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As a Christian male, please marry the woman you love but be sure she is a woman that can respect and submit to you.

Christian ladies, please marry the man that loves you. But if you don't have respect and can't submit, please stay single.

Promzy99:
I hate to see sitting females on skirt re-adjust dia legs wheneva am passing by. It makes me feel like am trying to see through dia legs, but am just innocent. Why are these females behaving like dis self?

My guess is that you appear very attractive and closing their legs reflexively is them trying not to show vulnerability. They instinctively try to play hard to get. If you are not fancied, they won't even acknowledge your presence.

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The man should please stop liking the woman’s post. Liking the strange woman’s posts adds nothing to his marriage but is threatening the peace of his marriage.

Used to hate all these Online “challenges” but this one really cracked my ribs.

What if the secretary is the husband’s side chick?

There are really lot’s of respectable people on this forum silently reading and observing. Thank you Mr. Anonymous for the help.

jesusjnr2020:
What happened that day reminded me of what Jesus said would take place on the day of rapture.

Jesus said:

Luke 17:34-36 (KJV)

I tell you, in that night there shall be two men in one bed; the one shall be taken, and the other shall be left.
Two women shall be grinding together; the one shall be taken, and the other left.
Two men shall be in the field; the one shall be taken, and the other left.

It gives the impression that many people who have close ties, people of the same family, married couples, close friends who walk and do things together, also members of the same church, would be together on the same day, but would suffer different fates, as one of them would be taken, and the other left behind.

Now as I said, four of us, all choir members, had just returned from a power-packed Holy Ghost-filled church service in high spirits, but although this wasn't the rapture but just an armed robbery incident, still i was separated and treated differently from the rest because I was the only one true child of God among them.

So just imagine that it was the rapture, that's how I would be the only one "taken" while the three fellow choir members would be "left" behind despite that we just came back together from a power-packed, Holy Ghost church service.

It was supposed to be an eye-opener for them, but unfortunately, instead of learning from it, going to God to enquire concerning what happened, one of the choir members started bragging about how he was going to report the robbery incident to the pastor of the church, because he would not take it lightly since it involves him, that the pastor doesn't joke with him. And i just shook my head.

After that one of the other two guys who was also a student of the school, talked about doing the same thing and reporting the incident to his pastor, and it became clear to me why many Christians would be left behind on the last day.

It's because they put their hopes and trust in men - their pastors and church leaders - but not in God or His Son Jesus Christ.

That's why they do not obey what Jesus commanded us to do, but have continued to work iniquity, thinking that their pastors and church leaders would be able to save them regardless.

But what they don't know is that many of those their pastors and church leaders who they put their hopes may not even be able to make it themselves on that day, if the sayings of Jesus was anything to go by, so how much more those who put their hopes on them and refused to repent?

Matthew 7:22-23 (KJV)

Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

What happened that day was truly an eye opener to me. It showed me that it was not about being known and backed by pastors and church leaders, Christians, regardless of who they were, but about being known and backed by God, because that was what I had proved to be the difference between me and them that night.

I pray you'd not just have the backing of men, but also that of God on the day it matters most.

God bless.

Some people will attack you for this post but I believe you sir. His presence differentiates us. I truly believe this.

One terrible supervisor that everybody fears in my place of work sent for me for a perceived mistake. He was shouting and people thought I was finished. By the time I entered the room where they were, a change occurred. It seemed like they poured iced water on him. Instead of shouting he calmly and gently told me to be more careful next time. Even me I am still surprised and I had to specially thank God.

RoyalBoutique:
Which Kain wives una dey marry sef?

My wife sustained me for years before I found my footing.

And she didn't make noise about it.

Find better woman, Una no go hear.

Always appreciate that your wife. She is among the very few good ones.

She is here but not of this place. The spirit of Christ will always stand her out. At least for her father’s sake.

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

Without knowledge and understanding you might never be free of this.

You need to know and understand that Christ died for you. Christ shed His blood for you. The blood of Jesus speaks more powerfully than any other blood in creation.

If only you will believe what I just said. The covenant of Christ’s blood over you supersedes any other covenant. Introduce this factor into the covenant you had with your friend and watch the weaker covenant disappear.

Prayer alone without understanding what I just said might not be enough. Plead the blood of Jesus over your boyfriend’s blood. Please what makes you think that the boy’s blood can stand the blood of Jesus?

If you make the move to the UK, then only God Himself will help you through the pains you will suffer. I will tell you why. If I were you, I’ll move though.

Test your wife by telling her to shelf the plans of moving and see her reactions. If she VEHEMENTLY disagrees with you, then get ready for trouble if you follow her there. Most women do not manage power over their husbands well.

Trust me, the moment you step into the UK, as a nurse she immediately becomes more financially powerful than you till you find your footing. She will enjoy that power and if she’s wicked she will attempt to keep you down. Your manhood will be thoroughly bruised. You can deduce how she will handle this financial power by her reaction when you tell her to stop the plans of traveling now.

Finally, if I were you and I decide to travel, I will travel knowing the difficulty that lies ahead. If I were you, I will also travel knowing that only Christ Himself can keep me as the head of my family even though I might suffer for a while for that same family. UK is a good land. If my God is your God, He will so balance you in a few years that you will forget the peanuts you earned in Nigeria. That’s only if your mind stays on Him in your pursuits. The price you pay is that of family unity. Take this from a fellow Nigerian that lived in Europe for years.

DISHONOUR!!!

