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LadyTiannah2:
And you think a woman needs to go to higher institution before developing a dramatic attitude? Lol maybe you'll check the village sha cos last I checked, the eyes of most girls in developed areas, educated or not, have "tear reach back"

every woman has her normal drama in relationship. It's a woman thing...but the biggest drama is the one of power tussle, and stubbornness cos u feel you are in same level with your husband....or you want to live marital life based on one alien feminist philsophy
You don't have to go to village to meet secondary school leavers. They are everywhere. Some dint go to school cos of no helper or no money....It's not a matter of village girl....

LadyTiannah2:
All I see is a man with insecurity issues coupled with a superiority complex, looking for a woman to control.

And before you start accusing me, I'm not a feminist, I believe in gender roles.
You want to set up a business for her, where will she get the knowledge to run it? Your choice anyway

Where did our grand mothers who were successful in business got the brain to run their business and family? A man with means who cares for her woman will render necessary support for her woman.

Many women are intelligent without going to higher institution and it shows in the kind of children they brought up.
I'm not control freak. I just want peace and avoidable drama.

JudgeKronos:
One big advantage is that the non-schooled are not exposed to the subtle prostitution in the name of campus-life

It's terrible. Campus life and prostitution, if a girl doesn't have solid upbringing with personal scruples, she will easily join the gang. it's like a cult for the so called big and happening babes. campus prostitution is like competition of the prettiest or smartest ladies who can land the biggest fish. Our gals are too wild for marriage.
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Are you going to say such women after marriage will forget those wild life of gyration of camping in the best resorts and hotels on free money? No wonder it's hard to please them. They are emotionally draining in marriage and financially stressful to manage

JudgeKronos:
the so called educated are just schooled, not necessarily educated.

Yes...once she can read or write. A secondary schoo leaver can do such.

I will gladly pick item 11- hate cooking....that's bearable. We can just get a house-help. Chikena

Recently, I'm having a paradigm shift of the ideal woman to marry in the midst of tension and uncertainties surrounding marriages. A popular fact is that the woman a man marries determine so much about his achivement, happiness, health, longevity and the fate of his children, and since I cherish peace of mind so much I've decided to go for an uneducated woman.
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She will be a secondary school holder and I will set her up for business and these are my reasons.

1. Intellectual gap and economic difference between husband and wife is a big factor in determining the success of a marriage. Women generally will look up to their spouse and are easily moved and obligated to respect him when he's obviously superior intellectually and economically. Whereas, unnecessary power play ensues when a woman is very close to her man in terms of education and economic means. This alone has broken many homes and still counting.


2. New definition of gender roles: feminist and mainstream media are misleading women to reject their traditional roles that have made them successful and happy as women for thousands of years.This new mindset and role shift is largely incompatible with marriage and it's the reason why 70% of marriages in Western world hit the rock within 5 years of wedlock. Even in our society, divorce is so prevalent as women try to change marital roles and values to copy the oyibo. Only few men can cope with this role shift.


3. Uneducated women are more devoted to their men, as they have few engagements, amusements and few lofty frivolities. When you are also a good man who shows her that you truly love her and care so much for her happiness, most times she'll go all length to pls you and you see them glow for you. They are more proud of having you and grateful for what you do.

4. They are more teachable. I believe you can easily blend them how you want. They are also very happy when your educated friends come around and still shower her respect as Oga's wife cos you don't joke with her or disrespect her amongst your friends.

5. Feminism promotes sexual decadence. Check what our ladies are doing on the internet. Feminism expose them to such. Most educated women, feminist and all, take their freedom too far that they indulge in all kinds of sexual experimentation and are bolder with less scruples for sexual restraint; as they are also less religious, less modest, wilder, subscribing to strange philosophies that jeopardise marital values and family cohesion just for personal pleasure and happiness

This is not saying it's 100% foolproof for good marriage, women also have their personalities, either educated or not. but in general this limits avoidable tussle.
And some will say I'm only a control freak, well, men should lead, and there's nothing wrong if they are in control as long as they are reasonable, and a good woman doesn't have problem submitting to a man whom they love and respect apart from our new generation feminist who believe they are equal to men and thus want to dictate.

You may air your view as regard to this school of thought, either positive or negative they are welcome.

The article is bullshit.
The school is a well run Missionary school. Taking it up by the government to enforce Islamic values and promote Islamic symbols is only inflaming trouble...
Can any Muslim school like Ansarudeen, or Hamadiya, be taken over by a Christian government to the extent that Christian cross is allowed on such Ansarudeen schl...will such be allowed by Muslims?
This is not a matter of right or religious expression of one student...it's about respect for ones religious institution, culture and preservation of it's norm even in a school.
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Respect Christians schools and it's rule...also respect Islamic school and it's rules.....Both models of school are cultural symbols that need not be tampered with or adulterated by opposite religious emblem. It's as simple as that.
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If you want a multi-religious expressing school, then you can go to such schools as they are everywhere. Religious culture shd be respected if that's what a school represent

richmond500:
nope, Becca350 is a lady, a lesbian lady.

You see.. it's somewhat unusual for normal gal to come with all this epistle to stylishly market her big ass and at thesame time soliciting for money from well wishers.
She's looking for her lesbian partner and it's such a good marketing skill.. unfortunately, some guys will still fall for it...even though she's a lesbians..she won't mind cashing out from them

My first instinct is that you are a scammer or some unscrupulous guys masquerading as a lady to scam on Nairaland. If only I can do video call before I will believe you...but I'm not interested in doing any video call.

