₦airaland Forum

For me is to ensure my kids study good professional courses in school, not just to enter university, and spend money on a yeye course like I did.

tunjilomo:
Assuming, I did have one. I will always exchange a small but reasonable amount of my salary into USD.

Na the way. I was sick for 2 months, affected my earnings for 5 months, till today. Practically no better income.
This your level has been my backup. Just as if Nepa takes light and you on inverter. Savings in naija domiciliary and foreign acct.

Nigeria practically built that refinary for dangote. Fact. How? I understand forex had been provided for the facility at even less than cbn rate. Part of the reason you find it hard to get pta, to even make payments with your regular bank card online for your Netflix, YouTube, aliexpress if because practically all the forex available was going to dangote.
Well, what the Emefiele is basically saying is that Nigerians must now rip the benefits of their sacrifice in the refinary.
If you do not know you sacrificed for dangote refinary, now you know.

boxypane:
Well, different stokes for different folks. I do think a change of approach by him is required. Since he loves her so, sacrifices just have to be made to make things right. Ego! Thank God he has a good one, cannot be mismanaged at this time.

I feel you.
The marriage is too early for this though.
Truth of the matter is that you do not reward bad behavior of not it will increase. When a woman acts that way to her husband, first time, second time, the hubby keeps begging and appeasing her, she despises him more, looks at him as a simp, hate even builds up. If the fellow still love her, then he needs to man up, ignore her, practically abandon her as if she does not exist, move to his new base without communicating with her, just send her regular upkeep money as he has being doing. Infact he should get one or 2 hot chicks to hold body.
If the wife is still interested in the marriage, she will be the one looking for him, calling him after he ignores her for 1 month. And if she remains thesame, he should move on abeg.
Never sacrifice your happiness because of a woman. Never kill or die for any woman. Walai, hard working providing men are there, yet their women are fucking around with nitwits, how much more a man dies, the next month, another person is climbing her.

9jaBloke:
People going tribal on this issue are worse than Tiamiyu. There's absolutely nothing tribal about this.

Yes, there are negative traits that seem to be dominant in particular ethnic groups but it shouldn't be generalized. The sooner we learn to address incidents on the basis of personal character, the better for all of us.

Well said.

superCleanworks:
to sell it for how much?

It will surprise you how expensive those mirrors are. That suv is 2018 upwards. Quite pricy parts.
I thought all these had stopped. Those days, my egbons v booth, na so then de steal the mirrors. And they were quite expensive.
Once he drives out, parks his car, he will remove the mirrors and put in his bag or lock in the booth. We use to laugh at him.
He finally sold the car cheap, guess why? He boozed down the street, they had locked the gate when he was done ie past 12am. He left the car outside. By the time we saw the car next day, it had been stripped. Heavily vandalized, he had to sell it off.

boxypane:
Yes I am. With two wonderful kids that only my wife can't handle.

Me with 3, and for over 21 years. Based on what this fellow said. His wife seems not to work. She is at home with one child. He goes to work, come back in the evening, she is even wearing the same pant and bra ie she has being lazing around. You then expect the man to do chores? Howww??.
I am not saying chores should not be done, I do it, even up till now my kids are grown. But in this man's unique case, his matter passes assisting his wife with house work.

DenreleDave:
Nedekid baba, you gat a free breakfast, lunch and dinner. Why you dey deny the woman of her gbola na?

With all the young sweet chicks weh de outside, na woman weh don marry, don born I go outside wan nack? In that case make I kukuma de house face madam, she still set.

boxypane:
Are you married?

Yes, are you?

