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God is way too big for this country...we can only vote his servant by electing responsible people to lead us and not criminals.

virginprincess:
I'm ask because each time i read most of comments on nairaland, i'm also like wow, this guy comments are always full of wisdom, like seriously i admire most of your comments especially on romance section, keep it up, .

Thanks...

JovialJune:
This is not always true though, maybe for some that orgasm isn't a normal occurance sha.

Of course isn't a normal occurance. Most girls haven't even experienced it before. That's why they tend to cling to whoever can give it to them, not minding if he's the abusive type.

See this clown.

Ph has become the most dangerous place in the south, yet he's there blaming other governor's whose state is far safer than oh.

virginprincess:
Are you married?

Nope...

morinto:
Read the book so that u fit make nairaland people to buy am with your book power

God bless you bro...you just took the right words out of my mouth.

Op hope you've heard... kindly read your book so you can compel us to by.

Congratulations

StacyO:
Seun mynd44 lalasticlala Dominique

Could be from your phone...try deleting your browser and reinstalling it back.

virginprincess:
Any lady i see in a toxic relationship i always avoid such lady, because when you try to advise her she takes you as an enemy, i have a friend like that she loves this guy like mad, even though the guy treat her like trash, anytime i see her i just shake my head.

Some are naive, they're so young so the guy tries to brainwash them into thinking that their friends are their enemies (like the one you stated)

Some actually love the guy from the dept of their heart just that the person they ended loving turned out to be a monster.

For some, he's their first love, some girls have this mindset of trying to settle down with whoever popped their cherry, once the guy becomes aware of this, he begins to misbehave and abuse the girl knowing fully well that she wouldn't leave him.

Some it's money, they're from extremely poor backgrounds, they feel if they leave they'll loose all the benefits they enjoyed during their stay with him, and since they can't cope, they'll keep enduring and praying that he changes

Some it's good sex, take it or leave it, if a guy can make a woman cum, no matter how evil or cruel he is towards her, she'll always come back for more.

Whenever you find girls in such psychological trauma, try to help them. Don't ignore them, many have died because they were entangled in such web.

Congratulations my dear, enjoy your life... haters gonna hate

Bigggloadofcum:


My dick no go listen o

E no get sense.

Then cut it off... Jesus suggested this to us in the Bible.

Learn programming languages

Learn fashion design

If you don't have capital for the two above,

Learn barbing

Welding

Trading.

Good luck.

Jemiwizzy:
since I lost both of my parents I have been staying with my sister and her husband but recently she asked me to move out she even smashed my phone and lock me out am moving from house to house like a vagabond now I have no place to stay again

Why would your blood sister do that to you?

What did you do to her that made her treat you in such manner?

Hmmmm

makydebbie:
So men think we spend our money on expensive wigs for them? You better wake up from this delusion.

Lol...you should wake up from your delusion.

Everyone knows that 85% of what you women spend your money on is to get the attention of men.

From boobs and butt implants, to bleaching of your skin, to dressing half nàked, to uploaded seductive pics online, to exposing private areas of their bodies on social media...etc.

It's all for the attention of men. So stop your whining.

I wonder why he isn't in tears. Or isn't he the crying governor again?

I can snap my Christmas chicken and upload if you wish. I plan on killing it tomorrow tho.

iTroll:
Merry xmas to you all

This is seun's pics. Where did you get it from?

No one derives pleasure struggling to own an overused property.

If she wanted followers, she should have started a YouTube channel, record her skills, (could be teaching people how to cook...etc) and upload, she won't have to beg for followers. People would naturally subscribe and follow her.

Not everyone is obsessed with immorality.

Hmmmm...this is the kind of wife I'm looking for.

Sixfeetbelle:
Oya, go and crucify her yourself if you're that pissed at her actions. Like I said, I'm not here to do it.

I'm not justifying her actions neither am I condeming it. I'm neutral.

Someone who already knows she did wrong does not need me telling her so. The rest of you would do a good job at that. She needed an advice which I gave her. The man obviously wouldn't take her back on normal grounds so I told her to beg and see if she can allowed back to be with her kids. This issue is why I told her that if kids weren't involved, I wouldn't even advise her to go back which is true. He doesn't trust her and marriages dwindle when trust is broken.

What else did I say that caused you to go off lid that first time?

It's well...

Sixfeetbelle:
Where in my post did I applaud her? Show me the exact sentence I did that so I can identify what the issue is.

My advice was for the kids involved. That she cheated doesn't warrant being denied access to her kids.

Please, if you're angry at me for something, come out and say it and stop being sly by accusing me of what I didn't say. You've been going off my comment here when in truth, I neither applauded nor condemned the woman.

I never said you applauded her? I said do you expect me to applaud her? I was actually referring to myself.

Angry at you over what? I'm not angry at you I'm just pissed off with the aggressive way you tend to attack males and defend females not minding if they're right or wrong.

What makes us morally sane is our ability to condemn wrong things and applaud the right ones. When you take side you become biased in your judgement.

