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Georgette$:
Na wa o, so nobody can help?

Georgette, I understand you completely. I know what you're going through. Well, I suppose you will do me a favour for answering your question. That favour is this: I want you to help us check the meaning of the word: POLYMATH.

When you've done that, you'll understand that what you have is a gift; not an abnormal evil. I am a polymath too, and I'll love to know you better. What do you say?

Hey Guys in the House, whad up?

See, I am in some sort of "loving" trouble and it seems I'm totally fallen stubbornly and hardly over my heels in love with a pretty girl right here on NL.

I know what I feel is true, coz she appeals to me in every way I've secretly ever wanted a woman to. Besides she's my first baby here on NL (I mean, she's really special to me).

She calls it a crush, but I know best. We're right into the abyss of eachother's souls. We're soulmates.

HINT: She's very popular on NL and she pulls alot of attention (it's fate we met and struck once). She is the Queen of NL!!! (I'll shout it so loud,  I don't care what anyone else says.) She's made NL turn into Wonderland for me!

So, guys, has any other one of you been so successful and how many anyways?

sexylogan:

i need help, nairaladers, and i need it fast! i'v had

enough. there is no week that passes by that a girl

doesn't walk up to me to say that she likes me, wants

to pay for my lunch, thinks i'm cute, etc. it is so bad

that my girlfriend has gotten so jealous that she's

threatening to end it with me. i told her it's not my fault

but she won't listen. what should i do?

Totally childish!

nancyekpoh:
I wanna ask: How  do u know that he/she is the right one  for u?

It all depends on what you want in a lady or guy actually.

Men, forget about her! She's not real. (Besides you didn't woo her the proper way - the way girls love it)

You are a good guy, but you need to learn to be a MAN!

Come on guys! I think it's about time we nairalanders sort of had a forum get together party. What do you guys think?

veetubes:
old boy you are a little bit late i was downloading the thing and the something hang meanwhile i google for the torrent and got this
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&source=hp&q=window+7+torrent&aq=8&oq=window+7&aqi=g10

Men oshei!

You've made my day so far so good. I appreciate it. I owe u one, ok?

pc guru:
Guy i'm disappointed stuffs like that could put sites in trouble.For things like that try rapidshare,megaupload or best bet is btmon or piratebay torrents.Or you could simply purchase the original copy.For torrents you need a torrent client app.Utorrent or bittorrent

Please don't be disappointed just about yet, alright? Microsoft actually released sort of a test (beta) version at about last month (i think!). But when I checked yesterday, they officially receded the product. Remember, I asked you guys for the RC version, not full version, ok? I just need it to show a couple of friends new features the OS carries with it; that's all!

Well, thanks for the tip (the torrent thing). Even torrent downloads on that subject seem to be dragging its feet.

Peace to you all!

This is not fair Mr oppexxy!

I asked for a favour, not a sales pitching endeavour.

I pray the real guys answer me today.

I searched the web and turned it upside down. I need Windows 7 RC (Installation) and I can't find it.

I came here coz I know that you guys can help.

Please guys, prove that I'm right. Thanks anyways!

How many times will I keep on telling guys that "LADIES DON'T LIKE DESPERATE MEN!"

You only gotta work on yourself. If you can't woo your neighbour (you know, the girl next door?), you won't have better luck online!

Get in touch with me, so we can see were to brush you up from, okay?

Love (to me) essentially means sharing in sincerity.

It went "SO WELL" you don't wanna know!

Number one rule in a marriage relationship:

NEVER BREED A SEED OF SUSPICION!

You did well to confront him about what was bothering you (so you don't keep it in mind), but since he has said there is nothing wrong, take his word for it! The moment you continue breeding suspicion, two things happen: One, you start to lose the respect he has for you and Two, you actually push him and give him GOOD reason to flirt. So, I'd suggest you forget about whatever happened if you want to save your marriage, okay?

