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Romance › Re: NL Kokomansion!: Men pls come in! by Nekai(f): 7:33pm On Apr 13, 2011

Romance › Re: I Want To Propose: I Need Help by Nekai(f): 8:54am On Apr 13, 2011

REALITY101:
Why are you crying hon? that reminds me of what she did when my friend touched her to call her attention to the screen sighting me on my knees damn while she was busy counting down and taking the picture of the countdown lol. She cried though *tears of joy

I can't take anymore! Please, that is sooooo nice! I'm going to shed a tear 4 real! cheesy

Nairaland General › Re: How Much Time Do You Spend Sleeping? by Nekai(f): 8:50am On Apr 13, 2011

fstranger3:
You are cutting yourself short. The more you sleep, to a certain point, the more you live!

Ok, Baba

Romance › Re: I Want To Propose: I Need Help by Nekai(f): 8:45am On Apr 13, 2011

REALITY101:
Op, find out the place she love to be. I did mine January 1 @ New York Time Square during ball drop last countdown right in-front of the ball drop. So amazing thou it cost some $ to put it up on the screen.

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Spend So Much Time Chasing Women They Don’t Plan To Wife Up? by Nekai(f): 8:24am On Apr 13, 2011

[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=645338.msg8115251#msg8115251 date=1302675222]as for me, sometimes i find my self wanting to bleep every thing with two breats the wears skirt.

i alwys cant help imagining how those thight or fat or sexy or slim laps will look when bare. i see a woman walk by and i imagine how she will look when unclothed. i imagine how touching her bosoms and body will feel like. i ask myself "will it be different from Sandra's" yet i know it will be the same but cant help it.

i imagine how every girls moans and i want to hear it from all girls. the pleasure i derive from wooing them after a long fight and struggle, using all tactis and wooing skills i have learnt is really overwhelming.

the feeling of power i have over her is gratifying.

the truth is that, for me, there is a whole new yet similar experience for me everytime i am with a new chik. i guess i will be stuck ontil the day will be able to tell the difference between the new and the similar.

i have my girl, but she is more of a friend thn some1 i just want to bleep. she is also a basis for comparism[/quote] shocked

Nairaland General › Re: How Much Time Do You Spend Sleeping? by Nekai(f): 7:59am On Apr 13, 2011

Most days, yes. But I'm an insomniac.

Nairaland General › Re: How Much Time Do You Spend Sleeping? by Nekai(f): 7:50am On Apr 13, 2011

3, maybe 4 hours a day. undecided

Romance › Re: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 2:39am On Apr 13, 2011

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=642473.msg8114419#msg8114419 date=1302657438]And being a housewife is a career that I suspect would get boring pretty fast undecided

[/quote]I don't think it's a matter of boredom, but if it's not what you wanted to do full-time, it would probably be frustrating.

PhysicsMHD:
lol,

Hotel Administration doctorates? Didn't know those existed.

I learn something new every day!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=642473.msg8114435#msg8114435 date=1302657743]Being a housewife doesn't get boring pretty fast o. You never jam! Do you watch the real housewives of Atlanta/New York----. If you do, those ones can never get bored.

[/quote]

Romance › Re: Finding Love Online! by Nekai(f): 1:38am On Apr 13, 2011

That's true, I never thought abou that aspect, if you have a daughter she may be overly optimistic about meeting guys online, because that's how her parents met. The reality is that there are probably many scammers and fake people looking to take advantage of people on online dating sites.

Romance › Re: Finding Love Online! by Nekai(f): 1:00am On Apr 13, 2011

Lol @ "delicious young man!"

REALITY101:
There is nothing wrong in finding your partner online but sometimes its a game of luck. I wonder what your advice will be someday when your child especially the (F)ones will be obsess with the internet dude or even ever ready to meet every man she mets on the internet knowing how mom and dad had mt. We all know how dangerous that could be sometimes too.

Hmmm. . .

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Spend So Much Time Chasing Women They Don’t Plan To Wife Up? by Nekai(f): 11:29pm On Apr 12, 2011

Phate07:
[color=#E42217]
Sex is a physical thing that deals with momentary urges and desires.
[/color]

Sex is a spiritual thing, and it can leave lifetime urges and desires. Women are especially prone to this, so when you meet a woman that you think is ok with having casual sex left and right, you may be suprised when she starts changing and talking about the future. This is why women need to know themselves and what they really want at the end of the day, and men need to realize that they can't walk around treating women like matresses.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]so true but unfortunately for us women we mature much quicker than men. So by the time we are 16 we are for the MOST part looking for that prince charming, when most boys that age are still suffering from the "playing with action figures" mentality. So imagine and irresponsible boy who learns about the pleasures of s3x? he will enjoy it and brag amongst his guy friends and that is where the competition begins.

He is a user but not slow, he knows the young girl is looking for love and will tell her all the right things KNOWING he will leave her, not to mention a lot of us women/females are rebellious and think we know it all before we have an idea what is going on, so no matter how much our parents, friends or even brothers preach it we have that "it wont happen to me" attitude. Unfortunately they [boys] do not outgrow this habit until they are well into their late twenties/thirties so you can imagine the YEARS of playing games they have enjoyed and the women who were left broken as a result.[/color]

True!!! Which is why women need to stop wasting their time thinking that boys in their age group are looking to settle down. If a woman dates guys her age and she is ready to settle down, it can be a waste of the best years of her life.

Family › Re: My Wife Is The Reason For My Success by Nekai(f): 11:10pm On Apr 12, 2011

dayokanu:
Maybe we can have the number of single girls who give their bf cars as gifts also?

