to the website in the post.

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