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All the CAMRY series after muscle series 2007- 2011 have been rubbish with respect to styling.

debspauly:
yes ...but the age gap is actually 15 ...he lied b4 about his age.

I see. I think 33 is not too bad if you genuinely love him but my fear is that you are still a bit on the young side being 15 years older than you are which means you are still a teenager and based on that fact, marriage should be a No No for you for now because you should focus on education and setting a good career path for yourself. By the time you focus on all these, the probability of you two being together is very slim.
To be frank with you, I honestly think he is basically playing on your financial weakness and age. You can start by withdrawing what he feels or things he feels his cash and care make you do. I mean things like sex because I am sure a lot of water has gone under the bridge as well. Moreover, you still need to verify his age based on the lies. Try and check his driver's license or something more authentic so that you won't be told another lie subsequently. Cheers!

debspauly:
he is 33 .....and sometimes I feel love for him...sometimes I feel disgusted ..I wanna grow old with someone in my age bracket ..and I dont wanna become a widow at a young age ....

I mean the man that is 20 years older than you. Is he 33?

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

Your suspision is most likely right. Forget about all the acting rubbish. That's how most of them do. Some will even cry that you will almost apologise but na lie in most cases. So, don't listen to those saying relax bla bla bla.
Being a tech guy, I once spoofed a lady's MAC address and was following her up and getting all messages just so I know her well before putting my hands in fire. If you see what I saw, the devil himself will be shocked. After I confronted her in a subtle way, she kept on acting for me. More evidences , more acting....all those regular baby, I cannot believe you don't trust me bul.sshhit. Until I reeled out the undiluted chats. They are only sorry when caught.

The truth is that you married a flirt who does not have regard for the institution called marriage. Why would she call some other dude such sweet names when she has a husband. Some women are just heartless. How would she feel when you receive calls from females and call them " my love" , "sweet heart" etc. What is she going to see a gyna for? Just for a 7 week old baby? He even had the guts to say.....how is our baby doing. SMH.

The baby may turn out yours but your wife deserves no respect for disrespecting your marriage. Feel free to give out your numbers too and chat, call freely with females while calling them sweet names in her presence. Maybe she will come back to her senses.

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

You seem a bit immature from what I have seen. There was no place in your post where you mentioned why exactly you like him apart from the fact that he is caring and takes care of you because you mentioned that other guys are handsome too. Are you incapacitated or something? With the way you saying he takes care of you, gives you money bla bla . It seems like you do not have a regular good paying job thus being vulnerable to such gestures.

You failed to name concrete/ genuine reasons why you love him except the ephemerals. What happens if all those things are gone? Huh? It takes more than all the things you mentioned to settle down with someone. You need to think deeply and I do not even know where you have been going that you have been meeting childish younger ones. I do not think this is absolutely correct. You just wanted to use the point to justify your decisions.

Moreover, it is obvious he has also extended the financial care to your family or your family can feel it through you. Either way, they won't be the one to live with him and let no one cajole you into making critical, personal decisions.
How old are you if I may ask? Why is he still single or his he a divorcee or a widower? Answer these questions and let us pick it up from there. Cheers!

Emary:
You are right to give it a good thought before jumping in. There are other factors associated with marrying older men which may not immediately be evident while dating.

1. He may be buoyant now but how many more years of his working life are still available for him to cater to you.
2. What is his health condition now? Does he have underlying ailments like hypertension or diabetes that may soon prove health challenges? You might soon find yourself a nursemaid or worse, a young widow if he does not take proper care of himself.
3 What is his attitude to you? Given the age difference, he might be controlling and you would be in no position to express yourself properly as it might appear rude to "challenge" him. He should at least be your friend and hear your opinions before taking decisions.

A lot of younger guys are afraid of heavy responsibilities so they might not be ready for marriage. A young man can also die young too as they tend to take more risks such as drunk driving. The main advantage of marrying an older man is that he is usually already established in his business or career so he has more money to spend. He can, however, lose it in an instant in a bad business deal or an act of God. I was just talking to a friend who told me he lost his house to unforeseen structural damage at 55 after 20 yrs of being in the US and the insurance company wouldn't pay so he is basically restarting from the scratch.

Pray very well for God to show you if he is truly your husband. If you do go ahead, ensure you establish a business that can sustain you and your kids as well as life insurance policies and educational plans so your children would be well catered for in any case.

I wish you all the best.

Same mistakes you ladies usually make. Yours seem more like calculations rather than love.

