Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by na2016: 2:54pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
lieutenantprime: I Just Dey laugh reading this your story ooo.
Hahahaha. If na my papa you get mind talk to like that ehn? haaaa... Bro... Haaaa.... Walai just go dig yah grave.
Because of 300k monthly wey you dey get? If you come dey earn Millions you go say make hin lie down turn am to rug carpet dey waka untop am? You no try ooooo.
Of recent i buy popsi benz of 8MIL, as i dey give am the keys, na my long nails him dey look, E make sure i cut am before, hin collect the keys.
Come see questions, food dey house, na loan you collect, how yah wife, you don pay yah children school fees, how work dey go, how business, you supposed use the money buy land, or add to your business, you dey lean oo, you no dey chop, wetin you dey think.....
Still on stil na to keep quite oo, i no fit talk back no matter what my brother. I respect that man bro. I do. That man has been running my background needs since day one even at the expense of his own needs. God bless you. Don't mind that Ido!t calling you weak. |
Family › Re: I Stood Up To My Father by na2016: 2:52pm On Jun 16, 2023*. Modified: 6:04pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
DamianDd: My dad is a really good guy, I love him so much and he's gentle most times. Though he gets angry sometimes but he's reasonable about everything he does.
I came home 11:30 which is very late and I knew that and I even hated it too that I came home this late so I was trying to avoid him even when he asked to come to his room because I had a gut feeling that things won't gi right.
But I ended up going to get my charger that was with him, then for the first 5 minutes in he was making sense about why I came home late and I was agreeing to it that it's true
Then all of a sudden he starts saying "what will people think?" "Neighbors are watching" "they'll start saying god forbid, like father like son" "I nor fit let my pikin be like this boy" "which kind family be this, see when their son dey come house?" "People are watching, people are judging" and even more words and it started getting annoying to me, then he said they will say "see when this small pikin dey come house"
It was at that moment that I shut it down, I've never been that way to him but it was so infuriating, I told him I'm not a child I'm 18 which is legal age, I work for my money, I make 50k to 300k a month on my own; no neighbors give me food when I'm hungry, the landlord doesn't clean my eyes when they hurt from viewing my phone too much so I don't give a Bleep what they think of me. I told him to not put all those orientations in my head because it affected me alot when I was younger and it made me timid and shy and scared of being myself or having different opinions and that's what I'm trying to fix in myself and my mindset now.
What I do feel bad about is last year I paid for the house rent and packing when I had alot of money, I brought it up when I was talking to him and said "I paid for this house with my own money so who is landlord or the neighbors for me to be sacred to come in and out of my own home, I know what I did is wrong and I'm sorry but don't put those bad thoughts in my head" I shouldn't have said that though by bringing up what I did for family. He only called me back and said "don't worry I won't talk to you anymore until I use my own money to pay for the house next time" I didn't say anything because i know I was wrong and nothing good would come out of talking back, I just left his room.
What's your thoughts on the matter? Go and apologize to your father urgently. Also anytime you help anyone, never talk about it during your conversation. It hurts badly and the person may never forgive you. Apologize as soon as possible and try and be going home early if not for anything but because of your own security. |
Business › Re: Naira Begins Recovery After Float, Closes At ₦664/$ At I&E Window by na2016: 11:18am On Jun 15, 2023 |
Parachoko: You should have wait till tomorrow and buy it from any of the Bank Banks will still tell you they don't have and will direct you to an aboki. |
Business › Re: CBN announces unification of FX windows, stops Naira4Dollar scheme by na2016: 5:05am On Jun 15, 2023 |
franchasofficia: A good start for now.
But guess where the problem is?
CBN doesn't have enough dollar to meet Nigerians' usd demand, remember we are an import dependent country.
What it means is that Nigeria doesn't earn enough FX through export to meet up with the dollar demand of Nigerians, which means many Nigerians will be going to Aboki for dollar and Aboki will be determining the rate based on demand of dollar for the day, and this will definitely lead to uncontrolled crash of Naira value against USD.
I commend Tinubu for this good dollar floating policy, but it would have been better done after putting certain things in place to ensure CBN earns or have enough dollar to supply to all banks to sell to Nigerians.
