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gloriuss:
Dont be silly! Of course I am!!!!

a thousand apologies, i didn't know u were on NL

Jibson999:
Hey guys ive been tinkin about dis and i need ur opinions. Would u still continue wit ur g/f when u know she slept wit a fellow actor in a filmplay or uld breakup

what kind of movies does she act in, Indecency or PG 13?

unitee:
When I call him on his mobile he does not pick sometimes and when he picks I ask him why he was not picking he shouts at me and say I nag him too much. Do you think he loves me or not??

unitee:
he is a very level headed man than me most of the time, there are times I just feel like talking to him all the time I believe he should be available for me especially weekends but I understand when he is at workso[b] I call him a lot sometimes
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unitee:
no not yet we agreed after marriage we can have sex and not before

girl, check urself.

@ topic

the coolest babe on NL i think is . . . . . . . . . . . .my bad, she is not on this forum

esosa4real:
Experienced nairalanders i need your sincere help, input and advice on this.
I am a kool, handsome, innoavtive 22 year old guy, studying medicine in a private university and hoping to be out in 2011 by Gods grace and also in love with my first love, a beautiful and kool gurl, same age with me who just finished from another univeristy just last week.

Now the thing is, i have always worried about the possibility of us still keeping our lovely relatshionship till marriage as that is what we both truly want, mind you our relationship actually began since aged 18 and has survived through the long-distance hazzles, as that had been the order of the day cos we school in seperate states and might still be as shes leaving for her NYSC soonest though we still assure ourselves (esp her) that we have a chance for marraige in the nearest future

And brothers and sisters i know marriage is not a play game or something u just jump into but i am rest assured shes the right wife that i need, as shes been the best girlfriend and infact she has inspired me in becoming more prospectful, careful with my life, positive in thinking and quite spiritual (stopped a lotta nasty and wrong sturvs now) cos i really want us to work, Please i need ur true advices and comments on this, some friends have tried discourgaing me to move on cos we are age mates and also that she might leave me for sum1 else who is a working class even with my propsects of becoming a  doctor which she admires greatly, but some others are of the opinion that true love is ageless which i support and believe that we got a great chance even if shes done with BSC now and i in 2011 i would be a doctor though not settled but almost there, PLS actually what do u think?
thanks, luv yall

bros, this is gonna be a tough one, u love the girl, the girl loves u but time dont seem to love any of u. the fact of the matter is, it will take a ton of patience and serious understanding on the part of both of u (u understanding that her biological clock is ticking fast and she understanding this is not happening anytime soon, marriage that is). my point is based on these facts, u are yet to graduate, looking at 2011 all things being equal, then u both are 24 (most nigerian girls in nigeria get anxious at this age) then u have to go to medical school, so we are looking at at least 2012 (both of u will be 25, her parents by this time will be trying to knock some sense into her) then u will be off for NYSC, that makes it 2013, u guys will be 26 yrs old (she will be super anxious at this time because her friends now have kids and lots of men who have made it are throwing proposals and gifts at her beck and call), then God forbid u want to specialize, that will take u at least a year or more, so that is 2014 (u guys will be 27, for u it is ok, not so much for her) or say 2015 (u will be 28 yrs old, still young and confident about life and settling down, she will be 28 yrs old, confused and insecure that one day u will leave her for a younger chicken, can't blame her. at this time her parents are carrying her pictures to pastors, imams, babalawos etc for deliverance) and in all this, we are only hoping that u get a job in a timely fashion and ur parents wont be complaining that she is too old for u;  i tell u it is a vicious circle. if u wanna be honest set the girl free, let her try her prospects and if her heart runs back to u everytime, she is urs for life to keep, u only have to defend her from ur own family(which should be a small task compared with what she will have had to go through). GOOD LUCK! u will need plenty of it and dont forget to pray about all these to the one that holds our future, God!

FYI: for more advise, i need to see the color of ur $$$   and by the way, NYSC is a good test for ur relationship, trust me i know

i love our pidgin english and all the favors they come in, its just bomb!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I do not rob I blind
Imagine the effect combined with my halo [/color]

oh ye SINNER!

