₦airaland Forum

naijainfogalery:
No matter where you go, mama's food is always the best.

Thats the only person that will cook for you like your whole life depend on it

falconey:
she want #CHANGE.

This look like a threat to me, Religion is an act of will. I suggest you let her go OP.

ROCKJ1:
Lagos taxation is so much... I just don't understand.

cramjones:
THEY TALK FROM BOTH SIDES OF THEIR MOUTH LIKE THIS FELLOW: (Not all because I may be Yoruba myself, the man in the picture shows how some of them can be)

-CRAMJONES

2undexy:
Good day Nairalanders.

This dude am talking about is a very close friend of mine. She has been courting this girl for over six months and he's madly in love with her. The problem ensued between them when he asked the girl hand in marriage.
But the girl only accepted on one condition, and that is, if his mother died, that's when she is going to accept the proposal because mother in-laws tend to create problem in marriage (according to her).

Please this young man needs your advice because he loves this girl very much and wouldn't want his mother dead either...please what should he do?


N.B: Pls, there should be no form of any abuse whatsoever, he only needs your advice, and if u don't have one to offer, you know the next thing....thanks

onegig:
This is surreal.

I keep hearing this nanny issues daily.

There seems to be no end in sight to the problem.

First most are not qualified to work and are just there to pass the time because of the difficulties they are facing.

Also most families looking for nannies aren't ready to pay good money. They look down on these house helps thus scaring away any potential and genuine worker who may want to take that route. Its more like a master -slave relationship and I can't imagine anyone who would take up such a career path except something or circumstances pushed them into it.

Best bet is to maybe embrace technology(we now have dishwasher, washing machines and whatever to lessen the work burden and most are not that expensive nowadays ) and maybe use creches instead while away at work. Some creches still close by 7pm and they take even 8 month old kids.


Apart from that, I guess our ladies need to go ask our mothers how they juggled work and the family. I can't recall us having a nanny while growing up and mum still worked. Not saying raising kids is easy or ladies of nowadays are lazy, but our mothers must have had secrets given the fact that most used to even have more births(5,6 or even 8 ) then than the average mothers of nowadays do have and still were able to keep their sanity without househelps.

lomaxx:
If that's all you see, then your mental shortsightedness has a bad prognosis

Yinkboy: If true love is involved, I can do anything for me to prove my fidelity. I'm sure of myself nothing spoil me. My girl will be a lucky one.

AnOlAd: Just had my own Baby few hours ago.... Oba gbogbo aye,Baba ese gan... Am dancing am grateful to Lord....

chineloSA: My MAMA, everything I can get but not my mama

gluv01: They both look like a great couple. Billionaire couple, money marry money . That's why I'm still waiting for Dangote's son to propose

tellwisdom: I am an Indian and you people can't do anything. Una dey kiyaze for head

iamteaser: Why do girls take good men for granted?

Hearme: FG sponsored

bibinwaka: my dear cancer is hereditary. tink of ur kids do u wnt dat.
just my own 10kobo opinion. no offence.

Eumaca: Pls doc, I started bleeding on my CD14, it started little for a whole day before it came flowing heavily for the next three days. My doctor gave me Primolut to be taken for 7 days(twice daily). On the fifth day I had serious migraine so I discontinued. Two days later on CD25, I started bleeding again.
I am really confused now. I don't even know which one to count as CD1 as this is the third time I m bleeding this month, 1st, 14th, 25th. The doctor said I don't have fibroid . What could be the cause? And I need to get pregnant.

Julbu: Please does right ovarian mass prevent pregnancy.i ve been ttc for over a year

Dahmeyjay: Hello Doc, whenever I have sex with my guy I always experience pain in my private part thus making me not to enjoy it. pls wat is d cause of this and hw can I correct it. Thanks

Promhize: Hmm, good. Saboteurs.
GEJ, till 2019.
GEJ abeg do like Obasanjo for these stupid lecturers, NO WORK NO PAY. Be "wicked" for once, even fashola sacked those stupid doctors when they dared go on strike.

All these one that they are forming is because they are still receiving pay. How many of them can go three months without pay, then won finish their savings be dat.
If u pay them this year, I tell u, they would comke back next year with another request.