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No uncle. And too much viagra isn't good for you.

Who let uncle in here?  

[quote author=N.Delta link=topic=647694.msg8142948#msg8142948 date=1302983055]Dem go gree? If you touch a virgin or a girl with little experience she starts wobbling all over, if you kiss them they will close their eyes and loose control, every little thing you do to them goes through them like magic. These special effect is lost with each rounds of sex a woman get. Am not saying people shouldn't have sex but at least it should be reduced. Save some of that sock absolver for your future man. Honestly have been thinking about marriage now and its gives me concern. I don't want to end up with a lady that have been so used and the annoying thing is that you can't tell by appearance.[/quote]And yet if you and all of your buddies stopped trying to get between girls' legs, you wouldn't have anything to be concerned with. Likewise, a guy that is a virgin or one with little experience is turned on by the mere hint breasts underneath a woman's clothes. This special effect is lost with each pair of breasts, until you start hearing guys talk about one girl's breast weren't as firm, or the 26 years old girls breast sagged more than the 18 year old you banged last week.

[quote author=N.Delta link=topic=647694.msg8143721#msg8143721 date=1302991381]Lol a 3 year old cannot even have an erection.
@ Goldieluks
You are not too wrong but remember that on the average girls will always test it first before their male age mates. Why is this? Once they develop those things slightly older boys will with experience will start coming and with time she will give in and then continue because we have to be honest it is sweeter than honey so therefore the inability to abstain but for a male child most will try it later at an age Where they can chat up a girl but in their entire life most men will not have as many rounds as the ladies.[/quote]Every girl doesn't fall for slightly older gys with experience.

New story.

ayosmiles:
there shld be anoda thread on will a girl marry a guy shes pregnant 4, cos both d guy nd d gal shld decide nt just d gal

WORD. . . Because my answer: NO! Not unless I loved him enough to want to spend my life with him, and not just because of making a silly mistake that resulted in a pregnancy.

charity00:
Nekai, I have a question. If you had been going out with a guy for six months (but has been gone the last two) and the guy is trying to be understanding about wanting to spend time with your family, and is willing to come meet the family and attend Easter service, would you have any reason to not let him do it?

Not if I thought he was fully comitted to the relationship. If you have suspicions and you want to spend time with her and her family, suprise her and show up.

vaLasce:
EVERY SINGLE GIRL/LADY who's sexually active has aborted@least3x
even your sister'd swear she has neva
if d issue doznt pose any threat in your lives rite now,put d hunting ugly thought behind u n move ahead.

I haven't. Not even once, talk less of 3 times! I know I'm not alone either.

What about periods of celibacy? Not every girl starts early and goes on full throttle daily for years. Especially if she is still in school. And, most girls don't sleep with every single guy they are in a relationship with.

Don't give her the money if you are going to be resentful about it. I hope you didn't tell her that thing about making up her mind between being a little girl or a grown woman. That is highly insulting. Marry her if you want her to be yours. Until that day you do not have control over where she goes. If I were her I would feel like you are trying to be controlling.

Maybe you are just anxious to see your girl after two months. I hope that is the case, and it's not that you are the kind of guy to hold grudges about your girl for spending more time with her parents (who brought her into this world). Don't you realize that she is more willing to see her dad's face light up, and embrace him after a few months away? Rest assured that you can look forward to marrying a girl that would put her dad before her boyfriend. Some girls would put the boyfriend first. Do you know that a husband replaces dad as the head of her household? If she is loyal to him, she will be loyal to you too.

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=648209.msg8142405#msg8142405 date=1302976418]HUSBAND comes before Dad.  DAD comes before some "guy."    Hope that helps.[/quote]

I wish NL had a like button.

It seems you are questioning her true motives. Why don't you offer to join her and see if she agrees? If she gives you a million excuses then you know something is up.

She's been gone from you, but also from her parents.

If she is pushing 30, her dad could be in his 50s or even 60s. I wish I had my dad around, and I would choose him over my man anyday. It's not like she isn't spending any time with you.

A woman will always be daddy's little girl, no matter how old she is. Wouldn't you do the same for your mum especially after being away for months?

She is asking for the money, not demanding. Also, she is being upfront with you. Some girls might have waited until she was already there to tell you that she could only spend a day.

What kind of woman would choose to go through 9 months of pregnancy, childbirth, body changes, hormone changes, leaky bosoms, 4+ months of round the clock marathon feeding sessions and all that by herself? You can't even begin to share that 50-50, so a woman will agree to be your baby factory while you are free to live out those 1 1/2 to 2 years that a baby will take out of her life?

And then, even if she agrees, what's to stop her from finding another guy that wants to take care of her in her time of need? Maybe you want another man raising your child.

Her dad.

I don't know, where are u MOFO??

harakiri:
Thank you so very very very much for that one bruv.

@Poster

[size=18pt]I'm so sorry about what you're going through.[/size] It's one of "those things" that no one plans for while going into a relationship. That being said, i'm pretty sure that if your boyfriend were to come to this forum and give his version of what really transpired, it would be totally different from the picture you're painting. Before you get me wrong, i'm not an advocate/supporter of physical assault and i'm not prone to violence myself. . .but the kind of situation you find yourself in doesn't "just happen" like you've painted it. You also illustrated how you used to dare him. Look, even the most troublesome men want PEACE OF MIND when they are at home (which is supposed to be their comfort zone). No sane man decides to hit a woman out of the blue. I've seen the most gentle mannered guys turn into "raging animals" all because of the women they are with. One of them even tried to end the relationship as maturely as he could when he couldn't endure the provocation anymore. . .he tried it all : peaceful resolution (fail),several heart to heart talks (fail), trying to make things work by doing all those things she loved when they started out (fail), peaceful attempt to go separate ways (fail), begging her to leave (fail), at the tail end, he was forced to respond to her provocation and violent outbursts with violence and that actually WORKED! What i'm saying is there are women out there (you are probably one of them) that get a rush out of driving your men crazy. You crave for drama and will not rest until you get it and when it comes, you start playing the victim. You always want something to talk about (now you have one).

