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RomanceRe: 8 Ways To Keep Your Man Happy! by Nekai(f): 7:50am On Apr 12, 2011
Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]^^^Babe your man don poison u with sex\?[/color] huh
grin
roymary:
I had to check your profile real quick. Are you an upcoming nnympho or are you there alreadyhuh
lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Help My Nebor Want Me To Married Her Daugter Y My 4 Yrs Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nekai(f): 7:27am On Apr 12, 2011
Why would you be bothered with your neighbour? huh
RomanceRe: 8 Ways To Keep Your Man Happy! by Nekai(f): 6:48am On Apr 12, 2011
3, 3, 3, then repeat. grin
RomanceRe: Guys, Would You Date This Hot Babe? [not for the faint of heart] by Nekai(op): 6:24am On Apr 12, 2011
Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]O gosh!

roki did u see d way the table balanced when she stood on it![/color] lipsrsealed
Lol! knew it wasn't going to hold up!  grin grin grin

rokiatu:
hahhaahahaha lol

I am pretty sure Mr Cork wouldn't mind her.

Since he's in search of a woman with heavy thighs. grin
cheesy
RomanceRe: Guys, Would You Date This Hot Babe? [not for the faint of heart] by Nekai(op): 4:19am On Apr 12, 2011
Anyone?
RomanceGuys, Would You Date This Hot Babe? [not for the faint of heart] by Nekai(op): 3:55am On Apr 12, 2011
Watch her in action. She has some skills:

[flash=500,375]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cIwTYL1fwJk[/flash]
HealthRe: Male Child Circumcision by Nekai(f): 3:45am On Apr 12, 2011
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=637722.msg8106402#msg8106402 date=1302575389]
Damn it, I want an uncircumcised manlinessṡ!!!

Share eh? Hmmm, what's the dude like?? grin
[/quote]I'm curious too!
HealthRe: Vaccination by Nekai(f): 3:32am On Apr 12, 2011
redsun:
How proven is the good side of vaccination to children,especially in the third world?i think children die more of filth,malnutrition,malaria,etc than the so-called vaccinated diseases,it is more of money making and guinea pigging than humanitarian.Recently,in nigeria,there was a contract bidding for the supply of syringes to UNICEF polo vaccination in the northern part part of the country,i bidded for part supply but i lost my money the nigeria way,you know what i mean,but with recent findings and publications on the dangers of vaccination to children in the form of autism,gene manipulations and all forms of degenerating diseases,and as third world,always at the receiving end of dangerous experiments,i think we should seriously look into it.
cool cool cool
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 12:10am On Apr 12, 2011
Papi I don't need a ride on your magic stick twig to know that you couldn't handle anything over here.
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 11:48pm On Apr 11, 2011
Abeg TOH, spend 8 seconds of your time and grant his request.  grin
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 11:22pm On Apr 11, 2011
fstranger3:
Good thing is I dont kiss and tell. grin
Sorry, but unfortunately for you, your soccer moms do.

https://mcjawn.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Soccer-Moms-754867.jpg
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 11:04pm On Apr 11, 2011
fstranger3:
The failure rate for Plan B is 11%. Multiple unprotected coital events or an interval greater than 72 hours may be associated with increasing failure rate, although some evidence of success is seen out  to 120 hours after unprotected intercourse.
I personally know a couple who bet on that 11%.

fstranger3:
Everything else, I agree with.  And why are you even talking about semen/wetness/or-g-a-sm? :::SMH:::

LOL!
What, too steamy 4 you to handle?  grin



ThiefOfHearts:
You Naija guys are still using that excuse, fstranger.  huh

you can actually know how ignorant a guys is re: sex just by his words alone as your friend Dayo just did.
Tell them TOH!  grin grin grin
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 9:23pm On Apr 11, 2011
dayokanu:
^^ But even if a guy rigs condoms, A woman who knew she isnt safe and had semen poured in her can easily get Plan B or any morning after pill.

I am of the opinion that a woman can decide whether to get preggers or not even if the have unprotected sex
Plan B doesn't always work.
dayokanu:
Seriously? You mean as a woman, you wwont know that semen has been spilled into you? Are you saying the nerves in the uterus of women are dead and cant feel semen being deposited in it?
Most women never feel the semen shooting into them. At most, they feel an increase in wetness. (It's tough to feel because it's already pretty wet down there anyway)

It is a common misconception that women feel the semen coming out when men are ejecting.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is The Reason For My Success by Nekai(f): 10:13am On Apr 11, 2011
Ujujoan:
I'm really happy for you . . .

