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RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 4:48am On Jun 10, 2011
cool
RomanceRe: His Girlfriend Is A Kleptomaniac! by Nekai(f): 3:57am On Jun 10, 2011
Thief dating a thief.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 3:42am On Jun 10, 2011
Nothing But Net! shocked
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 3:14am On Jun 10, 2011
REALITY101:
Quit distracting me I got my money on this one . angry cheesy
Sorry,  cry cry cry
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 3:05am On Jun 10, 2011
REALITY101:
Ya after the game. cheesy
angry

Smack talker.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 3:00am On Jun 10, 2011
They need to catch up.  undecided
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 2:49am On Jun 10, 2011
Who's side are u on jay bee?
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 2:46am On Jun 10, 2011
What? I'm all by myself here. Oh well, it's often lonely at the top, lol.

My mind is already made up. This game!  shocked
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 2:35am On Jun 10, 2011
[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=679557.msg8490211#msg8490211 date=1307669632]Btw, what team is Dwayne Wade on? . . .Celtics? [pls dont laugh][/quote]shocked shocked shocked

He's on the Heat, lol.
RomanceRe: Love Puzzle! by Nekai(f): 2:33am On Jun 10, 2011
REALITY101:
He even look so gay
angry

I see you're sipping on that HaterAde today.

grin
FamilyRe: Is It Immoral To Let Your Children Live At A Lower Standard Than You Do? by Nekai(f): 2:30am On Jun 10, 2011
Sagamite:
No.

I am going to preach: "You have to work bloody hard like I did to get this, bloody little brat. I am not giving it to you on a platter. If you want what I get/use, go and pick up your Maths and Physics text book and finish all the Mechanics, Newton Forces , Differentiation and Integration questions at the end of each chapter. Don't look at me with such silly face young man, you are not too young at 6 years old to know the Black–Scholes model, go read up, Arrow!" grin grin grin
Loooooool! grin grin grin grin grin

I guess I see your point since you would be doing it out of motivation instead of selfishness. More people should think like this instead of spoiling their kids with everything their hearts desire.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 2:13am On Jun 10, 2011
Whoooooooo!
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 2:09am On Jun 10, 2011
I'm right here! It's going down. Go Shaggy and the Mavs!
FamilyRe: Is It Immoral To Let Your Children Live At A Lower Standard Than You Do? by Nekai(f): 2:06am On Jun 10, 2011
Sagamite:
I deserve the best might be a case of vanity sometimes. Not having the best might be sufficient.

Surely, a Toyota Camry will get me to a destination in reasonable and adequate comfort as any Ferrari. Why do I get a Ferrari? Because of vanity.

Should I now get a Ferrari to also pick my kids anywhere they go? HELL FFFING NO!

They deserve basic minimum, any extra is a choice. We make good choices and bad, it is each person's choice.

[b]If I wear Ted Baker shirts does not mean my kids should also wear one. There are a lot of Topshop shirts that look decent. They don't deserve the best, they deserve self discipline and realism of life. When they work hard in life and make their own money, then they deserve the best with their own funds.[/b]If you find people advocating kids live like paupers, then you can start discussing with them.

I didn't know buying good quality cheap stuff equates to pauperism.
You are going to preach the 'Do as I say, not as I do' speech to the Mini Sagamites? smiley
RomanceRe: Love Puzzle! by Nekai(f): 2:02am On Jun 10, 2011
https://cdn1.ouchpress.com/thumbs/celebrities/65442-johnny-depp-180x200.jpg
190:

"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen for the second" - Johnny Depp
Much more believable, right ragdollz!  grin grin grin

Seriously I think that the quote is incorrect. If you are truly in love with the first person, you are recieving the benefit of the satisfaction of the positive qualities that person has. Therefore to be in love with the second person as well means that they can only fill in the missing pieces. It's more likely that after the first person is out of your life there will be many more missing pieces to fill and the second person will measure up short.

The 80/20 rule plain and simple.

