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Pls close this thread. ....scorned lover alert

They look like defensive injuries to me

rem he threw her out with the children first. a wife is not to be tossed out like trash and then u expect her to come running back when you snap your fingers.

and to those blaming the woman, HE brought this on himself.
HE threw his children out knowing fully well that their academics would be affected.
He threw out his wife ( i am sure not without some beating) so please before you start talking, look at the bigger picture.

NOBODY (Man or woman) would want to be where they are tolerated rather than celebrated.

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This is the same dude who kept posting several topics about divorcing and remarrying another wife because his mother hates his first wife.
I remember you clearly poster
First you started a thread saying you wanted to marry but your mother did not like your choice and the lady your mother preferred is whom you eventually married. Then she had 2 kids and your mother decided she doesnt like your wife again and asked you to drive the woman away which you did. You then settled your differences and your mother decided to cut off all ties with you because she said you are not respecting her as your mother according to islamic ties.
You came here again to seek advise and we all told you to "Man Up" and stop been controlled by your mum.
E con be like say your idea of man up to go marry 2 wives put for house?
Kai una too dey forget for nairaland

This guy has had mummy / wife issues for ages, he is always here and in the Islam section asking for advice on the same issue.

1. Mummy married the wife for him
2. Mummy fell out with wife because she said wife was respecting her own mother more
3. Mummy orders he divorced his wife and he did
4. Uncles came and begged he wanted to get his wife back mummy said over her dead body because her " enemies " namely his wife and her mother will laugh at her
5. Guy gets wife back mummy disowns him

The one I pity in all this is the wife and kids caught in the middle of the drama, indecision and tantrums
I expect him to drive wife away again soon and come back and ask for more advice.
Your wife is right in telling your concubine (cos thats what she is) that she would regret marrying you cos i can only imagine how less of a man/husband you have been during your marriage, forever tied to your mother's apron and probably now doing your mother's bidding by marrying a 2nd wife to spite your 1st wife. You are using your hands to pull down and destroy your life sha

https://www.nairaland.com/1999551/forced-divorce-islam
https://www.nairaland.com/2074827/mum-angry-disowns-me
https://www.nairaland.com/2283118/islamic-view-keeping-wives-same

and you are a pastor abi? So what do you preach to intending couples? When i tell my people to be careful of who they go to, to lay hands on them they would not hear
A Pastor (collecting tithe and offering in the name of God's work) is opening/associating himself with this type of ish, i hope you do not lay hands or pray for people or dedicate babies before you transfer on your demonic spirit to others

Imagine how a selfish relative can do this to his own blood? That poor girl's life has been irrevocably changed. She needs counselling and alot of love.
Indeed, the thing that eats up a leaf, lives with the leaf. May we, our children and families continually be protected from evil and harm. This would NEVER be our portion in the name of whatever we serve or believe in AMEN

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pappyrose:
This is called transfer adoption. It will not follow the process of original adoption. It will not take as much time, maybe about 3 months. The process is quite simple.

Thank you for the response. Does it involve a fee? presentation of documents etc?

pappyrose:
Prepare your mind to pick a form, ur form will be processed, u will need some other documents, u will be interviewed with ur husband. It will take some time, it's not something done in a hurry. Feel free to ask me any more questions on this.

Hi, my husband is in support of these however we both dont reside in 9ja so it will be me just making the trip. Like i said, its a family member's child we are trying to adopt into our family. The Child is a teenager and preparing for Uni so is quite old enough to make informed decisions and is very happy for this to take place. Unfortunately, both his parents are dead and he has been under the care of his paternal family who have been tremendiosly wonderful with his upkeep.
However in order for him to join my family and I, its necessary to get the "paperwork" done hence my questions/post.

With all i have posted, do you still envisage it would be a hurdle to pass through? whats the length of time it takes? His paternal family are also in support of this decision

Thank you. God bless you

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blank:
She will if it is done legally.

Will look for one of debrief's threads. She mentioned it.

Thank you pls do cos I can't seem to find it despite trying

thanks for your response Mynd however i dont live in 9ja and the child lives in a SW state.

Can someone please help with me with some information on how to legally adopt a child in Nigeria, specifically a family member's child? Whats the criteria, process, length of time? I do not live in Nigeria either but I am happy to come down to complete the process.

Or if you can provide me with the contact details of the department that deals with this please.

PS: I have tried google but there is limited information on this for the "nigerian system"

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My 8 year old made me breakfast in bed. Such a gentleman. Makes me feel proud as a mum.
I pray everyone trusting God for marriage/children will receive their miracle within the next 12 months.

