₦airaland Forum

Aomial:
thank you very much for the insight. I truly appreciate your suggestions. I will put it to use.

You're welcome

Maybe u should stay home more often.
Get other means of coping with boredom, even if it means picking up new hobbies.
And no matter what, never physically chase after anyone cos it's all shades of childishness.

Spending123:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I want to tender my sincere apology to everyone of you which I have engaged in one ethnic slore or calling derogatory names due to some party affiliations between us, although it's somewhat worrisome on how some citizens of the country may choose to side with the oppressors and watch their country and it's future being destroyed by our political bigwigs.

My reason; if one should continue with such tribal dragging, and by putting everything he sees online to heart, it may do a lot of damage to One's mental health which may endup he/she hating on innocent people or tribe who never done anything but just for the sake of some mischievous elements online (Just like the thread being opened by Lagosfirstson yesterday on how he would kill Leodeking)

I also extend my apologies to all our Nairaland feminists which I have promised from today henceforth to engage everyone intellectually without any form of bantering.

Yours Sincerely

Cc.Spending123

Like I always say, there's life outside Nairaland. Learn to live and enjoy it. You are blessed.

The additional wives and children they will born no go chop? Will govt also feed them?

I'm interested in how much the final consumer will pay for 1 bag of cement cos it's still 6k in my area.

@OP thanks for the videos.

However, you should also be careful not to end up in hell because of unforgivness. I read the exchange of words between you and that other guy yesterday and I cldnt help but notice you were still so pained at what happened btw the 2 of you.

You can't say you've forgiven someone and continue dragging the person or bringing up the issue once you see his post. You'd just be deceiving yourself. That guy may end up making heaven while you end up in hell cos of hidden pain and hurt in your heart. It's called bitterness and scriptures warn against it.

God's word says he that think he stands shd take heed lest he falls. It painful to be wrongly accused if what you said happened is really so. And it can cause you to cry in your closet. Total forgiveness can be humanly hard but our God demands it. So what shd you do??

1) be honest before God and ask him to forgive you for any hidden hurt against that guy. Also ask God for the grace to completely let go of what happened.

2a.) always remember the guy who hurt you in your prayers. Pray for him to succeed. Ask God's mercy for his life. See... fake it if you have to! But I tell you, as you continue praying that prayer for him daily, the hurt in your heart will begin to melt and you will soon start praying genuinely for him. You must be intentional with this task.

2b.) Also, quickly say that prayer of blessing for him anytime his thoughts come to your mind, other than your usual devotion time.

3) After sometime, genuinely reach out to him and apologize to him for the whole issue. Yes, you heard me - apologize to him cos he's hurting too. Also tell him that you have forgiven him for any way he hurt you.

Now you may not be able to predict his response. But make up your mind that whatever his response will be, you won't make any issue out of it. Avoid any arguments too.

However, if his response is good, ask how he's been faring and encourage him.

@OP, I know you read your Bible well, so I want to believe that these points I raised above will prompt some scriptures in your heart.

I genuinely hope that this experience will strengthen you and make you better as a child of God.

God bless you.

@OP thanks for the videos.

However, you should also be careful not to end up in hell because of unforgivness. I read the exchange of words between you and that other guy yesterday and I cldnt help but notice you were still so pained at what happened btw the 2 of you.

You can't say you've forgiven someone and continue dragging the person or bringing up the issue once you see his post. You'd just be deceiving yourself. That guy may end up making heaven while you end up in hell cos of hidden pain and hurt in your heart. It's called bitterness and scriptures warn against it.

God's word says he that think he stands shd take heed lest he falls. It painful to be wrongly accused if what you said happened is really so. And it can cause you to cry in your closet. Total forgiveness can be humanly hard but our God demands it. So what shd you do??

1) be honest before God and ask him to forgive you for any hidden hurt against that guy. Also ask God for the grace to completely let go of what happened.

2a.) always remember the guy who hurt you in your prayers. Pray for him to succeed. Ask God's mercy for his life. See... fake it if you have to! But I tell you, as you continue praying that prayer for him daily, the hurt in your heart will begin to melt and you will soon start praying genuinely for him. You must be intentional with this task.

2b.) Also, quickly say that prayer of blessing for him anytime his thoughts come to your mind, other than your usual devotion time.

3) After sometime, genuinely reach out to him and apologize to him for the whole issue. Yes, you heard me - apologize to him cos he's hurting too. Also tell him that you have forgiven him for any way he hurt you.

Now you may not be able to predict his response. But make up your mind that whatever his response will be, you won't make any issue out of it. Avoid any arguments too.

However, if his response is good, ask how he's been faring and encourage him.

@OP, I know you read your Bible well, so I want to believe that these points I raised above will prompt some scriptures in your heart.

I genuinely hope that this experience will strengthen you and make you better as a child of God.

God bless you.

Na wa o. Looks like the guy organized a riot plus protest and 'vawulence' in your room

WiseSolutionsNG:
You betrayed me big time.

You came online and ruined my reputation just to win an argument.

I never advertised a job that I was a big man. But when you came over to my place, you appeared disgusted that someone of your physical stature would be your employer and as a result you took it as an affront.


I took you to people who had more experience about life to tell you that when one meets opportunities, the spiritual background problems they carry chooses to disconnect them from it especially when it would bless them. But you refused.


The painful part was that you knew I did you not a single wrong, yet you came online to spread evil news about me.