Funny enough, most women are that way from the start.  But somewhere along the line, after a long line of opportunists, greedy/selfish people, and people who just take advantage of their good hearts, women learn to become a little bit tougher. Good for your wife that she has all her good attributes in tact to bestow on her husband and children!

I used to meet a lot of people who told me how kind and humble I was and then they'll go right ahead and take advantage of that!  undecided  undecided  undecided

My advise to you . . . . try not to forget that a good heart gets better when appreciated! If your even get the need to exploit your wife's kindness, you might want to consider the consider the consequences first.
Agreed, unfortunately.
RomanceRe: I Need Help by Nekai(f): 4:27am On Apr 11, 2011
[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=643504.msg8096363#msg8096363 date=1302465489]u sound so immature in matters concerning r/ship.

first i want u to sit down and ask urself what u actually did wrong that led to the break up of your previous relationship.

if u answer that question without any bias, u will know how to go about building a nw one.

u dont sound to me like the kind of guy in control, women hardly fall in love with guys who are not in control.[/quote]Agreed.

Take advice from those who have been there, done that, and wrote the book.

Rebound relationships fail most of the time, and in this case both of you are on the rebound. It could be that she is still talking to her ex-boyfriend. A woman doesn't throw away an 18 month relationship unless the issues were very serious. If there were serious problems in her last relationship she needs time to find herself again. If there were no serious issues, she most certainly is still talking to him.

Leave her alone for awhile. Work on recovering from your relationship. If you don't find time to firmly anchor yourself then you will be throwing up desperation vibes.

I think it's a good sign that she met up with you. Just give her time.
Phate07:
[color=#E42217]

Anyways, stop acting mr nice. Go for what you want. Be aggressively persuassive and if the right cards are played well, she will accept your proposal.
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True, after you gain your footing and allow her some time/space to heal, go for it again.
FamilyRe: My Wife Is The Reason For My Success by Nekai(f): 1:30am On Apr 11, 2011
This is really nice. smiley Trust her love. Not every woman is secure enough in who they are to be able to support her husband the way he needs to be supported. Don't look to other people and their problems. It's just that the negative stories may get more attention, and sometimes also can attract negative people. Every woman doesn't harbor these traits, so after 7 years I think it's safe to say that your wife is sincere.
FamilyRe: The Nonsense Called Divorce Settlement by Nekai(f): 12:46am On Apr 11, 2011
It's interesting that some men on here are spending more effort trying to protect their potential wealth than their potential marriage. Tiger's wife would have preferred a peaceful home to the millions. In every case discussed here, including the most recent Eva/Tony split, infidelity was the case of the divorce.

Why all this talk about the injustice of the divorce settlement without denouncing the infidelity that caused the divorce in the first place?

If a new law was passed stating that anyone who knowingly violates a child under 10 years old, has to surrender 95% of his entire wealth to the child and the child's parents, as well as spend the rest of his life in jail, would we be here talking about the injustice of the despoiler settlement? Would I hear men talking about the fact that the medical bills couldn't possibly have added up to this amount? No, because that would be absurd.

(I'm not making a comparison between violation and adultary, but between the responses to the laws that exist in the two senarios. Understandably child violation is a serious offense and I wouldn't expect anyone here to be sympathetic to the attacker. The only people who would argue against the justice of the law would be someone that could relate to the offender.)

The divorce settlement isn't an adultary settlement, true, but for those who don't believe that the woman couldn't have possibly contributed enough to recieve half the wealth that was earned during the marriage, you are basically stating that the law ends up compensating women for the fact that her husband was adulterous. Under that premise, why the opposition? All because "Men have to fight their biology and demonstrate discipline to not go how nature pushes them."? These men should have never got married if they needed a multitude of women.

Many times adultary is sought because of problems in the home. A real man/woman wouldn't use that as an excuse to defile themselves. If the problems are that bad then walk away, and if the problems aren't bad enough to exit the marriage, the unhappy spouse should make every effort to salvage it (and not be like Tiger and have affairs with waitresses, strippers, and indecency stars). Bottom line, when voluntarily taking on the role of head of the household, and husband, men should be strong enough to fight these primitive biological impulses. If Tiger had done this, we wouldn't be here talking about his voluntary divorce settlement amount that was 50 million dollars more than their prenup stipulated. If Tiger's wife is wrong, it would be for selling her silence for 50 million dollars.
RomanceRe: Pls Help Me by Nekai(f): 5:39pm On Apr 10, 2011
She shouldn't say anything. Remember the thread of the immature guy that broke up with his girl when she wouldn't have sex with him? He believed that he was being cheated because she wasn't a virgin and he wasn't alone in this.

