₦airaland Forum

EriMma1:
Long post alert!

For the first time, I'll be making an open plea to the male folks concerning the is issue of extras marital affairs and cheating in general.

It is common knowledge how men cheat without remorse and even brag about it sometimes claiming it's a man's world and all that bullcrap. One thing they fail to realize is that living such careless life puts them and their familys health at risk plus other dangers and misfortune associated with such lifestyle. They not only suffer the consequences of their actions alone but their family directly or indirectly get to share in the suffering.

Now, something happened that prompted me to make this post. This is coming from a place of concern for other families out there who may likely fall victim to what I'm am about to share if the men don't herd to this advice and make necessary adjustments or turn a new leaf.

There's this colleague of mine who joined the company three years ago. After like a year, I got to know she lost her husband a year before she joined the company. I asked her how, she said he was ill. I didn't think anything of it and just sympathized with her. I tried to advise her to remarry as shes still very young and needs someone to help her raise her three children ( around the age of 10, 12, 13) but each time I raised the topic she'll wave it. So I stopped bugging her.

Fastforward to mid last year, this woman fell seriously I'll. She became so lean. As in.. she was literally bones. Later she recovered but was still very lean.

Last week, I got work, I didn't see her and was told she fell I'll again. Mehn... When she resumed yesterday, it was clear this woman has AIDs. She looks full blown and was coughing in her sit without so much effort as there's no muscle or strength to support her. I nearly wept. I just walked out of the place. I was even angry why they let her resume looking like that.
It now dawned on me that the husband prolly infected her with the disease. Now he's dead and gone. The poor woman is now falling in and out of sickness with three children to cater for.

Men, why?
Why do you people like to put your family in such pains just because of 5 mins fun with another girl who you know nothing about their health?

You men know yourselves and know how you loose control at the mere sight of a womans body and want it so badly at all cost, not minding what happens thereafter and won't rest until youve laid her. Why? Now see what this woman is going through all because she agreed to marry a man. Men why??

Whats the point having a momentary Bliss that will cut your life short and put your family in everlasting grief and sorrow?

Hmmm... Please, please and please, men!!??. talk to yourselves. Advise yourselves and stop this promiscuous life. It will lead you to no good. If you're the type that swims in it, please stop it now before it's too late.

Women, don to stick to a cheating husband. You don't want to go through what this colleague of mine is passing through now. She can't even look you in the face is all her eyes are sunken in and get cheek bones sticking out so badly. Shes coming to work in that state because her children need to feed and survive.

Women, once you suspect your husband of sleeping around, please run for your life.

Nuf said!

I know a woman that gave the HIV to her husband. She was secretly taking her antivirals without telling her husband. The man nearly committed suicide the day he tested positive to HIV.

We all should avoid illicit sex. Don't just vilify men because the transmission goes both ways.

Eswatini

jesusjnr2020:
How A Seer In Israel Almost Anointed A God's Reject Leader Of God's People

Samuel was a rare kind of prophet. He had open visions at a time in Israel when it was said, "there was no open vision". 1 Samuel 3:1

Moreover God was with Samuel and ensured that none of his words fell to the ground. 1 Samuel 3:19

Yet there came a point where the same Samuel, almost anointed someone God had rejected, as king over Israel, whom God Himself called "My people".

This was after God had sent him to the house of Jesse to anoint His chosen one among Jesse's sons, as king in place of king Saul whom He had rejected as king of Israel.

1 Samuel 16:1 (KJV)

And the LORD said unto Samuel, How long wilt thou mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over Israel? fill thine horn with oil, and go, I will send thee to Jesse the Beth-lehemite: for I have provided me a king among his sons.

1 Samuel 16:6 (KJV)

And it came to pass, when they were come, that he looked on Eliab, and said, Surely the LORD'S anointed is before him.

So Samuel the seer couldn't see that God had rejected the man. He was so sure Eliab was the "Lord's anointed".

That's how Samuel could have anointed a God's reject king over God's people, but thank God, God was there with Samuel to correct him in time before he made that grave error.

1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV)

But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

That proves that being a true man of God, seer or prophet of God even in the Bible doesn't make any one of them inerrant, because they were also humans, hence their words could also be inspired of the flesh as that of Samuel concerning Eliab.

