siofra: I pity that your adopted daughter in all of these.
When she loses her virginity (which she definitely will before marriage, because is she not a gen alpha again?) She will become worthless in your eyes. Poor girl
She doesn't deserve you as a father
Calm Down. I actually understand from his perspective. Nobody wants to deal with any woman that has been railed by different Niggas. Some girls even take it in the a nus. Chaii
Mentally its exhausting. If you have already made that mistake (i.e you are not a virgin), don’t worry you will find a simp to ignore your flaws.
Some men just don’t like the idea of non virgins for marriage and nothing will Change that.
ublight: I am not the cause of your misery. Your father is an idiot Your mother is cursed
You are a good for nothing Muslim. Potential terrorist.
Misery? Lmfao. You are in Nigeria my friend. You are the one in misery.
I am not a religious bigot like you. The name Nasri is because I am a fan of Samir Nasri, the former Man City player. Not because I am a Muslim. I don’t have problems with Islam, still.
Sup with your girlfriend?? Did she come back into your poverty world?
samuelson06: Thanks so much for finding wisdom in my comment even though some have chosen to condemn it.
I may sound arrogant but I love everyone and most times, I talk in a manner that'd make you feel bad at first, and later you realize that what I said was the blunt truth. And I also talk regardless whether we are meeting on- or off-line.
I'm in my middle thirties and still single and it's not as if I wouldn't have loved to be married but considering the background that I'm coming from, I've chosen to wait a little longer so I don't end up reinforcing poverty that I came to see in my family.
I feel if that's the sacrifice I'd have to make for my unborn children, then so be it. I've tasted poverty and I hate it with everything within me. I don't wish my children experience it. But glory be to God because I'm winning the battle.
I don't see any sense when people in my age bracket say they want to get married early so they can still be strong to take care of their children. And I ask, what's wrong in having your first child at 40? Won't that child be 30 when you turn 70? Can't a 30-year-old comfortablly take care of his or herself even if I die at 70? BTW, a 70-year-old can still be very strong if he takes good care of himself, especially if he keeps to his fitness routines.
You'd agree with me that even an 18-year-old can take care of his or herself alone having received the right the right parenting and having everything needed to navigate through life. What's the point of jumping into marriage and ending up giving birth to children you can barely take care of and eventually losing them to the society? You end up suffering for nothing. And the you lose your children to the society, you are automatically a failure. I can go on and on but let me stop here.
The youths just need to sit up because the beginner is not always the finisher.
Hi! you said nothing wrong. Having a family or child or children is when you are ready financially and mentally. It’s not an easy job. Developed countries (not Nigeria) these days are restricting it to one or two kids and both parents must be working and stuff.
You need to ignore people like Ublight & Okine4real (They are probably trapped)
These ones are condemned. They are the bunch of illiterates that populate more kids in the poverty capital of the world, Nigeria.
They are created & fully made for Nigeria madness. Nigerianist.
These are the people that will battle to make N30,000 a month salary then manage it with 5 kids and a frustrated wife, in a face me I face you apartment in Ikorodu. He has fully arrived in his goal as a responsible suffering man.
I said frustrated wife cause he Ublight wrote a post recently about his girlfriend choosing to ignore him when he had a cult related problem. Who wants to identify with a man still struggling? If you were in your car, will those boys you had a problem with have the guts to threaten you and your girlfriend? I am talking to you Ublight. Baba sey he jump enter Keke
These Homo sapiens like Ublight and his friend Okine4real are tailor made for suffer related activities and the exposed Nigerian leaders love them so much. Exploit and rinse.
Instead of brainstorming how to improve their poverty related state, all in that tiny cranium is to find one innocent girl and bring her into his suffering.
If these lots pay things like child support in working countries, these idiots would understand how much of a responsibility raising a child is especially in the right environment but of course it’s all about them.
Selfish reasons:
“Who will take care of me when I am old and lonely and didn’t brainstorm ways to make money and have my own retirement funds?”
NemoDatQuod: There is just one simple but very effective thing you can do. Man up and take responsibility for your actions.
You don't seem to be someone who has had to ever take responsibility for his actions. That was why the only thing that came to your mind after you made the mistake of getting into bed with the wrong business partner, was to loan yourself out of your problem. You seem to think there are easy answers to life and its challenges. There are NOT.
Take responsibility. Acknowledge it was your foolish, ill thought out decisions that got you to where you currently are. Acknowledge it was your irresponsibility that made you think that somehow you will get away with borrowing sums at very high interest rates.