Zetra:
he is an Explorer in real life having travelled to more than 7countries (not just visited but toured)
You are correct it was business that made him travel alot

Yeah yeah. I did not have the chance to talk to him personally before the session due to his heavy puffs.

eezeribe:
That's why Richard Templar,in his New York bestseller 'The rules of life' said...
"Do not lend to a friend,an amount you can't afford to lose "
I personally do not lend,to neither friend nor foe...and by Divine providence,I have never and would never borrow.

The fact is that there is usually not any amount of money that can be categorized as “ready to lose”. No matter how small the cash is, it is usually still valuable for something important. A small cash like #100 may not even belong to the “ready to lose” category if we all want to go by the “ready to lose” rule. If you give me a call for example and request that I should please wire say #50k into your account to be refunded at the end of the month, why should I not if I have the wherewithal at the moment? Do I now say that because I am not ready to lose #50k, I won’t send it when I have more than that? I think it is just a case of knowing who you are dealing with and looking carefully before parting with your cash. Most times, we tend to sacrifice for people based on tenable contingencies and feel that they should be responsible enough to do the right thing of paying back as and when due.

Therefore, rather than blame the lender for parting with cash that is not a “ ready to lose” money, the borrower should be tutored about the importance of integrity and being responsible to pay back borrowed cash. The sincerity of the borrower should also be queried; if you do not have available means to service a borrowed money, why not come clean and beg that the money be given to you rather than disguising in the form of borrowing. Of course, for most conman, they know the downside of asking for a “dash” is that the amount may not be substantial to service their greedy and wicked intentions once the money has been given out.

I know this particular point is based on various experiences of people and hence the suggestion not to give out anything that is beyond a token. I agree that this is the best thing to do in order to stay safe. However, the whole blame need not be on the lender as I feel the borrower should take a large chunk of it.

Cc: JARUSHUB

IamaNigerianGuy:
Hmmmm...
I was on the show too and came away with 500k.
So you're one of those people who made sitting in the audience a cottage industry ! I dey see una dat time. Awon hustling boys ! Well done !
I totally agree with you. Never underestimate ANYONE. Some Nigerians operate at a genius level.

Wow! Welldone bro! People usually tag along with me into the studio based on my winning antecedents . It got to a time that winning on the show became a second nature. Sometimes, guys around me will say I should read out the correct sequence once the question pops. The few times I tried it, some were even faster than me because I called it out before typing mine. Sometimes, some funny members of the audience will not look at the screen and will only focus on my keypads . Happy to put smiles on their faces as well.
........The audience has been very helpful to the contestants as well because most times, majority of the audience don't normally know the answer to the " ask the audience" question but once few people know, they will whisper to every other member and form a collective vote. It was so much fun!
I played severally for the hot seat but never made it. If I show you my jotter ehn, you go open mouth. I had all the oscar award winning movies at my fingertips, grammies, nobel prize winners, history, geography, sports etc. I doubt if I would have won less than 2 million if I made it coupled with the fact that having been part of the audience for over 20 shows, I understand Frank's body language and that would have been an added advantage.

Philpham:
Good riddance to the wife beater. Nemesis has caught up with him. Idiat

You guys will just be so quick to say trash you do not know anything about based on hearsay and women crying fowl to the media for any little thing. As wicked as the devil is, he wont just go and beat someone if he marries. The question you partial folks always fail to ask any woman that is being beaten regularly is " HOW COME YOU ARE SO BEATABLE"? I doubt if there is anyone that will suddenly raise a hand to a well behaved woman.

NwaAmaikpe:


Na wash jooo
This girl's tummy is more flabby than that of an obese Sumo wrestler.

What happened to that prophesy that she will remain barren?

If that prophesy is anything to go by, then this bump might just be another special effect from Hakeem Onilogbo

What surprises me so much is that even in your calculated/ deliberate foolishness, it is still obvious that you are conversant with recent happenings and quite intelligent . Yours is usually a sarcasm laced with bitter pill and heartlessness

SirWere:


This is so sad. I remember when growing up that this show was a constant weekly show for us. My dad made us watch it until we fell in love with it.

I remember the first questions that they use to pick contestants where they ask them to rearrange C, D, A, B. For my mind, the Shit is easy now.

I remember the hot seat, how the questions to the first "safe spot" was usually easy yet some will use lifeline. Some even miss some questions and walk away with nothing. For me, them stupid o...


I remember when one professor finally won the #10 milla jackpot. Omo see celebration. Like say he came from our house.


All them usual 30 seconds callers and how sometimes all they say is "hello, I can't hear you" and how Frank will keep everyone in suspense with his commercial breaks...




That show cannot close down. Part of me and I believe many other Nigerians will go numb if it does. There are shows of the moment and shows of the lifetime.

Who wants to be a millionaire is the latter.

