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If you understand this post....you will realize it's damage control and people are already falling for it....Tinubu people quickly rush out to put this up to make it appear people are vandalising Tinubus profile when we are know Tinubu can never be 69

If you understand this post....

JovialJune:
Who am I deceiving? You that is deceiving your kind that only uneducated females have successful marriages, as in you sef reason am, does it even make sense? Seek for wisdom honestly cos your esteem is zero.

You must be Happy with the high rate of divorce, especially as it favours women in Western world.
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You must be happy with baby mama culture and all. Is that the best for the society...the root cause is women, feminism and their freedom to fcck as they wish. You seem to support that..
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But few of us who don't are now looking for alternatives that guarantee stable family and you have to say it doesn't make sense?

Do and do and leave if you can't cope. Chikena

JovialJune:
And he had to go personal, shows your level of emptiness, which is zero

Dude, I am very married with kids, very educated in a prestigious university with Masters and incoming doctors degree, I have said this countless times here, I have nothing to hide that's why my pics is on display

If we should check you now, you could be like a guy that.....make i nor talk, I want to be a little bit nice today

Like I said before, marry your choice, after all, it's solely your choice, just try and desist from herd mentality, comprende?

I have nothing to do with your achievement, that's your cup of tea.
You say you are married, I hope you are happy and your significant other too, if that be the case, can you say the mindset you try to project about yourself is the same one you apply in your marriage? Why then come online to deceive young gals..........?

EfCC. YOU are an utter failure!
When would you start arresting politicians who scam us of national projects, siphoned the money with nothing to show....You only go after young men and young ladies.....You are a failure

JovialJune:
Lord this thread, these goes to show the level of intense inferiority complex and very very deep intense threat these ones here feel educated/enlightened females are, why the sudden crave for uneducated women as wives? Simple, CONTROL, 100% CONTROL

Why the hell will a human being have the stupid idea that he can have another human being at his beck and call in this 21st century tori olohun? Are we in the times of slavery? You want a human to always agree to every single thing you say/do/decide? Why not buy and chain her then, so we will all know you black male apes are no different from whites during slave trade,

So all educated women are bad? Wanting equality is bad? Having a say is bad? And you Op, so all females that passed through a university are oloshos? No good one among them? See illiterate thinking abeg

Marry your choice o, no one will stay in the house with both of you, just don't tag all graduates as one cos of all the heartbreaks you experienced from refined women who have a mind of their own, work on your -0 esteem and god complex, cos even the uneducated women you prefer will make you have HBP in the long run.

P.S
Sec schools cert. holders are educated na, go for the core illiterate, as in she no smell primary school, not to talk of creche, let's see how your children will fare

There are women like you who aren't married, yet happy and are high achiever, the irony for me is having this kind of mindset and still feel entitled to marriage so that you can frustrate your man. Make una leave marriage alone o....for people who want it and ready to make it work

djon78:
I think most times it's guys that have low self-esteem about themselves do talk the way you do.

A man that's in control of himself, knows his direction about life don't worry about these things

Even the highest educated woman will be completely loyal

The issue is that many of these guys don't have the wow factor
So they go for mediocre things

A man needs a wow factor to deserve a happy home. Hmmm...nawa...And the people without wow factor don't deserve good marriage abi

CSTRR:
Africa is backward in most positive things including football.

Football is a game of IQ and tactical awareness and skill.

Qualities sorely lacking in African societies.

We thrive in sports that require brute strength.

That's not true...African failure in everything boils down to bad leadership. Have you wondered the likes of Pogba, Kante, Matuidi, Mbappe, Mendi, Tolisso, are all of African descent, yet they played for France and won the worldcup...The reason is cos France has the good leadership to harness their talent. Nigeria can't.
Remember France is not even as big and populated as Nigeria yet they could assemble that number of brilliant black players..imagine the talents we could get here if we have good sport leadership, facilities and policy

robosky02:
Poor TV


No score update

Na Buhari cause poor TV again?

LordKO:
Some of you always jump into a discussion to argue directionless, not minding how and where it started. That reply was specifically for that particular person and his posit.

Ok. No vex

LordKO:
I only hold brief for sane people, and my post connotes the same. Once more, it's easier for a leader to lead educated followers in any conventional gender-neutral setting than the uneducated.

Gender neutrality is not conventional...it's made up, not the ideal. And I cant see the link btw gender neutrality and educated followesrhip

Those observations I've also quite made making me to question the value and utility of marriage to a man.

