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Kurutinto:
Only if this man had shame, he won't be seen in public till he secretly leaves that office.

Very daft being

I couldn't have said it better..

Worst president ever..

Carcholce:
No matter how you guys paint it, I’m going to marry and not just one but two wives for a start, and then a third one when the first two are beginning to get old.

Lol, third one who's younger that'll come around to increase your lifespan. No time for stale women.

Emaprince:
You should be more worried over the fact that a man created a thread lamenting over the lack of good woman in todays society. You are not supposed to be shinning teeth. Rather you should cover your face in shame or try to even prove to us that there is still some insignificant number of virtuous women anywhere.
That today women are sex tools is something you are cheerful of now? And tomorrow you will complain when they call you guys sex objects.

You're just wasting your time exchanging words with that hoe Begoniaa. A frustrated wannabe feminist with a battered pussy.

She really wants to settle down with a man, but her bad character wouldn't let it be.

I have already told her that in her quest to search for a man, she will only end up running in circles.

You were lucky bro, but don't ever try that sh*t again. I had a similar experience in the past.

Here we go:

Way back then in 2018 when i was broke, one of my uncle's tenants gave me 30k to give to my uncle for rent. I used 22k out of that cash to play 3 odds.

Hungary vs Australia &over 2.5 - 2.60

Cork city vs a team i can't remember over 1.5 -1.40

The Hungary Australia game goals started coming in after 70 minutes. Infact, the last goal was scored at 90+. You can imagine what i went through checking livescores. At the end i won 82k.

I gave my uncle his 30k, then he gave me 2k which i didn't accept. Told him not to mind.

It didn't just stop there.

After buying a phone and some clothes with my winnings, i decided to push my luck with the remainder which was 20k by playing another 3 odds from the world cup games.

Belgium vs Panama - 1x & over 2.5 - 1.70
All three goals from Belgium came in the second half.

England vs Tunisia - Over 2.5 - 2.20
It played, but the last goal came in the 93rd minutes - a last minute header from Harry Kane. I eventually won another 82k.

You can see what I went through emotionally and psychologically just to win that cash. I'm not proud of myself. What if it didn't work out? I was just lucky. And i don't gamble anymore.

Persephone1:
This is relative, I can not type what every woman as it differs but I will try as much as possible to type out what some sensible women I know look out for in a Man.

The first thing that strikes a woman in a man is his Comportment. When a woman meets you for the first time, she notices how you carry yourself. Your carriage speaks a lot about you. 1) Your maturity: how you deal with people around
2) Your confidence: How you see yourself
3) Your Aura: What you are all about.

This is why in first 5 minutes of meeting you a woman can decide if she wants a long or short term dealings with you.

As you move on with each other, she checks your level of knowledge, intelligence, assertiveness, discipline, self control, your plans, your goals, your conflict resolution ability, your rage level, time management, financial management, communication skills, leadership skills, your resilience, your vulnerability level, how you handle difficult situation, Your playfulness, Your emotional intelligence , ability to play a lover and a teacher etc. If you can beat her in all these areas, i.e be above her in these areas, believe me she will respect you and want to have you. Because not only will she want to enjoy all you have,she would want her children to enjoy these traits and have them too.

There could be more, and some of the listed may not be needed depending on what she wants. But most of those things listed are what women secretly look out for in Men.

As for what can be of value to Man, that will be on you. You only know what you hold dear and what you stand for.

You owe me ooooo

With this long epistle, you don fall Nigeria girls there hand. They'll be looking at you with one eye and be like " wetin this one dey type wey money no dey" ;

Persephone1:
Oga if you no wan marry nobody hold you.

Which one is life has, life has. If marriage no benefit you, no do am!

Yes, i no go do am. Period.

begoniaa:
Imagine... tell me marital clock is ticking against the female gender... so I can go into marriage... a marriage that is to my advantage and that will end up caging men?

How can you believe "marital clock is against women" and "marital life benefits women" at the same time?

That means the marital clock is a GOOD thing then... it is a POSITIVE incentive pushing women towards marital life where they get to enjoy and everything, abi? So why do y'all use it as a derogatory remark?

You want us to marry EARLY so we can enjoy the best of marriage to the detriment of our husbands? Sounds like a fair deal and a great advice from a good place.

The marital clock being against you here means that: men who are the source of your benefits are scarce. They're like a gold dust, the oasis in the desert, a highly valued creatures. Hence, the reason why y'all women scramble around them for marriage.

As it is now, a woman's chances of getting a man are higher at a younger age, not after she has finished whoring around.

Life has made men to bear the burdens of marriages, and we are trying to change the narrative. Y'all women should enjoy while it lasts.

begoniaa:
And what is the point of this information? Since marriages does not benefit men, why do you feel the need to dangle the "marital clock" over our heads just so we can marry fast? Don't you see that you're pushing us into a good thing, but shortchanging men?

Should you not be HAPPY at the lack of wifeable women? That means less stress for you men!

You should be CELEBRATING our biological clocks instead and encouraging us to NOT get married since marriage is of no use to men.

You cannot shame us for wanting marriages that destroy men, and still shame us for having babies without men... all the while dangling 'biological clock' over our heads. Watin you want make we do for you? Kill ourselves, LMAO?

In truth, marriage doesn't benefit men. When you get married as a man, you're going to slug out your ass your entire life just to meet the needs of your wife(who is a grown up), and she might not even appreciate. So, men should be better off living alone.

