₦airaland Forum

thebosstrevor1:
It is not a conspiracy.

Go read about all the leaders of feminist movement they are all Jewish women

Also read about leaders of Marxist movements, they are also Jews.

Feminism is just the cultural Marxism, it is against western civilization.

Anything Jewish usually have a conspiratorial end. They are plotters, selfish, wicked always championing things to destroy so that they can have economic, political or religious advantage.

thebosstrevor1:
I agree with 80% if all you wrote but not the highlighted

Feminism was never a man invention, the founders of feminism have been jewish women, it was a subtle movement to radically change western civilization

Anything Jewish usually have one sinister or conspiratorial end

Lalasticlalala watching the thread...It about to hit FP

CamusMidas:
And you are the master of everything marriage?

How ladies have gotten married to through your organisation?

Why taking this thread Personal? Are you a woman? so I don't waste my time arguing...cos I feel you are a guy

Hawking her wares in Towel

CamusMidas:
Exactly, leave those ones that you feel have baggages to do there thing while you go for a lady that is not a feminist, and the one one that is less educated and not into technology.

How hard is that? Are you marrying all the ladies that you bother about what they choose to believe or how they choose to act?

Baba face front and look for wife to marry, people are getting married every now and then, but when you come to nairaland y'all make it feels as if people only marry once a year.

Nobody gives a rat ass if you choose not to marry, except maybe your parents.

okay. ..But this is an advice for our women..if they really want to get married.

is this one someone's galfriend abi pornn.star

CamusMidas:
I don't see any problem here, let people do what they like as long as it doesn't harm the next person.

Hope you know doing what you like have certain repercussion and implications to relationship, except you intend to live on your own and by your own rules....

Deathisfree:
Na normal thing my brother. I one had one like that too. Her husband was in southy doing dirty deal. Na me they help am oil him babe Back then in school.



But wait. How was your visa processing ,,declined ??

Yep...the country had one strange policy that year..e no easy

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Reminds me of one guy who went to Germany and left his wife in Nigeria for 5 years...òmó na so I just dey bang free toto

once a man travels out ..banging his wife becomes a given...a sure banker....
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I've done same when I was processing Visa back in 2016 in Abj...met this babe at the Embassy we both had visa interview same day...we started talking, exchanged numbers and checking on each other...she happens to be a girl desperate to go meet her fiancee abroad..after many visa attempt and denial. To cut storyy short, we went on date, started flirting on whatsap..invited her to my place...na banging end am before she went back to Lagos..very calm and decent looking gal....So when u are abroad. forget yur babe must be knacked...unless she's just formating u..

Sonnobax15:

That's a blessing in disguise bro..

Infact,that's my old man's favorite quote......"Trust any woman and you'll definitely gonna die so very young"..

I'd rather trust my dogs than place my trust on any woman, so long you ain't my mum...

I tell you.

coputa:
No matter how close you are with your friend, never dabble into his matrimonial affairs.

In most cases, they will settle and by then your friend will tell his wife you are the one that reported her and she will in turn tell her husband that you chasing her

By then the friendship you have built over the weekend years will hit the rock.Issues like this deserve a blind eye and a deafened ear

I tell you...If he doesn't have a pictorial or video evidence, he should forget telling the guy cos..the woman will deny it, could plan to hurt the guy...could even tell her hubby in the U.S that the guy has been the one chasing her that cos she dint give in that's why he went on to damage her reputation...In cases of infidelity that can affect a woman's life and future..a woman can destroy you....just lay low and be wise. Even with video or picture evidence, the woman must not know that it came from you.. otherwise be ready for anything..

Bound to happen just a matter of time...I can never travel out and believe someone won't be fvvcking a woman I left behind...Some men can trust sha

When a lady refuse to have sense na her pvvsy go suffer am....keep ur sufferness..one day ya eyes go clear

blinking001:
Nobody should take feminists serious in this our dispensation..they belong to the streets..