I had an epidural as i had a very difficult labour all because i was trying to do "hebrew woman" rubbish bearing in mind this was a very difficult pregnancy.
from day 1, I suffered with Severe Hyperemesis and was constantly admitted in hospital. Then i was overdue and the doc's recommended CS. My mum, hubby & pastor were all talking their own and i followed their talk, ended up with major complications after birth.
Those complications began before i even had the epidural but i can tell you this, the epidural was the best pain relief ever.

I had gas & air, then 2 doses of diamorphine injections then an anesthetist came and administered the epidural in my spinal cord
It took all the pain away completely!!! the only thing i felt was discomfort and pressure to push around my pelvic. I even had an episiotomy yet didnt need pain relief for that because of the epidural.
It has to be administered by an anesthetist. I sat on the bed but had to bend forward whilst the anesthetist stood behind me to get my spine as its injected in the spine and connected to a tube/drip type stand. The doses are then adjusted depending on the strength of the medication.
The anesthetist got it after a second attempt cos the first attempt was uncomfortable for me.

Side effects are, drowsiness. ( I slept immediately after pushing out the big headed child). I didnt even know when the placenta was removed or when i was stitched back.
Would i have an epidural again? Absolutely yes!!!. Its generally used for preplanned CS so that the mother is awake during the process anyway. But as long as you have the right team with you then you are good to go.

barcanista:
@ Natasha, thank you for stating your mind. I am very much concerned in some points that you raised. You said Jonathan tried in IT, Housing and Agriculture, Please can you tell us how?

You also said General Muhammadu Buhari made some statement after losing 2011, can you specifically tell us the statement?

There were certain comments Buhari made following his loss in 2011 (when i find the links, i'll edit and add them here in the meantime, i am sure if you google "Buhari comments Post election violence 2011 you may find something) which i feel were careless and it inflamed tensions and these comments of his led to the almajiris attacking and murdering NYSC corpers at their lodge.
Corpers were specifically targeted as they were used for the election mobilization bruhaha last elections....the almajiris, on Buhari's incitement, choose to attack corpers who were only doing their jobs. People's children (like you and I) were murdered in cold blood. Parents buried their children, siblings lost siblings, friends lost friends, i can never forget that incident.
The people he was angry with did not die, their children did not die, it was the regular Nigerian that suffered losses whilst the elitist remained untouched.

actually, i do not have a top three or even a preferred candidate, however i do know i dont want GEJ or Buhari in power

Most definitely and thats why we have the power to decide come 14.2.15 who will lead us as we go through a period of change. We can choose familiar faces, people from the same tribe/religion, our grandparents agemates or we could vote a new breed in. Its upto us to make that choice.

theunusualmoon:
Funny how you listed the discipline of the incumbent and his vice and stayed mute as regards the others.

I didnt, like i stated, its copied "as is" from the spreadsheet on Inec's website. You are welcome to read through for yourself

SirHouloo:
How I wish we have better candidates that can amass plenty votes.

I am sure we have better candidates. People like Pat Utomi and co. However I also believe that if we studied a little more about the "other" candidates in the smaller parties, we might find in them, a better candidate than GEJ or Buhari.

I am not trying to sway PDP or APC voters. However i do not think either candidates, presented by both dominant parties can provide the change that Nigerians need.

On one hand, we have PDP who have ruled for about 16 years. Whilst we have seen improvement in some sectors (aka IT, Housing, Agric) it has not been enough as the unemployment rate is still high + we now have a whole different level of insecurity to contend with.
My opinion of GEJ is that we have a president with good intentions, who is inexperienced but learning on the job, however he is surrounded by advisors whom are only after their own selfish interest.
My VERDICT - If GEJ wins, we will see some improvement, but not at the pace its needed and frankly, i do not believe we need someone who is still learning.

Unto APC, we have Buhari who i am of the opinion that perhaps he means well for Nigeria, however, i cannot forget that this man made very careless and insensitive comments when he lost the last election that led to the needless brutal murders of several NYSC corpers serving in the north. He has never apologized till date.
Also, i believe, APC had better candidates but the Northern elite imposed their candidate.
APC is touted as the party to bring change, but how can we expect change a greater proportion of the party are members of PDP who decamped to APC to secure their meal ticket for the next 4 years?
Its like a man who has a faulty car, after working hard for several months to save, takes the car to a dealer to trade in for a newer car but instead of getting a newer car, the dealer repaints the car and you are charged the value of a new car. In a scenario such as this, you end up with a old car in a new bodywork. Same car, same engine, just a different body work. You will see no difference in performance
Voting Buhari would in effect mean, bring PDP back to power (my opinion).
Look at the people surrounding Buhari and ask yourself, what did they do with their mandate before 2014? Did we see the change they are promising us when they ruled? (We know Tinubu was known for empowering the area boys in Lagos during his tenure then he left and became a godfather) Are we ready to go back to godfatherism days of 9ja politics when Andy Uba kept harrassing Ngige out of power? The days of Adedibu disturbing the Oyo Gov? Part of OBJ's problem is that he handpicked GEJ who then decided not to a puppet anymore.

