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CSTRR:
Africa is backward in most positive things including football.

Football is a game of IQ and tactical awareness and skill.

Qualities sorely lacking in African societies.

We thrive in sports that require brute strength.

That's not true...African failure in everything boils down to bad leadership. Have you wondered the likes of Pogba, Kante, Matuidi, Mbappe, Mendi, Tolisso, are all of African descent, yet they played for France and won the worldcup...The reason is cos France has the good leadership to harness their talent. Nigeria can't.
Remember France is not even as big and populated as Nigeria yet they could assemble that number of brilliant black players..imagine the talents we could get here if we have good sport leadership, facilities and policy

robosky02:
Poor TV


No score update

Na Buhari cause poor TV again?

LordKO:
Some of you always jump into a discussion to argue directionless, not minding how and where it started. That reply was specifically for that particular person and his posit.

Ok. No vex

LordKO:
I only hold brief for sane people, and my post connotes the same. Once more, it's easier for a leader to lead educated followers in any conventional gender-neutral setting than the uneducated.

Gender neutrality is not conventional...it's made up, not the ideal. And I cant see the link btw gender neutrality and educated followesrhip

Those observations I've also quite made making me to question the value and utility of marriage to a man.

Liposure:
Mine is just know how to read and write. I'm not interested in your academic credentials. Be it bsc or olevel. All i want is a woman worthy in character and virtue.

sure basic reading and writing is okay

Meet them when it's time and be yourself. Don't project what you are not when you meet them. If there's contradiction between what they expect and what you showed them, leave them to go ask their daughter...and ask her to stop the hyping.
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They should get used to your person not the phantom being projected by your babe

orohbiro:
she is not the ist girl I have dated I just decided to respect this one cause I love her I have met a girl and slept with her the ist day she came to my house

Tor...I hope you've learned one or two, you will probably do better in your next relationship. Women are sexual being and master of stealth and manipulation. If u make them think they are too perfect and modest to be fvvcked, they are definitely going to act that way for u

The reason she hasn't given you sex is cos you don't know how the game is played. You don't. You dated a gal for over a year and u don't know how to turn her on, or approach her for sex...it took you 15months to be able to man up and ask what every man asks in relationship.
Well that's too long a time, the babe would have assumed u were keeping her for the proverbial wedding night.
Same gal that another guy may have toasted within two weeks and sleep with her during that same period u are dating her....Blame yourself. Girls won't come and teach you how to make them agree to sex. It's a skill, and even if u lack it..waiting for 15months to make simple demand of 'babe let's make love' is ur personal undoing.
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Did you say u want to drug her? Don't go that route, it may not end well, the babe might change it for you and turn it to rape case against u.Since u want to marry her, then go and marry her and have ur sex....

These four points from the checklist are for me



2. Communication.
( many marriage don't communicate, they bottle things up and expect the other to read their minds like a prophet

3. Lift each other up.
( This means helping each other when the other is down, praising each other, respecting each other- which is lacking today)


5. Being a good leader and good follower.
(The man is the head, the woman be the follower, it's as simple as that- but today we want to be joint head, joint controller. It can't work)

9. Make your marriage the priority
(This means doing things that will consolidate your marriage, not being selfish or placing secondary concerns above your home or spouse)

And what are we suppose to do

DaInferno:
bcus I no d like see obscene men. I wonder if una d hear una self talk atimes?!

You can't escape obscenity on a faceless forum.... Meanwhile, it's very likely the man is wooing her and she's not allowing that. isn't that common with landlord?

DaInferno:
you're a mumu man

Haha..why this little talk pain me you

femi4:
Parents are always the first teacher

The major academic or intellectual influence come from school, the quality of the school, the Calibre of pupils the child move it, environment...and discipline of parents ensuring kids behave well.

