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iice:
[color=#9900ff]A friend. . .i would tell. Heck even if na stranger i fit tell.[/color]

Since he introduced her as a decent girl, tosin should tell him the truth. What if they get married and she continues to LovePeddler herself around the town? It's better to tell him so that he can make an informed decision. He may decide to take a chance on her but at least he will know what he is getting himself into.

Not one, not two, but three different guys (presumably unprotected) in one week? Gals like this are reservoirs for disease. You may be saving his life in the process.

Foolish advice. Spiritual covenant between them? He should trust what she says and not assume that she will be unfaithful.

OP, don't put the cart before the horse. There are so many things a gal like u can be focused on instead of hypothetical scenarios.  

Listen 2 the wise words of jay bee.

Cuddlemii:
@ op

This your name scares the poo out of me. Im afraid to comment sef

[size=4pt]Me too.[/size]

This is one useless gal. Be careful she doesn't give you that gift that keeps on giving. Please run far, far away from these types. Some women will do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for money. Even kill you.

You can't.   Trust is key, unless she has given you serious reason to doubt her. Btw I know what she means abt the phone ringing.

MBJ to the rescue!

Open your ears wide and recieve wisdom.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=696847.msg8571095#msg8571095 date=1308771384]The most dangerous thing is this life is A HARD D1CK!!  Roger that. [/quote]LOL! 

First of all, is he "asking" her if they could get married, or did he propose to her? There is a huge difference there and I am thinking the former. If he asked her outright, she would have called you saying that she either accepted or turned down the proposal.

Second of all, it seems like this is coming out of the clear blue sky as far as you are concerned, so either they have been meeting discreetly for the last couple of months, or they have not talked at all, and this marriage talk is being used by this guy as a tool to get her to start talking to him again.

Third of all, this guy seems like a total loser. He caused her stress that very well may have contributed to the miscarriage (which could have killed her too btw). When the dead fetus slipped through her legs, where was he? Did he breathe a sigh of relief and go out for drinks, or was he there in the hospital to support her?

Maybe you have more info that would paint him in a better light. Assuming that he is as much of an asshole as he seems on paper, you need to tell your friend that she shouldn't even give him the time of day.

samaru:
I thank everyone that contributed to this topic my friend is doing fine she has been discharged from hospital she is resting at home though there is still a bit of leakage it has stopped for now.
Thanks once again i really appreciate

Thank God!

Please urge her to remain on strict bedrest!

I'm saying a prayer for her!

ifyalways:
Ebelebe Igba.The hunter is now the game.

I hope she confesses what really happened, and that none of those kids were kidnapped.

Outstrip:
It is insane. That grand mother is an . If truly your daughter in law spanked your grand daughter why take her to the hospital. Obviously this mother in law was just looking to hurt her daughter in law. Her own useless son that she raised is nowhere to be found but she wants to take another womans children so she gets another chance to ruin another generation of children. The system is totally screwed up. Don't spank kids or we will arrest you but the same system will be happy to throw that same kid in jail at the age of 18 when they decide to cross the boundaries that you never allowed their parents give them in the first place

Sooooo true!

Poster, just relax. Don't look around at your peers because you don't know their situations. Many people gain false confidence by going after 'easy targets', and even prostitutes. This helps for the short term but often leaves them without a firm foundation for a trusting and meaningful relationship in the long run.

Once you relax and stop caring about fitting some sort of worldly standard, you will stop giving off vibes of desperation.

Remember if you don't love your own company you can't expect someone else to love your company either. Take the time to build yourself up. Expand your horizons. Invest in your education, career, or business. Trust me when you enter into a serious relationship you will find that your time (and funds) for doing these things are limited.

Good luck!

[size=16pt]Quote of the Week! [/size]

zstranger:
[size=18pt]. . .Even aborigines, I have shagged them all.[/size]

I think it's pointless to put the sibling in the middle of the drama, and it will eventually mess up your relationship with both people.

Depends on the person for me.

I've fallen in love with someone easily, and also fallen in love with someone after a long drawn out process where I wasn't expecting to fall in love.

I've labored hard to emotionally detatch myself from someone I knew wasn't right for me. It took me forever to fall out of love.

However I have also fallen out of love in an instant.

I think ~love~ is an illusion anyway.

Outstrip:
There is more to the story. It seems the woman does not even have custody of her own children to begin with. something had to have happened for her to have lost custody of all her children. If she was just having visitation and during that short visitation period she spanked the girl then i think her mother in law had reason to take the action she did. Unless of course I am not understanding what the article says

tonte23:
Gonzales who doesn't have custody of the child or her other two children, is trying to get them back, but until CPS feels she is ready the kids are living with their paternal grandmother.

Since the children all live with their paternal grandmother it seems that they were taken from her based on this spanking incident. I don't think they would have previously removed two other kids and placed them with the grandmother, only to leave one behind.

For that to be the case the grandmother would have had to take her to court before and if that was the case she wouldn't have sent her two-year old over for a visit.

It seems that they were never returned after the spanking incident. They usually immediately take all the children when there is an abuse allegation like this.

Just one useless claim by her ex's mother and her life and the lives of her children are messed up forever. She should've spent more time worrying about where her son disappeared to, since obviously he wasn't there to recieve custody of his kids.

I think this is a very serious issue that you may consider taking over to the family section as well.

Poster I don't like how you put in references to her making sexual advances to you( a few years ago when she was presumably still a kid), when that's clearly not what happened here.

In a nutshell you sexually assaulted your cousin that is 4 years your junior. These are the things that parents have nightmares about. The level of trust that your family has for you will go down to zero.

You were tempted and you messed up big time. Your best bet would be to go to your cousin and profusely appologize, telling her that it will never happen again. Tell her that if she needs to tell her parents then you are prepared to deal with the consequences.

You seem like you just got caught up in the wrong mentality for a moment, so the best thing to do is to try to make her feel comfortable again. Don't leave her feeling scared to tell, or scared that you will do the same thing again. If this comes out you will want the record to show that you realized what you did was wrong immediately and that you tried to make it right.

This has to be some sort of joke.

LOL @ petphunt!

REALITY101:
Very romantic thread. . I love it

Really.

This is really sad and I hope all is going well.

This sounds like Premature Rupture of the Membranes, or PROM. This situation can cause labor to begin, but there is also a chance that the leak in the amniotic sack can reseal itself. Your friend needs to drink plenty of water to keep contractions away. Also she needs to be on strict bedrest. Sometimes the doctor prescribes antibiotics to help fight off infection, which is the greatest concern besides labor. She needs to get frequent checks of her temperature because an infection could threaten both lives. The baby needs amniotic fluids to help the lungs develop, so the doctor may prescribe steriod shots for the mom to help speed up the development of the lungs.

The most important thing to consider is that people with this condition have went on to carry the pregnancy to term. The chances are not great but there is hope, especially since she didn't immediately go into labor.

I hope this helps!

^ Awww!

~Happy Daddy's Day to All!~

How sweet!

 

Lol @ topic!

He married her with the full knowledge that she had this career. Yes, I blame him. I'm sure she travelled the same way before he married her.

I wouldn't take his ex's engagement ring.

However I would take a ring that he bought for the woman for the woman he intended to be his future wife, ME.

It wasn't her ring if he never gave it to her.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]If he never gave her the ring then i will take it.[/color]

6) Pulling their girlfriend away from a guy while she is in the middle of a conversation.

This is usually a pre-arranged set up. If we want to escape we simply give a subtle signal, wait to be rescued, and then pretend we are being dragged away.

The wearing shades point is soo true!

@ upendo 98 ^