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Start off with mashed bananas for him....try mashing half a banana. Give him little....repeat it daily even if he takes just a spoon.....eventually he ll take more as he gets used 2 the taste

Try mashed Avocados .....same instructions as above

Boil rice (without salt) until its very soft and then mash it with x2 spoons of formula milk and feed him.....same instructions as above

Try him with fried egg with no salt or pepper.

Try indomie without the spice...mashedup indomie

Feed him with ur (adult) foods as you eat but ensure dt particular meal is cooked with less pepper or spice.

Also try and feed him with his fellow age groups as kids often like to copy what they see their peers doing....hopefully he ll eat when he sees his peers eat.

Repeat the above daily even if its x1 or x2 a day till he gets used 2 the taste.
Initially he may only tolerate a spoon.....then x2 spoons then x4 spoons etc
REMEMBER kids can be funny....he could fall in love with the food today and eat lots of it and then in 3wks time, completely reject it.
FINALLY pls and pls NEVER feed ur child by blocking his nostrils and starving him of oxygen in the process.....its never a good idea to starve a human being of oxygen

Oga when u want advise be honest with the facts
- Yes u met her and u are wealthy
- you are a violent and possesive man....hence u ensured she spent every weekend at urs by providing flight tickets so she wont say theres no money 2 visit.
- you continued ur monitoring when she married u by tailgatting her every move.
- FYI there's nothing wrong with an elective CS. She won't be the 1st or last woman to opt for it.
- She LEFT despite the luxurious life u afforded her because PEACE of mind and her life is more precious than marriage to you thats attached with violent conditions.
-Just because you are no longer mareied doesnt diminished ur parental responsibilities.....You are still responsible for the upkeep of ur children wherever they may be....so her reporting you to agencies 2 remind and enforce ur responsibilities is correct.

But if u want a pity parry, then what you wrote up there is perfect, Sir Lancelot, Prince Charming and Knight in shinning armour

laff2016:
Jesus,this is serious,as I don't even know the person u are trying to accuse.

Mr Ameh Johnson Gbede, when are you going to acknowledge the donations made to you? I know money has been paid into your account yet you are here using alternate handles to boost your plight

Great service Nkataa

The fact that you choose your brothers comfort over your own son, the first seed of your loins, your only surviving seed....you ll rather have him experience the trauma of a broken home over "what my mother will say" "what my siblings will say" speaks volumes of ur character. If i was your wife, i will forgive you But will NEVER return to u

I hv sent it

Abdulazeezjimoh:
Hello Sir, can u possibly give her 18k and if u can help send the 2k balance...I don't need it to travel anywhere, just to get some foodstuffs til mum and dad would b able to send some money hopefully before the end of next week...Almost all my frds have left for home as such I can't borrow from them at this time...Thanks in anticipation of a favorable response...

Send me a mail

How can "A trip to Jamaica" be nominated, considered as a comedy or even win ANY award?
Tge movie had no substance nor comedy value...no message and tge script was wack.
30 days in Atlanta was better than that film

I agree with the comments . He must have dressed indecently

How can you compare Nigeria and Mexico Is mexico a nation to emulate for godsake?

Yes. However its often expressed into a bottle for the child

Maybe its ur friend whos charmed this lady sef... afterall all this abroadians often like unexposed women they can control..
On another note, Madam Alakija has no uni degree and was infact a tailor until she hit the jackpot.
I have seen girls wt masters from the UK who are clueless so whilst having educational qualifications is good, it doesnt necessarily mean you are educated.
Your friend may have graduated with a 3rd class and a Pass in his Bsc and Msc so pls dont think hes doing anyone a favour by marrying them

You got over 62k so far and only paid 45k How come your name on your id is different to the bank?

Holamscoh:
Pls my lovely sister, pls lend a helping hand to me, GTBANK:0019443174 May your days be long & fruitful on earth. Thanks in advance. God bless.

Oga Ola warrisdis naa

Helping his 2 sons and assisting his wife equates to helping him
Helping his 2 sons and wife equates giving him money
Dont let anyone make you feel bad. You have done more than enough, that man isn't your responsibility

Tnx to Science And IVF

X

she doesn't know how to play the game. she just deleted/disposed off the players. I guess its easier to do that (google how to) than actual learn the game.

she doesnt know how to play the game. she just deleted/disposed off the players. I guess its easier to do that (google how to) than actual learn the game.

Serious issue. My sister's hubby is threatening hail and brimestone over FIFA game. Maka why?

Well, sis caught hubby sexting....she raised the roof and of course, Mr Man apologised and blamed all the devils....bla bla bla also claimed sis wasnt giving him attention - now this happened 2 yrs back.

Recently, Mr Man was caught sexting again....sis found and made he knew he was caught out red handed only that she didnt kick a fuss, she just kept calm. Mr Man, still fidgeting because he couldnt tell what her next move was. 2 days after the incident, he surrendered all his passwords to her (willingly ooo, as a changed man that he is naa); Sis then logs onto his FIFA 16 account, sacks his Manager, sells his top players.

