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Sixfeetbelle:
I never said all the rape claims are true. I'm stating that majority being false does not diminish the probability of the minority and that a victim's profession shouldn't determine if she is believed or not. You can't dismiss a rape claim just because 99 earlier cases turned out to be clout chasing.

For a single man to overpower a single woman is still easy despite all you're saying. A gun is a very powerful convincing tool.

You seem to deliberately ignore that part where I stated that for an armless guy to subdue a girl is almost impossible.

Go back and read my post...I was talking about a guy who isn't armed and a mature lady. Not an armed fellow.

Do you know what it takes to overpower an adult without any form of weapon?

A girl I dated in school back then grabbed my phone without my consent, I knew how hard I wrestled with her and even at that I still couldn't remove the phone from her hand without injuring her.

I had to change taticts by forming anger before she gave it back to me.

It's not easy to over power a lady, strip her nàked and rape her unless she just decides to give you what you want.

All I see is a selfish, low self-esteem egoistic creature. Who can't bear the shame of a woman earning more than him.

If that lady loves herself she should call of that wedding. That silly creature doesn't deserve her.

I mean who asks a woman earning 42m per annum to resign?

Sixfeetbelle:
Where you're driving at is that girls are terrible and manipulative. This guy thinks same too otherwise why would he say it's a case between a buyer and a seller?.

Mature girls (not minors) claiming to be raped are manipulative. Stop quoting me out of context.

Double post

5hanklee:
See as we burst one person that time. Now the hunter is beign hunted

You even get time to de carry out investigation. We all know that he's catching cruise.

Sixfeetbelle:
People like you are what is wrong with this country.

This guy is already throwing this case to the wolves because he believes since little girls engage in sex willingly, this one too is doing it. Can you see how low Nigerians and their morality is when it comes to rape?

Cc:
KhingTony
RisenPhoenix1
Nazgul.

Stop mentioning me alongside paedophiles. I have never, can never and will never support rape. That child is a minor it seems you have refused to understand where I'm driving at.

Sixfeetbelle:
With a gun or a knife, yes, they can. There's no need for more manpower if you have a deadly weapon whether it be a gun, knife or drugging the victim earlier.

That you've heard thousands of false rape claims isn't a given to dismiss others. Stop using it as a criteria. Robinho was charged and sentenced to jail for raping a girl yet Neymar wasn't. Both ladies claimed they were raped.

And also stop being emotional with the "Girls are manipulative" nonsense you keep spewing here. A vast majority using it for clout doesn't negate those that are actual victims. Stop concluding all of them are false rape charges just to exonerate your fellow men.

Coming from a hotel room isn't fail proof that a rape didn't occur behind closed doors and this is the basis of my thread. Why does her being in a hotel room mean she couldn't have been raped? Does location matter?

Madam robinho's case was a case of gang rape, not single rape. Remember I said if more than one guy is involved then it would be very easy to subdue the girl.

And yes I still maintain my stand that most single rape cases claim by women are false.

And who's getting emotional...you're funny. You're the one trying to sound logical but currently you're doing a very bad job at it.

SILENTandSMART2:
haaaa


aswear I've been thinking say you're a holy nigga, jusss imagine what you're sayin' to a girl


don't you know dat we girls don't like you talking about our body like that ? :-

i have been thinking of knowing you probably we can date but I don't know dat you're among the eleribuu nairaland boys


please respect yourself when talking to me , I'm not like those low class and useless girls wey dey your area , mumu man < he's asking me to upload me bwest and private part, idiot

Hahahahaha...you be clown aswear.

This hairy balls nigga forming female...abi you think I don't know that you're amazingboy?

You deactivated and opened this one.

Carry on bro make I no spoil your Hussle. God no go shame you.

RisenPhoenix1:
Actually this is true. An unarmed man can never forcefully rape a full grown woman without leaving obvious injuries on her body. He can eventually overpower her, but the marks will be there for all to see. A raped woman coming out of a man's hotel room all pristine and freshly bathed did not struggle enough, if at all.

Exactly, there would be evidence of a struggle... that's if he manages to have his way, cos to me it's almost impossible.

And anyone who looks at her would easily know she was raped.

Obviously the op just wants to talk for talking sake.

Sixfeetbelle:
I don't know where you heard the bold but that is a lie. Please, stop using it as a criteria to judge. Men are physically stronger than women and can get what they want through coercion. That's rape. What you described up there isn't.

Asides, you said investigation here but because "Girls are terrible", you completely wrote off that lady's story and it's worrisome. Also, using a single case that happened to judge every other case isn't right as no two cases are the same.

Madam it's almost impossible for a guy to rape a mature girl, unless they're more than one, then the girl can easily be overpowered and subdued.

Forget the masculine nature, not every guy is physically strong enough to sustain a struggle with a mature girl amidst screams. The worse he'll do is to drive her out of his house regardless what time it is.

@bolded. Sometimes I feel you just talk for talking sake. I've heard countless cases of false rape claims.