Rayban25:
Just enter any zenith bank or UBa bank you'll see what he is talking about

Dont know about other banks but Zenith. Omo, that place is wild. Unto even my account officer till today I deliberately refuse to meet. Na Soso disturb when are we going to meet. Minor thing, come to the bank. Na so so, you dount want to see my face she de ask. Instead of going to my branch, I started going to another. Na married woman oh.
Those days in UI in the 90s, there was this lecturers daughter in quarters. Pretty girl. She sha was the donatus, very generous, helping boys, not until one kangaroo, then impregnated her when it was his turn. Guess what, after all this years, I saw her contact of fb, she be top management banker. No be juju be that. So you expect nacks to be any biggie for the lady?

hotwax:
Married ones are getting spanked in the office big time.

I pity their husbands

Normal things.
One man I had business with 2003 had one of those massive bungalows at gra Ikeja. One of the rooms was his office, the others living quarters.
Two banker ladies use to come there, one was the then branch manager of a bank. Light skinned calabar lady. After banking talk talk, this woman go enter room, heavy knacks next. Na married woman with 2 kids then, but she still set.

The op made a point, started a good thread, but as usuall, the tribal rants has started, lead by one of the nairaland institutional tribalist.
Anyway as I always say, it is the poor, hungry online worriors that fight over tribe, region, politics etc. The rich folks have better things doing, they are making money, they are friends, their kids marry themselves etc.
Seems folks don't know Atiku and tinubu are best of paddies for tens of years, their kids are like siblings, more so the tightest binder of people is when they share money. Both are even business paddies. Same with obi, they are all friends. For all you know, they might be sipping 40 year old wiskey as we argue and fight online wars.

Rubbish, arrogant madam face your front. If you feel you have been defamed, you know where to got to.
COURT.

Drey1:
Lol. Awon oniyeye . Like they assured my mother during savanna bank days abi. Till tomorrow, Nah so my mums 400k wey she wan use buy 1 small korope that year enter govt pocket. Funny enough. I still kept the savannah bank teller keep for house for her. maybe miracle fit happen.

Moni weh fit buy tokumbo that time, now no fit but okada.
Value don peme.

vengertime:
First batch of Nigerian airways

Plane na plane

Heartstop:
Na so. We've heard this story time and time again. They will soon parade one borrowed aircraft for optics and after taking all the pictures they need, they will return it and that will be the last we will hear of it. This man Hadi Sirika is just looking for what to show EFCC when they come knocking in a few days time.

Plane for display, to cover for all the choppings of the past 8 years.

greatstephenho:
my brother,I was dusting myself in the streets of Lagos until I got to my house. I did everything humanly possible not to get that thing into my house

With benefit of hindsight few year later, hope the bugs did not enter your house.

Corridon:
Nigerians stand with Rufai.

Abi, is it every crime that is reported to police? You go to police, you will pay to incident the crime, probably pay to transport them for investigation. Who get time for that wahala. Better to go fix your car.
It is possible it happend, might be a little exaggerated while passed from mouth to ear.

boxypane:
My guy, I understand. You are not the first this has happened to. First relax. You really poured this out and from this, you are in control of yourself.
The truth is you'd have to endure and keep trying, one other ish is the distance, it's not healthy. Aside you marrying her n providing money, do you help her with chores! Like taking care of the baby, relieve her of cooking stress by eating out? Or doing laundry together once in a while? That could be the pointer!

A lady that is not working, the man should come back home and do chores etc?

Oga, walk out, also do a DNA test that the child is yours.
This is just 2 years old marriage and all this is happening. Atleast it is still early enough to back out.

pocohantas:
Yes na. Annie Idibia. I didn't o. I no wan vex.
I only wish two of them the best because strangely I love seeing them together.



I am sure that man hooked her as a young naive girl. Now I see why your church cares about age difference. Make them understand who is manipulating who.🤣🤣🤣

That lady no be saint. Rumors has it she was knacking one big man married to a young actress. If you know you know.

aspabay:
Rufai is a bloody liar

Can he not joke again! Afterall this same police said joking is allowed when they explained mc oluomos joke to Nigerians.