Odds are, since she hasn't had sex with him, then she was trying to remain celibate and thought if he knew she had sex in the past he would pressure her.

She should have told him the truth in the early stages of the relationship, because if she tells him now he may not trust her at all. And how many men truly reveal the extent of their past lovers to their serious girlfriends? Odds are there are a couple of skeletons in his closet too. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.
FamilyRe: The Nonsense Called Divorce Settlement by Nekai(f): 10:21am On Apr 10, 2011
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: BABE! And Inked_Nerd's Top 10 Couples 2011' by Nekai(f): 9:58am On Apr 10, 2011
My vote went to the party. grin
HealthRe: Help! What's Wrong With Me ? by Nekai(f): 2:50am On Apr 10, 2011
Please go see your doctor. It could be high blood pressure, glaucoma, or a minor stroke. It could also be minor afflictions like tiredness and strain of the eye.
RomanceRe: What Questions Do You Ask To Get To Know Someone Really Well? by Nekai(f): 1:57am On Apr 10, 2011
rokiatu:
You get to know them gradually.
Agreed, time is the only way you can know someone really well.
FamilyRe: The Nonsense Called Divorce Settlement by Nekai(f): 1:54am On Apr 10, 2011
Sagamite:
The average man is not half as much vindictive, emotional and petty as the average women. Women see it even as a faultless approach and a gender right.
grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: He Wants Me As A Housewife. I Want My Phd by Nekai(f): 8:27pm On Apr 09, 2011
Reposting my deleted post.  tongue

In the OPs case it's not really applicable, but many women who could go farther educationally end up pursuing the alternate path of getting married. Many highly educated women who have chosen to focus on a demanding educational degree, and didn't have time for developing relationships with the opposite gender,  leave school at around 27 years old. At this age she may be entering the world with the dating/relationship experience of an 18 year old, but the age of an older woman. If she doesn't find the right guy in a few years, or worse, if she has spent a few years in a relationship with the wrong guy and ends up single, she will start hearing people talk about how hard it is to find someone when you are over 30.

I say go for the education. I think the key is to know what you want and not waste time with guys that woudn't appreciate you with an education or without one.
fstranger3:
Did you read the paper beyond the introduction?

The Paper pretty much disproved your assertion, No?
Reading. . .

Wow, you have a point! I didn't read it to the end, where it stated that "the percieved 'success penalty' in the earlier years was a choice and not the result of the education per se." It basically says that in the earlier years the women would be less selective in a guy because she thinks that she is less competitive in the dating field. Wow! That's deep. I think that is very true, and proves your point. I also do believe though that these women may be new in the dating field and don't know what they want in a partner yet.
But it's funny that certain myths and half truths are perpetuated and end up causing women to make bad choices in desperation. Fstranger3, you may have saved a few people out there who have pessamistic assumptions about the negativity of their situations.
RomanceRe: Older Sibling Marital Advice by Nekai(f): 7:34pm On Apr 09, 2011
shocked shocked shocked

Please remove the link to this man's fb page. What did he do to deserve this? huh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Diapers by Nekai(f): 7:15pm On Apr 09, 2011
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RomanceRe: Pregnancy For An Armed Robber by Nekai(f): 6:42pm On Apr 09, 2011
Tosinville:
^^Nekai, If am your husband i'll give you 10 hot slaps across the face for that kind of absurd advice & leave the home for you and your unborn kid to continue with your good life.
^^If you were my husband I would reach up and give myself 10 hot slaps across the face for getting married to you in the first place. grin

It's so funny that abortion is only wrong in certain cases. I would have more shame and loss of dignity for rejecting an innocent human being, especially when we both want a child. The reality of the matter is that unless both husband and wife made the choice to remain childless, they want a child. This child could be a blessing in disguise.

Question: What if it's her husband's baby she is actually aborting? There's no way to tell. The husband and wife may pray about it and decide to choose life instead of death for the unborn child, and raise the boy without telling anyone that he was the product of rape. Only, the boy could end up the husbands mirror image! Unless the husband was not intimate with his wife at all, there's no way to tell who's baby they are aborting.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by Nekai(f): 4:21pm On Apr 09, 2011
smileykiss kiss kiss
RomanceRe: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by Nekai(f): 4:05pm On Apr 09, 2011
Please release my response in this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-642473.32.html
Thanks! smiley

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