Liposure:
Mine is just know how to read and write. I'm not interested in your academic credentials. Be it bsc or olevel. All i want is a woman worthy in character and virtue.

sure basic reading and writing is okay

Meet them when it's time and be yourself. Don't project what you are not when you meet them. If there's contradiction between what they expect and what you showed them, leave them to go ask their daughter...and ask her to stop the hyping.
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They should get used to your person not the phantom being projected by your babe

orohbiro:
she is not the ist girl I have dated I just decided to respect this one cause I love her I have met a girl and slept with her the ist day she came to my house

Tor...I hope you've learned one or two, you will probably do better in your next relationship. Women are sexual being and master of stealth and manipulation. If u make them think they are too perfect and modest to be fvvcked, they are definitely going to act that way for u

The reason she hasn't given you sex is cos you don't know how the game is played. You don't. You dated a gal for over a year and u don't know how to turn her on, or approach her for sex...it took you 15months to be able to man up and ask what every man asks in relationship.
Well that's too long a time, the babe would have assumed u were keeping her for the proverbial wedding night.
Same gal that another guy may have toasted within two weeks and sleep with her during that same period u are dating her....Blame yourself. Girls won't come and teach you how to make them agree to sex. It's a skill, and even if u lack it..waiting for 15months to make simple demand of 'babe let's make love' is ur personal undoing.
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Did you say u want to drug her? Don't go that route, it may not end well, the babe might change it for you and turn it to rape case against u.Since u want to marry her, then go and marry her and have ur sex....

These four points from the checklist are for me



2. Communication.
( many marriage don't communicate, they bottle things up and expect the other to read their minds like a prophet

3. Lift each other up.
( This means helping each other when the other is down, praising each other, respecting each other- which is lacking today)


5. Being a good leader and good follower.
(The man is the head, the woman be the follower, it's as simple as that- but today we want to be joint head, joint controller. It can't work)

9. Make your marriage the priority
(This means doing things that will consolidate your marriage, not being selfish or placing secondary concerns above your home or spouse)

And what are we suppose to do

DaInferno:
bcus I no d like see obscene men. I wonder if una d hear una self talk atimes?!

You can't escape obscenity on a faceless forum.... Meanwhile, it's very likely the man is wooing her and she's not allowing that. isn't that common with landlord?

DaInferno:
you're a mumu man

Haha..why this little talk pain me you

femi4:
Parents are always the first teacher

The major academic or intellectual influence come from school, the quality of the school, the Calibre of pupils the child move it, environment...and discipline of parents ensuring kids behave well.

KevinDein:
Nice to see more guys thinking this way. Below is my comment on another thread;

Might sound a little controversial, I'm really not so keen on a highly educated/intellectual woman. I find them to be too argumentative just for the sake of it; always trying to prove some non-existent point. Give me a beautiful woman with just enough education to pass her points across when needed. When I want to discuss intellectual stuff, I'll do it at the bars with the boys or the manosphere such as this

Exactly! I do not even see home as a place for intellectualism...for me home should be a place of peace, rest and informality.
Like you said, bars, conferences, seminars, should suffice a place for me if I want to exercise myself mentally. And in occasional instances when an intellectual woman brings her charm to appeal to me sexually, fine, we can rob heads together, mind together and body together away from home....and everything must end there shortlived. No long-term bargain is expedient.

I have no trust in covid19 vaccine as well. I'm not ready to take the vaccine

Who knows, it might be Buhari That opened this thread in disguise..... I seriously doubt though if Buhari's acumen can cope with Nairaland

Anigreat:






You're saying nothing but the truth.


It was here that i know that the likes of Goodluck Jonathan, Reno omokri, E-money , Flavour, Phyno, Chimamanda Adichie, Pete Edochie, Yul Edochie, Davido , Johnson Suleiman, Akpabio, Omah lay, Nnamdi Kanu, Fire boy, Dj cuppy, teni, tems etc etc etc, are all active members of nairaland. Most of them disguised as troll just to have fun though.

kindly reveal their moniker. I want to send Dj cuppy a private message

femi4:
The kids are closer to the mother than the father. I will not have a wife that cannot engage the kids intellectually or assist them with school work

It's not big deal if she can't assist them intellectually. That's why we have lesson, home tutors.

...there are kids that orphan or who lost their mom while young, yet they still became educated...

JudgeKronos:
Don’t mind them ..

.... one low monthly salary earner up there is saying children will suffer if a man decides to choose a non schooled woman for a wife.

I decided not to reply his narrow minded comment. My grand mother is not schooled yet almost all her children are educated to higher institution level...and well behaved and respected
I know a man who is a lawyer and wealthy...he married an uneducated lady, tush_ the lady, beautiful...bought car for her, set up her business, very respectful woman...by 6am, the children are already set for schl before she goes to her shop. These kids are so bright, the man put them in one of the best schools in the town...I envy the diction, and grammar usage of those kids...and they are less than 8 yrs old

Evolutionlove:
In shiiiithole, there Is nothing special between being a Bsc and A School Cert. All na rubbish and nonsense. A cattle Man Is the one leading you stupid lots. I've seen School Certs who are 1000% better than so many mediocre worthless Bscs'.......

Abi...Many intelligent women who dint go to schl are doing well in their business. You will be amazed the kind of millions they count. I have one on my street..the woman is even richer than her husband that's works with govt

Will they hear? Awọn lover men and association of trust is the pillar of marriage.
We are seeing where trust is leading them

If you give him his share, he will let you stay trust me. He probably see different guys with you and wondering why you won't let him taste the cherry.
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Landlord aren't that hard. They love money and pvssy. Give them either or both...and u will be fine

Women tears no get value my guy...they can control and command their tear duct to release water anytime they wish. Ask the elders, they will tell u