One of those things that would earn us more FX and also reduce our FX outflow is putting our local refineries in working condition and leasing them out to private entities to run for Nigeria to reduce importation of petrol which gulps most of our FX. While fixing the national refineries, Dangote's refinery will also be ready and both combined would solve our importation of petrol which consumes majority of Nigeria's FX. His policy document from KPMG has highlighted this point and has made other avenues Nigeria can earn more FX. I didn't believe in this man but with the 50 page document I have seen and read, I strongly believe he is on the right track and maybe the man that changed Nigeria for the better. We can only now pray for divine health for him. |
Politics › Re: List Of President Tinubu's Energy Reforms Committee Members by na2016: 10:05am On Jun 14, 2023 |
madridguy: I don't know much about these people but I wish Prof. Barth Nnaji can head the team. We need someone honest and transparent as him. What did he do when he was given the opportunity by GEJ/ Yar adua? You guys forget easily. |
Food › Re: Guinness World Records Certifies Hilda Baci's Longest Cooking Marathon Record by na2016: 11:34am On Jun 13, 2023 |
Congratulations Hilda, 93 hours isn't bad, atleast, you broke the record. Congratulations |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: N100k Monthly Job In The Village Or N150k Job In The City by na2016: 2:17pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Trekkin: 100k salary per month in the village OR 150k salary per month in the city. give reasons please Guy take that 100k in the village. Embrace farming too and other things the village has to provide and better your live. Most villages now in southern Nigeria have internet, water and electricity. I am not sure you need much again after getting these three The rush to the city isn't the best with just 50k difference. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Inter Milan (1 - 0) On 10th June 2023 by na2016: 3:47pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Ademola47: Man City 4-0 Inter Milan
 Go and mark this, City will be defeated tonight! |
Politics › Re: Makinde Flags Off Dualization Of 8.6km Project, Names Road After Wike by na2016: 4:38pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
xpressionx: Why will an 8km road cost 9b?
Nigeria sef.
After now he will say he became poorer by serving the people as governor The contractor may inflate it not necessary the CEO of MAKON |
Politics › Re: Ex-Governors Umahi, Wike, Akpabio Visit President Tinubu Today by na2016: 9:44am On Jun 06, 2023 |
N3TRAL: Akpabio for Senate President!
Tinubu appears to be more accessible than Buhari.
It was rare to meet directly with Buhari. Tinubu is a real politician unlike Buhari. |
Politics › Re: Subsidy: Petrol Price Will Come Down, Says NNPC by na2016: 1:35pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
LeoDeKing: [/b] Competition will force down the price, yet you pegged the price, total bullshit.
Truly, removal of subsidy is synonymous to liberalisation of the industry, but then, why fixing prices?
Besides, Petroleum marketers have association, that is the where a price is fixed. Any marketer who sells in defiance to the agreed price will be sanctioned.
So stop the dogshit of prices coming down on account of any imaginary competition. [b]The prices were pegged for their stations. not for independent and other major marketers |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Holds First Security Meeting With Service Chiefs by na2016: 1:28pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
HajiMT: Jagaban will do well as he is starting so well. May God help you Mr. President. I never supported him but his decisiveness is going to move Nigeria forward in a positive direction. We pray for sound health for him. |
Family › Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by na2016: 8:32pm On May 27, 2023 |
JILF: I mean a guy between age 32-38 living with parents or in the home of his grandparent etc Calm down it is not any big deal. As far as he has a job and is contributing to the house upkeep |
Politics › Re: With Today's Ruling, Is There Any Hope For Peter Obi At Supreme Court? by na2016: 4:36pm On May 26, 2023 |
danijesus: The matter resolved today is just one out of the many grounds challenging the fraudulent selection by EYENECK... Stop giving yourself hope. Nigeria never reach that level to annul a presidential election through court ruling |
Romance › Re: Office Romance - My Experience by na2016: 3:34am On May 25, 2023 |
chatinent: Sad reality.
But that apart, why do female employees respect themselves to the core when the boss is a woman? Because women don't like women in the real sense |
Family › Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by na2016: 8:26pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: All I read is you equate love with sex and your wife denying you sex means she has no love for you. And you somehow think the blame should all be on her as far as the problems you perceive in your marriage, no be so? **yawn*** I doubt you read his post. If you truely did, then you didn't comprehend it. To the original poster, if you continue this way, you may die and your wife will marry another person. I advice you if you have just one kid, don't make more babies now and start saving and planning your exit because this doesn't look like what will last. |
Sports › Re: Newcastle Are Officially Qualified for Champions League. by na2016: 9:40am On May 23, 2023 |
internationalman: Only Man City are the true English representative there. The rest are just there to complete the slot and mark register.
Arsenal should pray 10 - 2 don't befall them again..
As for Man utd, as long as there are Spanish teams in the competition they are going no where far in the competition.
Newcastle, I see them doing great things and going farther than Man United and Arsenal since they have nothing to lose, hence less anxiety...