(I'm there baby)
RomanceRe: Love Puzzle! by Nekai(f): 1:50am On Jun 10, 2011
Omo, you have introduced a new weapon into my rhetorical arsenal.
RomanceRe: Love Puzzle! by Nekai(f): 1:39am On Jun 10, 2011
No, but if he was right in front of my face I would think it was the best thing I ever heard. grin
FamilyRe: Is It Immoral To Let Your Children Live At A Lower Standard Than You Do? by Nekai(f): 1:35am On Jun 10, 2011
Why would you choose to wear expensive quality clothing? Is it not because you believe it is the best? Why then do you as an individual deserve the best, but your children, who are a part of you, deserve less?

If the children should wear good quality budget conscious clothing, then so should the parents. All the showing off would be a waste of money anyways.

There was a television show with young spoiled brats who were used to wearing outfits worth thousands of dollars. They were shown a multitude of clothes, sunglasses, perfumes, and even chocolates. Each item had a cheap version and an expensive version and they were told to choose which was which.

They got most of them wrong, incorrectly choosing the cheap versions to be the more expensive ones.
RomanceRe: Love Puzzle! by Nekai(f): 12:21am On Jun 10, 2011
ragdollz:
Johnny D. is talking crap for once. Stay with the first one. Cos the second one will always be "the grass looks greener on the other side". Most pple always run back to base when they find out it aint much better over there :C
I looove that man! I agree wit u though ragdollz.
RomanceRe: Can You Love Someone You Have Never Set Your Eyes On? by Nekai(f): 12:13am On Jun 10, 2011
So blind people don't fall in love? huh
FamilyRe: How Can A Husband Help Heal His Wife From His Emotional And Physical Infidelity? by Nekai(f): 12:07am On Jun 10, 2011
Funny thing is Seun, I think the above response is serious.

Anyways, the best thing he can do is to start by being honest about what led him to the behavior in the first place.
FamilyRe: Married, Having An Affair, Hubby Also Having An Affair: What To Do? by Nekai(f): 9:05pm On Jun 09, 2011
Minx,

You stated that your feelings for your husband dwindled away after you went through a miscarriage. There is the root of your problem. You probably feel that your husband didn't grieve as you did, and the thought that he doesn't care about the loss of the pregnancy/child is repulsive to you.

Know that men and women grieve differently. It could have very much affected him as deeply as it did you. You both are harboring resentment towards each other concerning the loss of the pregnancy. It's sad that you both have allowed it to tear your marriage apart. Is anyone thinking about your seven year old? The selfish response to the situation by the both of you is most definitely affecting your ability to co-parent this child.

My advice would be to keep your mouth shut about the affair (especially since he didn't volunteer the info about his own affair). Tell your husband that you forgive him and tell him that you haven't been yourself recently. Open up about the feelings you have surrounding his reaction to the miscarriage. Tell him how you feel or felt without accusing or pointing fingers to him. Remember your feelings are due in part to perceptions that may or may not be really true. I think that he will respond positively.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 7:55am On Jun 09, 2011
:p
FamilyRe: Is It Immoral To Let Your Children Live At A Lower Standard Than You Do? by Nekai(f): 5:34am On Jun 09, 2011
Before a child is of age to work and earn a living it is immoral for the parents to wear the finest clothes while they are wearing rags.

After a child is able to work, he/she should contribute in some way to their upkeep. If this lowers their standard of living slightly it will only serve to motivate them to succeed.

After a child is grown it is immoral to support them. It will only promote laziness. Of course there are exemptions to this, but the vast majority of parents that completely support their adult children are doing them a disservice.
RomanceRe: For Guys Only! Check Out My Profile Picture by Nekai(f): 1:27am On Jun 09, 2011
Is dat u?  grin

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIeU4m0jUac[/flash]
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 1:06am On Jun 09, 2011
190:
cool cool
tongue
RomanceRe: My Girl Dating My Friend by Nekai(f): 1:02am On Jun 09, 2011
Gwazah:
@mynd44. Gud point bros, but de mother is death.
grin
RomanceRe: No Respect For A Lady's Beauty Sleep! by Nekai(f): 1:00am On Jun 09, 2011
I don't mind being disturbed from sleep. . . depends on the reason.
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 5:26am On Jun 08, 2011
Oooook. Whatever. smiley
RomanceRe: Romance Section Chat Room IV by Nekai(f): 5:18am On Jun 08, 2011
Nite!

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