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I am sorry to say most of the people getting married now don't know what it is to stay married. So far u have agreed to come together, you have lost every sense of your individual life and decisions. Any thing you want to do and you know that it will impact negative on your spouse he or she is supposed to be in the know.

Marriage issues aren't solved by knowing the immediate cause, you have to know the root cause. For those blaming the man. The root cause is the woman bringing the sister without informing him. In which isn't supposed to be like that. The man only reacted the way he reacted because he felt his position was undermined.

Though he is wrong to have told his cousin to tell him whatsoever happens in the house. This isn't sustained cos he is the man n not the woman.

The woman should have informed the hubby that the sister is coming to stay. I hate couples who put his or her spouse in the middle.

Married couples please learn how to respect each other. Inform your spouse wen any of your family is coming to stay. And if they came n exceeded the number of days already told. Have the courtesy to go back and inform your spouse that their stay have been extended. Even if you are the man bringing the money. The woman has a role to play too. As your money can't stand up n cook for your siblings. Or even the woman providing more. You need to Accord respect to the man by carrying him along.

If couples learn to respect each other's feelings. The world would be a better place.

mitchyy:
Already explained in my initial post. They were placed flat on the floor when the pic was taken. They are both neatly used big sized fridge with freezer compartment and 65k each.

Okay thank you.

mitchyy:
Selling off these two neatly used AEG Santo big sized fridge with freezer compartment. Working perfectly.
Price - N65,000
Location: Lagos
NB: They were placed flat on the floor to snap them hence the different view.
Whatsapp/Call: 07039796890

I don't understand the pics. Is one a deep freezer and one a standing fridge with freezer compartment? And both goes for 65k? Reply cos am interested.

Destined2win:
Which partners will be doing all these?
That's way too much

Haaa u never jam. Wait until I add a partner that threatens and verbally abuse.

A partner that doesn't respect. A partner that is proud and had ego issues. Finds it difficult to say sorry. A partner that doesn't share details with another.

RadicallyBlunt:
Refusal to admit ur fault even when you know you're wrong.

Believe me so many idiots still go into so-called "peaceful marriage" with the instinct of always winning quarrels and elongating simple arguments to d point of neglecting d children instead of having a mindset of "even if I have to apologize or just keep quiet for peace to reign, I will"

They call it self esteem..funny. Pride is pride. And humility doesn't mean weakness. As a matter of fact, a humble person is stronger.

God bless you. If this is coming from a man chop knuckle.

konkonbilo:
No.I was the lucky buyer

E ya

cameloto:
Haier Thermcool fridge freezer for sale

Is it still available?

softwerk:
‎My moral compass has been swinging on the extreme since I learnt that recently CR7 had twin babies from a surrogate mother.

For those who do not know, a surrogate mother is a woman that volunteers to be experimentally used in the conception of a baby by accepting the sperm of a man (in this case CR7) and the ovum or egg of a woman (in this case CR7's girlfriend).

The big question now on my mind now remains: Is giving birth to a baby through a surrogate mother an abomination, an certified act of adultery of a sinful act of fornication?!

Nairalanders please react!‎

This is coming from a woman. I feel for this country. Why won't you do simple research before coming to ask questions. For God sake u even mention fornication adultery in surrogacy. Abeg educate me where is that coming from. Please Google why people go through surrogacy. There is nothing wrong with surrogacy and please stop distracting the women folk.

ogaLevels:
A brand new blender and egg boiler for sale, interested buyers only should inbox me, thanks.

How much is the blender?

cameloto:
Haier Thermcool fridge freezer for sale

How much?

beautybrains1:
Best comment ever

Thanks sis

I am happy to see that we have some reasonable men here who doesn't approve of what AY is doing. There are so many things couple should know. Wen I was in my early 20s I listen to Pastor Ogbuife or can't really remember his name again in Enugu that said we shouldn't keep close opposite sex that our spouse doesn't approve of.

Call it insecurities or whatever you guys like. You can't truly accept someone that you have seen that that person is competing space with you. Before u know anything she knows. Those chats were inappropriate though innocent but it is too explicit for opposite sex.

Don't victimize AY wife she might have used every means she knows to talk to her hubby but you know an average Nigerian man not all though that has ego to feed. Who tells you that you want to cut him off with all his friends or exes but can't even stand you saying hi to a male neighbour without screening the "hi".