Stay poisoned...

BLoomfrancs:
Lol m oron. Don't you see how horrible that attire looks. Can you compare that to how royal Nigerian attires are, like the Igbo traditional attire or the yoruba agbada or the hausa danshiki(whatever it is called) or the calabari attire. Mumu, if you are to dress in your native attire, make it very beautiful and clean.

Shut the fvvck up you fool!

Proton99:
Is that your asss in the photo? How much do you charge for a night?

Lols. Nairaland guys never disappoint

No be only man be SIMP o....some ladies qualify for that title

Huterrtge3:
People who wholeheartedly believe in accelerationism are the most irresponsible revolutionaries and deconstructionists. They are eager to change the status quo, but they have not thought (or are not willing to think) .

You are not communicating. Speaking Gibberish

Fiscus105:
Independent or not ,educated or not, husband must know his boundary when it comes to headship of the family, we husband must have it back of our mind that wife is not slave that you can order around neither is she toddler!

I had a hot argument with my friend not too long on radio program, in which they argued that husband can order his wife not to go working place, I told my friend that such husband crosses his boundary, if such wife refuses to heed to his instruction, some foolish guys will come online to badmouth feminist.

NB. I belong to sch of taut who believed that husband is head of family o

Bros...You are just a confused niggar. May God open your eyes to your right and power as a man

pemi pada apa n romi

Dandal:
Ma broda, even the married families are no where safe from their toxicity. Here abroad, they are in every fabric of the society. For the most part, so-called Feminism is less to do with women rights, but more to do with hatred for Men by women with past vendettas. Most are Divorcees or single moms or older single women who've never been married. Feministas are a cancer to the sacred institution of Marriage, especially among African families living abroad. Married couples need to always be mindful of them. The moment they start befriending that your good sweet loving wife/ fiancé at work ( which by the way they are very good at doing, and is often the case), your marriage and relationship is downhill from then onward. And when your marriage is broken, your indoctrinated ex-wife goes hunting for other people's marriages to destroy. Its why divorce rates are skyrocketing every year, and Men are apprehensive in getting married.

You don finish the matter....

bluefilm:
You really sound foolish.

But in the real term of the fact, you are the hopeless bozo

FRANKOSKI:
HAVE U BEEN IN THE NEST ？

HAVE YOU BEEN IN THE NET ?

SisterFire:
...don't count Egypt amongst u because the creator of Egypt is same as that of Greece ,parts of Italy n Macedonia ,
Timbuktu of AD periods? ... Yesterday

... , when white giants Atlantis has been moving mountains since 200,000Bc , Mexico has been using great technologies before the days of the rise babylon ,

Just yesterday that mansa musa rised n they decided to teach u few arabics synbols and some few numbers u want to compare urself with white people ...I heard u guys go here n there complaining that Africans own earth ...going by nature's standards only humans worthy enough to claim earth are the roumangaries , red Indians n Aztecs ,

This babe Sabi history o...Hope say no be your deep knowledge of history u dey use scatter this thread wey preeq just dey rise and guys just dey cum anyhow ontop this thread

FRANKOSKI:
WHAT DOES YOUR BELIEFS PHATOM ABOUT ANGER ？dont let me be dissapointed in you bikokwa！！！

Anger is normal human emotions that need to be expressed appropriately. You dnt need to belabour our goddess with this question....Later you will ask sisterfire what she thinks about crying and breathing

Maryjane001:
Oga u can as well go to your village and marry. Most of these Nigerian girls carrying feminism on their heads do not display the real feminism. Most sound embittered and frustrated about men. That someone says she believes in feminism doesn't make her bad, you just have to understand the type she is. The feminism I believe in is equal rights to both genders, even though I like Chimamanda a lot, I just do not agree to some of her ideas as that would upset an African home. I cannot loose my culture and beliefs all in the name of extreme feminism
N.B : maybe your kind would like a puppet for a wife....lol

Oh...women who are too passionate about feminism usually bring it into their marriage..na da one be the wahala. You can be a feminist,no wahala .but before u enter my house, carry am make you off am for gate... otherwise we no go last...My parents had a loving good home...they both respect each other and operated between their role and expectations as husband and wife.. but our feminism of nowadays...make I no talk

Online feminist..but in real life they pray, cry and climb Shiloh mountain for godly husband which is no where to be found

I doubt it...He can't be 97...

If they can deny Lekki massacre, tell me what they can't deny in life

Chasing shadows. They want to cash out again.
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What happened to getting us electricity like other nations? Can it iron cloth, use refrigerator, use electric cooker and A.C with this solar scam they are going to be rolling out? Can it even support small scale company energy needs....Another white elephant project on the way ... useless govt

God help us

Christian Preek ambassador

When I hear "repentant" and "bandits" used in one sentence, my blood boils....So anybody can kill and machete people like trees in hundred and will one day wake up to repentance...like a sinner in Christian Church? We are doomed if this is how we want to run our society.....
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Even Christian God dint spare sinner in old testament..instant judgement served..And that's the best way to rid society of wicked element.
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New testament talks about repentance cos someone is claimed to have died for the sins...so who's going to die for the sins of our repentant bandits? who? It's a shame..