KevinDein:
Nice to see more guys thinking this way. Below is my comment on another thread;

Might sound a little controversial, I'm really not so keen on a highly educated/intellectual woman. I find them to be too argumentative just for the sake of it; always trying to prove some non-existent point. Give me a beautiful woman with just enough education to pass her points across when needed. When I want to discuss intellectual stuff, I'll do it at the bars with the boys or the manosphere such as this

Exactly! I do not even see home as a place for intellectualism...for me home should be a place of peace, rest and informality.
Like you said, bars, conferences, seminars, should suffice a place for me if I want to exercise myself mentally. And in occasional instances when an intellectual woman brings her charm to appeal to me sexually, fine, we can rob heads together, mind together and body together away from home....and everything must end there shortlived. No long-term bargain is expedient.

I have no trust in covid19 vaccine as well. I'm not ready to take the vaccine

Who knows, it might be Buhari That opened this thread in disguise..... I seriously doubt though if Buhari's acumen can cope with Nairaland

Anigreat:






You're saying nothing but the truth.


It was here that i know that the likes of Goodluck Jonathan, Reno omokri, E-money , Flavour, Phyno, Chimamanda Adichie, Pete Edochie, Yul Edochie, Davido , Johnson Suleiman, Akpabio, Omah lay, Nnamdi Kanu, Fire boy, Dj cuppy, teni, tems etc etc etc, are all active members of nairaland. Most of them disguised as troll just to have fun though.

kindly reveal their moniker. I want to send Dj cuppy a private message

femi4:
The kids are closer to the mother than the father. I will not have a wife that cannot engage the kids intellectually or assist them with school work

It's not big deal if she can't assist them intellectually. That's why we have lesson, home tutors.

...there are kids that orphan or who lost their mom while young, yet they still became educated...

JudgeKronos:
Don’t mind them ..

.... one low monthly salary earner up there is saying children will suffer if a man decides to choose a non schooled woman for a wife.

I decided not to reply his narrow minded comment. My grand mother is not schooled yet almost all her children are educated to higher institution level...and well behaved and respected
I know a man who is a lawyer and wealthy...he married an uneducated lady, tush_ the lady, beautiful...bought car for her, set up her business, very respectful woman...by 6am, the children are already set for schl before she goes to her shop. These kids are so bright, the man put them in one of the best schools in the town...I envy the diction, and grammar usage of those kids...and they are less than 8 yrs old

Evolutionlove:
In shiiiithole, there Is nothing special between being a Bsc and A School Cert. All na rubbish and nonsense. A cattle Man Is the one leading you stupid lots. I've seen School Certs who are 1000% better than so many mediocre worthless Bscs'.......

Abi...Many intelligent women who dint go to schl are doing well in their business. You will be amazed the kind of millions they count. I have one on my street..the woman is even richer than her husband that's works with govt

Will they hear? Awọn lover men and association of trust is the pillar of marriage.
We are seeing where trust is leading them

If you give him his share, he will let you stay trust me. He probably see different guys with you and wondering why you won't let him taste the cherry.
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Landlord aren't that hard. They love money and pvssy. Give them either or both...and u will be fine

Women tears no get value my guy...they can control and command their tear duct to release water anytime they wish. Ask the elders, they will tell u

LadyTiannah2:
And you think a woman needs to go to higher institution before developing a dramatic attitude? Lol maybe you'll check the village sha cos last I checked, the eyes of most girls in developed areas, educated or not, have "tear reach back"

every woman has her normal drama in relationship. It's a woman thing...but the biggest drama is the one of power tussle, and stubbornness cos u feel you are in same level with your husband....or you want to live marital life based on one alien feminist philsophy
You don't have to go to village to meet secondary school leavers. They are everywhere. Some dint go to school cos of no helper or no money....It's not a matter of village girl....

LadyTiannah2:
All I see is a man with insecurity issues coupled with a superiority complex, looking for a woman to control.

And before you start accusing me, I'm not a feminist, I believe in gender roles.
You want to set up a business for her, where will she get the knowledge to run it? Your choice anyway

Where did our grand mothers who were successful in business got the brain to run their business and family? A man with means who cares for her woman will render necessary support for her woman.

Many women are intelligent without going to higher institution and it shows in the kind of children they brought up.
I'm not control freak. I just want peace and avoidable drama.

