₦airaland Forum

Pennywise:
No right thinking well adjusted parent would want to unnecessarily inflict pain on his own child. Punishment (and reward) are known means of proper conditioning or character moulding. Its usefulness has been validated by science (behavioural psychology), it is approved by the religions (spare the rod and spoil the child), it makes sense on the basis of empirical evidence (dem no train am well or dem spoil am for childhood).

Any thing that can be used to advantage can equally be abused. It doesnt mean it should be abandoned or the right taken away from parents because there is no institution or authority that can replicate this role. The consequence is a whole generation of youth that lack ambition, are ill-mannered and irresponsible, unbridled immorality and criminals. This is the story of UK and the US of the 21st century. The knife-related daily crimes in the UK is a direct result of this kind of systemic failure. Fortunately that society has matured in a way that ours hasnt and are better placed to deal with its challenges.

If our lazy lawmakers chose to copy their laws in their bid to appear 'civilized' and sophisticated it might mean the end of family life and societal harmony as we know it.

cgift:
lol! African man!

I want to be very close and observant when it has to do with my nuclear family especially my girl. I want to know everything about her. Wanna be her best friend even better than her mum. In general, if an ant passes thru their side, i must kill that ant. so, i no dey take them play o. My wife does worry about those things as well but wetin she go do? I need perhaps psychologists or whatver experts to advice on how to achieve the aim or if there is no solution, i give up

El Guapo:
Bros am hapi 4 u ooo. . . Cos ma wife is an Opposite of your wife's plight. . .too wide that i require supplementary aids

Ultrame:
Oga you're too funny!!! [size=5pt]_{But do you know your wife might also think your weenie is too small?} [/size]

El Guapo:
^^ Really? well am a product of the joke section, just came over to una section to see whats cooking

ronkebp:
My dear, enjoy that attention now, a time is coming you will be on your own, in your own home and you will not have anyone dictating to you. Moreover it is part of our culture, just because you are 18 does not mean you need to be treated like a 25-35 fully grown matured woman. You are still your mothers' baby, no matter how old you are.

ThiefOfHearts:
what's with you and waves?

and what's with all this yarning about disrespect? if you're both the same age, what's the problem and obviously no one s tryking to defend tapping a person's head

what kind households are you creatures from sef? Whenevr I see my dad, I rub his head and make a wish like a genie

MRbrownJAY:
^^the simple question was: "how can she possibly know that these would be r/ships would have no future?!" especially if she has absolutely NO EXPERIENCES with boys.

adconline:
The point is that you assumed that this relationship would lead to a marital bliss? Wrong- you should have put that in his [size=14pt]toasting contract[/size], so as to arm you when you would like to discuss it.

stagger:
When I was a cool guy, I never got the attention from girls. They always flocked to the bad guys. Noticed it from my secondary school days.

I neither drink nor smoke, but when it comes to girls, I am now a baaaaaaaad guy. And trust me, I am really bad with them. All the girls I have manhandled in bed keep calling me for more. I just blank them, and they keep calling. You can't feel the swagger and stagger of my dagger and not call for more.

upendo 98:
My thoughts

Lust = Takes care of the physical body only
Infatuation = Confusion between love and lust
Love =Takes care of body, soul and spirit
I choose love bcz Love =death (that is what you mean by sacrifice)
Best eg.
a)JC
b)Romeo and Juliet in shakespear

jennykadry:
There is an Icon for tongue in cheek. That first advice or supposed ''tongue in cheek'' was uncalled for and i'm sure even the poster would have had the same thought.
No sane woman will want her husband to become an overnight therapist to his ex. What about his wife's feelings? Why is the ex not communicating with her own husband?

Some men need to be slapped. This is embarassing.

BTW I don't believe your first post was tongue in the cheek