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Wow Needlelady !!

Did a guy cheat on you with a prostitute or something ?  I have read a bit of your posts
and I must admit, you have a very bad disposition toward men. Just an observation
of mine.

Really? what does [b]disposition [/b]mean in your sentence  please? I am confused.

by trooE,
My guy voluntarily told me about his pasts without leaving out a single details

How are you so sure he left nothing out? Guys rarely tell you that they slept with their housemaid,minors or ashawo.

This woman is surely making a fool out of every Nigerian.

Are you also aware that there have been many who have remained firm even when tortured?

So, are you saying that everybody is able to stand torture because some people survived it? He may not be mentally strong like others to withstand that kind of assault especially when he's very young.

So in essence, you are saying that because he is a black man, He is too stupid to use his brain and to know not to cop to what he did not do no matter what situation he finds himself in? He is invariably dumb as a consequence of his being black?? Chai!!!! Walahi!!! Oh my GOSH!!!!

Are you aware that you can be tortured to accpet what you didnt do?

Why is it suddenly evil when you read of a Nigerian involved in a murder case??

Whateva! who knows, he may be innocent afterall there is no telling on how they tortured him to accept the inevitable. Is he not a black man?, black as a monkey for that matter.

OH Now you are AFRAID of him being turned over to unsuspecting Nigerians?? Now you accept that Nigeria has issues and so this may be just one more of those issues?? LMAO!!!!

Which issues?Many non Nigerians are being deported daily to Nigeria and this one with a questionable nationality may be one of them. Why should you allow them to dump criminals for you?

By madamkoko,
I still have to stay, that hoping the man pick up more of the weight

You still haven't explained why the man should pick more weight. You don't believe in the equality of sexes?

I don't know where you live but if OJ Simpson could be walking around today, there may have been hope for this 22 year old if he had just learnt to plead the fifth. I mean in the end, Japan and America will have to deal. Don't get me wrong, I am for the death penalty for murderers and I think if guilty, they should be made to pay but I am also compassionate on the other side and if I have advice on how he can postpone it a bit, I will give it. LMAO!!!

Plead the fifth? set him free and turn him over to unsuspecting Nigerians? we have enough wahala at home abeg and do not want those that will be terrorizing taxi drivers in lagos.

Abegi!!!!! LMAO!!!! Oh Now I am evil for looking out for a brother? ?? GREAT!!!! I can never do good by you, right?? LMAO!!!!

Is that how you look out for a brother? you are so wierd!!!

He's from Kenya or Sudan jare.

Thats the case here. . so many Nigerians in America are doing great thing but anytime something goes wrong. . .
They would raise alarm that he is a Nigerian regardless of the fact that he/shes a citizen or not!!. . .thats the American way

Thank you sweet heart. I still think he's from either Uganda or Kenya because he's too dark to be Nigerian.

Yeah right!!! Like 99% of the accusations don't turn out to be true LMAO!!!!!!  I have to say that I am shocked that a Nigerian is involved in this sort of thing and dude actually opened his mouth to say he did it ( big mistake). He should have shut up and allowed america to play the game it knows to play well, on his behalf. LMAO

You see, you are indiorectly calling us Nigerians crooks but here you are advising the few truthful ones to lie.

LOOOK!!! You do not just make things up. There are people in service who are not americans and they are allowed to serve with the army. We do not know in this case yet if the man is actually a US citizen, well, I am yet to find any particular place where that is stated, so why the fuzz

Whateva! do you blame me, Nigerian this, Nigerian that, sheeesh. The boy looks like he is from Uganda or Lousiana sef

Once again, will they report him as a Nigerian if he wins a Nobel Prize as an American?

Because he probably is a Nigerian and not really an American LMAO!!

You always run out from nowhere to support the west. How is he Nigerian? He is in the US army as acitizen

Why must they attach Nigerian to his name when he is already an American? Will the media do same if he wins a gold medal at the olympics?

US. sailor heard voice in head telling him to stab someone, lawyer says

Lawyer Yasutoshi Murakami appears at a news conference in Kanagawa Prefecture on Friday following his meeting with Ugbogu.YOKOHAMA -- A US. sailor arrested on suspicion of robbery and murder following the fatal stabbing of a taxi driver here said he heard a voice in his head telling him to stab someone, his lawyer said Friday.

Testimony from the 22-year-old sailor, Olatunbosun Ugbogu, a Nigerian national serving as a crew member aboard the USS Cowpens, was read out by lawyer Yasutoshi Murakami at a news conference at the Kanagawa Prefectural Government headquarters on Friday.

Murakami quoted Ugbogu as saying there had been no money troubles between him and 61-year-old taxi driver Masaaki Takahashi, who was murdered in his cab in Yokosuka on March 19.

Responding to a request from the US. Navy, Murakami held a two-hour interview with Ugbogu at the Kanagawa Prefectural Police headquarters on Thursday evening, and received a statement of facts.

Ugbogu reportedly apologized for the murder, saying he regretted what he had done.

According to the statement of facts and the interview, Ugbogu admitted having stabbed Takahashi in the shoulder. When questioned over the motives for the attack, he reportedly said that on the day of the murder, he heard a voice in his head telling him to stab someone, and he went outside looking for someone to attack. However, since it was raining there was no-one around, so the voice told him to get in the taxi, his lawyer quoted him as saying. Ugbogu reportedly said he heard the voice telling him to stab someone again when he actually attacked the driver.

