Health › Re: How Do I Treat This At My Throat by Nebes: 5:22am On Jun 27, 2022 |
Please go to a teaching hospital and ask for ENT doctors. Go now before it becomes late.
ENT (otorhinolaryngology) stands for "ear, nose and throat". It's a specialty on it's own. |
Romance › Re: I Failed French Throughout Primary And Secondary School by Nebes: 3:31am On Jun 27, 2022 |
Ilamina: it's Thursday
You think you are smart but you are not It was an innocent question. Somehow I knew it wasn't Monday. People were writing french in junior waec and I was sleeping in the hall. French was also my problem. |
Romance › Re: I Failed French Throughout Primary And Secondary School by Nebes: 8:15pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
Ilamina:

Nigerian education is quite good Even though, we are proudly an English speaking country
We still learn French
Now I am older, I regret not taking my French classes seriously
French too me was like further mathematics, so damn difficult
I only knew jeudi, Mardi, mercredi Days of the week  Because we made a song about it Please which one is "jeudi"? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is God Your Help? by Nebes: 10:44am On Jun 26, 2022 |
Yes |
Health › Re: Can You Sue A Medical Centre For This (photo) by Nebes: 10:43am On Jun 26, 2022 |
TONYE001: Chief, if he had gone to a teaching hospital, a final diagnosis would have been done by an SR and most likely confirmed by the consultant in charge of the team...
Young doctors (HO's and residents) usually clerk and present to the consultant. This is how clinics are run.
The average Nigerian automatically seems to be against the Nigerian doctor without ever understanding the medical system in Nigeria. |
Education › Re: Mention That Course Or Subject That You Will Pass Despite Not Reading At All by Nebes: 7:08pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
English language |
Romance › Re: Is Europe Lying To Us About Their History? ((photos)) by Nebes: 5:40pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
OurTruth: If you are still following and want me to continue, please like this comment. It appears you guys have lost interest. Continue Sir. I can't wait to see how this ends. |
Nairaland General › Re: Temisan has ruin John's life.. please advice... by Nebes: 4:39pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Kryto: Back then in Uni, when you see these guyz you run the other way, unless "you no wan graduate". They were untouchable, no one messes with them, and I mean it, no one. They always get want they wanted, your wallet, your phones, your babes, the whole stock. "They no born any girl well to reject their advances, or she go collect". This brings me to a lady friend of mine back then, Temisan by name. She was what you call a corny yet Born again Christian. Really beautiful, I mean her beauty was so bright, you don't need daylight. the curves, the butt, her legs, "omg" don't get me started with her legs. She walks by you, even if you have been castrated, dry bones shall rise. She was one damn hot black beauty. Temisan was known for turning down advances, tough chick. So blackky, heard about her and developed a great deal of interest. He decided to collect his. So he sent his boys on an errand to get/obtain all that would be necessary to impress this babe. I mean, you have a good watch, they collect it, a good phone, you loose it, cash on you, goes to the boss. Who do you want to report to, the authorities there could not touch them as they settle well. A boss man needs to look presentable, as he approached her after her class.. They both were laughing and enjoying each other's company.. I sat not so far away watching them, "babe I like, the guy done collect am". Months later, I observed they were really close, it got me so jealous and hurt. It was sad to see the way he gifted her cash, nice items. Having felt he had lavished her with so much gifts, he decided the ask her out officially. "Ope oo, they never they date", I was hopeful. That evening, his boys put in all efforts to make that day remarkable, as they seized COCA COLA SPOT (if you studied at Abraka) for the show. I won't lie, it was romantic. Blackky and Temisan got there that evening, sat, ate, drank. All I could do was watch from a distance as others did. Suddenly, Blackky stood up angrily. I noticed he was angry by the way he kicked back his chair. He boys stood up as they watched him pace around yelling with his finger pointed to Temisan's face. I became frightened for her and confused as Temisan did not move. She sat calmly, still sipping on her cold soft. Blackky and his boys stomped out, as they broke few bottles on their exist. "Omo, Temisan fear me ooo, babe no flinch". That brings us to the night, when the worst happen.. A night I can not soon forget. The night Blackky and his gang invaded our compound. "Did I tell you, I and Temisan also live in the same