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RomanceRe: Married But In Love With Someone Else by na2016: 1:20pm On Jul 26, 2023
Dimaya:
OP, you have to mend your marriage. It doesn't matter whether you wanted the child or not, the child is here and has to be raised well by both his parents.

I don't care whatever the sidechic tells you, she doesn't care about you or what happens to your family and children. In all likelihood, this is how she thinks about you and your wife:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU



Women do NOT love men. They see men mostly as utility- an implement/instrument that can be used. If the outside lady sees you finish like your wife has, she too will start to misbehave.

Also, when women have children, they are forced to change. Raising children especially below age 5, is extremely stressful. Your wife will have sleepless nights and she won't get enough rest. Better adapt and seek support of family members in childcare. It seems your wife is experiencing parenting burnout. She needs your understanding. You both need patience.

OP, you can still repair your marriage. Go to your wife, plead with her to overlook your indiscretions. Tell her it was a moment of weakness. And work on getting your family back together. Don't let your children suffer the consequences of growing up in a broken home.

These are tricky love decisions. I wish you all the best.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk
OP; for the sake of your kids abeg get back to your wife. Some of us are remaining married today cos we don't want our kids to suffer.
FamilyRe: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by na2016: 6:26pm On Jul 25, 2023
Gloriagee:
Which multinational company employed you with all your gbaguns? Sha, e no concern me but for this relationship, I will advise you not to rush things. I will also not advise you to marry someone whose family thinks she can do better than you.
OP: I beg you in the name of God to take this advice oo. The girls parent would be a torn in your flesh. I strongly advice you to slow down on things.
BusinessRe: Naira Unification: Forex Inflow Rises By 28% To $1.41bn by na2016: 6:17pm On Jul 25, 2023
Ikaeniyan0:
Can you explain why you feel naira will be #1000/$1?
He doesn't need to explain. That's what will happen. Nigeria is on autopilot and APC propaganda is everywhere.
CareerRe: Is Japa Worth It? by na2016: 2:19pm On Jul 25, 2023
michlins:
Earn dollar and spend Naira. Guy nothing sweet pass am. Just find a very good estate and secure your apartment.

Run solar and inverter system for power,get a health insurance scheme from a very good hospital and live your best life here in Nigeria
Take this advice and save in dollars. Else that 3k dollars in abroad isn't much
PoliticsRe: Leak Confidential Information, Risk Dismissal, EFCC Chair Tells Staff by na2016: 8:38am On Jul 22, 2023
Massiveglory:
Story for the gods. This is 2023. There is nothing like secret.
Any magomago will leak. If you like swear with songo
Do you even know what is meant by confidential?
TravelRe: My Flight Has A Stopover At Dublin, Do I Need A Transit Visa? by na2016: 5:33pm On Jul 21, 2023
elloso:
Hello fam.
I will be traveling to the UK soon (Scotland precisely) and I intend to book a flight (Turkish Airline) that has a stopover at Istanbul and Dublin.
Do I need a transit visa to go through Dublin?

Please I really need your reply 🙏
You will need but call your airline and confirm
RomanceRe: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by na2016: 8:14pm On Jul 17, 2023
Farthing02:
I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.

She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .

This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.

I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.
Guy don't stress yourself. Don't marry that girl, it will not end well.
CareerRe: ₦200,000 Minimum Wage: FG To Take Decision Soon by na2016: 5:13pm On Jul 17, 2023
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
If achieved, it will be a massive win for APC.
It will be the final nail to coffin of Obidients and PDP
FamilyRe: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by na2016: 9:02am On Jul 15, 2023
4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution.


OP: Could expand on this point please?
FamilyRe: Advice To A Father by na2016: 11:50pm On Jul 13, 2023
IkpemhiTG:
Your candid advise is needed.

His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing.

On a second thought he will rather let the wife go while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.

My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.
Man should go with the wife n baby. He can take 2 weekend night shifts to support the home and 1 week day night shift in any minial job.
EducationRe: Anambra State Government’s Position On JAMB/Mmesoma Ejikeme Matter by na2016: 1:23pm On Jul 05, 2023
Okoroawusa:
A committee of professors? For what? Small girl wey we go lie on top table piawa ya Ike... simple shame no dey our eyes again... mtchew
That girl no lie. I suspect jamb is comprised.
FamilyRe: This Is A Photo Of Father & Daughter In Ilorin & Not Husband & Wife by na2016: 9:35am On Jul 02, 2023
FriendsAndFans:
No one gives a fk about the male child.

As a male child, unless you do a hectic job, na when dem go treat you well.
As an adult male, unless you give something for free or you Press money, na when dem go treat you right.
Life of a male child.is generally difficult
SportsRe: PSG Coach Christophe Galtier Arrested By French Police Over Racism Allegations by na2016: 7:02am On Jul 01, 2023
BabaCommander:
Mourinho to PSG.



PSG looking for a way to oust him without paying him off. grin grin cheesy
The former Barcelona coach, Luis will be the new manager
EducationRe: ASUU Rejects Curriculum Designed By NUC by na2016: 11:09pm On Jun 30, 2023
dalongjnr:
What matters is the improvement in the quality of what is currently been delivered!
If you have seen the ccmas you will understand that they have watered down education in naija
RomanceRe: How Can I Woo Opposite Sex? by na2016: 12:16pm On Jun 25, 2023
mbaise1000:
In the present day nigeria, the best way to woo the opposite sex especially women is first never say the truth to them, tell them that tinubu is your mother's junior brother, that bill gate is your uncle, that you are traveling to the us to collect your inheritance, that mm airport in Lagos belongs to you, that Atlantic ocean belongs to you, sharp sharp, you have your way, many of them will actually believe you
Oh God!
TravelRe: Please What Are The Chances Of A 40 Year Old Man Relocating Abroad? by na2016: 7:16pm On Jun 24, 2023
tensazangetsu20:
Why do you wanna migrate at 40.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Allow people make thier choices.
PoliticsRe: Former Air Force Spokesman, AVM Adesanya Retires (Photos). by na2016: 7:42am On Jun 24, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Enjoy your retirement
He try

I can't imagine myself serving for 38 years doing one same thing every day
That's why you ain't successful.
FamilyRe: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by na2016: 6:24pm On Jun 22, 2023
Salvation2:
Make sure u are on the same page with ur husband. He is lord over u. In all u do, add God first. God will continue to help and deliver us all in Jesus name amen.