Even if he is doing the opposite, he'll caution himself when he realizes that despite his infidelity and suspicious movements, you stuck and trusted him. Men think. We know how to weigh the costs. In other words, we sabi good thing well well! So flush away your fears. Continue enjoying the love in your home, okay? Don't trade it for mere suspicions.

Cheers! 

@Ephramed

It has nothing to do with your mouth or how many times you decide to brush your teeth (even if you decide to use JIK!    )

You haven't done your assignment yet, and that is where the problem lies. If you worked on building up attraction between the both of you, then kissing her should not be a problem.

Work on building up attraction between you two; it is your job! How? Get in touch with me somehow.

Forgiveness is the basis of all relationships, whether romantic or otherwise. But you shouldn't use that as a guise to allow any form of misbehaviour from a romantic partner. Now from what I can judge, it seems this guy is trying to shake you off. You know, call you off. End the relationship? However you wanna put it!

I am not judging (I can't from the little detail you ain't giving perhaps). Maybe you need to elaborate more, huh? We could chat in real-time. (Check my profile for my Yahoo! ID)

Don't ever post such things again on public forums, ok? You don't know who knows you. Why? Coz your reputation is at stake. You sound desperate and ladies are not attracted to that, even by 1%!

Hit me up on 07030833405 (ONLY AT NIGHT CALLS). I'll help you out. We need to talk, okay?

Don't mind the guys that say that. They don't know what to do. Only knowledge can make you keep a lady in your life for as long as you desire. Cheers y'all!

Don't mean to break into your diary, but let me clear certain things here (if you don't mind!)

Love is actually a spirit, but what kinda spirit? Love is divine. It is a Godly thing. In fact it is the whole being of God, and it surely can't die. But judging from the descriptions you were giving, (and most people's misconceptions) attraction is not love. Attraction is different. It is nothing other than the way of minds work in relation to our sexuality as humans.

So, please redress your assumptions. Cheers man!

Actually men generally don't move on faster when they encounter a heart-break.

A heart-break is nothing other than the constant reminder of a certain loving experience you used to have, but not anymore. Now, if one has a heart-break and somehow gets to have an operation carried out on that person to erase his/ her memory .i.e. a state of amnesia, that person will not (if at all) feel such a great deal of a heart-break.

So the key is to blot out the memories! The sweet good memories! How (apart from surgery ) ? Because you can't completely not think or reflect back (except you're dead), you gotta start activities that won't give you time to recollect the past. Do interesting and fun things that fill your whole time and keep you busy and away from thinking. These activities must involve people. People that mean something to you - they could be close friends, family and encouraging colleagues. You also must avoid certain places and things that may trigger you to remember that person or experience.

Last and best of all, heart-breaks are a normal human experience. You are not stupid or different to feel it. You're just being human!

You gotta learn that just like everything in life, falling in love is a risk as well. The moment you choose to fall in love (most times, it's unconscious anyway), you give up your whole self and commit everything you have to that one person. And so, if it doesn't go well after all, then just move on and don't even look back to regret anything. Just move and on, and keep your eyes down for the next potential person. You won't look for love; it will find you. Don't make the mistake of closing up yourself from falling in love, coz those that cannot risk anything most times don't gain anything out of life.

Learn, learn, learn from your experience. It'll only make you a better person. Okay?

Take care of yourself. Cheers!

The basic fact is that she doesn't feel as attracted to you, as she is to the other guy. And whether you wanna hear it or not, she is not into you! Majority of the girls don't know how to call off a relationship. They feel alot of pity for the guys involved - even the guys they may not love so much.

Now, they are two options:

Option 1 - Leave and forget about her completely. I mean, dissolve the relationship so you don't end up in divorce later.

Option 2 - If you still love her and can't afford to lose her yet, then you have to play the game with her. You have to establish basically an attraction to you from her (that is if there was never one before). To make her become attracted to you again is nothing magical. It's just a little understanding of how the psychology of love works. Trust me, she'll be under your willing cage in no time.

Hit me up for a chat (follow my profile), okay? Cheers!

Men, you gotta be honest with her, you know.