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RomanceRe: "I'm Not A Mugu, I Know My Husband Has A 2nd Wife & Kids Back Home”-Oyinbo Woman by NJV: 9:36am On Nov 28, 2023
Let me just believe this is a skit or something. But if it's real, then this is totally unhealthy!

A simple question...how will that man feel is someone does exactly this to his blood sister?

I mean this is so unhealthy undecided
Is he an im.becile or is he handicapped? Can't he work to fend for his family? Why take advantage of this old woman? Imagine asking her to get a third job at her age, just so she can help his family back home? Is this healthy? Does he want to kill her?

Again, asking her to sell her house so he can marry a third wife huh huh huh

Let me just believe this is a joke Sha

No be juju be dis? That woman is obviously not in her right senses. This is all shades of wicked and wrong!

God forbid bad thing
PropertiesRe: Lady Damages Her Apartment After Landlord Refused To Refund Her Caution Fee by NJV: 3:39pm On Nov 27, 2023
This is totally wrong no matter what. If ever this girl owns a house in the future, she'll understand how foolish how actions are today.
TravelRe: Drama As Nigerian Airplane Mistakenly Lands Passengers In Asaba Instead Of Abuja by NJV: 8:55pm On Nov 26, 2023
Hahahahahahahahahaha
Oh my goodness cheesy
Car TalkRe: What Will You Do In This Situation by NJV: 2:34pm On Nov 26, 2023
To the right, off the road
SportsRe: Who Is The Greatest Nigerian Goalkeeper Of All Time? by NJV: 2:27pm On Nov 26, 2023
Vincent Enyeama
CareerRe: Why Are Motorcyclists Called Okada Riders? by NJV: 2:24pm On Nov 26, 2023
Motorcyclists are called okada riders because they ride okada. Simple!
Foreign AffairsRe: Closing My Nairaland Account by NJV: 1:43pm On Nov 26, 2023
Go and fight no more
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Vows To Crash Petrol Price, Eliminate Hardships by NJV: 1:37pm On Nov 26, 2023
Pls enough of all the empty vows here and there. Just crash the price already!
FamilyRe: Who Knows You The Most? by NJV: 11:40am On Nov 26, 2023
Daughter
Christianity EtcRe: Damilola Mike-bamiloye Prayed In Yoruba Language At A Christian Conference In US by NJV: 5:59pm On Nov 25, 2023
ehikwe22:
Why pray in a language your audience don't understand?
He was asked to
Christianity EtcRe: Damilola Mike-bamiloye Prayed In Yoruba Language At A Christian Conference In US by NJV: 1:34pm On Nov 25, 2023
Wow that's nice. I'm proud of him
CareerRe: A Nairalander Offered me a Job After Reading My Story (PICTURES) by NJV: 11:58am On Nov 25, 2023
That's a good one. Congratulations to you and God bless that nairalander. Pls do your job well ooo
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Actress Okah Blessing Set To Return Back Tothe Industry (READ) by NJV: 11:53am On Nov 25, 2023
Okkkk.

But...you mean she was in the industry before? undecided
TV/MoviesRe: CHILDHOOD: Meet The creators Of The Popular Tom And Jerry Cartoons. by NJV: 9:06am On Nov 25, 2023
Awwwww nice. They'll be remembered by all generations after them.
FoodRe: See The N200 Watermelon I Bought In Calabar This Afternoon by NJV: 7:32pm On Nov 24, 2023
grin grin grin grin grin Abeg I no fit ooo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls I Need Ur Orientation On How To Manage A Female Boss At Work by NJV: 11:35am On Nov 24, 2023
Just do your job to the best of your ability. Respect your boss but not to the point of being afraid. Apologize when you are faulted and genuinely improve on whatever the complain is.

Update yourself on the operational manual of your office if there's any, so you know how best to carryout your duties.

Above all, have a plan to upgrade yourself as you're working there. Either academically or by applying to other jobs but codedly. Never take any place of work as your last busstop except you're a civil servant.

When you have plans of improving your career and work towards it, you'll be less bothered by such hostilities in work places.