God bless.

We carry these treasures in vessels of clay.
Our humanity can at times blur our divinity.

Smartguyboy:
Elon Musk Us an atheist

All you see, hear and read is not all there is.
It takes a lot of faith to do what Elon Musk does. The question is faith in what or who?

Whatever the answer to the above question is requires maintenance. That maintenance becomes a form of prayer.

I am not speaking for Christianity. All I'm saying is that even atheism requires a lot faith to believe in nothing.

Regardless of the spiritual blessings and possibilities resident in some pastors they are still humans. If there is any sense at all, just take the 'sense' out of the 'nonsense'.

You now know your pastor's weakness - poor human relationship. Be careful the next time you open up to him/her.

Smartguyboy:
Just thinking out loud
Can our faith work without being prayerful?

If you don’t pray what will happen to you and it will stop you from progressing in life ?
What of richmen who don’t go to church or atheist but doing well in life .

NO.

Read the book of Tobit in the good news or new Jerusalem bible.

It is one of the apocryphal books of the holy bible. It tells the story of Sarah who had a spirit killing her husband's (~7 of them) on her wedding night.

He's an older man himself

Silence is golden. I lost my international passport 2 days to my visa interview. The rest is history and I thank God for His mercies.

foleskay:
The man really wasted aviation fuel on Election campaigns which he won't win. I wonder who's bankrolling him.

His chopper engine go don't hear am. Kilodee

He has been a billionaire for years.

She married another man after Churchill but she keeps dragging the Churchill guy.

ChristisGod:
In a convo with one Jw guy, he incessantly mocked the Bible's position that Jesus is The Almighty God, citing that, Jesus 'received' Glory, Power and Honour. To This jw, since Jesus received these, it presupposes He received them from a superior entity so Jesus is not God. Then I referred him here :

Revelation 4:11
“You are worthy, O Lord, To receive glory and honor and power; For You created all things, And by Your will they
exist and were created.”

He ended the convo

They'll always end the conversation when you show biblical proof of your stand. It seems they don't read the scriptures, basing their stands on awake and watchtower magazines.

aariwa:
One thing about US they never follow the direction the whole world is following when the world was doing left hand drive they went right hand, when the world was doing parliamentary they went presidential and ironically after some time the world starts following the same because America is like a show piece of the world everybody is watching. Everybody knows American presidents, politicians and entertainers but more than half of Americans do not even know where west Africa is or the president of any European country except late queen Elizabeth. Most countries in the world believe in showcasing their best military weapons to inspire fear while America even though an open society downplays its military capability in extreme secrecy that any time American military tests any weapon for the world to see most military watchers know already they have outdated that technology many years before. US military used internet from WW2 and released it to the world in 1999 when it was no longer of use to them same way they released drones for everybody to use. During WW2 hitler subdued entire Europe with his commanders and men like Italian dictator Benito Mussolini , pacific and Asia even China through emperor Hirohito of Japan . America refused to join the war like they are doing now over Ukrainian issue. Hitler, Mussolini etc taunted them until the devil pushed Japan into bombing Pearl Harbor. America entered the war and during the bombardment of Omaha beach and Normandy to gain access into Europe terrified German soldiers wrote that the kind of weapons Americans came with was something they never imagined in their existence would exist in the next 1000 years; then coupled with total destruction of Japanese biggest cities then of Hiroshima and Nagasaki which made emperor Hirohito to admit that after his god it’s Americans. They even came with thousands of fighter jets and bombers than turned German military bases into tornados of fire and armored tankers that run on water and were detonating explosives at the beach. The battle lasted 48 hours and the lightening from the constant bombardments made the night look like broad daylight.It was rumored the shock drove hitler to go and commit suicide. By the time they gained access and started liberating countries held in bondage by hitler there was American flags all over Europe with everybody chanting “America..America…” thanking the heroic soldiers for the new found freedom.That war was described as the largest scale military operation ever carried out in a theater of war in the history of mankind , after that bloodshed Americans started UN, WHO,IMF etc with aim never to have a repeat of such again and that’s why what America did in North Korea,Vietnam, Iran, iraq, etc are largely seen as peace keeping even though moderate and liberal politicians in US are still angered by what happened in iraq. For Biden’s visit I know they will have missile protectors around him and would probably lock up the airspace too in addition to the tight security mobilized from their bases in Europe but should anything happen to Biden in Ukraine there would be no Russian in the next few weeks and Russia knows that

An interesting read.