I pay atleast ten nairalanders 70,000 Naira monthly remotely. And if you had been patient, I bought a jeep with respect to that same little startup of mine you condemned. And by December, that same project is expanding in ten folds


Your character is bad and would continue to chase you away and people away from you


You owe me an apology for all the wrongs you said about me just to win an argument online.

Do you know that that thin skinny person you have been attacking that day has seen up to 50 Million in this life time ?


Wetin? I no resemble who money don pass him hand ?


I could put you on 80k per month for two years without you lifting a biro or being close to me


You are a wicked human being. Look at how you have fallen and gotten worse. You called me hungry and miserable. Yet, I have been paying salaries conveniently to different people and acquiring asssetss since you left me.



See, your blessings is in your pass. You use your IPOB behavior to mess yourself up before people. I am sure that is why help is not locating you


It is easy to come online and type words of pity but then people do not see the character of whom they are involved with


I am saying all these to show you your wrong ways so you can change. That Nzobu Nzobu IPOB behavior would only ruin your life and send you to the torments of eternal life


First, you need to receive Jesus originally into your life and into your heart and let him work on your soul and behavior you have bad character. Very bad one



I will not wish my enemies the torments of hell fire, I will refer you to two companies or three places go there you will get job.

I am returning good for the great evil you did to me and how you badly ruined my reputation

What's happening here? I'm lost . Is there more this suicide issue?

Iceybama:
Week in, week out and still no job gotten yet. Borrowing to live has become my second name. All the driving interviews I have gone for this month, no call or any text...waste money unnecessarily on transport. My account is empty, house is also empty. Just have my data left. As soon as this data goes off, I am exchanging my phone for snipper. Thats the end for me and this crazy world I find myself in. Wish every hustler out there the best.

Are you Mummy E***s? Cos that's what I'm seeing in your WhatsApp. I wanted to check your number and send you some data.

Who's the lady and baby in your dp? Is that your family? Are you planning to leave them behind? You said nothing about them.

VAPatrick:
Between 300 and 400 words.

This shouldn't take more than 30 minutes. I can do this, but don't just have the time.

Pay is N2,000.

Whatsapp 07030949450 if interested.

Check WhatsApp

aylive02:



All hands must be on the deck to teach this baby to shun forgery and drugs. I feel sad the baby makes it to Nigeria among all countries. Why not somewhere with transparent leadership?

Oh stop it pls! You shd worry for your own kids not someone else's. And stop making it sound like it's a curse being a Nigerian.

Congratulations to Uche.

TheGameYard:
He didn't disappear since all these years

Hshahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Minime10:
Wike is by necessary implications saying that, if any of his child whom he has spent some huge sums of money for his/her education failed to pass his/her exams, that he will only look on & never said anything🙄
Wike seems to have forgotten so soon how much the EU gave to INEC to enable it conduct a free, fair & credible elections

Don't mind the big head. Deceit has always been their way. They can argue that black is white so long as it favors them.

pocohantas:
Backstory...

I sometimes wonder why you guys put up everything online. What if the lady is here on Nairaland??

Anyway to the topic, I understand cos I usually feel same way about some street vendors too. Just politely tell her the truth. You'll always sleep better being plain.

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Why remove it in the first place?

All those who claimed things will even out eventually, how's that going right now? Isn't it about time things evened out?

All this rush to remove subsidy how has it benefited the nation? It has practically left the common man worse off!

All this kain weyrey president wey no dey hear word!

For what na? Which kain question be dis sef?!

Yea checkmate. It was a favorite those days.

Nwodosis:
Tinubu is an honest man, he said it that releasing his CSU academic records to Atiku will cause him irreparable damages. Was he not being honest?

Lol
This matter tire me no be small

Tunde835:
I don't really like dogs esp big ones. It ended up being the danger. They shouldnt have removed it na they should have tried to 'counsel' it.

Hahahahahahahaha haha
Counsel??

Nigerians always making noise, even in London!

As for the 70years old mama, isn't she too old to be having enemies? When will she learn to let some things slide? Maybe at 100 sha

That Reno guy is really shameless.

Why dis man carry this matter for head like this as if na gala?

markrocket:
This isn't a full time job per se, but if you speak French fluently. I'm looking for someone I can talk with daily in french to learn quickly. I'm not seeking a tutor because I already have one. I just need someone I can practice what I learn and to not make it feel like I'm learning for an exam but want to enjoy the process naturally. I'm just looking for a paid friend that will chat and call daily in french. Remotely if need be.

I know a young man who did some work for me a while back. He's from Coutonu where their lingual Franca is French. He needed someone to teach him English to make his English better. From my analysis I figured that the best teacher for him would be someone who also understands some french.

So if u are willing, you guys cld pair up and learn from each other, howbeit remotely. Let me know if it's something you wanna do.

chatinent:
Talk.

It's a work not a favour.

Life is full of Naira Marley.

Lol
Which one is that again

Sadly, the roads have been in such deplorable state long b4 you became minister. They didn't go bad just yesterday! People have been suffering for long. It didn't just start yesterday!

gassbee:
you dat dined with the good guys, how much has it fetched you financially, economically .
Are u better in your current state

What will it profit a man to gain the whole world yet lose his soul? Be wise. The life of a man does not consist in the abundance of his possessions. The quest for this wealth that passes every other person's own is what has led people of this generation into putting their hands in things that will shorten their lives eventually. Life should not be a competition.