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fifehanmi938:
You said it all 🥺God bless you🙏

I will abandon this post forever

God is my salvation

Keep deceiving yourself...you and that fellow are the same person.

fifehanmi938:
I sometimes don't want to reply to some comments like this because I'm emotionally downcast and very sad.

But all i will pray for you is that you never find yourself in a situations worser than my own

You label me a scammer
Which I said In my post that am ready to meet up anyone who wants to help me with my kid,I'm not trying to hide and not meetup of I see who will render a help for me.

Secondly I said my reasons for being anonymous which I'm surprised if you even read it from the start of you just want to say something because you're somehow depressed like me.

I came online to vent here which I believe I might get help here,but haven't got any from anyone..

But I believe God will not forsake me no matter what 🙏

I will keep calm and watch out how my life turns out,if God makes me survive this with my kid and of it's the other way round.

I will abandon this post and forget about anything and see what will happen in real life to me.

Because social media sometimes add to depression because of people like you who is not in others shoes but judge them , insult them and curse them.

Any unfortunate thing can happen to anyone,I have seen and gone through a lot in this life.

If you can't help ,you don't need to pour salt on open wounds or laugh at someone predicament because it's not you.

Everyone is wiser when it's not their story.

You can Insult me more but I will never reply anymore because people like you are always common on social media.

Who troll people and label them all sort of names especially when they are seeking for help.

Love and lights

Lol...you've logged back to your fake account. I thought you said you'll make me deactivate.

Use your original moniker to post if you want any sensible response from anyone.

Stop creating new accounts to appeal to our emotions. That format don cast tey tey.

How can you create an account today and expect people to take you seriously...did you know about Nairaland today?

BrighterThanDay:
Oh, there you go again, confirming your immaturity! If it comes to insults, I'll finish you intelligently on this forum, and you'll be forced to either change your moniker or deactivate your account for good. But you are obviously not worth my time, don't push it though!

Lol...you will finish me intelligently and force me to deactivate as per wetin. Do I look like all those Riff Raff that live and breath on Nairaland. Abeg park one side biko. I'm not worth your time and you quoted me.

BrighterThanDay:
Haven't you heard of parents malreating their own kids? Where were you when a father beat up his 4-month-old baby boy with a hanger until the boy's hands got broken, and they had to amputate it? It's was all over social media! Her grand dad and step mom want absolutely nothing to do with her. That should tell you that you can have a family and still not at the same time.

This has nothing to do with the issue at hand.

BrighterThanDay:
The people on Nairaland are humans, not ghosts! It's possible to find good-hearted people here, just as much as you can find gullible nonentities like yourself. Emotions run deep in this community.

Lol...I'm not the cause of your depression, if you're feeling depressed take it out on someone else not me. Cos I ask questions whenever I come across questionable characters on this forum.

BrighterThanDay:
From the OP's story, it's painfully obvious she has no one to turn to, which is why she brought her issue here. It's like meeting a total stranger on the road and seeking help – it can end up being a beautiful gesture of compassion or lead to something terrible.

An account that was created today for the sole purpose of this story and somehow you're defending her with all your might. If she isn't a scammer why didn't she post this with her original account. Why create a new user ID?

And if you find nothing wrong with a mother willing to give up her 10 year old daughter to strangers, you're more heartless than I imagined.

BrighterThanDay:
What I expected you to do instead of whining was to advise the OP to take certain precautions, like involving the law, before giving her daughter up for adoption to anyone on this forum. This is an emotional matter, and it requires sensitivity and understanding.

Lol... emotional matter indeed. I'm beginning to feel that you and the op are the same person.

Have you validated this story...NO

Have you reached out to her to find out if at all she's not one of the numerous scammers roaming around this forum seeking whom to rip off...NO.

But you believe 100% that she's real and must be helped, everything you said in your first reply to me was just about help and help and help. And anyone who questions her or asks logical questions like I did is abrasive, childish and immature. Clap for yourself.

If you must know, I have a working brain and I make use of it.

BrighterThanDay:
Can you see that the OP replied with just a mere "hmmmn" to your epistle? Do you have any idea why? It's because you truly haven't grasped the depth of emotions involved here! I don't care about your age; it's crystal clear that you know nothing about life! My heart aches for you, hoping you never find yourself struggling to breathe, feeling utterly alone, with no one to support you. Trust me, the OP's courage in seeking help is remarkable.
Have you ever wondered why people get to the point of contemplating suicide? Have you ever experienced the anguish of looking in every direction and finding no one willing to lend a hand? It's entirely possible to feel utterly abandoned. Count your blessings and thank God for your fortunate circumstances, but also open your heart to empathize with others and cease speaking from a place of ignorance. We all need a helping hand at some point in our lives to rise again.

Shut up your dirty mouth jare.

You're encouraging someone who comes to a faceless forum to advertise that she wants to give up her daughter for adoption, and you want me to believe that it's normal.

Do you know what having a child means, a 10 year old daughter for that matter, and she's expecting someone here, a total stranger to send her a DM so she can waybill her daughter to the person and somehow you don't see anything wrong with that.

If you have nothing sensible to say, don't ever quote me in your life.

Lol...we should endure when there's no meaningful infrastructure in place to cushion the effect of the subsidy.

We should endure while they loot the country dry.

Anyways their hungry gullible followers who can't even afford one meal a day would still defend them.

By this time next year, I wonder the lies they'll tell us next.

ahnie:
A man man was caught on cctv camera this morning stealing a jumbo loaf of bread,which I believe he wants to feed his family with.