hostel". While I was catching some zzz zzz, I was awaken by a loud sound, pretty much the whole compound was. We were all trembling in fright. It was Blackky and his gang, the most feared gang in campus. They have come to pay Temisan with her own coin. We all heard a loud voice coupled with bottles broken all over. It was Blackky, " if you like your life, better just remain in your room". That's was all, that was all we needed to hear. "You wan disobey?, Or abi life don tire you ni?" They went up to Temisan's door and kept banging calling her to open her door. After a few minutes of relentless persistency, she gave in and opened. His boys started welling and breaking things in her room. "I could only imagine how scared the love of my life would be". Suddenly, every where went silent. I and pretty much every other tenant must have strained their ears to know what was happening. "No, it's too much". I couldn't take it any longer. That's my future woman, and I must defend her honor, no matter the cost.. I quickly charged our of my room with a drink opener as that was the only weapon close, "it was just impulse". On approaching her door, I heard Blackky's voice to Temisan, " have you now gotten your PVC?". Temisan then replied, "No". On hearing her reply, my moral dropped. And voting was the next day. I saw a Blackky felt weak between the knees as he staggered for his boys to hold him from falling. Blackky started crying, his boys also cried. I heart broken from her reply also cried, the full hostel cried as well. Temisan had just sold her right to vote by buying an IPhone with the money Blackky gave her to run and get her PVC. I later used my opener to open some chilled soft drinks for Blackky and his boys, atleast they will use that to chill ahead of the coming 8years hardship. 8 years was just swept under the rug by a "BROOM". PLEASE DON'T BE LIKE TEMISAN, DON'T SELL YOUR VOTE FOR IPHONE, RICE OR SHAYO, THEY ARE OBSOLETE. GET YOUR PVC, VOTE RIGHT THIS TIME. #DONTBELIKETEMISAN More to come........ You sabi tell story oh!!! |
Health › Re: Need Medical Help (pictures) by Nebes: 9:38am On Jun 05, 2022 |
Sigiris: I do frequently have this boil like growth coming on my face once in a while. sometimes on my cheek other times where I have beard. I don't know what it is but I call them boil because they form pus after a while. Are they really boil? Pls how can I treat them finally? Called 'in-grown' hair. Occurs mostly in black men who shave down to the skin. As the hair starts growing the tip bends and pierces the skin burying itself. This causes pus to form there. The only solution is to bring out that hair or the tip of that is digging into your skin. Prevention: Avoid clean shaves. |
Family › Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Nebes: 4:50am On Jun 05, 2022 |
DonroxyII: There are alot of Mathematics in Between these "Loves and "Submissions" which we all failed to Address in Present Society. I believe the mathematics in Between are the causes of Marital Failures:
Love involves the one to be loved to attract that Love:
Submissions Don't just Happen, You must be worthy of That Submissions:
Overall, Marriage needs God to Survive in this Dispensations: Intelligent! In my experience, I strive to do my part as much as I can. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please, What Does It Mean To Pray With A Man Of God In Your Dream? by Nebes: 6:56pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Blizzy300: I'm not much of a prayer warrior Just a church goer Tho I'm disciplined
I dreamt of praying with pastor Williams kumuyi in a battle pray yesterday not just me we were about 5
What could that mean? The Lord might be calling you into deeper levels of prayer. If you don't know what else to do/say please say this like Samuel: "speak Lord for your servant is listening". |
Family › Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Nebes: 6:42pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
My Christian formula: Husbands, love your wives as Christ loves you. Wives, submit to your husbands as unto the Lord. |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by Nebes: 3:13am On Jun 03, 2022 |
Keep moving sis. Some people are too small to fit into your future. No matter how you try, you won't succeed in carrying them along. They will only be happy seeing you down. |
Romance › Re: Yeah I'm Really Stupid Yunno by Nebes: 6:19am On May 29, 2022 |
Get into a relationship with Jesus Christ. He accepts and loves unconditionally. Nothing else can satisfy you in this selfish and wicked world. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Deborah Samuel: Family Arrives New Home In Port Harcourt Donated By OPM G.O. by Nebes: 2:48am On May 25, 2022 |
Iseoluwani: Hmm
Its a good GESTURE BUT
1 . were they his church members? If his church members are languishing in poverty and he did this. Sorry to say, HE IS CHASING CLOUT.