Above all, serve God. That way, you can pray and ask His favor and mercy to be with you always. All things can then work together for your good.
TravelRe: The Shelter Where Some Nigerians Are Living At Mississauga In Canada by NJV: 11:27am On Nov 24, 2023
I choose not to pity such people. Why not stay in your country for God's sake? And if you must travel, why not go through proper channels that won't expose you to these kind of life threatening situations? Why travel not even knowing how you're going to survive out there?
CelebritiesRe: Elon Musk -Why My Daughter Can't Marry A Poor Man By John A. Akinnubi (Mr Bravo) by NJV: 9:36am On Nov 24, 2023
Nice and informative.

But that your picture get as e be me for eye undecided
PropertiesRe: Distress Sale!distress Sale!! Distress Sale!!! by NJV: 9:29am On Nov 24, 2023
The whole of this is just 2 bedrooms? Wow
PoliticsRe: OSOPADEC Commissioner, Kehinde Akinrotoye, Beaten By Hoodlums In Ondo by NJV: 2:56pm On Nov 23, 2023
Na wa oooo
FoodRe: How Nigerians Should Eat Swallows By Zeelicious Foods (Video) by NJV: 8:57am On Nov 23, 2023
And what makes this one think she can tell anyone how to eat swallow? Who made her an authority on swallow mattershuh

If it were whites that use their hands now she'll take it like that! Black women and inferiority complex!
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is "See Finish"? by NJV: 8:45am On Nov 23, 2023
EEIA:
But it sounds like something leading to the above mentioned.



I think you just listed the product of the "see finish" in different words.

Can you explain better?
See finish as used by we Nigerians is
when you get too familiar with someone to the point where you lose respect for them, lose value you once had for them, and begin to take them for granted.

Let's face facts. Whenever you feel someone has "seen you finish", it's probably because you felt the above listed emotions. You either felt the person in question has become so familiar that they don't respect you anymore, or you feel someone doesn't value you anymore, or you feel they're taking you for granted.

Note also, that "see finish" only comes in with people you've been familiar with. Not strangers. So, if you get those same treatment from a stranger, you're not gonna see it as "see finish". Instead you'll feel the person is being hard on you or being unfair to you.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is "See Finish"? by NJV: 4:07am On Nov 23, 2023
EEIA:
Nairalanders, in your own terms and understanding, what do you understand by the pidgin phrase "see finish"?


Please explain, elaborate, expanciate.... etc
*Losing respect for...
*Loving value for..
*Taking for granted
*Undermining..
RomanceRe: I Am In A Delima Right Now, Please I Need Help. by NJV: 8:13am On Nov 22, 2023
Get a grip of yourself! Be mature for once! Everything is not sex. Can't you just have self discipline? Jeez!
PoliticsRe: I Will Be Very Surprised If By 2027 Nigeria Is Still In One Piece by NJV: 8:10am On Nov 22, 2023
Indeed you'll be surprised because Nigeria will certainly still be in one piece.
PoliticsRe: Being Born In Nigeria And Africa Is A Curse by NJV: 8:04am On Nov 22, 2023
NBAjunior:
I hate to say this but we are the closet race to monkey and we are not that different from them

The black skin out of all the race is the one with the lowest iq, look at African leaders all they know is loot from their families they don’t care about the people they govern Nigeria is like a zoo where is no law and order, police do as they like and everything

Is a shame that that’s the average mentality of a black man because these leaders are from the society an average black man is very greedy and has a black heart then we want the whites to respect us?

Take a look at Mohbad case the autopsy result is not still out after all these while is such a shame that in Nigeria we behave like animals

Is a shame I was born here spits
Why do you hate yourself this much?!
In this same space that you spit about have emerged persons to reckon with - the likes of Chimanmanda, Okonjo, and much more. Why can't you dare to be different?
TravelRe: Promise Me You Will Come Back - Nigerian Lady Cries At The Airport by NJV: 1:59pm On Nov 21, 2023
Otilo
RomanceRe: Pls Don't Lie On This Thread by NJV: 11:20am On Nov 21, 2023
Asawoboy:
Alaye , no dey lie joor undecided
If the truth hurts your eyes, then that's your problem. Deal with it.
RomanceRe: Pls Don't Lie On This Thread by NJV: 6:26pm On Nov 20, 2023
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