Shalom!!!
Don't mind her!
PoliticsRe: Police Officers Send-Off Former IG, Alkali Baba by na2016: 10:22am On Jun 21, 2023
BIZNess123:
He must have been a pain in there ass
If he was, they wouldn't be this happy. Not many people get to the peak of Thier career and retire peaceful or alive. It is worth celebrating.
Forum GamesRe: Logically Who Would Come Out Alive From These Four? by na2016: 7:23am On Jun 21, 2023
skywalker240:
How and why?
You have done the cons and pros already for him na. So why ask why?
FamilyRe: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by na2016: 6:14pm On Jun 20, 2023
DeeBaDan:
I've been in and out of over 200 villages between Lagos and Abuja. 90% of villages are inhabitable for city dwellers.
Story!
FamilyRe: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by na2016: 5:06pm On Jun 20, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Example? Please provide the Village name, LGA, and State so we can investigate this claim. undecided

Someone mentioned a village I happened to be well acquainted with and listed a school I knew for a fact that the majority of the people living in that same village couldn't afford to attend. Just because a good school is situated in a village does not mean it is accessible to those living there mind you. undecided
How many states back in Nigeria do you know? If I mention a village now, how will you even know if what I am saying is true or not? Guy calm down. If it is by this some of us who schooled in the villages would have been nothing now.
PoliticsRe: Yari: It’s Unfair To Have Leaders Of Three Arms Of Government From The South by na2016: 5:04pm On Jun 20, 2023
OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmmm, but right to be headed by a single religion. You for support a candidate from the NC if truly you are seeking for equity.
You are going too far. Ask Yari where he was when Buhari ruled and all the leaders were from the north in 2019 - 2022?
FamilyRe: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by na2016: 5:01pm On Jun 20, 2023
jesmond3945:
is the kids. Training the kids in a village will set them back. We are not living in the 80s
This isn't true. Some villages still have good schools. What she can do is to find out where that village is and see if it is okay to live and have something to do there. Some villages are not as bad!
RomanceRe: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by na2016: 1:41pm On Jun 20, 2023
She should stop reproducing and just move on. That man will not bring anything meaningful. He may abandon her in future to go to another place to do same. If he was genuine, he should have told your sister before all these about his former home. Tell your sister to move on, improve herself and start over ooo.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help, Between 18k Job And Being A Waiter by na2016: 12:55pm On Jun 19, 2023
Amforeal:
Goodafternoon landers.
Please its a quick one!!

Last month May I summitted an application letters at three different eatering but 2 called me.

Presently, I am working with one of the eatering that called me first. They called me on the 25th of May while the other called me on the 27th of May.
I applied as a waiter but the transfered me to the VIP to work as the VIP Attendant. Payment is 18k monthly. I am an SSCE holder.

Today, the other sitout that called on the 27th has called me again to come over or if am nt interested.

At my current working place, we do One-day In and One-Out. Except on Sundays which is a must that everyone must come.

So I was planning going to the 2nd place to tell the manager I will be coming to work 3times a day. From opening till closing under the umbreller of Apprentice.

I applied as a waiter. Dnt forget I am an SSCE holder.

NOTE:
I'm nt planing to quit my current job. Plss advise me on how to convince the manager as I am going to the interview by 2mr.
Go to the second place and see if you can be doing 3 days there when you are on off in the other place. That could help give you additional 18k. If you work there for like two months, check a tech skill that is quick and easier to learn and start learning it. Also plan on furthering your education through legitimate means possible.
PoliticsRe: I Was One Of Those Who Opposed Endsars Protests – Asari Dokubo by na2016: 5:57pm On Jun 17, 2023
Why is a fugitive that was given state pardon being given audience like this?
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Suspension: Pastor Adefarasin Applauds Tinubu’s Administration(video) by na2016: 5:55pm On Jun 17, 2023
JohnBullMySon:
You know that's not true.
Go and listen to him with an open mind, you will see it. Mind you I am neither Igbo nor Yoruba, so I am talking from a neutral position.
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Suspension: Pastor Adefarasin Applauds Tinubu’s Administration(video) by na2016: 4:42pm On Jun 17, 2023
JohnBullMySon:
Very open minded and objective pastor.

Unlike some that are hell-bent on Obi.
He is not open minded. Sadly, Pastor Adefarasin is a tribal bigot.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Police Service Commission Approves Promotion Of Frank Mba, Ciroma To DIG by na2016: 1:01pm On Jun 17, 2023
lexy2014:
According to which law?
I no be loud mouthed person. Just screen shot this and watch what will happen. Which IG got to the position as DIG?
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Police Service Commission Approves Promotion Of Frank Mba, Ciroma To DIG by na2016: 9:27am On Jun 17, 2023
ogododo:
Mba next IGP be dat.
He may not be. He would if he was AIG
BusinessRe: Naira To Appreciate, Settle At N600/$1 In Coming Months, Says JP Morgan by na2016: 6:00pm On Jun 16, 2023
uzohrome:
Great news, let support this administration . Nigeria will be great again
Jokers when it is already 758?

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