He was thoroughly beaten and disgraced,they had to call his wife to witness the show of shame.

Some people said,he has bn caught several times in the act.that he's a kleptomaniac.

I feel instead of going thru that channel of lifting the loaf of bread,he should has simply asked for help from friends n relatives.

I believed they would have come thru For him,and he has a respected aura.

If a family member calls me and requests for financial assistance and it's within my ability, I'll assist, if he calls me after some weeks or months to request again, I'll still give, if he calls the 3rd time, regardless of whatever it is he's going through, once I pick the phone and hear it's money, I'll just end the call.

There's a limit to which one can request for financial assistance from friends and relatives. Once you exceed that limit, they'll ghost you and ignore your calls.

This is why this election was very important cos it was meant to fix a lot of wrongs in this country, but people tribalized it and we're worse than how we were.

As for the married man, he has 2 functioning hands and legs, why can't he use them to work. Why steal?

At 38, you're a man of your own, matured enough to make independent decisions. So I'll advice you to have a chat with your dad, take him out, order for drinks and tell him about the girl and how you love her and want to marry her, he would easily understand.

Once you've convinced your dad, visit the girls mom and talk to her, tell her that your dad is in support and he believes it would strengthen the bond between both families.

She would agree and you can marry your wife in peace.

Do people pay water bills in Nigeria?

Why would she even allow them join the police force in the first place?

May God comfort her.

Midex88:
Just asking. What's the essence of the straw

Cos it's very easy to drop something inside a glass cup within seconds. Besides, It's for your safety. Beer palours don't wash their glass cups properly. Most just rinse it with water after being used by previous customers then bring to you. So if someone with a transmittable disease makes use of it there's a high possibility that you can be infected.

GloriousGbola:
My man Nazgul.
We need another set of rules for dates with dangerous chicks. I know you will deliver. Do it for the culture.

Lol... that one na small thing. Hopefully by this time tomorrow, I'll be done with it.

YouAreFinished:
Imagine being this scared of being poisoned to death by your friends. You shouldn't be keeping such in the first place. One way or the other you'll still get poisoned if they're serious.

The worse thing is you won't know what's in their mind until they execute it. That's why you have to be very careful.

keymatt:
Not everyone is a pervert and ritualist. There are kind hearted people on this forum.

Next time read my post properly and understand it before giving me a mention.

The thing is, the girl isn't ready for anything serious. Most girls that carry this bestie nonsense on their head are between the ages of 18-23.

Girls that age just want to have fun, if you take them serious, get ready for serious heart break.

For those of us who don't have sisters, I pray that God would continue to provide money for us to by data so that we can type RIP whenever we read stories like this. Since these lazy girls have refused to hear word and stop visiting strangers in remote and enclosed places because of money.

Rather than look for a job, or learn a skill to cater for yourself and daughter, you're looking for a short cut to escape the mess you made.

The father has absconded and left the whole responsibilities for you, that's why you feel it's completely normal to give up your 10 year old daughter for adoption on a faceless forum to a total stranger?

I'm sorry to say this, but you're not a responsible person, if you were you would have know that there are perverts lurking around who would happily accept that child for the sole purpose of making her their séx toy, there are ritualists who wouldn't blink an eye lid before considering to use her for rituals, there are demons, who would beat, torture and make life miserable for her.

Better go out there and get a job to take care of that child. If you want help, look for the father or any member of his family.

I honestly do not understand you at all.

You're receiving money from a client into your wife's account and you couldn't call her to inform her of the transaction, and still didn't call her to confirm if she received the cash inflow before executing the job for the person.

What if the person didn't send any money to her account at all, what if he just sent you a fake screenshot, and since you didn't pre-inform your wife, she couldn't confirm any receipt of the transaction?

Better go and inform her first let her confirm that the money is in her account before condemning her for playing the mute.

And next time you want to make a transfer to her account from a 3rd party, kind inform her. It's going to save you the stress of all this hide and seek you're playing with yourself.

Enenebe eje olu – Looking at you makes me forget about work. This means she is stunning.

Achalugo – royal woman.

Nwanyi oma – good woman

Nkem – my own.

Ego Oyibo – foreign currency. Pounds and dollars baby.

Ifunanya’ m – My love

More money for the government to loot.

Call it survival instincts. Cos broke married men don't cheat, maybe they do but it would mostly be with their dirty uneducated underage maids.

For a married man to keep a beautiful young girl outside his home as his permanent side chick, means he's loaded with cash and ready to lavish it on the said girl. Girls know this that's why they go for them.

fineboynl:
do you know what it takes to shit gear and all the time and restarting the car? That is more wear on the car.

You obviously haven't driven a manual transmission car on Lagos traffic before. When you eventually do, moving your gear to P and switching off your automatic transmission whilst waiting for the queue to move before restarting and shifting to D wouldn't be an issue for you.

He lost Osun his home State.

He lost Lagos his adopted State.

He lost Abuja the seat of power despite the fact that APC was the ruling party.

If not for the massive rigging, thuggery and ethnic threats APC used in this election, Tinubu wouldn't have even finished in 3rd place.

micxwell:
I am talking about budget. And I remember the man said for someone who already has a land. If the land is a plot for instance, there won't be any need for the suspended floor, hence the 5 million can do more.

If I have up to a plot of land, I wouldn't agree to work with that design. Cos one plot can get me a much bigger and more tasteful house.

micxwell:
It gets better if one decides to do away with the suspended floor area.

That area is meant to be the garage. If you do away with it, where would you park your car.

And mind you that design is for half a plot or even less.