TheSeeker:
It means you'd be an immigration officer at the POEs. Make a request for a Proverbs 31 woman and they'd say you want to turn them to slaves.

when u quote that bible passage give them, all of them give u face as if no bi the word of God again

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Great! Maybe now i can get back my halo [/color]

heck naw! i postpone carrying ur case to the Lawd b4 u attempt to rob him blind

simpsonX:
my guy, try do ur research well before u send posts like these. google chrome OS is currently a netware because they do not currently have the technology to make the transition from a single browser to a full fledged operating system like windows  that is why their target is currently netbooks. Nevertheless according to their recent blog they have plans to develop the OS to suit various demands. give them a break kid,  they are just starting.

so u did ur research and came up with this crap?  i dont even know with which part of ur mouth u used in saying google dont have the technology make a desktop OS or enterprise OS, if u dont know anything shut ur mouth up. i can make a desktop OS myself as a derivative from any linux distro and tons of folks do that already, then the might google cant?  dude, they have a focus and that is where they are heading to, a light web-based OS period, this has been in the works for sometime now. i wonder where u guys get ur stories from. 


a simple google search can get u something like this

http://googleblog..com/2009/07/introducing-google-chrome-os.html

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I know that only too well [/color]

i dey carry ur case go give God

C2H5OH:
You sure as hell got that right.

give me 5 bro abeg make i go sleep


[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=295331.msg4208285#msg4208285 date=1247904581]lol[/quote]u want make i dazzle u too?

C2H5OH:
LOL   

bros u know our type dey always dazzle them 


[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=295331.msg4208264#msg4208264 date=1247903877]never assuming that
maybe u stink n they're struggling to grasp 4 fresh air. jk[/quote]nah girl, i got all kinds of hugs, body contact, girls using their butts as a weapon on my body in the name of dancing, boobs brushing, just the whole 9 yards, even from the ones with their boyfriends, they know that they can't find my kind of sexiness on the shelves 

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=295331.msg4208219#msg4208219 date=1247903027]depends on what kind of hot boy it is though. if it's one she fancies then the girl will be shy (not necessarily intimidated) but if it's just any other hot boy then i don't think she'll be folding in a corner. lol[/quote]u need to see how girls were looking at me tonight at the club and once i moved toward their direction, they just melted. to fine no easy   

cvibe:
@ Na2day,

Don't go after kini? Either you go after them or they go to church because of you.

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=296829.msg4207030#msg4207030 date=1247864870]na lie jor. nawhere in the pro 31 did it say a man should never do anything in regards to those things, and too, we arent living the age of proverb century but in the new modern century [/quote]i am a christian, i still with what the bible expects a lady to be and it is in proverb 31. btw proverb 31 says my job is to sit at the gate of the city which may imply sit in front of the tv

crackhead:
Thanks everybody for your advice.

@Moderator
Why did you people change my username? I'm not happy about this. Seems you are driving me out of Nairaland. Too bad.

they changed ur username? wow! dictators on NL

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=296829.msg4206920#msg4206920 date=1247863432]for wetin? i dey craze

how many men have actually done so [/quote]we plenty na so my point be say u bi the proverb 31 woman, me go be the man wey go pray to find am, we no go switch roles, period!

platinumnk:
[glow=teal,2,300]I agree with that, but I think she is looking for confidence here, and we should back her up, many time we want to do something, fear hold us. We should encourage her instead of badgering.  [/glow]

let me tell u one small bible tori, one prophet like that wey know say God no wan cause the children of Israel dey under pressure to collect goodies just to cause Israel. every time the prophet dey check on God if God don change hin mind, finally finally prophet cave to pressure and kon give the pressurizer hints, wetin u think say God do to am? the prophet mod no bi small thing. i no read where God dey encourage am say make hin get courage; wetin hin know say na right thing to do hin still dey look for encouragement, na death hin get oo

BlueDiva:
You people will end up confusing the girl.
Why not assume it's a true story and give advice.
I hate pessimism.

i am sure pessimism feels the same 

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=296829.msg4206854#msg4206854 date=1247862445]i do all those already, so what more? and even men do all those, it still doesnt prevent them from at least contributing![/quote]u've gone after the armed robbers b4?

