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Hehehe... So na fight wan true true end this thread. There's always that girl who hates to see another girl get all the attention.

IamLEGEND1:
I SAY HE LETS THE HO' DIE!!
why is she nakèd in the first place..?
she probably slept with his best friend

hehehe... Crazy.

Please add 'former' to the title.

@topic, insecurity and faithfulness aren't synonyms. An insecure partner may dread the thought of not having his cake anymore after eating it, and so would monitor the partner to be sure she isn't cheating on him as he is cheating on her.

An insecure person feels he isn't good enough for the partner and she'd leave him eventually. Besides a low self-esteem, guilt may also be a reason why someone would feel that way. Faithful guys would likely have less reasons to feel guilty.

I think insecurity is an attitude, as is confidence. Another person can fuel it, but not cause it. The bearer is largely responsible for his attitude.

Gurgle:
he can only be insecure if the girl has given him reason to be

Gurgle:
Well if he has given her reason to suspect him by indicating unfaithful behaviours

Anyway it depends on the character of this "faithful" guy. If he is naturally jealous, he will be insecure no matter what

please make up your mind as to who gives the reason.

Hmmm... Little wonder naija girls get bashed left, right and centre. So a guy who didn't take her to the eatery has to pay for her meal because he wants to talk to her?

A lady who respects herself wouldn't expect a random stranger to pay for her meals. After all, if he didn't show up, she'd still have paid for her own meal.

As for the guy, it's rubbish going out of one's way to impress a girl who hasn't proved she's worth the stress.

Poor presentation of whatever points you intended passing across.

The only way you can stop your girl from having another guy as a best friend is to be her best friend, the closest friend she has. Whatever you put in a relationship is what you get out of it (most times).

If you are in a serious relationship, I don't see why you can't be her best friend too. If you aren't in a serious relationship, I don't see why you should bother yourself with who her best friend is.

The whole talk about not ALLOWING her have a male bff, as if she would come seek your permission, is just another wishful attempt at stroking the male ego.

^^ You guys have so much idle time on your hands that you e-battle this often. Una no dey tire ni? If you channel this excess energy into mature discussions and debates, we'd all be better for it.

Well, I got mine from revdl and it ran smoothly to the shocking end of episode one. Mali here also.

Midehi:
ok...i get you!

em... Madam, try to use exclamation marks less often. Always sounds like you are snapping at people when you reply.

Ehya... With the responses, one wonders if the world is truly against rape or just against rape by men on female victims.

Most laws do not even recognize it as rape anyway.

Awww... Your journey so far is awesome, as are your paintings. It's easy to see how your talent has matured over time. Kudos!

Beautiful! Your shading is spot on. Could you try not using gridlines?

Awww... Very nice. I think you should try to avoid blurring the pencil marks for skin texture. You'd achieve better realism that way.

tshane:
No. 2 is erroneous.
Personally I don't fancy giving out my phone to someone thereby giving them the chance to peer into my privacy.
Its a rule I follow strictly.
You guys should cease drawing up baseless assumptions.

even someone as close as a gf or wife? If you don't at least have that one person who can show your phone lock code or pattern, you have something to hide jare.

Make una lock this thread jor. When it isn't men vs women, it's Yoruba vs Igbo, or Nigeria vs Ghana.

Humans would always find a way discriminate along inconsequential lines.

Brugo:
Chicken or fish is a matter of preference. I have a friend who hates chicken. He won't eat it no matter what. If you like buy him a full bucket from KFC it would just waste.

I think it is poverty that makes you believe chicken is superior to fish. There are species of fish that are more expensive than chicken.

exactly!

Incorruptible:
Well, let me say it out
Met this babe in school. We both in our second year. Been dating for 4 months We sincerely love each other. And our aim has been marriage when we done with our school. I can authoritatively say that she is committed to getting married to me. She even told me to stop calling her my girlfriend. I should call her My fiancee. She is still a virgin.
But last night, she said something that got me thinking. That she can't promise me marriage. That we have a long way to go. We should concentrate on our education and keep loving each other till then. If we are destiné to be together, so be it. She suddenly have this belief that God will reveal her right man for her. To me, I don't belive that God decides who we get married to. I believe in setting an agenda in my relationship, instead of wasting my emotion on someone that I won't marry.
But truly, these words have changed my mindset about her. I have decided not to protect her virginity again. I don't know if I made a mistake discussing the marriage aspect earlier on.
If I made mistake, how do I correct it. Your candid advise pls

congratulations! You now have an assistant. You know most girls like to have backup options, incase you disappoint, or for other reasons.

I think it's either she isn't very sure about you anymore (might be your fault or hers), or she's found someone more interesting. You should find this out discreetly, so you know where to go from there.

It's easier for people to get away with the most ridiculous stuff when they claim God is involved. Ask any pastor.

tcalc:
Some Men have troubles within n since you can't physically beat up yourself you beat up spouse. The pain they inflict is the pain they wanna cuz there self

Sadism is a good explanation, although it doesn't exactly justify your establishing points 2 and 3 as reasons.

Anyway, I think people can hurt themselves physically to inflict pain - self-injury. So I don't exactly agree.

Hehehehe... This tale didn't happen jare. Especially the part where you dumped mud on his head. Makes for good humor all the same.

sarmiie:
So long as he doesn't drool while doing these........

I actually imagined this. Mean imagery

Em.. Op, besides the first point, I don't see how the others can be classified as 'reasons why some men beat their wives'. Could you help me understand?

I actually do think some ladies just don't want to stress their brains. So no topic which requires any sort of thinking would interest them.

Even as a guy of average (or probably less) intelligence, I find it difficult having 'emotional' conversations, as you termed it, with ladies. So I think I understand what the intelligent guys pass through. I feel for them

Hmmm...

I doubt I'd have been as calm as the husband. Would be fun watching her try afterwards to answer questions I didn't ask her

Hehehe... Suddenly, every girl on this thread has now become either too independent or too scared to ask guys for money. The goodness of online anonymity

Ok, good to know.
Em... Op, I think the 'do' in your topic should come before the 'only'.
Why do you guys like adding lala's moniker to your own posts sef?

You ask a girl out and she's calls herself your future wife while saying she cannot say she loves you, adds a pile of dos and don'ts like you have just proposed to her, then ends it with 'you are not the only good looking guy around'?

She's trying too hard too sound as principled as she's smart. If na me, she don enter friendzone sharply.