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Pweety4me: ![]() roymary: ![]() |
Why would you be bothered with your neighbour? ![]() |
3, 3, 3, then repeat. ![]() |
Pweety4me:Lol! knew it wasn't going to hold up! ![]() rokiatu: ![]() |
Anyone? |
Watch her in action. She has some skills: [flash=500,375] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cIwTYL1fwJk[/flash] |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=637722.msg8106402#msg8106402 date=1302575389] Damn it, I want an uncircumcised manlinessṡ!!! Share eh? Hmmm, what's the dude like?? [/quote]I'm curious too! |
redsun: ![]() |
Papi I don't need a ride on your magic |
Abeg TOH, spend 8 seconds of your time and grant his request. ![]() |
fstranger3:Sorry, but unfortunately for you, your soccer moms do. https://mcjawn.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Soccer-Moms-754867.jpg |
fstranger3:I personally know a couple who bet on that 11%. fstranger3:What, too steamy 4 you to handle? ![]() ThiefOfHearts:Tell them TOH! ![]() |
dayokanu:Plan B doesn't always work. dayokanu:Most women never feel the semen shooting into them. At most, they feel an increase in wetness. (It's tough to feel because it's already pretty wet down there anyway) It is a common misconception that women feel the semen coming out when men are ejecting. |
Ujujoan:Agreed, unfortunately. |
[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=643504.msg8096363#msg8096363 date=1302465489]u sound so immature in matters concerning r/ship. first i want u to sit down and ask urself what u actually did wrong that led to the break up of your previous relationship. if u answer that question without any bias, u will know how to go about building a nw one. u dont sound to me like the kind of guy in control, women hardly fall in love with guys who are not in control.[/quote]Agreed. Take advice from those who have been there, done that, and wrote the book. Rebound relationships fail most of the time, and in this case both of you are on the rebound. It could be that she is still talking to her ex-boyfriend. A woman doesn't throw away an 18 month relationship unless the issues were very serious. If there were serious problems in her last relationship she needs time to find herself again. If there were no serious issues, she most certainly is still talking to him. Leave her alone for awhile. Work on recovering from your relationship. If you don't find time to firmly anchor yourself then you will be throwing up desperation vibes. I think it's a good sign that she met up with you. Just give her time. Phate07:True, after you gain your footing and allow her some time/space to heal, go for it again. |
This is really nice. Trust her love. Not every woman is secure enough in who they are to be able to support her husband the way he needs to be supported. Don't look to other people and their problems. It's just that the negative stories may get more attention, and sometimes also can attract negative people. Every woman doesn't harbor these traits, so after 7 years I think it's safe to say that your wife is sincere. |
It's interesting that some men on here are spending more effort trying to protect their potential wealth than their potential marriage. Tiger's wife would have preferred a peaceful home to the millions. In every case discussed here, including the most recent Eva/Tony split, infidelity was the case of the divorce. Why all this talk about the injustice of the divorce settlement without denouncing the infidelity that caused the divorce in the first place? If a new law was passed stating that anyone who knowingly violates a child under 10 years old, has to surrender 95% of his entire wealth to the child and the child's parents, as well as spend the rest of his life in jail, would we be here talking about the injustice of the despoiler settlement? Would I hear men talking about the fact that the medical bills couldn't possibly have added up to this amount? No, because that would be absurd. (I'm not making a comparison between violation and adultary, but between the responses to the laws that exist in the two senarios. Understandably child violation is a serious offense and I wouldn't expect anyone here to be sympathetic to the attacker. The only people who would argue against the justice of the law would be someone that could relate to the offender.) The divorce settlement isn't an adultary settlement, true, but for those who don't believe that the woman couldn't have possibly contributed enough to recieve half the wealth that was earned during the marriage, you are basically stating that the law ends up compensating women for the fact that her husband was adulterous. Under that premise, why the opposition? All because "Men have to fight their biology and demonstrate discipline to not go how nature pushes them."? These men should have never got married if they needed a multitude of women. Many times adultary is sought because of problems in the home. A real man/woman wouldn't use that as an excuse to defile themselves. If the problems are that bad then walk away, and if the problems aren't bad enough to exit the marriage, the unhappy spouse should make every effort to salvage it (and not be like Tiger and have affairs with waitresses, strippers, and indecency stars). Bottom line, when voluntarily taking on the role of head of the household, and husband, men should be strong enough to fight these primitive biological impulses. If Tiger had done this, we wouldn't be here talking about his voluntary divorce settlement amount that was 50 million dollars more than their prenup stipulated. If Tiger's wife is wrong, it would be for selling her silence for 50 million dollars. |
