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[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=298333.msg4211431#msg4211431 date=1247956559]seriously, is that suppose to be a question.?
i think the ansa is staring right at you dear [/quote]and what is the answer?

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=298079.msg4211454#msg4211454 date=1247956908]oh mehn
U just killed congo's hope [/quote]and the rest girls on NL relieved and thankful they still have a shot at congoshine

congoshine:
Yes indeed she is  

hence my dilemma & the need to keep her out of my mind  

But as friends working for the improvement of inter-tribal relationships in Nigeria . . . . . .YES !  

dont worry, the Lawd shall provide u a carbon copy, a clone if u may of her  

platinumnk:
[glow=teal,2,300]Me no shakey, Im hooked aleady.

u bi fish?

Pataki:
Oh oh! If my memory serves me right, I think Maedan is married and living in the UK. I once had a clash with her on the travel section and she made mention to that effect if I recollect very well now.

u sabi spoil gist eh!

TheSeeker:
On a different note, what are these women turning the world to, the bad ones that is?

i am sure it is written some where in the book of 2nd revelation as one of the signs of the end of times but honestly it is sad, i am sure going to tell my kids i was lucky to be born b4 them bcuz they will miss a lot.

TheSeeker:
My question is why did he enter a relationship with an actress when he knows he can't stand the pressure? There's a saying, "if you can't stand the heat, get outta the kitchen"

it is loff  but he's sure as hell ain't sharing 

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=298333.msg4211265#msg4211265 date=1247953632]See his furo adie mouth like I want to hug you Look here my friend Don't shorten my ration, I saw him first, so go and find your own man [i]siwaju, [/i]arrant nonsense of the highest order [/quote]LMFAO 


[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=298333.msg4211265#msg4211265 date=1247953632]Calvary greetings in the name of Jesus, my fellow Brothers in Christ. I am a prayer warrior and attend Church at least 3 days a week and can fast for 96 days back to back, I am also an Usher and a Choir and in the Protocol department in Church and anyone on NL can attest to my character and would tell you that I am a gentle. God-fearing, humble, quiet, peace-loving lady You can even check some of my posts if in doubt Should I submit my application

Sorry I cannot stay long to chat now, I am just coming back from afternoon service in Church, and I am on my way to attend evening fellowship for two hours, and then go from there to night vigil Sir May God bless you, it is well [/quote] e don tey wey i don bin dey suspect say u dey craze LOL 



FYI: if i die, i don write for paper say na u kill me with laughter ooo  

@ Ex Inferis

it is the mods blocking ur post but u r right the simpsonX  dude is ignorant on many levels and i am shocked he calls himself a tech but i saved ur orginal post on my laptop and if simpsonX  wants to read it i will gladly email it to him 

maedan:
@squad1

considering that I saw that he replied to my posts in the TV/Movies section, and then the Music section, I got curious. And now that I've seen this thread, I can only say that congoshine, you're really one of a kind: you must be a very confident and self-assured person to do what you have done. I am flattered and pleased.

cough cough cough. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .annnnnnnnnnnnnnd?

TheSeeker:
I could make do with that generous provision from you

no probs

TheSeeker:
Dang man! Imma have to think about this one and get back to you aiitee?

iight, i will let the angels know u r coming but surely i wont be waiting for ya bro

squad1:
Just went to the "Who's on" and saw " Maedan viewing congoshine profile"

u like fight ooo  so u are viewing the viewer 

congoshine:
Yes. . . . .  really cool babe  

SOMEONE YOU CAN TAKE TO MAMA

With such cherubic features,Mummy ^{(God bless her soul)} would be really proud of moi  

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=207655

So there u have it Nairaland !!!  

Remember ,this is my opinion & mine alone  

huh! no wonder u been chasing her from thread to thread, i thought she owed u money  

simpsonX:
you are a kid na2day. and u simply lack the understanding of the link you actually posted. i would have explained a lot to you but with the way you are going about this i think il save my breath. 

oga wisdom plz explain let me hear


FYI: i have gone through ur one page post log on NL and there is no significant contribution on any of ur previous post, the fact that u dont know how to fine tune a vista machine leaves a sour taste in my mouth. b4 u talk abt the link i post next time, read it, if u can't read go back to school.

TheSeeker:
Stamped and sealed!

TheSeeker:
Can I actually take that route? It'll take me 200 years to think about that, can I get back to you then or will I have been too late then?

2 late man, it is a now or never kind'a thing

TheSeeker:
I hope that works for him

thats the best we can do 4 him, Hope and pray

TheSeeker:
What's Plan B? I just might be interested.

simple, getting to the good Lawd b4 them

Jibson999:
She doesnt act Indecency

then fear not

TheSeeker:
Then I don't think we stand a chance because they will practically want us all assigned to hell fire

i suspect that so i am embarking on plan B

congoshine:
I'll be back in 30 minutes. . . . . . . .

i love this guy, suspense is the game why do all the ladies wanna know sef? if u no fine u no fine, if u no cool u no cool

TheSeeker:
I disagree with some of your points -- although it holds true here but not in Nigeria. In Nigeria, parents have influence and prevail immensely over their decisions, especially marriage. Anyone you want to marry has to be acceptable to the family or they're not good for you even if that's the perfect person for you. They always want you to marry someone that suites them, they don't care if you love or don't love them. Some parents still go as far as indicating to their children not to get married to someone from another tribe. As I suspect, she lives in Nigeria, this cannot be ruled out. When she gets a job, she'll keep hearing rants of impatient parents whose hunger for grand kids are insatiable. They can't seize to want grand kids. Most of them even tell their children, adults at that, the number of children they should have. Nigeria is yet to experience civilization.

that's why i added the lots of prayer part  hopefully, the Lawd will be on their side

TheSeeker:
There's nothing like a praying woman. I always have it at the back of mind that when I do want to get married, it has to be a lady that will drag me leg and head to go to the church. Someone who will force me to pray every night even when we want to eat. Now, that's a woman. As for your other points, man, you echoed what I've been thinking.

i know right! most men rather be dragged to church than wake up sunday morning and see that their wife no send God.