Please everyone should learn to respect other people's feelings. Relationships should be respected. Do unto me what you want me to do unto you. Most men that chat and flirt on social media and calling exes sweetie honey or all sorts are the one snooping on their partners phone all the time.

Ifa hear any man calling AY wife insecure should come and tell me if AY wife was the one caught chatting like that with an opposite sex if AY would have accepted.

Please let's learn to take our spouses feelings into consideration. Live let's live.

TayeJiboluwa:
The first dream means that you have been released from whatever is tying you down in your family.
The dream about missing an international flight means delay. It also shows that you have something to do abroad. Pray and break the yoke of delay in your life.
The dream of seeing government officials as high as governor, vp and president means you're destined to be great and mighty.
Picking fruits, counting money, and receiving wads of cash means blessing and favor.
leaking roof means an attack as leaking roof is a bad thing, running away from masquerades and rain beating your machines also means an attack. pray that every attack that has been carried out against you should be broken.

Thank you sir. I am praying seriously for every delay in my life to come to end. A prophet has told me that too.

Sir, few days ago before my mum's burial. I dreamt of how I came to move my load in a big vehicle out of my father's house. People were there in the bus conveying my luggage.

Next scene I saw myself running out to the main road looking so hysterical was looking for taxi to take me to airport cos I had an international flight to catch. But most cabs I saw was filled n I ran to my most senior sibling and he couldn't help me at all. I saw a woman that wanted to help n I pleaded with her to bring her cab n I was just begging her and I looked at the time it was just 10mins to the flight taking off. I cried that international flight is 1hr or more that with 10mins left that I won't make it. I cried n woke up.

Sir another thing is I see lots of government official in my dream. I used to see Goodluck then. Once I have seem my state governor. Hubby n I tried giving him an advise but he didn't listen. Have seen VP Osinbajo too.

I also used to pick lots of fruits like mango. Native pear. Is it bad for people to give wads of cash in dream? Sometimes I count money in dreams.

What of leaking roof. Have dreamt of it few times in the last one year.

The last one that scared me few months ago is that I dreamt of me running away from masquerade. I heard they were coming out so I ran n hid. Before I came back rain has fallen on my new machines I kept in a shop. In real life I make clothes from the house. Don't have a shop yet.

Please help

TayeJiboluwa:
just pray for direction, let God reveal to you who your life partner will be.

What does it mean to pray so hard in the dream. I normally pray do hard in my dream. Yesterday I prayed n sprayed anointing oil on one evil girl that disturb. Till she ran away. What is the meaning?

4tunebest:
Refrigerator and freezer compartment. Wedding gift since September 2014, never used since then; I dont see myself using it in the nearest future, hence the decision to sell off. I put it on once in a while to confirm that it's still functional. Since it is more like a give-away, anyone interested should offer me a price of 50% off the current market price. You can check the current market price of similarly sized products online.

Pick up @ Mowe, Ogun State. You may reach me on : 07062160601.

This brand isn't popular u might help us put price

oscillation55:
Sir I sell cheaper than your brother & their Gionee shop. Bring only 94k to get one.
Regards

Where is your shop?

The man fail to realise that he is the carrier of the X chromosome. So it is what he produces that the women get. I think God has seen the potentials in women that is why he gave us only X chromosome so that the chances of producing more women in the world is more than the men.

By the way that man should go and do thanksgiving. Female children take care of their parents more than the male. Him go dey drink plenty ogogoro from son inlaws. Abeg make him come dash me the twin girls. I dey find girl children o.

I am so happy for her

ItsPeeJayy:
TTT must stay he is the only one that even understand the fundamentals of the game,what matters most surviving it's not a morality show abeg,so he denied his wife and so what assuming he admitted to being married it's the same Moronic Nigerians that will be shouting up and down what is a married man doing in the show....the show is a representation of life do whatever it takes to survive,People will lie to u so learn to tell better lies,people will betray u so betray them first....the only thing TTT has done is play game and he is multi talented......Success and Money ain't for the moralist..Its for those who are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve their objectives... #Bewise nice people finish last.

I quite agree with you 100% but you know we are in Africa where we are being judged by morals culture values. A typical African person is still family oriented. That is why you have cousins siblings and Co living with their relatives and having a sense of entitlement. But abroad as soon as you come to someone's house. You must have informed them when you are leaving.

bukatyne:
I see

So these husbands are only useful fonancially? What if the wife can take care of herself financially? What if the husband is not financially well off?

What happens?