Neymar the footballer had a similar case, the girl calmed rape and he uploaded chats and the case died off.

Fatoyibo the pastor was accused of rape, so many girls appeared from the blue to tarnish his image...where are them today?

Pastor suleman and otobo case, a good number of girls also sprung up to claim he raped them as well...where are them today?

And many more cases I won't mention cos there won't be enough space for them.

No one takes any rape claim of an adult female and an adult male serious anymore cos you ladies are very manipulative and can go any length to get back at a man for using you.

How can you come out from a hotel and say you were raped, what were you doing there in the first place?

How can you spend the night at a guy's place and claim rape...what were you doing in his house?

Any rape claim that involves a single adult female and a single adult male, needs to be properly investigated. If it's a case of more than one male adult against a single female, such claim can easily be true. Or an adult male and a female minor.

Girls these days are very terrible, and the only way they feel they can deal with a guy who outsmarted them to gain access into their coochie is to claim they were raped.

Let's even be honest here, one unarmed guy can't successfully rape a girl whose over 21 years of age.

Most minors succumb to their predators due to fear, but quote me anywhere, if a mature girl closes her legs and say she's not sleeping with you, believe me no matter how hard you try, you'll never gain access into her vagina.

Sex requires cooperation from both parties. you hear words like, turn like this, keep your leg like that, bend small...etc. When one party isn't cooperating, then sex becomes impossible, would you break her legs just to penetrate her vagina? There are some positions a girl would take you can't do anything aside handling her boobs, and touching her recklessly.

Let me share a story with you, a girl chatted me on Whatsapp last month, I still have the chats sef and can provide them on request. She told me that she was raped my my friend. I asked her where the incident occurred she told me in his house, i inquired to know what she was doing in his house, it turned out that she even spent the night there.

I called my friend to hear his own side of the story, and discovered that they both had an agreement that if he sleeps with her, he'll assist her in paying her rent which had long expired, he sent me screenshots as proof.

Now after sleeping with her, guy man change gear and the girl felt used and bad, and started claiming rape. Would you call that rape, of course not.

That's why I hardly take any rape story involving two adults serious, cos proper investigation would still tell you that at one point they both consented to sex.

The truth is girls are extremely confused species.

Most times so many of them don't even know what they actually want.

I've read countless threads here that goes thus..."there's this guy in my place of work/street/church...etc. he's very responsible, God fearing loving, in fact he possess all the qualities any girl would want in a guy. He's been asking me out for the past 3 months, but I don't feel anything for him. Please help me?

Check out that girl in the next five years, and her post would go thus...men are evil, heartless, shameless...etc. Good men are truly hard to come by these days.

In ten years time, her posts would go thus... God connect me to my divine partner. Your son whom you've prepared for me. She'll become a prayer warrior.

And God will be like I sent him na but you rejected him.

Like you said, many men are bad and harsh towards women because of past experiences, but I strongly believe that good ones still exist and I'm hoping to find one to settle down with soon.

SILENTandSMART2:
aswear I'm not joking

Pics of your boobs and pvssy or forever remain silent.

ikcid:
It's very common among some ladies to don their index finger with a ring and this has got me wondering as to the reason they do so and what the significance actually is. Thanks!

Ring on the index finger signifies power. Most people put it there for fashion tho.

But that's what it signifies. If you're given any power ring from any brotherhood or society, that's where you'd be asked to put it.

I'm waiting for Buhari and his people to fire up theirs

The problem with female simps is that they usually fall in love with the wrong guys.

They're attracted to irresponsible people and players.

They hate guys who sincerely love them. They friendzone them, treat them badly and give the wrong ones a chance.

They feel giving their virginity to the wrong person would make him stay.

They're easily moved by words that's why they're easy prey for bad boys.

They get constantly used by these boys and their heart get broken, but they never learn.

With time they'll become feminist and hate men. Every man is a devil to them.

When they begin to clock 33-40 their love for men will automatically resurrect, they'll want the God fearing good guys who by that time are all married with kids.

They'll lament how hard it is to find a responsible man to settle down with. That's why there are so many unmarried ladies today.

Truth is you're responsible for your choice. When you're dating a guy who touches you recklessly in public places, have no detailed plan for you in his agenda aside testing new sex styles on you, then you're wasting away your youth in the name of love. When he's done expanding your pvssy, he'll move on to the next one.

Women should learn to be wise these days.

She'll cuddle you after sex....that's one of the easiest way to know.

Sixfeetbelle:
You'll stand for a guy you know nothing about because you believe you know more about ladies?

Gosh! Everyday on this forum I'm reminded that men don't care about women, not in the slightest bit.

False...we do care about women

To me the girl is overreacting. She's a girlfriend and he can choose to discard her anytime.

Since he's father Christmas she can look for her own need, tell him and request for cash.

Such silly arguments would only end in a break up, and she'll gain nothing.

Babe wise up o.

Jodha:
How can yhu say yhull stand for him anywhere...when yhu don't know the whole truth Haba.... hope yhu know rape is not a joke...