2. IF THEY HIS CHURCH MEMBERS, CAN'T HE DO IT QUIETLY??,
3. I said what I said ooo. Comma beat me The man didn't start today. He gives and gives and gives to both church and non-church members. Deborah became a Christian matyr and was a member of the body Christ. It doesn't really matter which particular denomination she belongs to. Moreover it's not easy to chase clout with giving out 16 apartments, a car etc to one family. If only our politicians and other well to do Nigerians will chase clout this way. |
Politics › Re: Will You Say He Looks Presidential? by Nebes: 5:27pm On May 24, 2022 |
No |
Career › Re: My Experience With My Boss At The Office Today. by Nebes: 12:35pm On May 19, 2022 |
Agabaidu1234: On a more serious note it pains. But am I being foolish by demonstrating that at the first place? I started it as result of kindness and humbleness. Don't back out now. You're not foolish but your humility is being tested now. NYSC is not forever. As long as you are not asked to do evil, you will be handsomely rewarded in the long run. Note that your reward will not necessarily come from your boss. But it will definitely come. Endure the test. |
Career › Re: My Experience With My Boss At The Office Today. by Nebes: 1:03am On May 19, 2022 |
Have strong convictions before embarking on such tasks. Know why you started in the first place. Don't start what you don't intend to finish. A very senior man in my field will even send you to go and stay with the mechanic as his car is being worked on. If you are not convinced why you are according him respect, you will die from bitterness. |
Romance › Re: "I'm A Hot Granny And Every Guy Loves And Wants Me" (Pictures) by Nebes: 12:50am On May 19, 2022 |
She's divorced. She has worked and is working on her body. She is now looking for a passionate man. But has she worked on her mind? If not, she's breaking up/divorcing again. And the cycle will continue till she works on her mind. The human body alone cannot satisfy. |
Family › Re: Young People's Success Annoys Me, I Can't Help It by Nebes: 8:59pm On May 18, 2022 |
Richy4: On the contrary, I wasn't defending him.. 
Experience have taught me that a lot of people don't actually know how to express themselves especially in terms of writing... That's when u hear things like my statements or messages were quoted out of context..
Believe me when I said that I understand that dude.. what he was saying will basically make sense if you can read between the lines..
It's ok if it works for you. Experience has taught me to hold people by their words. Nonverbal cues can always be denied. So I try to say what I mean and also to mean what I say. |
Family › Re: Young People's Success Annoys Me, I Can't Help It by Nebes: 8:42pm On May 18, 2022 |
This is exactly how the people we refer to as 'village people' started. Older people angry and seeking the downfall of the younger ones.
That's how I drove home and one old man came to greet and hug me as early as 7am. I knew his mission was evil. But I set his wicked body on fire with the hug. He left my late father's house confused. |
Family › Re: Young People's Success Annoys Me, I Can't Help It by Nebes: 8:31pm On May 18, 2022 |
Richy4: I understand you man..Not that u don't like people's success.. just that u don't like how the world isn't balanced...
People might misunderstand what u have written up there because the write ups did not portray what u have in mind but showcased u as a 'witch'...clear your mindset and be happy.. It will help you big time... 