Moreover when would the women splurge on their men

Oh My bad they are dependents

_{[s]I would answer your question but I don't want to offend any lurking women that are of that ethnicity/background[/s].}

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Spend So Much Time Chasing Women They Don’t Plan To Wife Up? by Nekai(f): 10:56pm On Apr 12, 2011

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]why open your legs to insert your Cobra into dainty 'dirty/worthless dens'?

why not save YOURSELVES the drama and wait until you find the host that possess right habitat
for your mind, body and Cobra?

Not all men are MEN.[/color]

Lololol!

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Spend So Much Time Chasing Women They Don’t Plan To Wife Up? by Nekai(f): 10:55pm On Apr 12, 2011

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]Great question Pweety but plain and simple it's for s3x and bragging rights.[/color]

I wish that every young girl would out there would realize this fact. Some girls know it and don't care, but many don't know, so they actually respond to cat calls and whistles and end up finding out the hard way. Maybe if a girl has older brothers or older guy cousins she grew up with, she understands this from the beginning? undecided

obowunmi:
who even said all women want to be wives ?

True, not every girl is looking to be "wifed up" immediately, but keep in mind that after cossing the intimacy barrier in a relationship most women transform from casual girlfriend to feelings of endless looove and all that crap.

I heard this quote a while back and it is true!:

"Before sex the man isn't thinking clearly and the woman is thinking clearly, and after sex the man is thinking clearly and the woman isn't thinking clearly."

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Spend So Much Time Chasing Women They Don’t Plan To Wife Up? by Nekai(f): 10:23pm On Apr 12, 2011

Exactly why women shouldn't go to certain places and expect to meet a serious guy.

Family › Re: My Wife Is The Reason For My Success by Nekai(f): 10:20pm On Apr 12, 2011

spyder880:
She can only get the short end of the stick if she changes and starts to become a liability instead of an asset

Noooo! Stop reading those other threads by madmen!!!! "Liability wives" my ass.

Romance › Re: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 10:11pm On Apr 12, 2011

Why would he start making preparations to marry a woman that has plans to get her PhD, and then ask her to drop her plans?

The only way that this makes sense is if the woman woke up one morning and just decided that she wants to get a PhD after they were making plans to be married.

When you are engaged and planning a future together, and when you get married, it's not right to change your mind about major things like this and expect the other person to just go with the flow.

Romance › Re: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 10:03pm On Apr 12, 2011

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=642473.msg8113038#msg8113038 date=1302640079]Wow. I didn't know dudes do that, lol.

Seems so short-sighted and foolish.[/quote]Agreed.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=642473.msg8112738#msg8112738 date=1302637596]
No offense [please forgive me for this], but your cousin sounds like a complete jackass!!! In fact, both your cousin and the girl sound foolish. Your cousin got her pregnant based on selfishness and the girlfriend agreed based on stupidity. I don't understand the rational some people possess [or in this case, don't possess] when they decide to engage in something like that with no certainty that the relationship will last. Some of these women make me shake my head at times. You don't know how many women I see here who put a guy through school, wait for the guy while he's away, or put their needs aside for the sake of a guy, only to have the guy leave them.

By the way, the pull out method isn't good embarassed

[/quote]My cousin is a jackass! But the girl didn't know his plan! That's why I felt sorry for her. All the more reason why both people should take precautions. Men shouldn't depend on a woman "being on the pill", and a woman shouldn't depend on a guy pulling out in time, or she shouldn't depend on a a guy supplying a condom.

I think the girl should get her Phd if that was her goal, because stopping short of it would limit her career opportunities. For example, if her dream career was to interact with people, solve their medical problems, and become a medical doctor and she obtained her masters in the biological sciences, if she stopped there she would have to take on a whole different kind of job. She would have to be a research assistant gathering data, or she would work in a laboratory. She woudn't be doing what she was passionate about. If she had planned on only going the masters route from the beginning she would have chosen to get a degree in nursing, or even get her masters degree as a physicians's assistant.

She can go to school and get married and start a family, with her husband's support, or she could postpone starting the family right away.

Romance › Re: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 8:19pm On Apr 12, 2011

So true! My cousin was going to be leaving his state for six months and he told me that he was thinking about getting his girlfriend pregnant so that he could have something to look forward to when he came back, and so that she wouldn't find another guy. A couple of months later he calls me to tell me his girlfriend got pregnant and they decided on an abortion even though she kind of wanted to keep it. I was so shocked. I reminded him about what he said about wanting to impregnate her before he left and he swore up down left and right that he didn't say it. All he was saying was that he wasn't where he wanted to be in life, and he wasn't ready. The poor girl had the abortion right before he left. I wonder how she would have felt if she had known that he did it on purpose?

Most guys know exactly what they are doing. Instead of using a condom, or using the pull out method, they fully expel into a woman for their own selfish purposes. As soon as the test turns positive they start talking abortion.

That's why some guys are always talking about women trying to trap them by not wanting to have an abortion. They are showing you how their mind operates. They set the trap, the girl gets pregnant, reality hits them, and they change their mind and flip the script. "She's trying to trap me! She's trying to trap me!" Lol. Most times the girl is the one who could have any man she wants and is better off and more settled, and the guy is surviving on potential business or potential dream job.

@Topic, a PP brought up a good point. What if she starts a family first, and ends up a widow?

Romance › Re: Guys, Would You Date This Hot Babe? [not for the faint of heart] by Nekai(op): 8:49am On Apr 12, 2011

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Roftllll just showed it to my mum she was like "ikon to ju e wa lo ri" IN ENglish or broken english wetin she dey find na him she see [/color]

I showed my mum to the other day and she almost choked on her drink! grin

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