The challenges Nigeria faced when Buhari was in power in the 80's, whilst there are some similarities however there is a great difference from what we face today and some of this need to tackled with urgency.
I dont think GEJ has the skills nor has he grasped the reality of the urgency, neither do i believe that a Buhari who's on a vendetta mission to is get everybody either locked before addressing the challenges we face is suitable to be our number 1 citizen.

In exactly 4 weeks, we will be going to the poling stations, to decide our future for the next 4 years, our children's future on FEB 14 (sorry ladies, valentine has been cancelled for security reasons )
in 4 yrs, you writing WAEC, might be graduating from uni....what prospects/plan do the candidates have for you?
You could be married in 4 years? Can you attest to the fact that the main candidates above can perhaps create better jobs that will enable you achieve those goals? start a family? train your unborn child through Nursery?

Like i said in the beginning, i am not telling you who to vote for however i believe that if we truly desire change, the change we desperately NEED and by God the change we have earned, we should go out to vote but vote for the unknown candidates, the ones who havent been in the coffers of powers since the days of our fathers....that to me, is the change we need. We need new minds, new ideas not recycled political LovePeddler.s jumping back/forth ship for their selfish interest.
When i was in nursery school, i was told we are the leaders of tomorrow. Yet, the people in the coffers of powers then are still the ones in power and every 4 years they promise us change (good roads, electricity, jobs, security...we never see am). All they do is change parties or move from reps -> Senate -> Gov -> advisor -> ambassador et al and then put their wives/children/inlaws and its a repeat of the same ol.

Below is the list of the presidential and VP candidates on INEC's website (Party/Age/Qualifications). Lets take our time to ready thru the manifesto of the other parties and vote for wisely for a change....Surely someone amongst the names below can deliver a better performance that the 2 candidates above. That's my take, that's my opinion
God bless us all.

1 JCI SEN. TUNDE ANIFOWOSE-KELANI PRESIDENT AA MALE BED
COMRADE ISHAKA PAUL OFEMILE VICE PRESIDENT AA MALE HND
2 RAFIU SALAU PRESIDENT AD M 58 SSCE
AKUCHIE CLINTON CLIFF VICE PRESIDENT AD M 64 B.SC
3 ALH. GANIYU O. GALADIMA PRESIDENT ACPN M HND
OJENGBEDE OLUREMI FARIDA VICE PRESIDENT ACPN F PGD
4 DR. MANI IBRAHIM AHMAD PRESIDENT ADC MALE PHD
OBIANUJU MURPHY-UZOHUE VICE PRESIDENT ADC MALE PHD
5 AYENI MUSA ADEBAYO PRESIDENT APA M B.SC (HONS)
ANTHONY FAITH OLOGBOSERE VICE PRESIDENT APA F 45 B.SC
6 MUHAMMADU BUHARI PRESIDENT APC MALE WASC
YEMI OSINBAJO VICE PRESIDENT APC MALE LLB, BL
7 CHIEF SAM EKE PRESIDENT CPP M 44 PHD
HASSANA HASSAN VICE PRESIDENT CPP F 46 NURSING CERT & MIDWIFERY
8 HIGH CHIEF AMBROSE N. ALBERT OWURU PRESIDENT HOPE M LLB, BL, PGD
ALHAJI HARUNA YAHAYA SHABA VICE PRESIDENT HOPE M HND
9 COMFORT OLUREMI SONAIYA PRESIDENT KOWA F PH.D
ALH. SEIDU BOBBOI VICE PRESIDENT KOWA M B.A
10 CHIEF MARTIN ONOVO PRESIDENT NCP MALE MSC
IBRAHIM MOHAMMED VICE PRESIDENT NCP MALE HND
11 GOODLUCK EBELE JONATHAN PRESIDENT PDP M PHD (ZOOLOGY)
ARC. MOHAMMED NAMADI SAMBO VICE PRESIDENT PDP M M.SC (ARCH)
12 ALLAGOA KELVIN CHINEDU PRESIDENT PPN M 46 B.SC
ARABAMHEN MARY VICE PRESIDENT PPN F 35 SSCE
13 GODSON MGBODILE OHAENYEM OKOYE PRESIDENT UDP MALE LLB, BL
HARUNA ADAMU VICE PRESIDENT UDP MALE NCE
14 CHIEF (DR.) CHEKWAS OKORIE PRESIDENT UPP MALE PHD
BARR. BELLO UMAR VICE PRESIDENT UPP MALE BA

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