She shouldn't say anything. Remember the thread of the immature guy that broke up with his girl when she wouldn't have sex with him? He believed that he was being cheated because she wasn't a virgin and he wasn't alone in this. Odds are, since she hasn't had sex with him, then she was trying to remain celibate and thought if he knew she had sex in the past he would pressure her. She should have told him the truth in the early stages of the relationship, because if she tells him now he may not trust her at all. And how many men truly reveal the extent of their past lovers to their serious girlfriends? Odds are there are a couple of skeletons in his closet too. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. |
[flash=640,390] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EwViQxSJJQ[/flash] |
My vote went to the party. ![]() |
Please go see your doctor. It could be high blood pressure, glaucoma, or a minor stroke. It could also be minor afflictions like tiredness and strain of the eye. |
rokiatu:Agreed, time is the only way you can know someone really well. |
Sagamite: ![]() |
Reposting my deleted post. ![]() In the OPs case it's not really applicable, but many women who could go farther educationally end up pursuing the alternate path of getting married. Many highly educated women who have chosen to focus on a demanding educational degree, and didn't have time for developing relationships with the opposite gender, leave school at around 27 years old. At this age she may be entering the world with the dating/relationship experience of an 18 year old, but the age of an older woman. If she doesn't find the right guy in a few years, or worse, if she has spent a few years in a relationship with the wrong guy and ends up single, she will start hearing people talk about how hard it is to find someone when you are over 30. I say go for the education. I think the key is to know what you want and not waste time with guys that woudn't appreciate you with an education or without one. fstranger3:Reading. . . Wow, you have a point! I didn't read it to the end, where it stated that "the percieved 'success penalty' in the earlier years was a choice and not the result of the education per se." It basically says that in the earlier years the women would be less selective in a guy because she thinks that she is less competitive in the dating field. Wow! That's deep. I think that is very true, and proves your point. I also do believe though that these women may be new in the dating field and don't know what they want in a partner yet. But it's funny that certain myths and half truths are perpetuated and end up causing women to make bad choices in desperation. Fstranger3, you may have saved a few people out there who have pessamistic assumptions about the negativity of their situations. |
Please remove the link to this man's fb page. What did he do to deserve this? ![]() |
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Tosinville:^^If you were my husband I would reach up and give myself 10 hot slaps across the face for getting married to you in the first place. ![]() It's so funny that abortion is only wrong in certain cases. I would have more shame and loss of dignity for rejecting an innocent human being, especially when we both want a child. The reality of the matter is that unless both husband and wife made the choice to remain childless, they want a child. This child could be a blessing in disguise. Question: What if it's her husband's baby she is actually aborting? There's no way to tell. The husband and wife may pray about it and decide to choose life instead of death for the unborn child, and raise the boy without telling anyone that he was the product of rape. Only, the boy could end up the husbands mirror image! Unless the husband was not intimate with his wife at all, there's no way to tell who's baby they are aborting. |
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Please release my response in this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-642473.32.html Thanks! ![]() |
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Trust her love. Not every woman is secure enough in who they are to be able to support her husband the way he needs to be supported. Don't look to other people and their problems. It's just that the negative stories may get more attention, and sometimes also can attract negative people. Every woman doesn't harbor these traits, so after 7 years I think it's safe to say that your wife is sincere.