A man that isnt financially stable no supposed to dey sex chat na. Your wife can't be taking care of u and u are misbehaving. Sha that is on a lighter side. Marriage is supposed to be based on mutual respect. But the men have turn themselves to demigod. A woman can't divorce over trivial issues as sex chatting or chatting n clearing. Just find a way as a woman to make yourself happy cos person no go fit come n go and kill herself on top of blokos. If u die na girlfriend go come cook for your burial.

bukatyne:
You have not answered me.

He is a financial husband

bukatyne:
What is the use of a husband?

Some husbands are busy sex chatting n keeping female friends upandan. If someone doesn't want to talk or bond with you. Na force u wan force am.

Key is to love yourself first. No one was born with a husband n no one will die with one.

Pro2makx:
Sex chatting is nothing. He might just feel like playing naughty. Who knows if the wife is the boring, always serious type. I could even guess she is, from the way she took this trivial matter so seriously.
It is wrong to assume he is cheating just cos of some chat. He might not mean it, might just be him playing naughty. There r days 8 just like to play naughty. Yet I have Neva cheated on my queen.
I have some female friends who I chat naughty with at times, most time self, they either be the on to directly or indirectly start it or request for it, and we have never and will never have sex. My babe has even seen one insanely naughty one before, thank God she knows her guy well, at first she was acting up, but then, she relaxed.

Just be sure she is chatting with other guys too.

Benignasweety:
Thanks alot for your concern atleast.

My dear you are welcome. Always remember you are not alone. My pastors wife will say leave a man for God. He shouldn't determine your happiness. Get busy and also try to be financial independent. Look good for yourself. Have friends you share your burden with. It helps a lot. You will realised that what u hold like pain or hurt is irrelevant. Need someone to talk to. PM me.

Benignasweety:
You nailed it, seriously am going through this trauma and my husband will always remind me that it is not a do or die affair. So depressed, he doesnt even go out with his wedding ring when am not around.

Madam wedding ring or no wedding won't stop a man from doing what he needs to do. Stop depressing yourself. Get busy and tell urself that he isn't having an affair he just want to have a little fun.

See eh I haven't really seen a committed man to his wife. Even the poor ones are not left out not to talk of a man that walks, have a car and he is presentable. He is nice to women. Calls them. You know these girls are vulnerable. A little friendship, they go out all there to think that the man loves them. So sis get busy and stop getting depressed.

NoToPile:
How do I contact you?

Send me a PM

babyfaceafrica:
lolz...it is joke that knows what's up..everybody GATS a secret...the wise ones manage it,the noise makers put it on social media

I am not a party to people putting things on social media. If it hurts so bad. Just walk away and talk to few people. Like Gloria Maduka says that Internet never forgets

RadicalP:
OK these chewing boys, arnt they psquare and 2face ddm agemate,

A story has 3 sides, the lady, the man, and the truth.

Y'all crusify the men too much,
What if she had a bad habit, or doesn't knw how to cook?
Or na wood for bed?
Read the news, these little things cause divorce in ordinary ppl homes, how much more a celebrity.

I understand you bro. It takes real effort to stay married. There are lots of temptation out there and if the men can't control themselves. The marriage will have frictions. He same way we crucify men is the same way we crucify women. Psquare and Tuface decided to stay n work on their marriage. Am not sure I have heard a case of wife battery from them. I don't think someone like Lola or Annie will keep quiet for spousal abuse.

Churchill didn't know Tonte in one say. He must have known her bad side and the good side before he decided to marry her. No one is a perfect bit let's learn to tolerate. S3x can be thought if the other party is willing to learn. Chef can be gotten to cook. These days money solves some issues. Though it isn't an excuse not to be able toret basic needs of a man.

NegeduGrace:
am not trying to justify the doings of the men right but u can't hear a story from one party n use it to judge or make conclusion.Ani Idibia knew tuface has kids outside but was still very happy to say yes to him,any woman that is not capable of keeping her marriage off the Internet can't even build a home.how many times do u see olu Jacob or joke silva coming on Internet to seek people's opinion concerning their home? if u check the industry lots of our actors re still married to their wives for a long time because they married those who love them n understand that they re from different background but came together to form a home which can't be built in a day..always let God lead when making a choice of a life partner n not material things,,not all rich people re happy afterall

Please don't use Olu Jacobs to compare with this chewing boys. I am not sure Olu Jacobs will descend so low to behave like this chewing boys.

This is 6×6 bed for sale. 40k and the mattress also the same price.
Location. Surulere.
Price negotiable