[quote author=George_D link=topic=294874.msg4206818#msg4206818 date=1247861907]please tell him. ignorance and knowledge are two relative concepts.
you might smile smugly to yourself thinking you're more knowledgeable in a particular
subject but someone else might see all your knowledge as crass ignorance.[/quote]hmmm, so ppl cant do a little research b4 posting erroneous doctrines on threads right? the reason i dont post in th auto section is bcuz i dont know jack shit about cars and i am not going there to argue blindly, if my car has a problem i head for the mechanics, if i dont believe what they say the problem is, i seek a second opinion but i dont argue over a topic like cars when i dont know and certainly wont post stuff that is totally false just for the sake of posting. ppl read this stuff and a lot of them believe the crap and guess who suffers the consequence, me and all the other techs that the ignorance will make their job a lot harder bcuz sum1 read somewhere post some mis-leading information. if u dont know plz google, if u r not sure ask questions dont post faslehood period!

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=296829.msg4206829#msg4206829 date=1247862097]focus on not wanting kids ke? btw, the couple i used in the ex. already have 3 young kids!

no ma point is that it's long overdue for most/some. . . .  those not doing it before to start at least contributing![/quote]will u fix the car also? will u do the lawn? if armed robbers come to the house, is it ok if i tell u to go down stairs and see what is going on?

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=295331.msg4206785#msg4206785 date=1247861372]What I don't get is why it is always average looking guys who boast the loudest that they are exceptionally goodlooking and handsome

You girls better stop lying to this set of deluded people, before God starts to punish you, or don't you girls realise that lying is a sin before the eyes of God [/quote]i guess they take after the less than average looking girls who form the most thinking they are models . like she said guys, u all should stop going after these girls, less the Lawd strikes u with thunder 

platinumnk:
abi o!!!!


and na2day ur example was waay off

have u ever heard of the saying, "one dey na one day, monkey go go market hin no go come back?"

how will u feel if u heard from some where that ur bf is being approached for sex by ur sister who u hold in very high regards and practically worship but the source also tells u that ur bf has constantly said no to ur sis but he never told u, what will u begin to think? and even if u trust him then suddenly u saw 2 of them having one of those talks where she is trying to woo him, how will u feel? girl, we are humans and that is where doubt will begin and if care is not taken, problems will start to pop up then gradually it can kill the relationship. even if she still holds strong, constant temptation will one day lead to one's will being broken down but if she tells him, she has something to hold on to knowing sum1 she loves already knows and if her bf is stupid enough to break up with her bcuz she told him, then i say, it is better that way than to one day fall due to pressure and she is caught cheating. "one day na one day, monkey go go market, hin no go come back"

iice:
[color=#9900ff]If you mean the skyscraper, then yes [/color]

LOL u crazy u know that right? but u r alright with me

[quote author=nwaka_80 link=topic=295331.msg4203245#msg4203245 date=1247828782]Why on this earth should i be intimidated by them after all my bible tells me that i'm wonderfully and beautifully made, unless if the woman is imbecily and woworishly made. [/quote]are u saying God created some ppl wowo?

aristocrat:
OMO 4GET ABT WAT DA BIBLE TOLD U O, DIS IS REALITY LADIES ARE HIGHLY INTIMIDATED WEN THEY SEE HANDSOME LOOKING AND GEORGEOUS GUYS. I NO FIT LIE U O LADIES DEY TRIP 4 ME O WEN I DEY SCHOOL.

so what happened after u left school, u lost the charm or the real world hit u?

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=296829.msg4201586#msg4201586 date=1247805745]some men are actually changing and are taking the greater part of the rearing responsibility, at least i know one, he cooks for his wife, the wife hardly do any of the cooking or cleaning of the house. it's the hubby who does everything and still takes care of their toddler and upon that still works. and he doesn't complain or brag about it. usually few of the lucky women got those kinds[/quote]and ur point is that we men start doing all these things so that u ladies can focus on not wanting kids, right?