Why defend his writeup? He expressed what was on his mind. I don't think we should make excuses for him. |
Food › Re: I Cooked This Strange Food I Found On Jumia by Nebes: 7:38am On May 17, 2022 |
I love your curiosity. Apply this to every other area of life. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Thought I Was Getting Closer To God Not Knowing It Was Mental Illness by Nebes: 7:36pm On May 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You mean Spiritual bullsheet aka religion? It is instead the feebleminded aka The gullible that tend to fall smack into that trap set by men.  Go back and read my full post. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Thought I Was Getting Closer To God Not Knowing It Was Mental Illness by Nebes: 7:29pm On May 15, 2022*. Modified: 10:28pm On May 16, 2022 |
Spirituality is not for the weak and feeble-minded. Observe my choice of words - SPIRITUALITY. Once you start approaching the realms that are beyond our 3 dimensional realm, you are in danger if your mind is not guarded. This applies to almost all religions. Ask our traditionalists if you doubt. If you keep digging deep spiritually, a time will come when you will see/hear/experience what the normal human will never experience. My guess is that in your quest for God, you opened up a portal that was too much for your mind to carry. Your mind is just a gateway between the spiritual and this realm. You would have benefitted from a good spiritual guide. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Father Is A Pastor But I Don't Believe In God. by Nebes: 2:36pm On May 08, 2022*. Modified: 9:56pm On May 08, 2022 |
Just keep growing. I'm not saying you'll believe in God oh. But a time is coming when spirituality will collide with you. At that time, you'll make your choice. I pray you choose Jesus Christ when that time comes. |
Politics › Re: Why Do We Have So Many Presidential Aspirants by Nebes: 2:29pm On May 08, 2022 |
The party is just raising money for the election. That's a way of funding the party without raising eyebrows. They know exactly what they're doing. My thoughts though. |
Family › Why Not Abuse Her Back? by Nebes(op): 6:11pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
I have come to know that women also hate verbal abuses. So instead of hitting her, why not abuse her back? I once had a girl that verbally abused me. I couldn't match the speed of her verbal diarrhoea. I simply waited and later packaged a well written abuse to her. After that, she always held herself when the urge to abuse comes. Please guys, I don't think we should hit them because of verbal abuse. That shouldn't be enough excuse. |
Romance › Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nebes: 8:34pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
kayperry: Bro you are entitled to your opinion and respect your decision buh consider this a chit chat. based on the popular scripture in the bible[b] "22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands" [/b]while "25 Husbands, love your wives," For years it bugged my mind why the word "submit" was used instead of love, a quote like "women love your husband and husband love your wife could have made perfect sense buh with time i got to realize a woman can't love a man, highest is respect cos a woman's love is subtly reserved for her offsprings. what this literally means is that, women carry a deficit towards men but the good signs to look out for is; "if she respect you well enough thats her own true love" As a man its not your job to love a woman, its a conditional responsibility, a man's love can be ascribed as "REWARD therefore as a man it is best to marry a woman that loves(respect) you more, @least that will alway cover up for the deficit in her nature. From my experience and learning, love is not equal to respect. A man's love for a woman softens him towards her. But if you rely on a woman's love, don't be surprised when she scolds and disrespects you even while confessing her love for you. |
Romance › Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nebes: 7:38pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
tolajay: Good advise but with a couple of contradictions.
How does one profess to be a "Christian" without being submissive? 
No way! Submission is a lifestyle of Christians.
Perhaps we should distinguish between "Christians" and "Church-goers". One can't be a Christian and not Love like Christ (as a man) or Submit like Christ (as a woman).
The best marriages are modelled after Christ, who submitted himself to the Father's will even till death. For a blissful marriage, the Bible commands such act in Ephesians 5. Beautiful observation. But remember that our Christian journey is akin to a school. Some of us are in kindergarten, while others have spent years transforming. Some keep repeating classes. In all, till we learn to love our wives like Christ loves us and our wives submit as we are expected to submit to God, failed marriages will be seen even in the church. |
Romance › Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nebes: 7:15pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
hopexter: A woman’s love might not mean much to you, I have a mother and her love means a lot to me right from infant till this day. All I’m saying is it’s better to marry who loves you to who you love. Cos a woman’s love is engraved with faithfulness, protection and respect. She will never allow harm into your way.
But there are grave repercussions in which ever! Another day’s discussion  Your opinion is valid but a mother's love is very much different from the love seen between spouses. In my experience, I am happy the way my wife loves and protects my children. But what a husband needs is affirmation of his authority in his family. Because I love her, hurting her is never an option. A woman's love is fraught with inconsistencies--- mood swings amongst others. You can't rely on that. |
Romance › Re: Who would you marry? The one you love or the one who loves you. by Nebes: 6:52pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
hopexter: In other words, you chose both  As a guy, I've chosen to marry the woman I love. For me, a woman's love does not mean much. In the long run, what men crave is honor and respect, while women seek for love and security. |