[size=18pt]This relationship is definitely not gonna work out. It's best for you both to part ways[/size] and let someone have his peace.

Nuff said!

The only intelligent snipets of your entire post. If she is abusing him sooo much by daring and provoking him, and since he cannot have PEACE OF MIND with her around, then why doesn't he walk away and dump her? Surely, as a man who is not prone to violence, you cannot seriously believe that he is handling this situation correctly?

Sometimes I dress for the "come f-me" effect, but the vast majority of the time I would rather display a "classy and cuddly" look. I have never responded to a guy that approached me when I was dressing overly sexy, because I have alot more going for me and I would rather a guy be attracted to me for my brain, more than my body.

MOBO444, you are NOT the father.

OP: I suggest you read this post:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-647314.0.html

He started dating her when he was 21 and she was 15.

Tension rises over death of 17-year-old
Patience Ogbo

Residents of 10 Kalejaiye Street, in the Shasha area of Lagos, have been living in fear of being attacked by angry youth following the death of a 17-year-old girl found hanging from a ceiling in her boyfriend's room. The incident happened at about 8.45pm on November 4.

Peace Asukwo, 17, who had reportedly gone to visit her boyfriend, Fisayo Tifase, 21, a 300-level law student at the University of Lagos, was found stark unclothed and hanging from a ceiling fan in her boyfriend's one-room apartment. Ms Asukwo's gruesome death has sparked angry outbursts from some youth in the area as residents and her family members allege that she was murdered by her boyfriend, who they claimed had manhandled her in the past.

When NEXT visited the area, the street was calm, but residents of the building, which is owned by the suspect's father, said they were living in fear of a possible reprisal attack by the angry youth, who claim that the suspect, and his father, connived to kill Ms Asukwo.

A relationship of violence

One of the residents, who spoke on condition of anonymity, urged the police to carry out a thorough investigation into the matter. "I am a neighbour in this compound where this ugly incident happened," he said. "Early that day, I saw Peace; she came to the house to see her boyfriend as usual and there was no sign that this type of thing will happen. Later that evening, I also went out to buy provision (groceries) for my family and I saw this boy outside with his friend; this was around 8.30pm.

"Thirty minutes later, I heard people shouting and trooping to the house that the landlord, who is the father of the boyfriend, and his son has killed Peace. We have to break down the door to the boy's room when the police came and that was how we saw Peace's body hanging from the ceiling. It was a terrible sight. But what I know is that Peace and her boyfriend are always quarrelling and fighting. The boy told her that he is no longer interested and he locks her up in the room and brings other girls in her presence so it has been one fight or the other between them before this incident happened."

Endurance Asukwo, the younger brother of the deceased, said his sister was murdered. "My sister is a very peaceful person," he said. "She is an orphan and was planning to enter Unilag to read Microbiology. She has been dating this guy for close to two years. It is a lie that she hung herself because when she left the house to see her boyfriend, she was very happy. That boy has been beating her and our aunty and other family members have warned her to stay away from him. We even told him that if anything happens to Peace, he will be held responsible; now look at what he has done. He has killed her."

Living in fear

Faith Tifase, the sister of the suspect, expressed fear that their house could be attacked anytime, and pleaded with the police to stop residents of the street from invading their house. "People have been coming to our house, [saying] that they will burn the house down; that my brother killed Peace," she said. "They even said my father knows about it. That day this thing happened, they wanted to burn our house down but the police stopped them. But they have been coming and we do not know what to do."

In his statement, Frank Mba, the Lagos Police Command spokesperson, said the police is investigating the case. "The girl, an orphan, alleged to have hanged herself over love or relational dispute," he said. "Preliminary investigation is being carried out at the Shasha Police Station, preparatory to be transferred to the Homicide Section State, CID. Detectives who visited the scene met the dangling body stark unclothed from the ceiling fan with a socket wire. The boyfriend is being detained, and the body of the victim has been deposited at a public mortuary for autopsy. The police are investigating the case and it will be wrong for anybody to take the laws into their hands."


http://234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/Home/5639853-146/story.csp

190:
why after killing their GF's they always talk bout school

and CGPA!!


Bunch of hypocrites

Agreed!

He expects us to believe that he "loved her to the point of no return," but yet he talks about the her like a dog? He talks of "rumors of unfaithfulness," suggesting that other people thought she was up to no good, when he could have just said that he thought so. Why paint this picture of the deceased?

He expects us to also believe that she didn't care about him enough to openly cheat on him over mere money, but she would she cared about him enough to kill herself over him?

Better senario: She came to his place, he accused her of cheating, and strangled her to death in a jealous rage. CGPA drop from 4.3 to 4.0 indeed! Ha!!!!

^gbam!

Listen to this guy boast about all the woman he infected with AIDS:

[flash=200,200]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKmyP4ZScN4&playnext=1&list=PL0AE0D16591C969E6[/flash]

They caught him though, thankfully.

If the girl isn't marriage material, how can you be sure the baby is even yours? And if the baby is yours, imagine sharing custody with a worthless woman who would have random worthless men strolling in and out of your child's life.

Bottom line: Be selective with those you lay down with.

I always knew you were a strange old man.