You must really be so so young. Well, I am one person that will forever be so grateful to MTN for sponsoring the show. Although, I did not get to the hot seat, I am usually part of the audience a lot of times and I won nothing less than 260,000 naira from the fastest finger audience play and that went a long way in helping me during my school days. I remember leaving my house as early as 4:30am every 2 weeks Saturday to make the slot for the audience at the Ogba studio. I remember having multiple studio tags such that I could attend another studio session same day in case I fail to win 20,000 naira in my first show. I remember winning 20,000 naira severally and giving my keypad to complete strangers because I have won so many times and cannot win again. I remember Mr. Wale, the chief security man at the studio. I remember Anthonia, Seye and the rest of the crew. I remember travelling down from my Uni almost every weekend to make the show. I remember scripting the English alphabets on one side of my wallet so that I can get to recite it regularly. I remember introducing at least, 10 friends to the show who ended up winning on the audience play game.

Point of correction, the winner of the 10 million naira is not a Professor. His name is Aroma Ufodike. I was at the studio the day he won. I was in that particular session. In fact, before we went into the studio, I was right beside him and I remember telling him to tone down the puffs from his cigarette.He was under pressure and I guess puffing the cigar was his way of calming down. The security had to stop him before he complied. He was a business man then and he deals with irons. He studied something related to Geography.

One thing the experience with Aroma taught me is that, never underrate anyone. Imagine someone I was hitherto thinking was constituting a nuisance being filled with such repertoire of knowledge and going on to win the ultimate prize.

intrepidjay1:
Funaab lecturer gt ur tym??

In what way do you mean? That he didn't send for me or what? I don't get you.

Any movie from AY is personally a NO NO for me. I don't know what people find interesting about that disastrous "30 days in Atlanta". AY operates like a conman. Rather than work on superb content, he will gather a couple of successful people, give good marketing , people get tickets and fall for his gimmicks. How many people watched the movie twice? The fact that a movie grossed so much at the cinema does not imply that it is really a good one and I am not even going to bother seeing this one.

validstar1:
Oshey oo funaabites! Glory of our day

Greatest Unaabite.....Great! I don't know why 'f' was added to the name. Now sounds like a place where people have fun....Funaab

abdulhadi101:
Had similar experience too in MTH 114, in my case i did write the test but scored 1/30, it was the first test i wrote after gaining admission so we were still celebrating freedom nd enjoying school life, that score was an eye opener so i prepared for the man, i later got an A which is 70...meaning i got 69 or 70 because i only saw the grade

Wow! That's pretty much impressive! Keep it up!

9jageekz:
Bro, I Congratulate you, truly this is a great feat achieved, to be sincere I've been is similar situation in which I missed the test and was scored as 0/30. I was so perturbed because the lecturer couldn't assist me. since I was not a female (if you understand what I mean).


I had to work and study assiduously for his exam. but as I had it, I didn't make an 'A' but all glory to God I made a resounding 54/70 grade which was fairly okay..

it was one of the worst grade that semester..Made about 5A's..

I feel you. 54/ 70 is not fairly okay. It is a wonderful performance. In my own case, I just seem to be naturally good at statistics maybe because I grew up with alot statistics textbooks because that was my mum and dad's course of study.... Mathematics and Statistics. I did not study statistics though but offered a handful of them.

Profmaojo:
I have gotten d real question... yes it is actually SSS2 ngm sine and cosine

Take d snapshot then.

Profmaojo:
APART

Retype the whole question particularly from ....when A had travelled 8km. That part doesn't make sense. Seems something is missing because you said ...." When A had travelled 8km AND the 2 boths were found to be 12km apart". Seems there is something before the "and" or just take a snapshot of the question. I think the question is from NGM. I have solved it before. Just cross check and type the correct thing or snapshot it.

70 A. I consider this my highest because I missed the test and scored 0/30. I approached the lecturer and he sent me out of his office. I decided to deal with him in the exam. I so much massacred that exam that none of my marks could be deducted. So, I scored 70/70 in the exam. He later sent for me after the release of the results and he was so astonished. It was a course in statistics, 200 level....Unaab....2007 or thereabout.

Profmaojo:
two boats A and B left a port C at the same
time on different routes. B travelled on a
bearing of
150 and A travelled on the north side of B.
When A had travelled 8km and the two boats
was found to be 12km. Calculate the bearing of
A route from C. Show your workings and
diagram

The two boats were found to be 12km what? Cross check the question and correct all omissions/ typos. Fast!

