Dimaya: OP, you have to mend your marriage. It doesn't matter whether you wanted the child or not, the child is here and has to be raised well by both his parents.
I don't care whatever the sidechic tells you, she doesn't care about you or what happens to your family and children. In all likelihood, this is how she thinks about you and your wife:
Women do NOT love men. They see men mostly as utility- an implement/instrument that can be used. If the outside lady sees you finish like your wife has, she too will start to misbehave.
Also, when women have children, they are forced to change. Raising children especially below age 5, is extremely stressful. Your wife will have sleepless nights and she won't get enough rest. Better adapt and seek support of family members in childcare. It seems your wife is experiencing parenting burnout. She needs your understanding. You both need patience.
OP, you can still repair your marriage. Go to your wife, plead with her to overlook your indiscretions. Tell her it was a moment of weakness. And work on getting your family back together. Don't let your children suffer the consequences of growing up in a broken home.
These are tricky love decisions. I wish you all the best.
Gloriagee: Which multinational company employed you with all your gbaguns? Sha, e no concern me but for this relationship, I will advise you not to rush things. I will also not advise you to marry someone whose family thinks she can do better than you.
OP: I beg you in the name of God to take this advice oo. The girls parent would be a torn in your flesh. I strongly advice you to slow down on things.
elloso: Hello fam. I will be traveling to the UK soon (Scotland precisely) and I intend to book a flight (Turkish Airline) that has a stopover at Istanbul and Dublin. Do I need a transit visa to go through Dublin?
Farthing02: I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.
She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .
This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.
I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.
Guy don't stress yourself. Don't marry that girl, it will not end well.
His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing.
On a second thought he will rather let the wife go while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.
My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.
Man should go with the wife n baby. He can take 2 weekend night shifts to support the home and 1 week day night shift in any minial job.
As a male child, unless you do a hectic job, na when dem go treat you well. As an adult male, unless you give something for free or you Press money, na when dem go treat you right.
mbaise1000: In the present day nigeria, the best way to woo the opposite sex especially women is first never say the truth to them, tell them that tinubu is your mother's junior brother, that bill gate is your uncle, that you are traveling to the us to collect your inheritance, that mm airport in Lagos belongs to you, that Atlantic ocean belongs to you, sharp sharp, you have your way, many of them will actually believe you
Salvation2: Make sure u are on the same page with ur husband. He is lord over u. In all u do, add God first. God will continue to help and deliver us all in Jesus name amen.
Kobojunkie: Example? Please provide the Village name, LGA, and State so we can investigate this claim.
Someone mentioned a village I happened to be well acquainted with and listed a school I knew for a fact that the majority of the people living in that same village couldn't afford to attend. Just because a good school is situated in a village does not mean it is accessible to those living there mind you.
How many states back in Nigeria do you know? If I mention a village now, how will you even know if what I am saying is true or not? Guy calm down. If it is by this some of us who schooled in the villages would have been nothing now.
jesmond3945: is the kids. Training the kids in a village will set them back. We are not living in the 80s
This isn't true. Some villages still have good schools. What she can do is to find out where that village is and see if it is okay to live and have something to do there. Some villages are not as bad!
She should stop reproducing and just move on. That man will not bring anything meaningful. He may abandon her in future to go to another place to do same. If he was genuine, he should have told your sister before all these about his former home. Tell your sister to move on, improve herself and start over ooo.
Amforeal: Goodafternoon landers. Please its a quick one!!
Last month May I summitted an application letters at three different eatering but 2 called me.
Presently, I am working with one of the eatering that called me first. They called me on the 25th of May while the other called me on the 27th of May. I applied as a waiter but the transfered me to the VIP to work as the VIP Attendant. Payment is 18k monthly. I am an SSCE holder.
Today, the other sitout that called on the 27th has called me again to come over or if am nt interested.
At my current working place, we do One-day In and One-Out. Except on Sundays which is a must that everyone must come.
So I was planning going to the 2nd place to tell the manager I will be coming to work 3times a day. From opening till closing under the umbreller of Apprentice.
I applied as a waiter. Dnt forget I am an SSCE holder.
NOTE: I'm nt planing to quit my current job. Plss advise me on how to convince the manager as I am going to the interview by 2mr.
Go to the second place and see if you can be doing 3 days there when you are on off in the other place. That could help give you additional 18k. If you work there for like two months, check a tech skill that is quick and easier to learn and start learning it. Also plan on furthering your education through legitimate means possible.