These women aren't wifeable yet they keep stressing us the men for marriage. It bothers me a lot why people who are not wifeable will keep doing this.

And yes, I'll keep dangling the marital clock on your head just so I'll keep sending you on a goose chase. You'll keep running around searching for men with your bad character and end up running in circles.

begoniaa:
See as confusion dey set for their camp. E don dey happen.

Abeg, na WHICH gender in particular don dey conditioned to marry at a certain again? Which gender craves marriage the most? Can you explain to me why this OP is feeling all he's feeling now... if all you guys' assertions about men are true, then someone should just tell me why the OP's case is the way it is na. Anyone. Any body?

I have been following your comments. All i see you do is to capitalize on the op's predicament. Listen, the op himself doesn't make up the entire male gender. And i didn't see where he said he's lonely.

It's clear that the hoes he's been following ain't just loyal. I wonder why person go dey carry woman matter for head for this kind time.

For your information, women are more desperate to get married than men as the marital clock is always ticking against the female gender.

Rosaline5000:
Ok so what, it's her life and she can do what she want with it.
You dont like it, mind your business, one thing I have learned in this life is not to judge people because the person you think you are better than or more moral than might just end up been 10x more successful than you.
You will be shock that this same lady you are putting down and thinking she is worthless will end up getting married to some rich guy that thinks she is a queen.
As you are not interested in her, just block her number and move on, dont tell her how to live her life because experienced is the best teacher

Shame no dey catch you?

The women willingly went there for the godforsaken act. Everybody found there should be arrested.

There was this girl that lived in a compound i was staying a couple of years ago. She got pregnant and refused to say who was responsible. Every attempt to make her say it was futile.

Two weeks to the day of delivery, she was no where to be found. Then she came back without the pregnancy.

We started asking her about the baby. Her reply was that " it was a still birth." But we found out that she had put to birth and sold the baby.

Same thing happened in the previous compound where she lived in.

So she committed the crime twice.

Some women can be so wicked.

VULCAN:
Why must you rant about something that was never there?

I had to read the story twice because of you as I knew that I never saw anywhere where she said the guy was based here before they started.

I'm amazed that you could project such into the story.

Imagine someone like you being a Judge

You will send so many innocents to jail

I saw the post earlier today. I read it again after reading his comment and i didn't see where the guy was living in Nigeria before moving out, lol.

So many wrong moves and decisions by the APC. Even getting a candidate that'll represent them in the 2023 presidential elections was a vigorous task. It's a party that's unorganized. You can tell by the way they are dilly-dallying about their selections.

And always ending up with the wrong decisions.

If they can't properly handle party affairs, how then are they going to move this country forward.

tnerro1:
Ask if him sabi Buhari

Just shout "Buhari" she will run away. Fear who no fear Buhari

Honestly, you might not like the guys in that section and their ways, but most times they speak so much truth.

Richie8701:
She's secretly pregnant and you are the chosen stepfather

Chosen father/step father. You're very wicked

That's not manipulation. They're just having a good time. As happy mothers witnessing the
marriage of their offshoots , they deserve more than that.

They should take her to a generator shop and show her the price of generators.

In an embarrassing situation like this, I'm going to be very petty towards her afterwards. Very annoying. I'll pay her back.

Number 5 is worth noting, because after buying the pans, someone will approach you with the pins, and if you're not brave, you might pay three times the amount of the pans for the pins. Pins that should be #50 each.

Don't come to PH at night if your bus stop is at Eleme junction. It's better you wait until daytime.

Learn how to drive truck, you are going to get a truck driving job in PH in no time with a good pay if you come to the Eleme area.

Before moving to any area to stay, make sure you ask to know if there's a vigilantee group in that area.

Laff wan kill me as i enta that thread. Chai dem really finish the op.

Exkandayee:
We real niqqas don't Care about women beauty op,we only Care about what she can offer,,,op is a SIMP,,,,

The op aptly described exactly how some women are and you're calling him a simp.

Fvck is wrong with you? You guys have overused and misused the word "simp".

Go look up the word and know its true meaning.

This is one of the reasons why the poverty in the north is prevalent. Too many kids that you cannot guarantee them a better future.

They said he's a lecturer. A lecturer that is not enlightened to know what's known as birth control.

At the end when they grow up to face the harsh reality of the Nigeria's economy, they get subjected to chronic poverty, and start terrorising people.

The ones that'll find it hard to cope will now become nuisance to the society.

This is one of the reasons why the poverty in the north is prevalent. Too many kids that you cannot guarantee them a better future.

They said he's a lecturer. A lecturer that is not enlightened to know what's known as birth control.

At the end when they grow up to face the harsh reality of the Nigeria's economy, they get subjected to chronic poverty, and start terrorising people.

The ones that'll find it hard to cope will now become nuisance to the society.

Kaiair:
Are they nigerian woman

Of course, they are Nigerians..

Wifeneeded:
Bro no vex, send me the Facebook link...I will extend my search

Okay, i will..

Substitute the word"simp" with "chivalrous". Simps are of no good. I can't desperately seek a woman's attention and affection even when she isn't doing the same toward me.

I won't encourage anyone to become overly obsessed about someone (typically a woman) who doesn't feel the same about them.

Simps are weak men who put bad women on pedestal.

There's nothing wrong with being nice and caring toward a woman, but there are boundaries you shouldn't cross.