Mr Man, found out and is calling all the family members to report sis that she is capable of killing someone all because of FIFA.

Now my question to men are, is FIFA gaming (a fiction) more important than reality?

Lalasticlala come and help, i promise i wee dash you snake

The damage done by the APC led government to Nigerians in the last 16 months is enough for Nigerians young and old, to willingly travel down and vote out any APC subject....... however in the midst of all this, i beg you all, NEVER waste your life, shed blood or fight for ANY politician. Their kids and family are in the abroad as we speak.

obeuno:
. I appreciate your candid advice, you really need to know me, am better than all your suggestions, and that's why am really broken. i am on top of my game in and out of the Bed. for real.

Yes you are broken but you actually sound arrogant. Being better/great is subjective. Does your wife think you are better? If she did infact cheat on you then clearly you are not better than the above suggestions because once she had tasted the guy's rod then she would have had a yardstick to compare.....which she perhaps has done and decided, dude is better than your "all knowing self" hence going back for more in the bathroom and everywhere else.

Harsh as it may sound, figure out what you arent doing right. That Buhari, Kemi Adeosun et al thinks they doing an excellent job doesnt mean every Nigerian agrees?

take heart. Keepingmum whilst being sarcastic has given you some solid advise there and even a fellow dude backed her advise up.
Marriage isnt a bf/gf thingy....its work, cheating would be the least of your challenges in marriage, so make it work, go and woo your wifey and show everybody that you own her coochie

Government of the people for the people and by the people......Vision 2019 loading

APC Slogan ---we have spent the last 4 years ridding the system of corruption; a la saraki, jibrin, dogara, madam Haliburton, Oga gucci shoes, madam 40M handbag, Mallam there is no dollars for business transactions but there is subsidised dollars for Mecca trips and so on, and so forth

PDP's Slogan -- Vote us back in power, we will give you corruption, boko Haram, imported food produce et al

We need a new leader with no recycled party affilations, godfathers, no previous political experience (yes i said so) to lead this animal farm

Stella42:
Now let me explain things here, since she had the opportunity to work with me through this platform. I placed an advert for a personal assistant needed, several people called and I did the interview, I chose Mrs Peace because I believe she's matured and can handle the position well. I have alot of businesses I do mostly online. That's why I needed a personal assistant, to work for me in areas where I'll be to busy to attend to. I told her that there's no physical office to work, and that this job is very flexible, She can as well as do other jobs. We agreed on 30k per month.
Fast forward to a week later when I had to do recruitment for my ushers, I told her to come for the recruitment so she'll meet the new girls joining in. After the recruitment was over, I told Mrs Peace that she should come the next day so she'll sign the necessary documents, she didn't come, God knows I can't remember the excuse she gave, I called some days later to remind her, but she didn't. Why will I keep bothering myself over someone that isn't even interested in Signing any papers? I was too busy preparing for an event coming up so I let that slide. Pls note that she started working on May 20. The only job she did was the event I told her of which took place on June 14. After the event my so called PA never called to make enquiries on other jobs, she didn't even bulge. Obviously she was waiting for her salary. During the interview, I told her I need someone that knows the in and out of events management and planning, she said of course she does, but trust me she has no idea. If I don't call, she won't call. How can a worker be this bad? A graduate for that matter? And you expect me to gladly pay you 30k? When I didn't see anything you did? I attend my meetings all by myself and I have a PA?
I travelled for business and I told her that when I'm back I'll like to see her face to face and not just transfer the money. She agreed, just two days ago she said she can't take it anymore, this is someone that insulted me last two months Even when her salary isn't due. Mrs Peace, you better learn to be polite. Am in Lagos now. I have promised not to call you, so when you're ready, call Me and let's meet at a place. I won't pay you 30k because you didn't live up to expectation. I'll rather use the remaining half to buy provisions for the less privileged than to pay you that 30k. Mark my words

Madam stella, whether you are satisfied with someone's work ethic or not, you have to pay them for the duration of their employment and then terminate the contract afterwards.

The op is legally entitled to her time and pay for the 1 month she worked with you. You are breaking the law by withholding her salary and i would advise the op to file a claim against you at her local magistrate/high court.

Op, madam stella has publicly acknowleged that
she employed you
for the duration of one month
was dissatisfied with your work ethics
is unwilling to pay your full pay

She has made this attestations on a public domain....you have a clear case here and i suggest you file a suit. There is no need for mediation at this point. All madam stella needs to do is make a bank transfer of your salary to your account. Dont accept to meet her anywhere of pick any calls. Any conversations you have with her should be documented..ie text, chats etc

Nigerian employers must learn to act right at all times. That you are not happy with the taxi or bus you boarded from point A to B doesnt mean you wont pay the agreed fare

To serve as a useful feedback to both service users and the Network, i think it should be categorised...

a- Network coverage
b - dropped calls
c - Service charges - call charges/internet charges etc
d- Internet service
e - Customer service experience ie complaints, how long it takes to speak with a call centre staff, length of time taken to resolve your issue, attitude of staff
f - overall experience.