At least you played good politics that enabled you to casually pay 100 million for APC form.

henryadex:
Buhari o ni ku re if he didn't stop all these looting

I need dollar at this your price, is it still available?

https://www.nairaland.com/2814348/exchange-rates-bank-transactions

Jakumo:
This is a revelation. I truly had no idea that people carry bed bugs around in their clothes, and I had no inkling that hotels are infested with them. Finally this is the first time I am reading that bedbugs can be so difficult and costly to eliminate in a house.

Yeah it is. Fumigated 10 times, e no work. Had to get rid of cloths, furnitures, beds etc. Had to re tile the house. Change electrical sockets and fitting after burning the crevices with blow touch. Refurnish the house, bought new matrass and wrapped them in Macintosh so they cannot be penetrated again.
No be small thing.

https://www.nairaland.com/6740361/dozens-bedbugs-found-efexexecutive-buses

You want to burn people's personal properties? Wonders will never end.
If you do not like the business, raise money and offer to but the brotel then turn it to mosque or church as you so wish.

gidgiddy:
Im glad that Seun Kuti has finally regained freedom, detention in Nigeria can be an experience

However, I cannot help but compare the way Seun Kuti was treated, and the way Frederick Nwajiagu, the ceremonial "Eze Ndigbo Ajao estate", was treated.

Both men were arrested in Lagos for alleged crimes and arraigned in the same court. The authorities asked that they both be remanded in custody for 21 days. While Seun Kuti is out in less than a week, Eze Ndigbo, a man of nearly 70 years, was not only was remanded for 21 days, but was slamed with 9 counts of terrorism and is still in detention


Seun Kuti verbally and physically assaulted a Policeman, Eze Ndigbo only talked. While Seun Kuti took action, Eze Ndigbo was more about peace, preserving the lives and property of his people. His only crime was mentioning IPOB.

The double standards in Nigeria is something else

Seun is not free, he will be charged to court by the state prosecutor after receiving the case file from the police as instructed by the magistrate.
The Eze was charged by the police direct an took so it took less time.
Although one sees where you are comming from in this matter and it could be said to have some merit. People sha should be careful with their utterances seeing the country is devided politically and ethnically.

Metcheew

Jakumo:
Odikwa serious. Fear of students in the jail cell is the beginning of wisdom.

Omo, that thing don enter you house before? Experienced it for the first time 3 years ago. It cost me more than 4 million to get rid of. The emotional damage even cost more.
Because of that, I hardly let people into my car, as you no know who go drop student inside moto, you come transport am go house. I no de go hotel again, especially short time. That place na their second house after cell. Lol. If by force persin go. You must carry nylon, put cloth inside tie am. Lol

Felix6:
Hmm well said. TBH I was only been sarcastic, as you know it's the season of Obidients ^& Agbadorians, it was just a subtle jab.

Yeah, I know. I am not being partisan. Just giving an example based on the stories flying around.
I am not into the Obi did that, Tinubu did this, Atiku has done that wahala.
Who enters and is sworn in and the tribunal says he is valid, should be given full support by all Nigerians to move the country forward. Election is over. Wait another 4 years.

Felix6:
your points are very valid. But having devices planted at the very seat of power might be detrimental to any of our president who is involved in illegal marketing/activities especially drugs (HEROINE).

It is called "kompromat". When you have information on a politically exposed person which you then keep to use to manipulate the individual when you later need to.
Eg, if Nigeria wishes to adopt the Chinese yuan as part of our foreign reserves against the dollar. America tell us not to, but our cbn governor insist it is best for the country.
Next thing out if no where, president calls cbn governor to do as the US wants. A shocked cbn gov the falls for the US demand.
Kompromat has been used by threatening the president codedly, maybe one or two documents could be release as per his past. A threat to label him in the international community as a drug dealer.
UK even could also use kompromat by saying they will expose illegal financial activities, money laundering on purchase of properties in the uk running into millions of pounds. Oga will have no option than to fall for their demands.

Cooldowntemper:
Have you RONU today ?

Hilarious! Guy you funny oh.
Ok I have ronu twice.