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[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212624#msg4212624 date=1247988476]lol. a promise is a debt u kno. i can't promise u that 'cause i will fail u
personally if i get magic wand, my choice of husband will be a Harvard or MIT boy. handsome skinny nerd like that.
nothing freakish like McNair who fit die or enter gbese for sex. mba if ur life is so boring sex is the only way to make it exciting then u get problem

u don't fit my type srry lol [/quote]but i am a nerd nau

TheSeeker:
na2day? If you get her, you'll most likely divorce her 2 weeks after marriage because you'll find out she's the kind that doesn't feel a touch, can't even be tickled at the least.

make we give all the Lawd pikins a chance nau

FL Gators:
Oh ok. Now I gotchu. Gotchu
Its just that I tend to skip some posts.

kool, gnite, get church 4 morning

Remii:
@congoshine, I suggest opelovely for you, check her out here. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=71124

yup! she looks good

TheSeeker:
Welcome! And membership is still open for closet and open freaks

signing right on

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I do not borrow [/color]

shame on u, making us look bad!

FL Gators:
hmmm, maybe you're right. The initial post did not state that.
But talking on the phone 2-3 hrs = I love you Dear Lord, then I need to stop talking on the phone

thats not all, she said the only reason why she understands why he doesn't call her in the day time during the week is bcuz he is at work but she expects to have his attention during the weekend. now, i dont know abt other guys but if i have to talk i love u to a girl 2 to 3 hrs almost every night during the week, i sure as hell dont wanna talk to her at weekend, a brother needs some space. she does not understand the law of scarcity, if she does she will know that she is killing this relationship.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Sorry but that is only reserved for a handful. . .and what do you know? The hand is full [/color]

can't u borrow more hands?

TheSeeker:
I never denied I'm a sex freak and yes, I'm a closet freak . . . . . I'm a closet freak. . . . . I'm a closet freak. Name one man that isn't

hi 5 bro

iice:
[color=#9900ff] Blessedly [/color]

is it true that u got bcuz i did like to verify myself. it was a rumor and i just need confirmation

FL Gators:
He doesn't call, then I call. then he starts screaming at me that I nag him.
Either he doesn't find interest in me anymore or he has another woman.
i understand that he has a job and he's busy, but the screaming and "nagging" excuse is not necessary. Abi poster, do you call him every minute?
How long have you been with him?

i suggest u read what she has posted initially and u will give a different advise. she herself said he calls her after work and they spend like 2 to 3 hrs on the phone and sometimes they fall asleep on the phone together. now do u think a guy wants to do that every night? think again

unitee:
but I said I truly love him. my problem is if that love is reciprocal, or not.

if I dumb him I might go beserck
right now I scream and shout at people and they even ask me whats wrong because normally I am cool, composed and on quiet side but of late i talk too much and do funny things

ignore these girls and stick to what i told you and u will be fine. look i am a tech and we find problems to a situation by elimination, by the time u do those things i told u and it is not working after u done it PATIENTLY then we will know u r not the problem, then u can quietly leave him

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212409#msg4212409 date=1247981471]lol. you 2 are characters

again, question at hand is why do some men prefer freaks behind closed doors?[/quote]it is just what we want, deal with it


[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212419#msg4212419 date=1247981865]na2day this wat ur indian friend do to fulfill ur bedroom fantasies ?  jk

ultimate conservative but. . . .
https://farm2.static.flickr.com/1220/566485954_ae7d0d4553_m.jpg

closet freak
[img]http://www.samizdata.net/blog/~pdeh/lil-kim-burqa.jpg[/img][/quote]hell yeah! and if u just promise to be like that i will come back to the marriage negotiating table

FL Gators:
She needs to dump his ass and stop tolerating his nonsense.

i don't know if u thot abt that answer b4 saying it but just incase that is how u truly feel, it explains why we have problems in relationships

manny4life:
Was or wasn't, which is it?

Hey my bad, relax it's not that serious.

wasn't

manny4life:
Is it important?

last time i checked i was talking to u

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212330#msg4212330 date=1247978106]u can't made someone romantic if they're not. just like u can't turn someone into a freak that they are not. i'm sure there are many freaky naija girls out there. just that the men will prefer one that is covered from head to toe on the outside but expect them to turn into cossy orjakor in the bedroom. lol maybe the reason is social pressure i dunno.[/quote]--sighs-- u seem to have more issues than i thot


[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212330#msg4212330 date=1247978106]maybe the mom's marriage was arranged. i feel bad for those women though. life must suck to be her. yea the daughter is definitely a closet LovePeddler. the public "conservative facade" is the fake one. lol[/quote]arranged marriage maybe but she made the best of it and if the indian girl i knew is a LovePeddler by God i wanna marry one but u, u sound so disconnected, i strongly recommend u get a level headed bf asap, u need some spark in ur life. . . .saying this with much luv, no lie

mayfrances:
BOO HOO!!!!!!!!!!! so what, he chose to go to Ghana, Why do SOME Nigerians feel that they are the IT people of Africa? please. Ghana has a better feel, speaking as an African American that has been to Nigeria and Ghana. It is a better atmosphere.

where u @ in dallas?