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50yrs ?By then i should be enjoying the fruit of my labour,enjoying life with my family

That will be a good thing but it'll be better if you are healthier and still able to poke.

@needlelady
I'm a good girl. married as a virgin too

It's like I am the only woman here that is not a virgin.

I intentionally made that statement just to poke at you. I knew you were going to be back with the Male bashing thereafter.

As I said, my views.

Enjoy.

Don't poke me agin please because you men always want to be sleek. Women have learnt to shoot without missing.

What about those spirit used by the spiritualities can we call
Them holy spirit/ ghost

Spiritualists use the evil spirit or familiar spirit to operate.

Holy spirit have been existed long before
Jesus came to existent.?

That's a lie; The holy spirit and Jesus Christ are parts of one God. How can one exist before the other?

high calorie,high cholestrol(ldl) etc.

By wavemaster,
I'm sorry no offense to anyone, but the thing is some of the replies am seeing in threads like these sound very, smug, like the ladies seem to think they are being sharp or something.
Or that what they did is their buisness , yeah rite, tell it to me when you can't give me any kids.
some of the replies sound very condescending e.g, "its in the past, "(ok but u had some abortions before which cud have screwed u up), or ure still "friends" with the people in question
and your husband is being made a laughing stock behind his back. Thing is it goes both ways. I know some of u ladies would scream bloody murder if u found out your husband didnt tell u he was
impotent or had premature ejaculation problems, or had another child, or didnt tell u, or u later found out that he shagged one of his business partners (female) , before u got married, but they were
still friends, and shes still bein hanging ard him, cmon, ud feel betrayed, and we would be seeing more threads on Nairaland titled "Men are cheats", or etc.
And if he was like, cmon its in the "past", how many of u, in the deepest deepest parts of your hearts would trust him?
Like it or not, shit from your past can affect your partner, thats the truth. Relationships are founded on truth, if the person can't handle it, maybe he /she wasnt the right person for you.
Hiding stuff, and feeling smug about it, will just end up in biting you in the backside one day.
Id knw how Id feel if the guys I see saying hi to my wife had had her in the "past", and I knew nuthin about it. God help her if she uses that "why do u want to know line, " abi I be mugun?
No one expects any woman to be perfect, I don't want a perfect person, Hell no, but honestys important.
No offence to anyone ooo, I don't want hate mail!

You are becoming too passionate about this but the truth is that if she slept around safely, there shouldn't be any issue with abortion. An African woman will hardly tell you if she's had an abortion unless there is an immidiate need for her medical history. It's one of the secrets an african woman will be buried with. I don't think you'll also tell your woman about every woman you've slept with including prostitutes.

I find the thought of not knowing that my partner has slept with the entire salvation army uncomfortable!

Being a laughing stock & smiling @ all those who have phock'd your wife in every position imaginable!?

I think a guy in this case has the right to choose if he wants to be a laughing stock or not!!!

Hmmmm . . . . . well, what can i say!

Different strokes for different blokes!!

You really think that if your girl slept with the whole village, she'll kneel before you and bare it all? think again. And what's up with this laughing stock? If the whole village slept with her, they are equally as guilty so who's laughing at who?

by pahtakhee,
For me to refer to a woman to be terrible in bed means if she expects me to do all the hard labor and she just lies down there and enjoys it all. Immediately, I realize such, I get up and off I go

Yea right! off you go but not before you climax. Isn't that one of the sexual characteristics of men?

From personal experience, some Girls are really bad in Bed that they don't even know how to mess a man not to talk of styles and positions. I had to teach some of them what to do in Bed. All they do is just lie down and moan. What a boring LIFE.

Pelee, you don't wanna hear her tell her friends how you also suck in bed.

Of course humans are supposed to have evolved past this but we all know men still have abit of animal in them

May be that's why they are also known as dogs. Whatrever the primal instinct is in the animal kingdom, men have higher brains and God has a reason for giving them brains higher than that of a dog, i think they are just plain selfish.

Why you dey always quote ? Read through all the thread i posted all over again , there was no place where i mentioned that i use herbal stuff and even if i use they are not sexually aided stuff cause am still strong and agile at this my age. I just dey start .

okayooo; just make sure you eat healthy to stay kampe till at least 50 years.

It's funny how Kobojunkie keeps browsing for pros of this utopian business charity without posting the cons? Your argument is so lopsided.

By Bigfather,
There you go again , all wrong. Who told you that naija women keep quiet over such issues nowadays ? And besides i have never and will never ever use your so called BURANTASHI or BRUCE LEE STUFF.T[b]here so many refined herbal subsidies out there now that are far more better than your so called burankoko [/b]
Am an AFRICAN MAN so cut that crap about not eating Poundo Yam,so you expect me to chew down my vegetables with a cup of water ? TUFIA God forbidd bad thing ! As for excersise? Plenty of that in and out of my bed .
And please abeg make you withdraw that assumption of sleeping around,cause i am happily married and she satisfies me with everything i want concerning that dept and other things a good wife should do. So my dear nothing like running around after another woman cause i don't want to lose the precious one i have at hand !
And for the SOUTH POLE stuff you want to confirm ? Thank God say i don marry,i for say make you come try me when next you come around,so that you go give PRAISE TO DA LORD

Since you are strong in bed and you are so sure your wife can attest to that without trying so hard to keep a straight face, why are you using herbal subsidies? You are supposed to achieve erection without any form of help, whethr its viagra, burantashi or chinese herbal remedy. What are you remedying if you are strong and kampe?