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 Romance › Re: Ladies How Would You Feel? by Nekai(f): 11:04pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
I would appreciate the thought especially if it was something that he noticed I needed. However I don't think they would be considered gifts. As far as what gifts I like, I make my wishes well known so that I can't be disappointed. |
| Romance › Re: Top 10 Reasons Why Nice Guys Finish Last With Women (official) by Nekai(f): 10:56pm On Jun 27, 2011 |
Top 10 Reasons Why Nice Gals Finish Last With Men (official) MISTAKE 1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Gal" MISTAKE 2: Trying To “Convince Him To Like You" MISTAKE 3: Looking To Him For Approval Or Permission MISTAKE 4: Trying To “Buy” His Affection With Food And Gifts MISTAKE 5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Him MISTAKE 6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Men MISTAKE 7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks MISTAKE 8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Men MISTAKE 9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Men MISTAKE 10: Not Getting HELP: This is the biggest mistake of all (((((Gals, hope this helps))))  [/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] |
| Romance › Re: Any Anwsers To Below: by Nekai(f): 11:17am On Jun 27, 2011 |
staaari:Just because she broke it off with him doesn't mean she hates the guy. The feelings don't always turn on and off like a switch. It doesn't necessarily mean she wants to get back with him or anything. Many times a girl doesn't want to break up but she knows it is necessary for whatever reason. That reason keeps her from wanting to get back with the ex. That 'what if' moment may still come to her. At least that was the case for me when I was in a very similar situation. Current BF wasn't too happy at my reaction to ex BF although I wasn't reduced to tears. Now for the rest of them, especially calling the ex to pick her up after an argument. . . There is no excuse for that. Cut the gal off. She is either still sleeping with the guy or she is playing a serious game with both of your heads. Either way she sounds immature. |
| Health › Re: Abortion Pills Anyone? by Nekai(f): 10:50am On Jun 27, 2011 |
Mai Suya:Why am I the one that's wicked? OP, you should heed my advice. Go quickly while there is still time. FOLATE (pteroylglutamic acid) is the best way to get rid of an unintended pregnancy. One a day until the bottle is empty. It may take a little while to for her to see the result, but I guarantee you will wake up one day and the babe will call you and say she isn't pregnant anymore. |
| Health › Re: How Do You Dispose Placenter After Child Birth by Nekai(f): 10:45am On Jun 27, 2011 |
Suprisingly enough, the ingestion of the placenta has become more commonplace: "There are many ways to prepare your placenta for ingestion. Some women feel comfortable putting placenta in a smoothie, or creating a special recipe for it. Some women even consume it raw. These methods will work, but they limit the length of time you are able to utilize the benefits of placenta to a matter of days. My preferred method of ingestion is by capsule. The placenta can be dried, ground, and encapsulated. The capsules can then be taken daily for a number of weeks. You reap all of the healthful benefits of placenta quickly, easily and discreetly, and the capsules will last indefinitely (for years). When you have recovered from childbirth, you can freeze the capsules and save them for menopause." http://placentabenefits.info/about.asp There seems to be scientific research supporting this practice. (I say 'seems to be' because I have not gone through and examined the validity of these studies for myself.) http://placentabenefits.info/research.asp OP, if you are concerned about what the hospital will use your placenta for, why don't you bury it along with a new tree? It would be a nice way to commemorate the birth date of your child. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Any Anwsers To Below: by Nekai(f): 10:29am On Jun 27, 2011 |
staaari:Does this have to suggest any impropriety? I don't know about the rest but that first one could just be the result of nostalgia. |
| Romance › Re: Can Ex-lovers Remain Friends by Nekai(f): 10:16am On Jun 27, 2011 |
FunmyKemmy:Hmmm. I think it's possible to be friends, but from a distance. |
| Family › Re: Letter To My Son by Nekai(f): 7:53am On Jun 27, 2011 |
How did I miss this? (I hope he has stopped the colicky crying by now.  )This is such a lovely piece! |