TheSeeker:
I'm not sure if sistawoman will be glad she referenced her. The problem with Nigerian women is they want to remain "holy" even in the bedroom.

their problem is that they dont know that there is such a thing as holy freaks, the bible clearly states that "the bed is undefiled" when it is between a hubby and his wifey, what that means, the bed is open to all thots as long as they are not devilish

TheSeeker:
Isn't the level of his freakiness his experience level? Don't mind her. She said earlier she won't exhibit any form of freakiness in public or the behind closed doors, now I am beginning to wonder how boring her sex life must be

[quote author=*dhtml link=topic=296505.msg4212295#msg4212295 date=1247977099]I guess, i will have to join the prayer group for the poster then. My own main concern being that, he should get his
medical pass - if that is lost - your life will never be the same again - ppl i hav seen go thru dat - lose their identities[/quote]i concur

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212102#msg4212102 date=1247971453]that's a good point sweetdoc. u seem very knowledgeable
what do u think about guys that have different ideas of girlfriend vs wife material. i think that's very hypocritical don't u think. like wanting to mess around at first and then settling down with someone who's not a freak. why not look for wife material from the onset?

some men are weird. u kno[/quote]what do u think abt nl girls that want experienced men that know what to do in bed but dont want the same man to a player, how did u think he got his experience, by sleeping with his mother?

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4212065#msg4212065 date=1247970092]i think it's rare for women to be true closet freaks. why else do men cheat on their wives?
see sistawoman for example, freaky but not a closet freak.  and her husband should be your role model (he let her get a tattoo on her breasts!! how many other pretend holy holy naija men will do that? ). just marry what u want and stop trying to put up a front to the public.
(the "will you marry a woman with tattoo" thread inspired this topic a bit plus a tv sit com. where the woman is enduring crap n dressing up as nurse n pretending to be IndecentStar in bedroom to save her marriage. i think guys like that r selfish lol)[/quote]u seen sistawoman's breast b4?   i am not sure being a freak has anything to do with tattoos, we have many girls who cover up literally and yet have tattoo but that dont mean they are advantageous in bed. we have more nigerian girls complain on things like flowers, romance etc that they expect the nigerian dude to now learn so why cant nigerian guys want their wives to learn how to be freaky. i had an indian female friend that i had a little something something 4 b4 and she is highly conservative but she tells me many stuff her mom used to tell her and one of them is the fact that her mom told her to learn to always be a lady to the world but a LovePeddler when the doors are close and she is with her hubby alone. she said, her mother used that principle on her dad and her mom is old, so this is not new, its been the ancient secret, learn it fast my dear and our wedding might just take place tomorrow  

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=298440.msg4211868#msg4211868 date=1247965385]ok so on NL you hear a lot of men say they want their women to be demure and conservative on the outsides but freaks in the bedrooms. what do you girls think of this. do you think they are being hypocrites? or do you agree with them?
how many women are really like that?  dress conservative and have bibeli (holy holy) opinions on the outside, but turn wild and freaky inside the room.
I find it all to be very ridiculous and hypocritical. and find men like that to be pretend freaks themselves. why not be ur freaky self 24/7  and let others kno u for what u really are?[/quote]so i guess u are either not the holy holy type or u are not a freak and u r sad some girls can hit both tune, right? well, what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom and yes u better get ur freak on

Sweetdoct247:
Pls can someone tell me the dictionary meaning of joblessness? ainise lo n da gbogbo yin laamu

so u r asking us to define wat u r doing, right?

TheSeeker:
Like the Nigerian Mount Zion Films?

hell naw! that is not acting, they are more like reciting verses

LadyT:
Congoshine arent you like 18?

So i take it you will be the aburo?

why u dey try undermine the guy's effort, even if he is 18, he is matured outside and inside

doyin13:
some people jealous me
some people jealous me
because of my ikebe

that flat surface?  

TheSeeker:
Understandable. What kind of roles would that be? Would you be mad if she's kissed in the movies and touched in certain areas? Sleep half naked with another man on a bed? You know, scenes like that.

ABOMI-COUNTRY! ! ! when i said PG 13, i meant bibical standard not american standard

congoshine:
e go hard to clone the babe sha. . . . .  . . .& no NL babe go wan live in 'princess' shadows,so the best option na to work on Maedan sister

Seriously after M , 2nd position boku-Tope,Oyin,Thonia,LadyT,Diva1,Tubabie,ushergurl,Snazzy just to mention a few. . . . . .  ,  . . . . .

David ,chillout for Plat na. . . .na my pally  

i knew u had a plan B

davidylan:
oyinda actually sounds like a nice girl.

i don't that strongly, i meet her at waterside bus stop in ajegunle and i am still scared  

platinumnk:
[glow=teal,2,300]abi o u? Its ok, I know ur type. Carry on [/glow]

u know i got nothing but loff 4 ya

TheSeeker:
Can you date an actress?

yes i can, been an actor b4, but roles do matter though, she has to understand where i stand on certain roles and no matter the money i dont want her playing those roles

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=298079.msg4211469#msg4211469 date=1247957132]i hear plat n oyinda are available [/quote]plat claims she has a "guy", sources tells me that he is still in the mail, not yet arrived   as for oyinda, i wont wish evil or risk this responsible young's life like that  

FBS:
yep yep. you have a problem with that?

hell yea! who's gonna wash my white lace? nah, i will just tell them hi or hello, good morning or something but i am sure not going down on all 4s