But they believe they have something upstair to be worshipped for..clowns

McEphiks:
I understand your point TBH. At least a little trust. My truth level is damaged to an extent I begin to lose interest the moment a lady tells me "She loves me"

At least a little trust. Not even an atom of it.

There's nothing wrong with that ...it's better like that .
Most ladies saying they love you actually don't in our present Nigeria...Many of them are emotionally empty, looking for an unsuspecting naive guy to fall for their packaging and love songs....treat a ladies word as a casual momentary outburst that has no base or intrinsic value.
.In that way a woman saying she loves you won't move u...The most important thing is that u are with her cos u have some iota of likeness for her..and it should be enough that u even fancy something abt her....bringing trust into it is going too far....enjoy the moment study her..any sign of manipulation or rubbish... counter her rubbish, and warn her sternly like an angry herdsman...if she persist ..then show her redcard....when women see that u are strict and not to joke with, they usually sit up. cos u control everything in the relationship. U control the success and the failure...not one gal controlling men up and down...to me trust is too much a luxury to squander on Nigerians gals...if she loves u,let her continue to prove it with her actions...keep ur trust in your pocket....na guyman wey too trust women dey deal with pass

McEphiks:
I disagree on your first paragraph. TBH, I believe a relationship won't work without trust. Either casual, financial or whatever. Truth is needed to make a relationship work.

That said, I'm not a simp, first child and son of my aging dad (He's 74 already)

Great....but my point is don't believe u can trust any gal even if u meet a supposed good one now.
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By showing too much trust..u will invariably show too much love and let down all your guard that u shouldn't let down....
.Trust has sent so many men to their grave, trust made men train bastards...trust make Pastors, bosses fuvbck their wives why dey trust like a fooool for years...Goodluck with ya trusting....
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I don't need to trust a woman to form relationship with her...that has been my style...and that doesn't mean I will give myself heartache policing her, no....In my relationship, I'm the most cool, sweet and calm guy....but I don't take nonsense...and if a lady is dating me, she can never doubt my trust for her ..but deep down my antenna is up and running in the background..I'm always vigilant.

McEphiks:
As a result of my experience with ladies I am having trouble trusting any woman.

I know and believe a good relationship is built on trust on mutual understanding. How then do I build one when I can't even trust her no matter how hard she try to impress me?

I'm 28 and want to marry next year.

A good relationship is not built on trust...na feminism promote that lie so that u all simp can trust a whor.es masquerading as housewives..shiorr. trust korr....A good relationship is built on a solid man with good frames, who have strict boundaries he can never allow a woman to cross...and if she crosses it..then serious penalty...u don't have good relationship by being a simp trusting LovePeddler.s up and down under the name of one fickle love... You people must wake up...
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Ordinary 28, u are already setting ursef up to be scammed by pvssy bandits...u never experienced anything...but u think so. if uve really experienced something...u will be enjoying ya life, investing, or working on personal project...

BigSarah:
Daddy GO, way to go!..

Any time I see your moniker, BigSarah, my brain automatically interprets it to mean " someone with a big yansh"

perkyB:
forget about the topic theres a pervert usher behind me trynna grab my boobs every 5mins, because am new member
options ;
slap him
caution him
or just there and not distract the priest
*frowns*

shut u ..we are talking of life and death..u are talking of one oversucked and fallen boob..cow

Escabado:
If you know you don't want to marry a one chance girl that will finish you or a girl that's a feminist. Just marry a girl that stop only in secondary school or jss3, you see all the girls that are graudate , na them carry feminism for head . Bring one N1 they will not bring is only feminism they can bring to table . My brothers better run for your Life

I met another of such girls very recently. She's a doctor in her later 20s searching for husband....I actually have interest in her at first and she was so fond of me.. she's fine, smart and sort of act kind..but after the conversation on feminism blah blah blah...I was like in my mind, so you are one of them..lol..naso I cancel any attempt for serious relationship with her.....