Alot of these organisations monitor our threads for feedback and it would be a more meaningful thread if they have data that reflects the above. Perhaps Seun/Lalasticlala or any other MOD can create a vote button with each of the above indicated under each networks so that customers can see and make an informed decision when choosing networks, as well as Mobile coys can see and make improvements in their services.....should they choose to heed.

[quote author=urbanmsg post=48326434][/quote]Madam you dont have to justify your actions to anyone on this platform. Your hubby was already sleeping with both of you before he paid your bride price.
Asides from that he has not being a husband nor father to you and your son. He has only being a sperm donor and infact succeeded in putting your life at standstill for over 5 years.

I say move on with your life and dont look back. Do NOT go to the village to meet his people. Let him bring hsi people to yours to trash out upkeep for your child. DO NOT allow him visit your house before he comes and kidnaps your child.

Do NOT agree to meet him ANYWHERE, not a pastor's house, not an uncle's house, not his family house, not a friends house NO WHERE except YOUR FAMILY HOUSE.

He was cheating on you through out the last 5 years and even has a child. DO you know whether he has HIV? its possible the only reason he is coming back is becuase the SA chick has thrown him out after finding out about you.

Always remember that a man who loves you would NOT treat you the way he did. I bet you he has being communicating with his friends and family in nigeria through his "difficult and hard" times yet he CHOOSE not to contact you.

You deserve waaaayyyyyy better than such a man so please do not settle for less. What is the guarantee that you accept him and in another 3years time he doesnt run away with another rich babe to Ghana/Togo/Brazil/UK?

EfemenaXY:
Just seen that your wife actually created not just one thread but several complaining about you, your mother, and everything under the sun.

I suggest you go read through her threads, then take yourselves to qualified marriage counsellors otherwise the non-stop blame game continues with no resolution.

Nland will not solve your problems. Get communicating with your wife and you both should make compromises. Endeavour to meet each other half way. Keep pride aside and you both should make sacrifices for the betterment of your union.

Is his wife Babztemmy?

sanelynutz:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am so frustrated now that the wife I married is not what I expect her to be, we share totally different values and reasoning. As regards this terrible differences, I resorted to creating this thread, because am not even sure if I am to be blamed to this, or maybe am trying my best to make things work and my wife is not just listening and trying to succumb and submit according to what I believe is the right way to do things and handle life. I am the t
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Oga i empathise with you. I can see you posted this in the wee hours of morning....shows how concerned you are.

It appears to be a MIL - DIL issue thats brewing.... You say your FIL has only visited once since you married (4 years ago). I am assuming your mother has visited more times than that? especially with your wife having 2 babies and no biological mother to assist her?

Is it possible that some things went down/happened during those visits between your wife and mum that makes your wife feel you put your mum's feelings/needs before hers?

You say you bought your wife 2 cars whilst you use one car? i find that hard to believe that your wife has 2 cars at her disposal yet you relegate her to the use of a taxi.

I would advise you take your wife away for a holiday, a weekend or a week, just the 2 of you to talk and trash issues out; to reconnect on a deeper level because clearly somebody is talking but somebody isnt listening

Marriage is a partnership and NOT a dictatorship. Just because you "feel" its right doesnt make it right. You cannot have 2 masters in one ship, true....however your leadership will be open to mutiny if you carry on with that mentality of I speak and everyone else should bow/not talk.
Infact, you need a new orientation and mindset. I imagine you started to write "i am the head" and stopped abi? Mr Buhari, kontinu oo


However if you believe divorce is the way forward; then by all means go ahead and start your divorce proceedings. Make sure you are not just throwing the word divorce around hoping that your wife will "fall into line" because she just might take you up on your offer.

Mr angry man, there are women who prayed more than Moses, cook better than our mothers, shagg better than whores and you know what, the husband's still left them!!

That your pastor gives an opinion/advise doesnt mean he is right nor does it mean he is wrong. there is a reason why people cook jollof rice via different methods; there is a reason why 5 + 4 = 9 and 6 + 3 = 9.

Even amongst men, there are men who are prayer wariiors (in their church, holding night vigils and all) yet are sinners. Is the criteria of a good wife based on how "good of a cook she is"?

You do realise that people's tastebuds are different. Whom i may consider a great cook might be considered a good cook to someone else.

Finally, our men of God are human beings like us, they read the same scriptures and holy books that we read and because they say something doesnt mean we should follow suit blindly. What applies in their house doesnt and shouldnt always apply in your home.

When the pastor asks your wives to come and pray in church everyday for 2 hours, you men are the first to jump and criticise the pastor however now that something is said favourably you are all dancing shakiti bobo on the comment.

What happened to the other comments he made about jobless men having no business marrying a wife? where are the articles supporting that please?

pls send us your pre wedding pics with Girl A, then the wedding pics, then the naming ceremony pics, then the anniversary pics

but nigerian youths would expect a cushy office job with over 100K salary (because they are graduates)....continue....

incomplete. Oga what happened to the BMW? that should have fetched you over 1M especially as you paid for the shipping and clearance? what did you do with that money?