Even if such woman meets you physically, you must look her straight in the eye and condemn her actions, don't try to justify what she did with the regular notion of men are also cheats, and if he was the one who did it won't she forgive him?

What is wrong is wrong and can never be right no matter how hard you try to justify it.

Sixfeetbelle:
You came to accuse, I came to advise. Let everyone mind their lane

Came to accuse?

A married woman with kids f0olishly lodged in a hotel with a stranger, and you expect me to applaud her for a job well done.

I used to see you as an intelligent person, but you've just proven to me that you're not.

You sound like an abused victim battling rejection and inferiority complex, always angry at men for no reason, kindly see a therapist before your condition gets out of control.

Aileexa1:
But men cheat and we are expected to forgive

Why are all the guys in the comments labeling her a hoe?
Does this mean that men who cheat are farmtools as well?

As for me, any man who test me isn't worth my love, whether I fail or pass the test. Cause it clearly shows you never loved me from the start.

My dear it means you're not ready to have a serious man in your life.

It's your duity as a woman to continually assure your man of your undying love.

Once that begins to weaken, suspicion comes in...and many girls these days don't think of the consequences involved in cheating before engaging in the act. They just feel that since they've confessed they should be forgiven.

Besides didn't you read the part where she said the husband has been accusing her of cheating?

The husband brought up that test to clear his doubt and it turned out that his worse fears were true.

AMAARSALAN:
Can a man without money make a woman happy in a relationship?

Of course...every working class guy today was once a broke student who had nothing, but there was a loving girlfriend beside him, how do you think they coped. She saw what she liked in him.

Truth is girls would spend on you if they see that you've got a bright future. Just remain hardworking and avoid being lazy, avoid blaming people for your situation.

b0rn2fuck:
I dey even die for girl wey no do hair at all over the one wey get plenty artificial as I dey see them as monkey cover face

Same here...I'm more attractive to girls with natural looks.

All those artificial stuffs makes them look so fake to me.

Ayobiggie59:
I'm writing with tears in my eyes, I'm just so tired, as I'm trying it's not just working...

I'm a graduate, after looking for a job and didn't see, I dropped d certificate and hustling like every man, there's no menial job have not done to hold soul and body together...

Things not just working because even as I'm hustling after eating two times daily out of my daily pay I'll be left with an insignificant amount.

The little I was saving to get mum some foodstuff for Xmas, just two weeks ago I was very sick and all d savings went away as hospital bill.....I'm supposed to travel home now, I cant and I know mum will be expecting me to at least give her some money for foodstuff but I don't even know what to eat today..... I can't stop thinking about this, my spirit is tired...

Pls, your moral encouragement will go a long way to help me.......And if God bless u you can bless me too....my no: 09064963895

Can you drive, are you conversant with Lagos and south west roads?

My office is looking for a driver, I'll fix you in the slot as a graduate pending when something better comes up. Then personally lend you money to sort out yourself and officially deduct it from your salary when you get your first pay check.

If the above is ok with you send me a pm.

That man needs help....how can you have a nymphomaniac as a side chick? If he doesn't get help, he'll die soon.

Sixfeetbelle:
You're the only one being emotional here with your "do you know what the man has gone through?"

What did he go through sef? Climb mount Everest? Fight a wild boar?

Let me ask you. Do you know what the woman has gone through emotionally for her to even conceive being with another man? Do you know what she must have left behind to agree being tied in matrimony to a man who has so many trust issues he has to deviously set up his wife? Please, come off the nonsense 'he's a man' tirade. The husband isn't entirely blameless here.

Besides, what is love if the man doesn't show forgiveness? If it was the man, wouldn't she be advised to forgive him as well?

Please note. A husband that deliberately sets out to tempt you does not love you, probably never did and she needs to know that much. Calling her names doesn't change the fact that trust doesn't exists in their relationship. Imagine if your wife sets you up to test you. Says a lot about her personality, don't you think?

It's because kids are involved that I'm treading the 'reconciliation' part.


I already pointed out in the beginning of my post that the accusers are coming, unfortunately, that's not what my contribution is about. If you feel pained, go take a big head knock on a brick wall.

Whose being emotional...

The bolded shows that you know nothing...when Jesus spent 40 days in the wilderness fasting and talking to God, who did God send to tempt him? Does it show that because Satan tempted Jesus, God hated him? Jesus had to pass that temptation to show that his time with God for 40 days was actually because he loved him and not because he was compelled to do so.

If your husband is displaying attitude you don't like, so in you myopic reasoning, cheating is the solution?

Besides did the girl complain of anything bad the husband was doing to her. I don't know why you're defending someone who clearly admitted that she was wrong.

Did she attribute her attitude to neglection or domestic violence by her husband?

Like a poster rightfully pointed out, grow up. And stop attacking everyone like a dog on heat.

It was very rude of her to refund you back your money. A simple thank you would have gone a long way, but girls with their entitlement mentality always feeling that they deserve more.

What business are you into...let's start from there?