JudgeKronos:
One big advantage is that the non-schooled are not exposed to the subtle prostitution in the name of campus-life

It's terrible. Campus life and prostitution, if a girl doesn't have solid upbringing with personal scruples, she will easily join the gang. it's like a cult for the so called big and happening babes. campus prostitution is like competition of the prettiest or smartest ladies who can land the biggest fish. Our gals are too wild for marriage.
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Are you going to say such women after marriage will forget those wild life of gyration of camping in the best resorts and hotels on free money? No wonder it's hard to please them. They are emotionally draining in marriage and financially stressful to manage

JudgeKronos:
the so called educated are just schooled, not necessarily educated.

Yes...once she can read or write. A secondary schoo leaver can do such.

I will gladly pick item 11- hate cooking....that's bearable. We can just get a house-help. Chikena

Recently, I'm having a paradigm shift of the ideal woman to marry in the midst of tension and uncertainties surrounding marriages. A popular fact is that the woman a man marries determine so much about his achivement, happiness, health, longevity and the fate of his children, and since I cherish peace of mind so much I've decided to go for an uneducated woman.
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She will be a secondary school holder and I will set her up for business and these are my reasons.

1. Intellectual gap and economic difference between husband and wife is a big factor in determining the success of a marriage. Women generally will look up to their spouse and are easily moved and obligated to respect him when he's obviously superior intellectually and economically. Whereas, unnecessary power play ensues when a woman is very close to her man in terms of education and economic means. This alone has broken many homes and still counting.


2. New definition of gender roles: feminist and mainstream media are misleading women to reject their traditional roles that have made them successful and happy as women for thousands of years.This new mindset and role shift is largely incompatible with marriage and it's the reason why 70% of marriages in Western world hit the rock within 5 years of wedlock. Even in our society, divorce is so prevalent as women try to change marital roles and values to copy the oyibo. Only few men can cope with this role shift.


3. Uneducated women are more devoted to their men, as they have few engagements, amusements and few lofty frivolities. When you are also a good man who shows her that you truly love her and care so much for her happiness, most times she'll go all length to pls you and you see them glow for you. They are more proud of having you and grateful for what you do.

4. They are more teachable. I believe you can easily blend them how you want. They are also very happy when your educated friends come around and still shower her respect as Oga's wife cos you don't joke with her or disrespect her amongst your friends.

5. Feminism promotes sexual decadence. Check what our ladies are doing on the internet. Feminism expose them to such. Most educated women, feminist and all, take their freedom too far that they indulge in all kinds of sexual experimentation and are bolder with less scruples for sexual restraint; as they are also less religious, less modest, wilder, subscribing to strange philosophies that jeopardise marital values and family cohesion just for personal pleasure and happiness

This is not saying it's 100% foolproof for good marriage, women also have their personalities, either educated or not. but in general this limits avoidable tussle.
And some will say I'm only a control freak, well, men should lead, and there's nothing wrong if they are in control as long as they are reasonable, and a good woman doesn't have problem submitting to a man whom they love and respect apart from our new generation feminist who believe they are equal to men and thus want to dictate.

You may air your view as regard to this school of thought, either positive or negative they are welcome.

The article is bullshit.
The school is a well run Missionary school. Taking it up by the government to enforce Islamic values and promote Islamic symbols is only inflaming trouble...
Can any Muslim school like Ansarudeen, or Hamadiya, be taken over by a Christian government to the extent that Christian cross is allowed on such Ansarudeen schl...will such be allowed by Muslims?
This is not a matter of right or religious expression of one student...it's about respect for ones religious institution, culture and preservation of it's norm even in a school.
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Respect Christians schools and it's rule...also respect Islamic school and it's rules.....Both models of school are cultural symbols that need not be tampered with or adulterated by opposite religious emblem. It's as simple as that.
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If you want a multi-religious expressing school, then you can go to such schools as they are everywhere. Religious culture shd be respected if that's what a school represent

richmond500:
nope, Becca350 is a lady, a lesbian lady.

You see.. it's somewhat unusual for normal gal to come with all this epistle to stylishly market her big ass and at thesame time soliciting for money from well wishers.
She's looking for her lesbian partner and it's such a good marketing skill.. unfortunately, some guys will still fall for it...even though she's a lesbians..she won't mind cashing out from them