Imagine the Anxiety that would befall Arsenal when they here Bayern Munich. You sound so if ignorant and naive. |
Food › Re: Guinness World Records Follows Hilda Baci On Instagram, As She Gets Verified by na2016: 7:48pm On May 16, 2023 |
Rahkman: This feat I feel may not be validated, there are evidences everywhere that she rested and hid to take a nap  Stop being ignorant and also try to read. Even danceathon of 2006, people still rest. The rest has to be within the limits given by Guinness world records |
Politics › Re: 69 Senators Have Signed On For Akpabio And Barau Senate Presidency - Ndume by na2016: 8:03am On May 16, 2023 |
donbachi: "Hilda the cook" One is a crook Keep shut, if you know how Akpabio works for masses you wouldn't write this. |
Politics › Re: Idara Gold Walks Free From Court - Picture by na2016: 7:07am On May 14, 2023 |
NoahHadNoArk: When will she seek damages on those who stole 18months of her life Idara I wished you rot in that jail because I don't understand when Akwa Ibom became Biafra land. |
Family › Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by na2016: 8:09pm On May 13, 2023 |
joeargy: Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...
My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.
I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...
What do I do house? There is no need for issues here. As long as the name on his passport and in school is the name you gave him, forget whatever the grannies call him. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Puts Up His Banana Island House For Rent by na2016: 11:43am On May 13, 2023 |
MetroLane: Why will someone who can afford $150k to pay as rent yearly still choose to live as a tenant.
Different Stokes sha. Calm down that is not for individuals but for corporate organizations who may want their experts to live there other than in hotels. |
Politics › Re: Senate Presidency: Ex-Zamfara Gov, Yari Warns APC by na2016: 7:48pm On May 11, 2023 |
dgmoni123: Go to hell yari Don't really know how this northerners feel...oga is turn of the south south. He is not speaking for the north |
Politics › Re: Akpabio's South-South Hasn’t Produced Senate President Since 1999 – APC (Video) by na2016: 11:24am On May 10, 2023 |
Mraphel: Someone who became the most rich Igbo man through political stealing. All south eastern politicians are understood and unfit to be the Senate President. The previous Senate from the South East were corrupt some forged their certificates, others impeached, embezzled fund or jailed South South deserves a chance. While I don't want the SE to be given SP, your comment is wrong. The best SP Nigeria ever had was from SE in the person of Chuba Okadigbo. |
Politics › Re: Senate Presidency: Is Senator Abdul'Aziz Yari Going To Play Another Saraki 2.0? by na2016: 9:08pm On May 06, 2023 |
Alphagan: PDP dislikes SE despite their many years of investment in the party. If PDP wants to hijack legislative arm, it should be through ranking legislators from SE and not Yari and Wase Tribal gen z, try and always read. PDP gave SE senate President for good 8 years. |
Family › Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by na2016: 6:27pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: Guy please don't address my dad like that. Tell her to do the test. If she truly loves you and respects your parents she will do the test. Your dad knows more than you as a lot has changed now back home. All the best. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Lost Not Making Osinbajo President – Ex-Kano Emir, Sanusi by na2016: 12:16pm On May 02, 2023 |
LordIsaac:
We all know. But it is only a man with Tinubu's political sagacity that can return power to the South! Stop sounding somehow. Even the blind knew that if APC had brought out Osinbajo, the Obedient wouldn't even have been there in the first place and PDP wouldn't have gotten even half of what they got at the polls. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Overlooks Akpabio's Alleged Illness, Invites Him Again Over Corruption by na2016: 7:05pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
001Lagos: Akpabio is a criminal , he should go and answer to his crimes KEEP SILENT IF YOU CAN NOT SEE THAT ANOTHER FACTION OF APC IS FIGHTING BACK THROUGH THIS CASE. IS THERE ANY NON CORRUPT PERSON IN NIGERIA'S POLITICAL ENVIRONMENT INCLUDING YOU? |
Travel › Re: Lagos, Oando Take Delivery Of First Electric Buses In Nigeria by na2016: 7:35pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
NOC1: This is wonderful, Samwo Eko performed as a governor, i love people that go for long term projects than all these short term theatrical projects What's long term in a country where you don't even have 20 hours of electricity in a day? |
Family › Re: Coping With In-laws by na2016: 6:50pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Whyzaid: I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though You definitely have a problem and you are naive. Haven't seen and heard of very difficult educated in-laws? And who told you, in-laws here refers to the man alone? In-laws from the woman side can also be a problem. Statistics has even shown that majority of divorce is from in-laws. |
Career › Re: Difficulty Upgrading Certificate In State Civil Service by na2016: 12:38pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
niyiduke01: @op, This particular issue is applicable to both federal and state MDAs, The only option for you is to apply for studies approval and proceed to master's program, after that you can present it for upgrading to the deserved level.ciao OP, use this advice but please and please ensure you get your study leave approval before you proceed. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Sevilla Vs Manchester United (3 - 0) - Full Time by na2016: 4:46am On Apr 21, 2023 |
Reussite: UEFA European glory is more like a birthright for Sevilla & Real Madrid..... experience does matter for sure but it will tough for Sevilla to get past Juventus & Madrid getting past City. I am so sure of Madrid getting past City ooo. |