My boyfriend!

Oh hell no, I do it ALOT. Whatever i don't like will be saved for somebody else. I don't believe in throwing away stuff so regift it ^_^.

LOL, I hope that it would never come to that. Even though my boyfriends mom is a lovely woman but dang i don't think i can handle her living with us 24/7. He is the only child and therefore is her soul and life. She is wonderful but my boyfriend is trouble enough and i do not need someone telling me how to run my own house.

Please before marriage make sure to go to a marriage counselor to get your priorities straight. Most of these marriage problems that most married people are going through could have been easily solved and avoided if you and your future husband talked and agreed on who is responsible for what. Women are not slaves or maids so should not be responsible for all of the housework. If a marriage is supposed to be 50/50 than the man should be responsible for something other than just working. Men have it easy and continues to have it easy because women and society allow it. If he was capable of taking care of himself before meeting you than he can sure damn well take care of himself now that he is with you. You really need to have a talk with him now before thinks get bad because the longer he keeps doing these things the madder, sadden and pissed off that you will become and that will only affect your relationship. Sit him down and tell him what you expect from him. He is not God and probably doesn't even notice the changes so it is up to you to tell him and give him options on how to improve his behaviors.

Another reason i will think more than twice about marrying a Nigerian man. First of all, it is not a woman's job to make sure that her husband doesn't cheat. She is not his mother, her only job is to do her part as a wife, mother and human begin. If an idiotic man is going to cheat he will cheat no matter whether his wife is a freak in bed. And women are as likely to cheat as men but society makes it seem okay for men but not for women. Before getting married, i will definitely let me husband know that if he ever cheats he is putting his penis, life and money in danger. Because i will divorce him so fast and will damn sure be paid for putting up with his nonsense.

He dirts up the bathroom and doesn't clean it. Oh my goodness, guys have a penis so why can't they aim right? We are not married yet but dang is irritates me that i find pee stain around the bottom of the toilet. And don't get me started on the bathroom sink. I am not a neat freak but i hate how messy he is.

WOW good for her!

Sure my husband can ask me that if he wants my foot in his mouth. After working my butt off to put myself though college he best believe that i will be deciding what happens to my paycheck. No men has the right to talk or treat me in a degrading manner just because of my gender.

If he puts his hand on me (hit, or slap) first than best believe that he will be seeing stars. I am nobody's punching bag so if he hits me first than yes i will slap the shit out of him and break his balls while at it.

I agree with you on this.

I would be just fine with 4 children. I do not know why most people here say they want more boys than they want of girls. Girls are as wonderful, worthy and equally prized as boys. If God gives me all girls i would be happy. More beautiful girls to love and raise to be independent, educated women. I will take whatever God gives me and will adopt to compromise.

The choice is totally up to you, this is your life not your parents. Have a talk with your parents and tell them that you love this man and tell them all of good qualities. You are old enough to make the decision for yourself and remember that your parents have already lived their lives and are married to each other whether happily or not so it is up to you do decide what you want to do. Parents are not always right and some do not always have your best interest at heart. Yes you should listen to your parents but always weigh the right and wrong and decide for yourself what you want to do!

A mother killed her children because she believed that she is saving their souls.
My adopted mother wanted me to give her my savings instead of using my own money to put myself through college.
One of best friends was molested by her father and her mother refused to do anything about it because she didn't want to be left alone.
Another one of friends was used by her mom as her shoplift buddy.

Actually neither. I was adopted and raised by a single mother with two other daughters. She raised me as her maid therefore i do not see her as my mother but as my guardian.

Wow feel sorry for you. Good luck.

What is wrong with you? To cheat on your wife is wrong but to cheat on her with her own sister and get STD is down-right dirty. Be a fucking man and tell her what happened. Do you not love or respect your wife? You are sick and you are willing to infect your wife because you are afraid of telling her the truth. You are an ignorant, selfish idiot with no self respect or respect for your wife. Be a man and tell her what you did and that you are infected with STD.

LOL, i know i will not be doing a traditional Nigerian wedding. I am a woman and i know that i will not be asking my husband to be to pay for anything. I am marrying him because i want to not so that my family will make money off him.

I am truly sorry for you but my heart is breaking for your wife to be. Do not be so dang confident that she will not leave because you are not her. You might know her quite well but you do know what she would do when she finds out that everything that she has worked to build with you is about to be destroyed. You cheated so work it out. Your girl is wonderful and it is unfortunate that she got with someone who lets his penis think for him. The child might not be yours but you cannot be 100% sure right now so take the time to work things out with your girl. Start seeing a marriage counselor or something. How do you think you would handle this situation if you are in her position?

Take the money and go have yourself a good time!

No, men that beats their women are homosexuals in the closet. She is not a child or an animal and so should not be treated as such. He was probably pissing her off too but she didn't hit him. No men should ever raise his hand to his woman because you idiots come from us. Would you hit your own mother or let someone else hit her?

What were you expecting? A hug? a kiss? her forgiveness? trust? You are a freaking idiot if you thought that she is just going to remain with you. How would you react if she told you the same thing? Grow the "f" up and be a man.

LOL, okay are you interested? If not than avoid him like the plague but if you are interested than give it a try. Remember nobody has the right to judge you but yourself and God and what you do in your own private house is your business.

Well that gotta suck for you. Good luck father to be! [color=#006600][/color] Ask her to get pregnancy tests and watch for any changes, hopefully the both of you will be luck this time around.

Well am sorry for your heartaches. If the relationship is worth fighting for than talk to him. Call him and have a good chat with him about everything that you are thinking and that you are not pleased with his behavior. He might not know that he is hurting you so tell him what you are thinking and feeling. If he loves you and wants to be continue dating you than he would change his behaviors but if not than go ahead and drop him. Good luck!

Well the choice is obviously yours.

Oh hell no man you are way too old for her. Go find someone your age and stop playing around with little girls. How does her parents feel about you dating their little girl? You do know that she is jailbait? The fact that you are messing around with such a child says something about your maturity level.

Spend 10$ on makeup and probably spend 30 minutes doing my make up everyday till i am sick of it. But hey, make up doesn't make you pretty just covers your flaws.

OK, this is the stupidest post ever? Why the hell ass that, why not try asking a Nigerian woman that? I can’t believe how ignorant, selfish and self-righteous most Nigeria men are but yet we are expected to date your ass. Why the hell look down on your owe race over something so small? Shamefully, that so called “protruding belly” gave birth to your dumbass and will give birth to your future kids if you even date “protruding belly Nigerian women”. If you like stick figure women, than date anorexic girls that you will never have to buy food for and just leave us with our protruding bellies alone.