[quote author=d-ROC link=topic=298333.msg4210664#msg4210664 date=1247944273]@Na2day, every woman needs to see this. If you were a girl I would hug you for this wonderful piece. This is all any girl needs to win a mans heart.All! Finish!

You are a genius.(I wish we could add friends just like on facebook)[/quote]thnx man. i am indeed on facebook but i kind'a limit my NL interactions on NL only. i got a few NLders on yahoo and only 3 on my facebook, out of that 3 one don't even know who i am on NL, the other 2 are very close to my heart. i just like to keep NL drama on NL as much as possible, i got too many family on my facebook, the last thing i want is drama spilling from NL to my facebook page but if u wanna chat i can add u to my yahoo and we can build our friendship there and possibly move to share facebook IDs. is that kool?

TheSeeker:
Then I start to wonder if they want to act out of the Bible's standards and still expect to go to heaven at rapture

i suspect they are about handing to the good Lawd their own conditions on making heaven, u cant be so sure with women

FBS:
respect for elders. . .prostrating especially.
Plus me cherish the Yoruba language.

hell naw!

esosa4real:
@na2day, u rili funny, been actually smiling n crying, lol,
You v actually laid out my future exatly how i thought it would be, i ve left it 2 GOD.
but pls for u if u were n ma situation what wud you do and if i were 2 set her free, exactly how
whats gonna happen to our feelings? especially mine?

@seeker, nice try!!!,

last time i checked i said i want to see the color of ur money! u think i went to Dr. Phil's school for nothing?


anywayz, u should continue to live life as normal, love her to death if u must but dont pressurize her, dont make demands, let things happen while u pray for leading (i am not the Holy Spirit, cant help u with leadings). also stop worrying, that is so unhealthy for ur young mind, call her to have a discussion with her on what she thinks holds true for both of u future, let her know u want her to have fun at her NYSC, lots of fun and while u will do lots of prayer. plz for God's sake it is not about you, it is about the girl, u need to put that in ur skull, if at this stage u are still talking about feelings, u are still a child and i dont hold that against u but life will teach u to grow up, it will happen at the right time. feelings are the things u think u have inside u when u meet sum1 and u like or love or have lust for them, living with them u have to throw feelings aside most times; i will give u an example, there are lots of men that get so pissed off by the wives they FEEL like killing their wives but very few in the world literally act on that feeling. my point is feelings dont stand the test of time and love have very little to do with feelings, if u doubt me ask Jesus, if he had another way of loving us and saving us without dying he will take that route, that's why he asked God to see if God has changed his mind on this cross dying thingy and if u are indeed worried that she might end up with the wrong guy that will not treat her like u would or love her like u would or like she deserve just send her to me, i will do the honor of marrying her on ur behalf

TheSeeker:
There are some girls who are lousy callers and always don't know the right time to call, this pisses men off to no limits.  

tell them brother, tell them. all that needy stuff, thats what the teddy bears are for  

unitee:
@ na2day

I agree if only I know where to check how to check and exactly what to check I would do that honestly

I am asking for advice because I am slowly going into heartbreak

oh i will gladly tell u

these are a few things u need to check

1) when do u call? during a game? when he is trying to sleep? etc

2) how long is ur call time? u will be surprised how much we feel like telling u shut up on the phone  

3) what kind of topics do u bring to the table? i once had a girl that wanted to not just talk to me about flowers but make me go see a flower show, i felt like committing suicide, no lie  

4) what kind of tone do u use to get his attention on the first "hello"? i had a female friend that once called me and my friends while we were playing street fighter, she said "hello" in the most sexy way that it ended our game, we had to tell her to do it again. after she dropped, that was the discussion of the day.

5) do u sound needy? the last thing a man needs is to pile more worries on the ones in front of him. a lady that sounds too needy is a no no for most guys period, take it or leave it.

6) are u always complaining? stop, we all hate nagging  

7) how much compliment do u give to him? or is he the one that always gives u a compliment first? start my telling him how his deep voice turns u on, wow, u will get a conversation like no other and trust me it can lead to serious non sexual talk since u got his attention, u just have to be smart abt the transition

8 ) self less discussions: how often do u call just to talk ONLY [/b]about the welfare of his family and how he can contribute positively to [b]HIS family advancement in whatever

9) creativity: how creative are u? when last did u decide to write him a poem, not necessary a love poem but something that he can relate to, u can only do this if u truly have studied him. write something creative with ur pic by the side (not nude pics) and send it to him by regular mail or email, some thing that will make him think deeply about things that affect him, u dont have to always call him, after reading ur deep thoughts, he might be the one calling u to ask for advise or share a fear or an ambition or something

10) how often do you pray? i mean more than 5mins sincere prayer. i know men like to feel like the almighty protector of the relationship and house but there is nothing more secured in most man's heart for him to know he has a wife that prays an honest prayer bcuz when the chips are down and the man is confused about what next to do, he wants to know that u can tell him, honey, its ok, we should pray together. i remember back in the dayz if i fall ill and they want to give me all kinds of drugs, i always tell them "may i call my mother?" that woman prays like there is no tomorrow and that gives me confidence that things will turn out right.



FYI: for any more advise, i need to see the color of ur $$$$$$