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Now that you've openly celebrated your celibacy, your village people wouldn't rest until you've succumbed to your fleshly desires and taste the forbidden fruit you worked so hard to keep away from.

Next time keep your success to yourself and avoid sharing them openly.

GloriousGbola:
No matter how much you think you know a man or woman some traits will only come out fully when they are married. Often the family know of the traits, the friends know of the traits but the spouse will not know.

You will be at a wedding and some of the guy or girls colleagues will be saying among themselves - this person is in for it.

It goes beyond ass and boobs. It is also why traditionally families try to do investigations and introduction. So everyone knows what they are getting into.

You're right...and there's this saying..."show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are"

I.e, If a girl is a runs girl, no matter how hard she tries to pretend and cover it up, her oloshoism would be clearly revealed in the kinds of friends she keeps.

So like I said earlier, if you're vigilant, you'll definitely notice that something's off about the girl. And a coordinated but discreet investigation would confirm your doubts.

One just have to look beyond a pretty face, a firm boobs and a round ass.

There is more tribalism in Africa than there is racism in Europe. We saw worse tribal slurs against each other during the past election so give the guy a break.

She's not interested in you, why can't you just read her body language and move on. Must you wait for her to tell you a resounding NO before knowing that you're dating yourself?

Illegal1:
omoh.....i tink say nah only me notice am..

Just checked her profile, she was online today... I guess all is well with her.

Ireportlive:
Her last post she was sounding suicidal

A lot of people are going through a lot. That's why it's best to remain quiet if you can't offer them help. Nairaland unfortunately does the opposite, it's not a place for the weak and downtrodden to find comfort.

Illegal1:
Omoh.......i jst hope say dis grl never finaly kill herslf ooh.

for almost 2wks now,illamina never post anytin,omoh...dis 1 dey strange..

abeg if anybody knw her where abt,epp me tell her say illegal dey miss her..

Even childofdoom is missing as well. Hope it's not what I'm thinking.

Geninue loyalty and sincerity pays. Congratulations to him.

Congratulations to him. I pray he wins.

Spectrum22:
It's not as straightforward as you make it seem. True, some men may fall into the category you have described but most are victims of the imbalance in the justice system, the refusal of the society to acknowledge the reality that men do suffer as much if not more than women in relationships and the persistent atmosphere of conspiracy against the "husband".

As a matter of urgency, we need to review the marital dispute resolution mechanism otherwise, we will soon find ourselves in an era where people shy away from ordinary boy/girlfriend relationship talk less of the more complex husband and wife dilemma.

In Nigeria, the system favours men more than women. This is why in some cultures when the husband died, his family would kick the wife out in inherit his properties.

Even if she goes to court, nothing would come out of it cos it's a family matter.

Men just have to stop this obsession with boobs, hips and nyash. It's not helping them think straight.

datola:
Hmm... Yes, you are correct to some extent.

The fact is that most of these women have bad characters, beautiful or ugly. And some will even hide it until you are married. In the case of strict Christian practice where you are not expected to co habit in any form and courtship is expected to be very short. It takes the grace of God.

My brother, any Church that tells you that you're not supposed to date for a period of time or even spend ample time with your supposed spouse before marriage is not being realistic, run away from them.

Most marriages are broken today because the church has refused to face reality.

God's instructions to Moses in the Bible was very easy to ensure a happy home because...

1. Every girl must remain in her father's house until she's married....no waka Waka, no runs.

2. Upon marriage, every girl must have her husband confirm that she's a virgin. If she isn't, she would be stoned to death.

3. Every girl was made to worship her husband, so the issue of feminism and other confrontational factors which could wreck the home didn't exist.

4. Fornication was regarded as an abomination and carried an instant death sentence.

Today, even in the church, fornication amongst church workers is like tea and bread.

More than 95% of girls today lost their virginity before clocking 21.

Sex is seen as fun, it's no longer regarded as a sacred union meant for legally married people.

That girl you probably have eyes for in church has been screwed by more than 20 guys, so tell me, are you going to blindly bring her into your home as your wife because you want to follow the church rules or are you going to move closer to her and see if you two are compatible.?

My take is whenever you see any girl you like, move closer to her and know her. Invite her home so you can know her character. You'll know if she's dirty, if she's a flirt, if she's a liar, if she's lazy...etc.

You can't know all these by following church rules, you have to be close to her in order to know who she really is.

I've come to understand that as you get older and more mature, you become responsible for your choices.

What you should know is that nobody suddenly becomes bad, they've been bad from day one. Just that you choose not to be observant.

The reality of this is that so many men these days marry for beauty and not character, as long as she's got a good àss, firm and properly rounded boobs and a pretty face, they're definitely going to make a fine couple.

So they don't care if she's saucy, or materialistic, or lazy, or a liar, or a chronic cheat...etc. As long as they were able to wife the pretty girl, they're good.

Sadly, as the years goes by, the woman's true nature becomes visible even to the blind, then they complain. The question I keep asking myself is that, at that point when the woman constantly torment them emotionally, does her boobs or àss mean anything to these men who would do just anything to leave their home for a moment's peace? Short answer...No

So make your choice based on common sense and character and not physical beauty and you'll enjoy your marriage.

Female daughter?

Another loss for Chelsea loading...

It's so painful carrying a child for 9 months only for him/her to die upon delivery. If you can make it, go and be there for her. She needs all the comfort she can get.

emmaodet:
Companionship.
Humans are social animals and the world is one big boring place without a companion

Geninue friends can take your social life to the next level. One doesn't have to be in a relationship to achieve that.

What's so special about having a boyfriend?

No state in Nigeria enjoys uninterrupted power supply. Some areas might experience better power as compared to others, but no one enjoys uninterrupted power supply 24/7. No even the almighty Abuja.

I can tell you with all confidence that the person who's threatening you is an impersonator and not a DSS personnel.

Request for his account details and pretend as if you want to pay the next amount into his account, once he sends it go to your bank app and copy his full names.

Then go to DSS office and lodge an official report with his full name, phone number and the messages he sent to you. He would be traced and arrested.

ehissi:
Baba no driver will carry you from benin to warri based on app, you will run it offline and its nothing less than 15k to as much as #25,000 depending on the pickup point .....

What OP wrote there is lagos - warri/benin. Book warri with bolt or uber app, call and here what driver will tell you....

You will hear things like, I don't travel. The one that travel will tell you to run it offline, at nothing less than 75k....

The last person I know whey enter motor, bus and not sienna come Ekpoma from lagos just 2days ago na #13,000.

Let no man deceive you. From Benin like this to lagos na #9,000 regular bus no level, GIG na #15,000 with AC......

The OP is not confused, I promise you

What are you even saying?

A relative of mine entered Okeyson from Jibowu park Lagos to Abakaliki on Sunday for 12k AC bus. The highest I feel any transportation company would charge would be 18k.

So if Lagos to Abakaliki is 12-18k how would warri to Benin be between 15-25k. How many KM is the journey that they'll charge such amount?

Even flight sef to Enugu is less than 50k and you're talking about 75k for warri to Benin...haba!

It's obvious that Putin himself isn't finding this war funny.

.

This is the only man that can give me relationship advice and I'll listen.

It's all over folks...

Manchester United 2 vs Sevilla 2

simmydebadest:
Maguire at it again

Lol