| Family › Re: Nanny Violently Beats 11 Month Old Baby Left In Her Care by Nekai(f): 3:52am On Jun 27, 2011 |
Sagamite:I can't watch either. My heart can't handle these things. Surely I would murder the person. I don't care if it was my mother, father, brother, sister, in-laws, outlaws, whatever. Why take the job if you know you can't handle children? |
| Family › Re: Who Is A True Father by Nekai(f): 3:29am On Jun 27, 2011 |
^ Great definition. |
| Romance › Re: Why Will Your Ex Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Tell You That He/she Is Engaged by Nekai(f): 2:38am On Jun 27, 2011 |
kindel07:If you were told of his engagement by someone else a week later you would be here saying, "Why didn't he tell me. It was childish and unnecessary for him to hide it. Does he think I would be devastated or something. What was his motive?" |
| Romance › Re: If They Give You N10m With Condition To Mary A Blind Girl Will You? by Nekai(f): 12:21am On Jun 25, 2011 |
^ Agreed. Vision impairment isn't a deadly disease. |
| Romance › Re: I Love My Wife. I Want To Know If There Are Ladies Who Are As Humble As My Wife by Nekai(f): 12:14am On Jun 25, 2011 |
Two words: Joint Account. |
| Romance › Re: What Should I Say? by Nekai(f): 10:56pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
cynthoney:How common is this? What a nightmare. Maybe it's an undiagnosed medical condition like high blood pressure or something. He is dead wrong for not telling her. There are frigid women out there who lay down like a stiff log under their husbands and would rather have sex once a month or not at all. A woman like that would love to have a man like him. A woman with a healthy sexual appetite would lose her mind fairly quickly. Imagine laying down next to her own husband's body every night and being frustrated. She needs to seek a divorce. |
| Family › Re: Police Arrest, Detain 'miracle Child-birth' Woman by Nekai(f): 10:37pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
I don't need the DNA result to know that this is a lying, crazy woman. Her poor husband ran away because he didn't want any part in the scheme. |
| Health › Re: Abortion Pills Anyone? by Nekai(f): 10:25pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
Cuddlemii:Thanks.  |
| Romance › Re: Women: Can You Marry A Pastor by Nekai(f): 10:22pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
Nope. To each their own, though. |
| Romance › Re: Is It Right For A Girl To Fall For a Man on Their First Date by Nekai(f): 10:20pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
bettyrit:Speak for your girlfriends or sisters. I never have. |
| Health › Re: Abortion Pills Anyone? by Nekai(f): 10:03pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
Simply go to the nearest pharmacy and get a bottle of FOLATE. Tell her to take one everyday until it runs out. |
| Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Nekai(f): 10:00pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
serubawon:Noooo! So sorry to hear that as I have been following your saga for quite some time. I know what you mean about thinking you know someone, but it's better a broken engagement than a broken marriage anyway. Don't worry, I know you will find your happy ending eventually! |
| Family › Re: I Need My Son Back From Her Mother by Nekai(f): 9:48pm On Jun 24, 2011 |
kaybaba:1. No there isn't. 2. Yes, as the custodial parent his mother has turned over temporary care for school purposes. 3. Since you haven't seen your son you don't know the full story. His mother is his caretaker, even if grandma is housing him temporarily. How do you know grandma isn't after your money? Send the school fees directly to the school and the rest to his mother. You don't know the arrangement between mum/grandma. You say your wife wants you to take the boy. From the beginning both you and your wife are placing yourselves at odd with your son's mother. You haven't mentioned anything about going to talk to her, or even going to visit your son. You are over complicating your life. Since the grandma has the boy for school your son's mother shouldn't have a big problem with sending him to live with you during the school year and sending him to her for vacation/holidays/extended weekends. The problem is that you and your wife have a judgemental and hostile attitude towards her, which makes her think you will never send the boy back to visit. Also, she probably thinks you and your wife will mistreat the boy and constantly look for evidence of her poor parenting in him. (ie. Look what you did! Your mother turned