Love never dies though. But if you are disrespectful, you’ll only be loved from a distance forever.

Looking at the bright side.
I don’t know why she did this but people are by her actions talking about my Jesus. Whichever way, I pray that Christ be preached and known.
May we not be few that know and call upon your name Oh Lord!!!

Ayanwukoma:
can jesus really help me?

Yes I tell you from experience. He’s even watching you now and waiting for you to ask for this help. He needs you to permit Him to take over your life.

This is the time to look for Jesus. Stay in that your room and sincerely ask Him to take over the management of your life. Then get a bible and read daily to know more about your new Lord.

You might think nothing is happening. Do this everyday. Go to church if you can. If you are sincere, your life will change soon enough.

I remember buying gifts for my mother when I was in SS2. I remember how she cried but I don’t remember anything else she said. I think she prayed for me. I’m not sure. She died same year.

Now I remember the day I dashed my father 1K. He took it and asked me to kneel down. He told me that God will lead me and break down every barrier in this life for me. My father also died before I became stable financially. Today any time I break through any barrier I remember my father. I always succeed even where others fail. Rules are always bent for me to ensure I get anything I want. That was the only thing I remember giving him. I wish I gave him more.

I don’t care how much you give your mother but one blessing from your father will speak for you more than a thousand from your mother. Remember that without him you won’t even have anybody to call mother. Give to your father please. Provoke his emotional side and hear him bless you.

Sorry for this painful experience. This is the same reason I’ve not felt comfortable buying a laptop from either of these platforms.

N.B: This post is not for everyone. It is for born again, tongue-talking Christian men going through financial shame. It is also for any other tongue-talking Christian, male or female. If you don’t belong to the above, please get born again first and be filled with the Holy Spirit.

I won’t waste your time. Sometime in the past my wife insulted me multiple times for not being able to pay my children’s school fees among other financial incapacities. She was the one paying the fees and feeding my children. I cried most times in secret and lived in shame and reproach.

But brothers crying does not change anything. I simply told God that though my wife’s insults were painful, she was saying things as they were. In tears, I begged God to enlarge my capacity. Remember I was born again and tongue talking. I used to pray occasionally.

I lived in shame till I was introduced to a group of Christians that believe in not just prayers but consistent and extended times of prayers. These prayers are 99.9% praying in tongues. I joined them and we pray in tongues for hours.

In praying for such extended hours, we build capacity to do what God has called us to do including taking care of our families. That capacity acquired through praying can manifest in diverse ways. It can manifest through your business, your job, favors etc

Don’t just cry, brother. Please enlarge your capacity in extended times of praying in the Holy Spirit. Start by praying for an hour and increase over time. You can also be praying while at work, bathing etc. Please put the gift you already have at work. Give yourself time and you will see Jesus Himself come through for you. As you pray, read the Bible in between. He will open you up to other areas with time.

Today, my children’s fees are paid before time, there is provision for their food. My wife is amazed. She is yet to understand the change. I won’t stop oh!! I will keep praying. I will keep building capacity through the spirit. I thank our God for this wonderful gift of praying in tongues. Brothers please let’s do this and get down to doing our works efficiently in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

In all you wrote I did not see any God factor. Life is spiritual. Regardless of what you do, that domineering evil spirit will never allow you peace and joy.

Why not run to Jesus? He is the father of all spirits. He will build and strengthen your spirit while subduing and dealing with the spirit operating in your wife.

My brother please turn on the light in you through Christ and watch darkness fade away.

She definitely learnt that act from her mother or neighbor’s wife.

Interesting read. Just wondering if you made this up.

Nigercity:
Igbos keep beating people in there homes
People wey no even get mind to play away

One of the reasons for the intense hatred against them.

essenjack:
I was born and baptized as Christian, then I wasn't so exposed to life to make a choice of my religion, growing up I see things differently.
Currently I'm considering changing my religion, Hope there wouldn't be any dire consequences for chosen a different religion & denying the allegiance I once swore before baptism in the Christian religion?

Rather than changing, try going deeper into Christ. The untapped dimensions in Him are infinite.

Why forage with chickens when you can soar with eagles?

Congrats!!!

Your first mistake is having confidence in yourself. You should be confident but that confidence should hang on something bigger than you.

Life will continually flog you and push you down if who you flaunt as your confidence is just yourself.

The question now is in who or what should your confidence hang?

Mine hangs on Jesus Christ my Lord and Saviour. Feel free to choose yours. But I plead and pray you choose Christ.

Colleagues think I am an unserious person. They marvel at my excellent results even with their assumptions thinking that I succeed by mistake.
They have no idea that I am the most serious person I know.

The journey through this earth can be very hard without spiritual backup.
Show up in your duty place but constantly remain in the secret place. I am talking about consistent prayers. Getting born again is the first step.

NB: Spiritual backup can be from anywhere— juju, Alfa, secret societies etc. But I encourage you to choose JESUS CHRIST who is light, life, way and truth.

hopefulLandlord:
Someone who believes himself to be god is NOT an atheist. such a person is an AUTOTHEIST

Thanks for adding to my vocabulary. I am only pointing out that men must worship God or something else. We are beings of worship.

There is nothing like being an atheist. You now believe in yourself therefore, you have become your own god. Just say you stopped being a Christian. You’ve just started worshipping yourself.

Imagine yourself as god. But a god that does not even know the color of the air he breathes, is that one God?

This is the funniest thing I’ve read in a while.

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