I know na...I said so cos I know that he's innocent of any rape charges.

Those girls are just mad at him for reasons best known to them.

Openbusiness:
Which Federal or State Law stipulates that? Which Law, please show me which legislative or judicial law says you should pay a prostitute? You guys should STOP formulating nonsense laws that don't exist out of thin air. The only relevant law in this case is that PROSTITUTION IS A CRIME in the Federal Republic of Nigeria, and by law she should be arrested, charged to court and JAILED for prostitution. Whatever verbal agreement is NULL AND VOID! Did he make a documented legal or notarized agreement that he will pay her? If not that Nigeria is a useless country, the NPF should have arrested the girl by now, so they charge her to Court for prostitution. Mtchwww!

An oral agreement is as equally valid, as a written one. The legality, of an oral agreement, cannot be questioned, if it falls under the ambit of the requirements stated in section 10 of the Nigerian Contract Act, 1872.Jan 2, 2019

Google is your friend... Google the Nigerian Constitution and stop exposing your ignorance here.

Jodha:
I'm not disputing these facts sha...the fact that she followed him to a hotel room speak volumes...but my reservations is that.. more than two ladies has accused him...it means he's actually a rapist ...may he didn't rape her but must have raped others...

I blame social media for all these rise of sexual immorality....every body wants to pepper them...every girl wants to wear the latest hair..shoe ..clothe and bag...just to pose for the gram...

It doesn't matter how yhu get the money.... it's disgusting...I know a girl that had to sleep with a guy...just to make snap chat videos in his car... it's really disgusting...

This is why many guys have zero regard for ladies..

I'm glad you're beginning to see things from my point of view.

And yes he might be or might not be a rapist, but I'll stand for him anywhere that he's innocent.

As for the girl who slept with a guy just to snap pics...what can I say? Why don't don't place value on yourself, you can't expect others to do so.

Worse is such girl will be looking for a God fearing man to wife her. It's well

lathrowinger:
How e go sound for your head say person bill you for 500k just for a night. Haba

That's why I said you have the option of walking away. You can always tell her that the money is outrageous and leave.

But if you accept the deal and sleep with her, you must fulfill your own end of the bargain by paying up.

lathrowinger:
Lol, u dey when they are having their agreement...?

According to the op, they had an agreement.

Jodha:
Nawa o....why won't i?

Ok o

Jodha:
Who says they're pick up girls? I thought the lady in question is a singer....

That she's a singer doesn't stop her from playing the role of a hoe. Do you think the peanuts she gets from music can help her sustain her luxurious lifestyle? Of course not. Hoeing pays more.

All these actress lunching cars, houses and other expensive properties, do you think they acquired them by mere acting?

98% of them are into runs. Let me shock you. In 2018 a friend of mind hookup a very popular actress. He told me she charged him 800k per night and promised to give him an additional night extra if him makes it up to 1m.

My dear they're all into runs and most guys know it. Genevieve that you know how do think she made her millions. Everyone knows that she dated atiku when he was vice president.

Even the average girl on the street would try to negotiate an amount with you if you ask her to visit, the amount is usually tagged transport fare. But we all know that it's the fee she's hoping to charge for the sex she's going to give the man.

They weren't raped. Don't worry very soon the whole truth will come out and I'll mention you to remind you.

Jodha:
My prayer is to marry a man that loves me unconditionally like his life depends on it....

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@bolded
And would you love him unconditionally like your own life depends on it?

Jodha:
I don't think so please.... it's not possible that every female he comes across accused him of rape because they all feel jilted. ... it's not possible...

My dear rape is a heavy word.

Besides the girls accusing him are pickup girls. What does that tell you?

Errrrr....my brother, in this case I won't blame the girl but the man. No one forced him to agree to the deal.

Even if a girl bills you $1m for a night, it's left for you to accept or reject the offer.

The moment you accept the offer and sleep with her, the law demands that you're indebted to her and must pay up.

Jodha:
I get yhur point....but everybody cannot be wrong...if more than one person has accused him... then there is something really wrong with him...

He's a womanizer no doubt. A chronic one at that.

But I can bet with packet of toothpick that the word "rape" is clearly misused by those girls.

Could have been a deal gone wrong.

Could be that he tried to outsmart them by not paying or under paying them the agreed sum, and the only way they felt they could deal with his was shame him publicly.

If a doctor who can afford 200k for a hookup rapes you, with a good lawyer you've hit a jackpot. Cos he'll be given the option of going to jail or settling out of court. Most would choose to settle out of court.

Those girls are slay queens. Don't you think they know the law as well, so what's stopping them from hiring a lawyer and milking him dry? They can't cos their claim is false.

I don't judge people for their mistakes, but for her to keep it from you even after moving into your house means she has a trailer load of skeletons in her cupboard....the ball is in your court.

Jodha:
How can more than one person be accusing yhu of rape.....only yhu

There is something not right about this...

Women are known to be manipulative in nature and since they're the weaker species, people would easily take their side when they begin their fake emotional tears.