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MRbrownJAY:
to some extent i could understand why the poster hates his children. . . . . . . . . . giving the fact that they are "part" of why they went abroad at the first place and may be seen as the reason for all the trouble.

[. . . ] I DONT AGREE WITH IT though.

chiogo:
Dragging innocent children into some adult mess is just not-so-smart.

tpiah:
he can hate his children- it's a free world.

But he shouldn’t start stalking the kids via the media if they turn out well in future.

Happy is the day when a person can own up to his/her own shortcomings.

[size=20pt]imo, if he has to be told not to hate his own kids, then they might be better off without him there.[/size]

190:
^Nekai would u be the EX that i seek

heavy g:
^^^THANK YOU ALL. I think the handwriting is on the wall. I have to salvage my life and happiness! I have to summon courage and call it off! It won't be easy but that seems to be my only option.

Blazay:
Glad women are learning not to put all their eggs in one basket!

whiteroses:
aww. i remember there was a little stream beside my school and we saw a baby dumped in the stream, the baby must have been placed in the water very early and looked really pale because it spent too much time in water and not sure id dead or alive, we called our teachers and some staff went and called the police, meanwhile dogs started feeding on it, we chased the dogs but dint go, we watched as the dogs devoured the baby i still remembered vividly, some locals said they saw a young lady early in the morning with a basket full of clothes but could hear a baby crying but never thought shes on a mission

Ranoscky:
I luv me any colour of girls jare, I no send. Personality matters!

bhusayor:
Tanx, kafanchan

Please whats with this new 'like' button? I hope the topic wont be linked with facebook

honeric01:
Your post is not clear enough,

r231:
you dis guy. . . . you still walking arount with ya madam handbag

ogugua88:
Professor of K-leg Engrish and Gbagaun Grammar dey preach education matter. Na wa o.

chaircover:
Hello Everyone,

I receive the UCB daily devotional everyday and I just thought I would share today's message with everyone (June 3rd 2011)  at it really touched me. Its about getting along with each other; be it friendships, family matters, with relatives, marriage, colleagues etc God's way.

This is what God wants us to do and we cant go wrong if we follow Gods plan for our lives.

I am posting this in the family section because we encounter a lot of relationships & different relationship issues in this section, and I believe that if we can try and use Gods template for resolving issues, we can move mountains in our relationships 

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Getting Along with Each Other - UCB Daily Devotional June 3rd 2011 - You must get along with each other,  1 Corinthians 1:10

Here are two things you must do in order to mend a broken relationship. First, attack the problem, not the person. You can't fix the problem if you're obsessed with fixing the blame.

The Bible says, 'A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire' (Proverbs 15:1 TM). In resolving any conflict, how you say it is as important as what you say. If you say it offensively, you'll be received defensively. 'A wise, mature person is known for his understanding.

The more pleasant his words, the more persuasive he is' (Proverbs 16:21 GNT). Nagging doesn't work. You're never persuasive when you're abrasive! Don't use words that are condemning, belittling, comparing, labeling, insulting, condescending or sarcastic; rather, 'Use,  only helpful words,  so that what you say will do good to those who hear you' (Ephesians 4:29 GNT). Second, focus on your relationship, not your differences.

It's unrealistic to expect everybody to agree about everything. But when we focus on the relationship, the problem often loses its significance, diminishes or becomes irrelevant. Often we can re-establish the relationship even though we're unable to resolve our differences. We'll always have honest disagreements, but surely, by God's grace, we can disagree without being disagreeable. We can walk arm-in-arm without seeing eye-to-eye.

This doesn't mean giving up on finding a solution. You may need to continue discussing it - but now you agree to do it in the spirit of love. Reconciliation means burying the hatchet, not necessarily the issue. So who do you need to contact?

With whom do you need to restore fellowship? Pick up the phone and begin the process[/b]

camaldina:
I have been laughing alone uncontrollably reading this,

Reference:
The chicken stared him in the eye, , mean bird.