₦airaland Forum

mashnino:
Eiyah, he is a mistake? my dear u dnt know wat they do to mistakes? they correct them, so to correct this one i think you need to press the NEXT button in ya life

MRbrownJAY:
^^dont forget that she should focus on her SELF, first and foremost, before attempting to make the life of others better.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
i dont blame you for not learning your lesson with the first kid, i also dont blame you for lowering yourself and allowing people to abuse and treat you like shiit, and neither will i blame you for desperately waiting for a man who has shown no interest in YOU for more than 4yrs. . . . . . . . I BLAME SOCIETY for looking down on single mothers, which in turn make them act irresponsibly, I BLAME SOCIETY which will have you (and other desperate women) believe that anyone in a couple is better off (whether happy or not), I BLAME SOCIETY for accepting being humiliated by your in laws like a common criminal.

if you have a job then why dont you go and get yourself a place to live AND BASTA with all the bs!

btw: as for you trying to get back with the guy who left you 16yrs ago: i guess you will NEVER learn!!!

REALITY101:
I slightly miss you a lot

pendo89:
I got a friend.She soo pretty, talk of natural physical beauty.
but she's got lupus and has avoided relationships cz she feared she would never be able to have kids.Lupus is life threatening.
This year she met an angel of a man.He loves her and accepted her in her condition and they are going to marry soon and adopt.
They have family support and the man is comfortable he met an angel of a lady.I have not heard her complain of headache since she met the guy.
Love is medicinal and covers many things.

harakiri:
I had my reasons for asking you to define it coz what might be termed "unhappiness" in one marriage is often what another couple yearns for e.g a family where the husband is so up and doing, he barely comes home. He practically lives at his office and spends time with his family during the weekends. He's rich,his family lacks nothing but the wife is lonesome and unhappy. Compare this with another family where the wife is the sole provider while the husbands sits on the sofa,sips beer and watches soccer. This second is also unhappy and would trade places with the other woman in a heart beat. You had your reasons for opening this post. If you don't want wild theories flying all over the place, then be more open. Who is unhappy? You? A friend? What's the unhappiness about? Be specific.

debrief08:
Same old same old, ve seen dis modus operendi loads of times, Nigerians can take advantage of generousity, woman gives birth, husband runs, Governors wives and pple donate, husband comes back. They do dis get on news so pple will donate if husband is der pple won't donate as much, Nigerians can be so deceptive, annoying

Prof JYK:
without insulting anybody, and at the risk of being labelled a pervert/caveman, i will still not jump to defend the girl.
video taping the sex scene is perverted. the mockery in their voice also shows perversion of incomprehensible order.
threathening to keep her for two more days is also wrong. according to the definition of violation in the OP, it is violation, but then so will about 40% of intimate activities in the world be.
some one had already mentioned some acts of Sadism & Masochism above favoured by some pple and that is enough.

i didnt watch more than 4 mins of the video but one thing i couldn't miss was a slight hint of consent. the victim spoke to them like they rapists were her everyday buddy.

heard a story in a Lagos Hood of a girl consenting to "do" 5 guys only to give in 40 minutes into the act, the guys reluctantly agreed.

[size=14pt]and all this story about violation victims and trauma is overrated somehow[/size]. some years ago, i stayed in a hostel where we had a robbery attack in which two girls were violated but till date, no guy in the hostel knows them as things were back to every ones life in a week. even when the school authority came to carry out investigation, hostel authorities did the right thing, swept it under cos everyone wanted to just forget that experiences. still cant forget the bravery and composure of the students in that hostel. and yes, it was a university in the southeast.

above all, i call for proper investigation.

REALITY101:
Ya 3 from u 3 from her =6 + one from a German chick 7

REALITY101:
Miss u more than fat kids misses burger since Michelle Obama's war against obesity. You know u can't hide away from me for too long

serubawon:
I'm sure some people are tired of me saying this, but a real relationship with a true friend is worth a billion intimate encounters with different people. Imagine just having that one person that understands the dumbest and most silly things you do, but still has the presence of mind to put you in your place in just the right way. Both of you could look at a boring rock and talk about it for hours. You take a stroll on the street and it's like you're the only people on the street. The older your partner gets, the more beautiful she looks to you (with all the extra pounds and lines too). I believe that if God can give me that one more time in life, waiting (no matter how long) would be more than worth it.

coogar:
you are so thick!
the sleeping together then was meant to be fun and pleasure. she didn't mean to get herself impregnated!
it's the woman's duties to see to the effects of the foreign bodies deposited in her and it was also her approval that led to the action in the first place.