When you genuinely accept responsibility, then you will find that you will be eager to take that N25K a month job and go on your knees and be thankful to your creator that you are even able to find such a job. Then you will make a plan for a monthly repayment of the loans. Then you will sit down with the loan companies and agree how much you will repay every month and you will get them to agree to stop additional interest accruing immediately. In an illustrative way, the loan sharks have already received repayment in full by disgracing you within your circle. But you should make the repayment so you can start building the muscle memory of someone who takes responsibility for his actions.
Let your wife go if she must go. But when you stand back up, you MUST NOT under any circumstances go looking for her. Marriage is for better and for worse. She wants to bail out on supporting you with her earnings. Stop that rubbish about what a wonderful woman she is. A good woman won't bail right now, let alone a wonderful one.
It's time to start being a man and leave your childhood days behind and I am not talking about age here. If you think you are having it rough, take a good look at your neighbourhood. You will find those who are truly suffering due to the circumstance(s) of their birth. You are not suffering due to the circumstances of your birth. You are suffering because of your ill advised and foolish decisions.
It is time to be a man. Man Up!
Hahaha this is gold
“ In an illustrative way, the loan sharks have already received repayment in full by disgracing you within your circle.”
ofemigeorge: Don't talk about your country that way. Infact other African countries are abusing their country for not being about to hold AA simple live show as big brother and use Nigeria as an example of a good nation. European countries that show case big brother do they have shallow individual?
Who is this one?
Which other African countries are holding their country accountable for a meaningless showpiece?
You mean other African countries are holding Nigeria as a reference? Haha lmfao.
Still, You talk about other African countries & European Countries. They have things like Love Island and co but are they facing the same sh*t hole predicament like your country?
Mr man continue to enjoy your poverty and sh*t security in your country and let other enlightened people speak their opinion.
Yankee101: And yet remittance from naija folks abroad is one of the largest in the world?
Na lack of gratitude like this dey discourage person
The person you have abroad assists immediate family, extended family, childhood friends, neighbours, random strangers begging him/her from naija, church, etc But everyone forgets he has his own family abroad, himself and the high cost of living in developed countries
If he manages to send to you as a friend, even once a year, be grateful
Oyinbos have more savings on the same salary because he dosent give a single person his money, not even his parents
Parents must work even if you are in your 60s
It’s Nigeria here that parents will be waiting for their children.
bnadam21: marriage na scam, aswearugod, I will rather just be fxcking around, get a baby mama than to have a leech I keep at home who only give p*ssy as her only marital contributions.
Even dating sef na scam. I have explored and deduced everything. You are always on the losing side when you commit to a woman. It’s self depreciating.
Just be single and enjoy your life. Have a baby mama. Die happy. Just don’t leash anybody
tinsel: Tell me what he did wrong? A 21 years old boy wants to donate his kidney and the Ekweremadu wants to pay for it. What is the problem? Where I will lay blame on Ekweremadu is if the boy is actually 15 years and Ekweremadu is part of the conspiracy to inflate his age to 21. People have been selling their kidney in Nigeria. This is not the first and not going to be the last so far the seller is an adult.
Lol Nigerians and their thinking. I am done. Loooooool
ubunja: okay here's one of the unfinished Miseducations i left hanging when i abruptly stopped writing. I wrote this I think a year or so ago, I hope it makes sense:
THE MAN WHO SITS AT THE TOP OF THE SEX PYRAMID.
There's a sexual hierarchy in society. Levels, if you will. Like the levels on a pyramid. The Incels sit at the bottom getting no pussy, above are the Simps, used for their resources but getting breadcrumbs, above them sit the Betas, or the "patriarchy" - our fathers and most men. These are the "alpha providers" women settle down with. Above this group sit the PUAs, the Pick Up Artists who trick women into bed. Women have a special kind of hate for these fellows. Above these fellows are the Alphas, the Red Pillers, many of whom are former Betas played by women but who now know their worth. Above them are the Players, Thugs, Bad Boys, Chads, Tyrones, criminals and all those men in prison, these are the sexual alphas, but social failures. They get the best and the most sex but manu are uneducated, broke and jobless. They have the best genes, and are the most gorgeous and the most fertile of men. They're the Sexual Imprint of virtually every girl because girls lose their virginity here. Women want to get pregnant here. Single mothers are made here. And wet coochies go here. When women are younger and fresher and wanna experience life they go here. It is women's previously unknown preference for this group that is pushing many men to the Red Pill.
Let's move on,,,,Above these men sit gigolos, male prostitutes, male strippers, exotic dancers, massage therapists and personal trainers, - men paid by women for sex. Where men traditionally are the ones who buy sex, the sheer sexiness and bed skills of this group is enough to flip the script and force women to break with tradition and pay for sex.
