₦airaland Forum

onegig:
This is surreal.

I keep hearing this nanny issues daily.

There seems to be no end in sight to the problem.

First most are not qualified to work and are just there to pass the time because of the difficulties they are facing.

Also most families looking for nannies aren't ready to pay good money. They look down on these house helps thus scaring away any potential and genuine worker who may want to take that route. Its more like a master -slave relationship and I can't imagine anyone who would take up such a career path except something or circumstances pushed them into it.

Best bet is to maybe embrace technology(we now have dishwasher, washing machines and whatever to lessen the work burden and most are not that expensive nowadays ) and maybe use creches instead while away at work. Some creches still close by 7pm and they take even 8 month old kids.


Apart from that, I guess our ladies need to go ask our mothers how they juggled work and the family. I can't recall us having a nanny while growing up and mum still worked. Not saying raising kids is easy or ladies of nowadays are lazy, but our mothers must have had secrets given the fact that most used to even have more births(5,6 or even 8 ) then than the average mothers of nowadays do have and still were able to keep their sanity without househelps.

lomaxx:
If that's all you see, then your mental shortsightedness has a bad prognosis

Yinkboy: If true love is involved, I can do anything for me to prove my fidelity. I'm sure of myself nothing spoil me. My girl will be a lucky one.

AnOlAd: Just had my own Baby few hours ago.... Oba gbogbo aye,Baba ese gan... Am dancing am grateful to Lord....

chineloSA: My MAMA, everything I can get but not my mama

gluv01: They both look like a great couple. Billionaire couple, money marry money . That's why I'm still waiting for Dangote's son to propose

tellwisdom: I am an Indian and you people can't do anything. Una dey kiyaze for head

iamteaser: Why do girls take good men for granted?

Hearme: FG sponsored

bibinwaka: my dear cancer is hereditary. tink of ur kids do u wnt dat.
just my own 10kobo opinion. no offence.

Eumaca: Pls doc, I started bleeding on my CD14, it started little for a whole day before it came flowing heavily for the next three days. My doctor gave me Primolut to be taken for 7 days(twice daily). On the fifth day I had serious migraine so I discontinued. Two days later on CD25, I started bleeding again.
I am really confused now. I don't even know which one to count as CD1 as this is the third time I m bleeding this month, 1st, 14th, 25th. The doctor said I don't have fibroid . What could be the cause? And I need to get pregnant.

$wtme:
Doctor I commend u 4 d grt work u av bn doing, tnx so much n I pray that d gud lord will grant u all ur heart desires n also strengthen u.
I am 26 yrs old n a mother of 2 girls n I gave birth 2 them thru CS,d first one in d yr 2007 cos her heart beat was getting low so they had to do an urgent CS, she weighed 4.5kg.I did d second CS in d yr 2011 b4 I fell into labour cos I had a ghastly motor accident in 2010 i broke my leg n did a surgery so cos of d implant I had in my leg( which I still av now)I was advised 2 do d CS she weighed3.8.
The question now is that can I still av a normal delivery n even if I am gonna do a CS at what age do

u think its not advisable 4 me 2 do it?tnx

Julbu: Please does right ovarian mass prevent pregnancy.i ve been ttc for over a year

Dahmeyjay: Hello Doc, whenever I have sex with my guy I always experience pain in my private part thus making me not to enjoy it. pls wat is d cause of this and hw can I correct it. Thanks

Promhize: Hmm, good. Saboteurs.
GEJ, till 2019.
GEJ abeg do like Obasanjo for these stupid lecturers, NO WORK NO PAY. Be "wicked" for once, even fashola sacked those stupid doctors when they dared go on strike.

All these one that they are forming is because they are still receiving pay. How many of them can go three months without pay, then won finish their savings be dat.
If u pay them this year, I tell u, they would comke back next year with another request.

Mr Anonymous: Whatever it is they are doing... my own be say make light dey.

New Alfa: This is useless and won't hurt UK.

If they want to really, retaliate, they may have to start imposing special trade tax on uk companies trading in Nigeria. Like BP. That will make them squirm. But with all these corrupt 2 naira officials, I can keep dreaming.

ogugua88: True, but at the same time, I don't think a girl should chase only men with fat pockets or be discouraged by someone who isn't stable or wealthy. Today's circumstance(s) can be different tomorrow. I'd have no problem dating someone who wasn't financially stable, as long as stability is his goal and he's working towards it. Sometimes what he needs is motivation, and that motivation can be a woman.

If the guy is broke and a loafer, then pas possible.

Kamanda: I use to hawk Igbo and gold circle at Ayilara -opposite black sugar nite club..

dplomaticVal: Our medical practitioners need to buckle up to forestall the enormous rate of infant mortality. RIP deceased twins.

SKIPCY: That's sad. May God comfort them n the hospital should please waive the charges.