Kuda all the way

MoneyMustBMade:
How will Peter go back to Lagos tomorrow

Don't forget that he has been a billionaire for a long time. Private jets are there for him

shegzhkn:
Obviously there's two international airport - MMIA and Nnamdi Azikiwe Int'l airport, just wanna know if any of it has rail transit option like Gautrain in O.R tambo Int'l airport in South Africa.

Story!!!

TheChameleon:


Oyinbo especially UK women can be shameless.

Mother of two proudly brandishing the affair. No regard for her own marriage.

Thank God its not like that here. The girls I deflowered... married women I mercilessly screwed. Can't imagine them coming to give accounts when I become a public figure.

Become a public figure first with too much money then you'll understand.

The Emir was listening to Obi with rapt attention. Compare it to his countenance as Tinubu was talking.

It's since the middle of last year.

We need the other side of the story.

GreyLaw:
My friend make transfers! Which one be access to your money? Are you withdrawing 10 million cash? Withdraw for your daily needs simple. Or use the darn transfers!!! I no know wetin dey worry una for that Nigeria.

In Western nations to even deposit cash as an individual you get limit. Some banks no go even let you do more than £100 to £500 per month. Meanwhile una for Nigeria go wake enter Bank as an individual go lodge 1m, 2m, 3m and above and nobody go ask una question!

Calm down abeg.
The transfers no dey go through.
Some bank apps no dey even open.
Nigeria is not yet ready for cashless living.

Aluma32:
Nairalanders, I'm new and need genuine advise here. I married my wife for over 7 years and she hasn't been able to conceive. After many medical trials like IVF and operations no positive result. She had suggested we go for a surrogate mother and has even brought a young girl of about 22 years to do that for us. My concern which I told her is that the little baby will need constant feeding in the surrogate mother's womb and so I will from time to time bleep the girl to feed my unborn child which my wife refuse. What should I do? Or I should leave my unborn baby to starve in that girl's womb? The baby may end up lacking certain traits if not well fed. Please advise and no insult please.

You must be a clown.
I sincerely believe you're joking

1. Some opportunities present themselves only once.

2. There will never be a perfect time

3. If stress is your concern, this is the best time to bear stresses. It will be more difficult as you get older.

4. Please go for it. Increase your capacity now you have the opportunity

Stopped working yesterday. I'm yet to try today.

If using zenith bank app is what will save your life, please say your last prayers and die.

The app is terribly unreliable. Will not open and almost always gives an error message just for logging in.

The most painful part for me is that Zenith bank used to deliver excellent services. I always wonder what happened.

Story

funshint:
If only you understand the average Ukrainian mentality towards blacks , we shouldn't have anything to do with those people. In contrast Russians are very nice, respectful and friendly people.

They are one and the same people.

Umueme:
Lol


Speaker: this is not a political rally
Students: we know!
Speaker: this is not a LP rally.

Speaker: this is a townhall.
Students: different from balablu.......... 😂

That speaker likes trouble. Very funny.

gbaskiboy:
This one is seriously wahala. I condenmed this, baba ill health should not be politicised. We are all vulnerable never laugh anyone today because of their vulnerability it might be yours tomorrow

How is he going to rule the most populous African nation with ill-health?

Sickness is not a crime. He should focus on his health and forget governance for now.

samuel051:
I have known about couples having separate rooms, though my parents never did and I never did such.

I will like to understand the motives behind such act,the advantage and disadvantage of such practice.

Is it a wise decision for married couples to practice such?

Opinion is needed for we the upcoming ones to learn from experienced elders.

There are times you just need some privacy and with separate rooms you can get that.

My mum had her room but was almost always in my dad's room. Her clothes and plenty stuffs were in her room. Dad preferred an almost empty room.

Now married, I prefer the quietness of my room to the noise and 'busyness' of my wife's room.

Why do I find this post funnily mischievous?