₦airaland Forum

That's a good one. Congratulations to you and God bless that nairalander. Pls do your job well ooo

Okkkk.

But...you mean she was in the industry before?

Awwwww nice. They'll be remembered by all generations after them.

Abeg I no fit ooo

Just do your job to the best of your ability. Respect your boss but not to the point of being afraid. Apologize when you are faulted and genuinely improve on whatever the complain is.

Update yourself on the operational manual of your office if there's any, so you know how best to carryout your duties.

Above all, have a plan to upgrade yourself as you're working there. Either academically or by applying to other jobs but codedly. Never take any place of work as your last busstop except you're a civil servant.

When you have plans of improving your career and work towards it, you'll be less bothered by such hostilities in work places.

Above all, serve God. That way, you can pray and ask His favor and mercy to be with you always. All things can then work together for your good.

I choose not to pity such people. Why not stay in your country for God's sake? And if you must travel, why not go through proper channels that won't expose you to these kind of life threatening situations? Why travel not even knowing how you're going to survive out there?

Nice and informative.

But that your picture get as e be me for eye

The whole of this is just 2 bedrooms? Wow

Na wa oooo

And what makes this one think she can tell anyone how to eat swallow? Who made her an authority on swallow matters

If it were whites that use their hands now she'll take it like that! Black women and inferiority complex!

EEIA:
But it sounds like something leading to the above mentioned.



I think you just listed the product of the "see finish" in different words.

Can you explain better?

See finish as used by we Nigerians is
when you get too familiar with someone to the point where you lose respect for them, lose value you once had for them, and begin to take them for granted.

Let's face facts. Whenever you feel someone has "seen you finish", it's probably because you felt the above listed emotions. You either felt the person in question has become so familiar that they don't respect you anymore, or you feel someone doesn't value you anymore, or you feel they're taking you for granted.

Note also, that "see finish" only comes in with people you've been familiar with. Not strangers. So, if you get those same treatment from a stranger, you're not gonna see it as "see finish". Instead you'll feel the person is being hard on you or being unfair to you.

EEIA:
Nairalanders, in your own terms and understanding, what do you understand by the pidgin phrase "see finish"?


Please explain, elaborate, expanciate.... etc

*Losing respect for...
*Loving value for..
*Taking for granted
*Undermining..

Get a grip of yourself! Be mature for once! Everything is not sex. Can't you just have self discipline? Jeez!

Indeed you'll be surprised because Nigeria will certainly still be in one piece.

NBAjunior:
I hate to say this but we are the closet race to monkey and we are not that different from them

The black skin out of all the race is the one with the lowest iq, look at African leaders all they know is loot from their families they don’t care about the people they govern Nigeria is like a zoo where is no law and order, police do as they like and everything

Is a shame that that’s the average mentality of a black man because these leaders are from the society an average black man is very greedy and has a black heart then we want the whites to respect us?

Take a look at Mohbad case the autopsy result is not still out after all these while is such a shame that in Nigeria we behave like animals

Is a shame I was born here spits

Why do you hate yourself this much?!
In this same space that you spit about have emerged persons to reckon with - the likes of Chimanmanda, Okonjo, and much more. Why can't you dare to be different?

Otilo

Asawoboy:
Alaye , no dey lie joor

If the truth hurts your eyes, then that's your problem. Deal with it.

1, 3, 4, 19

Even the bible says it - if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it off. In your case now it's even both eyes...
Well, the earlier you do, the better for you and everyone

Who sent shim this ungodly message in the first place?

Mantul:
How is this rubbish
Go and chow down some chinko sauce

I'll pass.

Infact I dash you my plate

Oluwashina72:
I can't count how many times I do get frustrated which always leads to huge argument and some results into real combat out of anger with me and the 2nd party...
I've observered this for years.. I pray a lot, avoid people sometimes to avoid anything causing anger, but it will always come to me even if I try to avoid it.. Please help me I'm tired of getting frustrated with people attitudes which always lead to anger and this affected my reputation of who I am and how I look with how I want people to see me....
Someone in the house should please advise thank🙏 you

Try to give people the benefit of doubt more often. Always tell yourself that people's actions are based on how best they could act and not necessarily to hurt you. Most importantly, always focus on the virtues/good sides of people. That way you'll see less of their imperfections that usually trigger you.

Keep praying too, not just for yourself but for anyone you feel you might have issues with. That'll make you love others more.

Gosh! How do I unread this rubbish?

Well, the next administration might as well recover it from the present one in future.

FriendsAndFans:
If you can see this
am not feeling well
Please help me
Please

Wetin do you?

Nice.

Those 2 ladies at the extreme left, are they snapping their own pix?

I'll simply ignore

So what happens to the dress after the wedding? And that after party dress is for a married woman abi?

Anyway the dresses are fine. Happy married life.