you into a stupid boy!) It's really easy to judge her from where you are, since you furthered your education as far as liked and had the free time to go out and meet the woman of your choice. Also your reputation isn't tarnished a bit because of your son, since you have been removed from the situation. But, think for a moment how different would your life had been if you had shared the physical stress and responsibility of the boy from the beginning. Maybe she wouldn't have resorted to sleeping with her married boss if you were there to relieve her of her duties for half the week so that she could have has some free time to herself. Maybe she did it to keep her job and a roof over their heads. It wasn't right whatever the reason, but your hands are not clean either. I stand by the fact that you need to talk it out with his mother without looking down on her. Both of you are in a tough spot and you need to come together like adults. Your son will be better off this is civil. Go (by yourself) and visit and keep a positive demeanor. Simply ask if you can have your son during the school year, and send him back for visits during the holidays. It's not a matter of begging her or anything. Just humble yourself a little here. His mother has had to bear the majority of the consequences of this situation that both of you created. If for no other reason do it for your son, who loves the both of you and will be broken if this all goes badly. |
| Romance › Re: Why More Single Women Than Men by Nekai(f): 9:32am On Jun 24, 2011 |
Lol!  |
| Romance › Re: He Denied Her by Nekai(f): 9:23am On Jun 24, 2011 |
She's in loooooove with him after he decides to pop back up out of the clear blue sky. Give me a break. Please tell her to move on to bigger and better and stop thinking about this lunatic. |
| Romance › Re: Why More Single Women Than Men by Nekai(f): 9:17am On Jun 24, 2011 |
Some men are taking it up the Hershey Highway.  |
| Family › Re: Nigerian Lawyer Charged With Beating 7-year-old Son In Minnesota by Nekai(f): 8:28am On Jun 24, 2011 |
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| Family › Re: I Need My Son Back From Her Mother by Nekai(f): 8:16am On Jun 24, 2011 |
Do you have a relationship with your son? If you don't, anyone would hesitate sending the child to a virtual stranger. Why is it mandatory that you take full custody of the child? Was his mother just a glorified babysitter for the first critical years of his life? Didn't she nurture him, teach him, train him, tend to every illness, and rearrange her whole life becasue of him? Didn't you finish school and live a comfortable life, even being free to date and have your choice of employment without having to worry about who is minding the child? It has been extremely expensive and time consuming raising the child, which is why you left her to do the difficult task alone in the first place instead of sharing custody from day 1. Trust me, that sum of money that you send now is not millions. She isn't living the good life while the boy starves. As the father of the boy I think you are jumping the gun so to speak. I think you should start small by suggesting that you keep the boy during break times and summers. That way you get used to having him with you, and your son gets used to you and your environment as well. You can't just swoop in and remove the child from the only environment he has ever known. You are his father, but he also has a mother. For 6 years she was good enough to raise him by herself, even with her standard of living. Start small and go from there. Witholding support or taking the boy by force will not solve anything. As a boy he may come to the conclusion that he wants to live with you fulltime eventually. But imagine how you would feel if you were 6 and caught in the middle of a hostile situation. Make friends with his mom and it will go a long way in this transition. EuroMeko:Seconded. |
| Romance › Re: Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend by Nekai(f): 7:21am On Jun 24, 2011 |
Onchedu: |
| Romance › Re: Am I About To Make A Wise Decision Or Wrong Choice? by Nekai(f): 7:06am On Jun 24, 2011 |
If it grows to that point you will not be concerned how he will be viewed by your family. You are stressing over this too soon. You may meet someone else tomorrow, same with him. I don't understand why women plan thier lives around guys so easily. Take it one day at a time. I promise you will be better off in the long run. |
| Romance › Re: Why? by Nekai(f): 6:57am On Jun 24, 2011 |
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