If not wickedness why is this post so long

Pegi23:
. Ode

bo shay ma n bayi lo niyen....later when u can't find husband you will say it's your village witch...eran

sapphiere:
I'd marry his type anytime any day. He's very cool not a drama type. Though I don't like his smoking habit. I once boomed into him in a hotel in Abuja. He was sitting with few friends and was smoking that big long brown cigar.

Why won't you when he's rich.. shameless golddigger...that's how they called bluepill guys sweet and swindle them into marrying them... unknowing to those men that ladies like you have planB after marriage

Pmedia7787:
The issue is not just about the females

Its about the men who will make them (female-wifes)understand who they really are using a better approach then you doing here

The men in the society brought about the feminist ideology, so they must correct what they started to liberate the women

Africa and Africans problem are men's problem..not women

The way a society is can be traced to her men

As the men goes..so does the society..shitty men=begeth shitty women

So women aren't human enough to be held accountable or responsible for their behavior? is that your point that men has to be blamed for their behavior..tor

So Laslas, this boy old pass me...chai

Nowadays, no matter what interest I have in a girl or that she has for me, when she starts harping with all seriousness about feminism, support for gender this, gender that..lol..I just switch off.
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All healthy interest I have for her immediately vanish, all I now seek is to just fvvck her and go, no matter how brilliant, beautiful or well placed in her career or my initial attraction. I see such girls as unserious, manipulative, stubborn, quarell loving and unwise enough for marriage. To me they are not ready for marriage, they only want to get in there for the status and respect marriage accords them..So it's a redflag for me.
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I don't expect a lady who needs marriage in our Nigeria to be arguing and being so emotional about feminism. Within me I will smile and say..this is another candidate for the bed. I won't even stress myself to know other positive qualities she carries, most times I don't argue with such gals..I usually chip in few comments and don't act like a redpiller or an antifeminist....I play along fvvck and when tired I disappear.
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So I think ladies who are looking for husband should be careful about their speech and emotions when discussing feminism with a potential date or potential boyfriend....Trust me, there are smart men out there than you think who don't give a damn about ya beauty or career. We are only looking for sensible woman who is calm respectful and peace loving.

By the time Shiloh reset your head...you go change..shebi you are 23...we are waiting for you post 28, 30

Zzor:
Do redpillers exist in reality? I've only met them online and not a single one offline

A real redpiller do not talk about it in offline...will never say anything of such when with a woman who is educated..he only plays his game codedly to fvvck and dump you....
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So you can never know a real redpiller in p

Pricelessruby:
Nairalanders won't cease to amaze me

Are you looking for husband? Just talk true

From few comments...you realize few people read the post

The collective i.q of Nairaland has really fallen over the years. I really took pain to read through all the thread of 9 pages to sieve for sense...only very few meaningful comment could be gleaned..amidst so much stupidly ignorant ones.
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The picture painted by this writer is a very interesting one, a peculiar personality composition that confounds even the writer, so she brought it here if she could get a better perspective and clearer ideas and perhaps solution to the problem of her strangely behaved cousin...
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But many low i.q folks typical of Nigerian way of shallow mindedness came down on the writer..wow. saying she's jealous, bad, hateful, blah blah blah...even if it's an hypothetical situation that needs analysis, is that how you all will comment?.

No single or rich comment to deal with the main thrust of the issue, which could have made for a brilliant discussion that could spread through and not limited to issues of: personality disorder problems, toxicity of religious extremism, health psychology, psychology of abuse, mental health issues, poverty related mental issues, traumatic upbringing, depression, body image problems, and so on...etc But all I read was a disservice and disgrace to the beautifully written words of the writer....
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The collective i.q of Nairaland has really fallen...I think it also speaks much of Nigerians as a whole. People go to school but are inherently stupid in thought process with bad conditioning and poor worldview..