AND FINALLY, OVER AND ABOVE EVERYONE, sitting at the very top of the sex pyramid, dominating the sexual hierarchy, chosen and tutored by prostitutes and dealing only with them, is a Man the French call the Maquereau. Or the Mackerel. Who is known in the west as the Mack. But is universally known as the Pïmp.
Beyond this Man whom prostitutes pick, build and then pay to have sex with, who moves in a world opposite every man's - there's no one. He is the best of the best. The Game in the flesh. PUA and Red Pill philosophy is actually a watered down version of Pímp's game.
But hold on,,,, while there's no one greater than the pímp in the game, while no man is better than him when it comes to women, there's Someone equal to him. Someone who matches him and with whom he shares the top spot. Someone who knows what he knows and who moves how he moves. This Someone inhabits an entirely different world, but that is as filled with women and pussy as the pímp's own world is. Time and again this Someone hits the news for his sexual debauchery and scandals but is judged far less harshly and always given a pass. And it's not surprising that many pímps when they retire, they become him.
This Someone is the Preacher.
Outside of the Pímp, no son of Adam dominates women as completely as the Preacher. Besides the pímp no other man understands female psychology as intimately as the Preacherman.
And it definitely doesn't help that many pímps have preacher-like monikers, eg the pímps Archbishop Don "Magic" Juan, Minister Seamore and Pastor Troy: Video title - "Pímp Interview: Pastor Troy"
Add to that the pímps' penchant for quoting scripture and oftentimes referring to the IZM as the "gospel"; hearing a pímp talk is no different from hearing a preacher preach.
But it is the pímps who retire to be preachers that is the master stroke. This is an impossibly genius move that takes the pímps from one world of women to another world of women. From pussy to pussy. It's almost as if women escape the pímp on the streets only to meet him at the pulpit. And terrible is the financial and sexual exploitation women have experienced in the hands of the Pulpit Pímp.
He has more power over their minds and emotions than their own husbands. And they would rather disappoint their husbands than disappoint him. You only have to see how women's faces light up when they talk about the preacher, fondly calling him, "my pastor" or "the dear Man of God". You only have to see the massive female following preachers have. How women vastly outnumber men in their congregations. Then you'll appreciate the scale of the pímping that is afoot against the female gender. Observant men are starting to joke, "if you want coochie, start a church!" It used to be, "If you want money start a church!" Now with the nonstop rumors, sex exposés and scandals it's becoming clear that churches are as rich in pussy as they are in money.
I am crying especially with the last parts
This girl used to prefer being in church (celestial) with the pastor over being with me. Kind of like the Waco siege in the United States.
He could command her to come to church and she will come. There’s a way he always talks to her that gets her super excited.
You need to see the way her eyes lights up when she talks about him. The man has about 3 wives. My ex wasn’t the only one sharing her secrets. Her sisters and everyone of them girls in that place. They tell the pastor everything. Their current relationship problems. Sex problems. Everything.
Omo I am glad I put that shit behind me. Never again. Never committing anything again. Never trusting women again. Thank God for red pill.
HOW CAN A MAN OF GOD BE DECIDING WHEN & WHEN NOT TO HAVE S*X WTH ME.
ubunja: Lol lesbians.... Remember women don't have moral limitations with sex, so even lesbianism is not so much as a sexual orientation for them but them just having fun. Women's relationship with sex is strange. Women will have sex with their pastor and still believe in their heart he's a man of God. The sex doesn't diminish anything spiritually for them. It don't register as a moral red flag. Quite the opposite! Instead of a woman seeing her pastor as a hypocrite for sleeping with her, "Alpha fuccs" kicks in and she starts admiring him as an alpha while getting disgusted by her own husband at home.
And about this 3sum thing, it's one of the leading reasons why Polygamy is making a huge comeback in the West. And it's mainly driven by women. If you follow the pages especially on Instagram, most proponents of this arrangement are women. Women are just looking for permanent 3sum setups with the right guy. The extra income and extra helping hands are just the icing on the cake. Its interesting though cause the main reason being given by women is the extra income thing.
Lol bro the girl I was with before red pill, her pastor literally orders when to have sex with me or not. I was shocked why a man of God will be diving into such privacy.
Nonexisting: I remember an incident that happened not too long ago. After fuccking one foolish vaginarian, I decided to rest because I fuccked her more than my usual 15minutes. She got a call from her friend I presumed and next thing she said "I'm in my man's house". I looked at her like she wore the wrong side of her cloth. After the call, I quietly reminded her we were not dating and that she should desist from referring to me as her man because na from my man, e dey enter my mugu. Every "my mugu" today was once called "my man".
This guy I just Dey read all your posts. You too much
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