I lost my 2 days old newly released infinix zero 4 which I got for 97k to water last December. It slipped into the water closet while I was in the bathroom and trying to put on the torch light when the light suddenly went off while taking a bathe. I dipped in my hands as fast as I could but the damage was already done. It was short circuiting and coming off and on. Impossible to switch it off, impossible to disband it because the battery is non removable. I threw it in the closest dessicant I could lay my hands on which is rice, left it there for 2 - 3 days, no success. Switched it on, came on with blurred screen . To cut long story short, screen and panel was damaged and it will require 50k to fix it. The beautiful phone is lying in my wardrobe in its pack as I type this

Xcelinteriors:
Yes it is my son birthday and we decided to recreate our picture of six years ago. He's my world, my life and my everything

There is no match in the two set of pictures. Do you know what it means to recreate a photo?

sexybbstar:
Not every lady you see on nairaland that rants or create threads are searching for love. We have many ladies here who enjoy bashing you guys, not because they are pained but because they enjoy doing that.

If u think I create threads to attract guys online... Sorry,You are on your own. I use nairaland as a playground, just to see how E-wars looks like when you say the truth. (sonofLuci, Shey u hear?)

The same way not all ladies are in a relationship for money, some are just there to eat your food, wear your shirts, take pictures with your phone and watch Zee World on your television... Lol

...Another attention seeking thread! Who cares what you are looking for on nairaland. Are you this childish? Anytime I peruse nairaland, your moniker litters everywhere particularly in a lot of senseless threads which you normally decide to make your domain. This thread itself reeks of a low self esteem. Most times when I come in here and see the way you young ladies behave I just shake my head....you need to go out more and see what young, successful ladies do with their precious time which is always fleeting rather than seeking validation on a faceless forum and constituting nuisances all around the place. Play sef get level. A lot of people play here and catch fun without littering everywhere.

From the chat, it is obvious that the lady forced the breakup for no justifiable reason under the guise that "you will find a better woman bla bla bla". That is what usually happens when ladies have seen a guy they feel is better off in whatever way they are looking at it and the current boyfriend is a stumbling block to the new guy. The guy on the other hand, didn't want to let go. It is obvious the lady is still embroid in financial oriented tendencies and going to go for the highest bidder just like some of our so called actresses behave. She even stored her supposed boyfriend's name with " Yom Dubai" . Who does that? Nevertheless, sharing her nudes is not the best way to go and the guy is a foool for doing such.

DrinkWater10:
Back to math. please guys help me in solving these past questions- so that I can practise them. (preferably in a piece of paper)

thanks in anticipation.

I honestly think what you need is to have a good grasp of most of those concepts of limits, functions, differentiation, integration through thorough reading rather than just bring all of the questions here. I am sure that you can peruse them in 6 hours and go ahead to solve all these. Good luck!

lacemose:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBi3M_ey3LQ&gl=NG&client=mv-google&hl=en

TKO! The other man fell for his prey technique. Lol

ALVA001:
Thank you so much for the insight. just as you have said, it has no straight digit. I followed the method you used earlier and I got 6.7 for x and 2.985 for y. The answers fulfil both equations.
once again thank you. I will be reaching out again.

Okay. You are welcome!

ratioxyz:
(2)^n +1 = (3)^k where n and k are integers. Given that the pairs (1,1) and (3,2) are solutions in the form (n, k). Show that there exist another solution or no solution.

Cc: all of the maths gurus on this thread
Naturalwaves
Masperano
Agentofchange1

No other pair(s) of solution exists.

ALVA001:
Thank you very much, this has helped alot.

You are welcome!. I thought as much that there may be a slight error since I was not getting digits but still went ahead to solve it. I doubt if this new one will give straight digits as well because no combination from 1,2,4,5,10,20 which are all factors of 20 can satisfy the first equation. The closest to it is a combination of 5 and 4 which will make equation II = 20. You can still solve the question if you want , just follow my steps for the first question you posted but you will still get an answer with decimals from my observation.

lightblazingnow:
....Read Also: 13 Reasons Way you Should Have More Sex

This part was extracted from your writeup which is obviously a link to another article on the site you took it from.Where are we supposed to read it from your writeup? You could not even open your eyes to erase this from your copy copy. Smh.

lightblazingnow:
Kids are always quick in speech, quick to anger and slow to hear......... Because they are Children..... When I became a man I put away childish things......... It doesn't matter that you are over age.. in reasoning children

How does this gilberish you put up here change the fact that you failed to credit the source of your article? Do you know what intellectual property is? Obviously you do not. Why are you underrating yourself? Why don't you pick up a pen and paper and use your given sense to draft a genuine article? And if you are ever going to copy another person's work, always acknowledge it. If you use a great part of an article, out " additional info from......."Plagiarism is a big offence!